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Location: New York
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Age: 14
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like my friend is one year older then me but we use to be such great friends i really miss the days when we were friends. but now she is going to high school and she doesnt bother with me anymore. its really fustrating i try to tell her that she doesnt pay atenchion to me anymore but she always denies it. i call her up and she always has to go. and i know it isnt long distence but she says that to call me it is long distence. really it isnt we live in the same town. Last year we got in lots of fifghts over this subject and she always gets her way. she tells me she has other friends besides me and the world dont revolve around me. but she never hangs with me she doesnt even talk to me and she thinks that i well idk... what should i do when ever i try to talk to her she doesnt listen. and i still want to be her friend? (link)
i think that you should just stop being her friend becuse form what youre telling me it sounds like she doesnt care about you so dont even try...everytime you tlak to her its making you look bad..just r n stop being friends with her n try and get new ones


ahhh ok, basically my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards i noticed he had a ringworm on his arm..jus above his elbow, quite bigg around 5-6cm ish. and im really worried i could get it..i didnt realise it was contagious till i go home and looked it up. i had a longg bath with dettol and my clothes i was wearin are in the wash. do you know anything i could do to prevent me actually getting it/to prevent it showing upp at all or anything i should take etc? plzzzzz help thnx xxx (link)
unless he touvched u with it then u cant get it
ts just a skin virus n it goes away in about a week


i have a few questions about getting your belly button pierced.
1. About how much does it cost?
2. How long do you have to leave it in before you can take it out?
3. How long can you leave it out before it closes?

thanks and ill rate you! (link)
its about $50-$60
u hafta leave it in for 6-8 weeks
and u cna keep it ouit for a few hrs beforore itll close


Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks (link)
try going to a counselor or something..or ask your parents to see a phsycologist they dont need to know the reason why tell them its just personal


good job.. im on the ceiling.. im gonna do it, im gonna nag myself with my penis! goodbye cruel worl.....blech *deaderfied* (link)
haha...finally ;)


i read your last answer, i posted the previous comment about the groups and my comment.now im really depressed. YOU CALLED ME A LOSER! how soed that healp me? im crying right now. im gonna go hang myself with my penis unless yuor next comment is really comforting. (link)
go hang yourself u faggot

haha


so i have a good amount of friends, but none of them are friends with each other. whenever we all hang out, the girls will sit as far away from each other as possible and talk about each other the whole time. its like i can't do anything with more than five friends without some big drama ensuing. also, my penis is really big, and its starting to scare me; its has a mind of its own! killl.. killlllllllll! no, penis! i dont want to! (link)
well..that kinda sucks for you and im ahppy for you and your penis that has a mind of its own

haha [name] you loser

:p


im turning 14 in a week and two days. i really want to start making my own money. i dont know where i can get a job. i have heard of some places around me that hire at age 14 like food stores, but when i go there its all older kids, and i wouldnt want to be the young one. any idea of where i could work and not feel too little? (link)
babysiting...im 14 too and i make $250 a week
its so easy too
try putting an ad up in alocal store


Lately, Ive been really really depressed and it totally sucks bcuz its summer. The reason that Ive been depressed is because my big brother called me fat..im a tough girl and I dont let that stuff get to me but now that Ive heard it-i cant stop thinking about it. everytime i look in the mirror I feel horrible about myself and i need advice on what I need to do to feel better and enjoy the summer (link)
if you rally feel overwight try and eat less and excersize more. also talk to your broher and tell him how it made u feel when he called u fat. i bet he didnt say it to hurt your feelings
hope it helps :)


My sister always takes clothes from my room, and it bothers me ALOT. I always flip out on her when she does, and I tell her not to do it again, but she keeps doing it. And she doesnt care, I said what part of stay out of my room dont you understand? Then she acts smartass and says "All of it." One time I threatened her that if she did it 1 more time I'd tell mom she had sex with this guy. (She told me she did) Well, she took something after that, and I flipped out and said I'm telling mom, and she says whatever, she won't believe you. My mom will probably believe it, but I don't know if I should tell or not, because my sister will probably still take things from my room anyways. Should I tell or not? And how do I keep her out? (link)
first off, if you want to be closer with your sister dont tell your mom, thats childish. i think that you should respect your sister and her privacy. if she didnt trust you then she wouldnt tell you that she hasd sex in the first place. i think that maybe your sister is trying to find a way to be closer to you, so dont mind her. but if you really dont want her to take your clothes, you should 'invest' on a lock for your door or closet? thats probably the best way :)

hope this helps
xOLaura


Does anybody know the lyrics to right here waiting by stained? Or like a link to where i can find it-thanks (link)
HTTP://WWW.AZLYRICS.COM

its a really good site for lyrics
:)


How do i delete my computers history?! (link)
u right click it and press delete


My friend told me that if I eat alot of carrots my skin will turn orange. Is this true? I LOVE carrots and I eat them all the time..(it's pretty much my favorite food, i'm kind of obsessive) Anyways, can this happen to me? (link)
actually yea, you can turn orange. it happened to my brother when he was a baby. but it will only happen to you if you eat them all the time. haha


ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings! (link)
i would say go with matt, because the other two are your best guy friends and you dont want to ruin that relationship with them..hope it helsp :)


ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with? (link)
if it were me, i would go with my mom, but it's really up to you. if you cant stand your step mom then you should go with your mom, but you wont ever see your sister. its a hard decision to make, i hope you make the right one :)


what if people think your anorexic and your not ? only a little ? and also , whats the best way to loose weight fast ? (link)
eat in front of people and never skip a meal. alo a good way to lose weoght fast is by going on a diet where you eat the right serving...the right serving would be about your fist size :)
i hope i helped :)


i have "issues", and i think my friends know i do. i havent exactly talked to them directly about it yet. and im not sure how. i've been going through rough times and everything, and i just wasnt sure if i was supposed to talk to them about whats going on. i really dont know how to bring it up in a conversation, either. like im not just gunna blurt it out. i'd feel really uncomfortable.

my question is just.. should i talk to my friends about it? or just keep it to myself..?? (link)
i think that if this thing is really bothering you, then u should definatly talk to your friends about it. but, make sure you tell it to a friend who you can trust :) hope this helps


My dear friend, I have been having sex for about 3 years now. But all of a sudden, I couldnt, it seemed I didnt feel like having sex anymore. So now I am left in the Dark. please help me out!
Thanks (link)
then dont have it anymore haha

[dan you freak]


i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long
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i think that you should call the girls and invite them over for a sleepover or a party. talk to them about it and tell how you felt about them leaving you out all the time. tell them taht youn want to be treated equally. and if they dont agree with you, then they werent your 'best friends' in the first place.


AHHHHHHHHHH help pleease i put on that fake tanner crap yesterday and today it looks so gross it's all blotchy and stuff so is there anything taht i can use to take it off or not make it as noticeable! i dont want to ask my mom cause i wasn't suposed to use it without asking

thanks,
meagan (link)
haha that happened to me a while ago, all you have to do is take a washcloth when u go in the shower and scrub it off...you have to press hard but it works :) hope it helps =]




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