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there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
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I think you should talk to her..maybe say "I need to talk to you and it's really important". Tell Danielle how much you care for her and like her as a person. If you want to do it over the phone than thats okay, but I, personally, think it's better in person..because you actually see her reaction and emotions. Maybe you started dreaming about her is because you really like her..and maybe it's a sign that she is supossed tp be in your life for a reason. I hope I helped..If you need anything else, I'll help you!!! Hope everything works out!! Much Love
xoxox
Cheyenne 14/f
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I have this problem because I have hair on my upper lip just a little bit kind of and what should I do about it?? I tried bleaching it should I try waxing it but I am afraid it would hert please help me (age 13 1/2) thanks! (link)
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Hey hun, dont bleach it just wax it. I got my eyebrows waxed and i admit it hurt like crazy. Dont be scared its ok. Well hope i helped. Ask me anything else if u have anymore questions.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo,
-Cheyenne 13/f
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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
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Hey babe I am so happy for you. You can fall in love at any age and if you really really love him and he really really loves you and u know he is the 1 and he knows you are the 1 then it will work. Sometimes it doesnt work it just depends. Also i am 13 female and I am in love with my boyfriend and its working out.
Well hoped I helped
Gooooooood Luck
xoxoxoxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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S hotlilbit131 if you have anymore questions
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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out. (link)
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Hey well why are u cutting yourself??? Please stop just hide or throw away all the things you are using to cut yourself. Its really really bad 4 you. Sometimes if you cut to deep you could cut one of your vains that lead to your brain and you could die. You dont want to die do you?? I know i dont want you to die even though i dont know you.
JUST PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!! I hope I helped
xoxoxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
Have anymore questions IM me at hotlilbit131
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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks (link)
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Hey hun you need to get out of the relationship with your 4 year boyfriend if he hits you and makes you have sex with him. Thats not good at all. OK, i met a guy on the internet and we have been going out sense september and we are almost going on six months and i love him. Yes it is possible to love someone that far away because i do and other people do too. If he has been truthful and you trust him and others things and he really really really does loves you and wants to meet then wait until you are older and then meet but just be safe and others things. I Hoped I Helped.
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Cheyenne
If You have nemore questions or nething IM me at hotlilbit131
Good Luck
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
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Hey hun i got my cartilage pierced but i got mine on the right side. I dont think it really matters 4 the girls( only the guys) lol. Well hoped I helped. Good Luck.
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Cheyenne
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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do? (link)
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Hey hun I am 13 and I have never been on a real date and never been kissed. Just take it slow and study and it will come to you. I know waiting it hard but sometimes u gotta do it. You will know when it is coming. Well hoped I helped. Good Luck!
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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is 12 too young to wear thongs? (link)
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Hey hun I am 13 and I dont even wear a thong but i had a friend in 6th grade and she was 12 and she wore thongs but if u wanna wear them then wear them. Well I hope I helped.
oxoxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight? (link)
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Hey hun, yeah it does make you lose weight but it is NOT GOOD AT ALL. Please stop doing it and eat stuff and if you think you are fat go on a diet. Well i hope i help. Hope everythings ok.
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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Now I know most people say "Oh I hate school!", but really, I do. I get made fun of so much but I try to brush it off because I don't want to seem like a weak person. One girl and a few of her friends call me a dike whenever they see me. I don't know why, I'm not; I don't know what gave them that idea. One kid calls me fat and makes fun of the clothes I wear. For one, I'm not fat... I'm not the skinnest person ever, but I sure as hell am not fat. Then theres this other guy, who also makes fun of the clothes I wear. For instance today I had a Sid Vicious shirt on and he harrassed me the whole way home about it. "Oh my god he killed his girlfriend" "Sid Vicious is so gay" "I hate the sex pistols" "You're a loser if you listen to them" I really have had it and I'm really sick of school, I just can't put up with it anymore and have no idea of what to do. I want to drop out so bad, I just can't put up with people and there stupid jokes. Anybody know what I can do about this. I really don't want to talk to anybody about it but I just don't know what else I can do. -kate (link)
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Hey babe dont let them people do that to you. ask them what the hell is your promblem? and stuff like that. Maybe they do that to you because they think you are soft like that. You need to tell them if you keep bothering me I will hurt you so bad. Thats what i did and now they dont bother me. Dont let ppl hurt you like that and make you feel crapy about yourself. Tell them straight up about all this and if they still make fun of you then beat them up and if that works and you get in trouble at least you know when you go 2 school they wont mess with you anymore. I hope I helped with what you needed. Good Luck. And if need anything else IM me on hotlilbit131 or go to my Advice Column.
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help. (link)
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Hey, well when you have the chance to see if talk 2 him about it and if he cheats on you then thats his fault. Use a condom so you wont get pregnat or get stds. S-t-a-y- S-a-f-e !!!!!! Tell him your feelings and explain 2 him about this. Hoped i helped, Good Luck.
oxoxox,
Cheyenne
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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help (link)
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Hey hun, stay with your g/f and dont listen to those other gurls cuz they just want you for you looks and not whats inside. Tell them you do not do all that stuff and tell your g/f that you are not going behind her back and stuff. They are jelious because that is not them you r with. Stay true and always be you. I hoped I helped.
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Cheyenne
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My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long) (link)
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Hey babe im so sorry about what happened but dont blame yourself. I know how you feel my dad is an alcoholic and my dad almost died twice. Now my dad doesnt live with me because my mom cant deal with it but please dont blame yourself. If you went downstaris you could of got hurt because alcohol can do a lot of damage to a person and to another person. I worry about my dad all the time. I live in Florida and He lives in Atlanta. You could talk to your friends about it ( your really close friends) or somebody that you really trust. I hope everythin goes well for you and dont ever think its was your fault and you should not blame yourself. My dad was the same way he would buy a 10 pack on saturday and drink it all and then go out and buy another pack. So dont take it to hard you might miss her but you wont miss her drinking i promise. Well I hope i did everything i could. You can IM me at hotlilbit131. Take care luv ya.
oxoxox,
Cheyenne
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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate (link)
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hey hun if you are not a slut then you are not a slut if they keep calling you one tell them straight up i am not a slut or a hoe. Maybe they call you all that stuff because they are jelious of you and thats they only way to show that they are. You are not all those names. Remember tell them straight up, hoped I helped ya
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