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For a long time I haven't been able to feel anything meaning emotions . I really don't know what it is anymore I make myself think I feel emotions. But now I'm jst not happy at all anymore. I want to tell someone cause I can't even cry when i think of something sad. Maybe its cause my whole life I've been put down called fat ,stupid , & a lot more. I've had boyfriends but they never worked out. I'm just lost with everything at this point. I research about what I'm going though and anti-social personality disorder is the only thing that came up. I read about it & it kinda sounds like me. I've always felt like this but now its just getting worse. What I do.? (link)
you got some pretty long advices which ofcource i was too fucking lazy to read so ill be quick.first of all being emotionless isnt an anti social disorder thing.i think that youre a sociopth,its pretty much a person with no emotions who likes to be alone.or may e a psychopath(doesnt mean ur a killer or anything) a psychopath is an emotionless person(can be very charming) who doesnt have any empathy for people(thats me ahah) but i really dont think ur anti social,iur probably a sociopeth,u do need a shrink i think :) haha


hi 13 f gay or bi yes im sure.....theres a girl i think about a lot.shes so nice and in my class.shes wonderful but very straight.i have a lot of dreams about her and us,what should i do shell never like me.i like girls and many people dont know just close friends ive been like this scince early childhood should i tell hervi like her
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u never know...she might like girls as well,just go and talk to her :)


Hi! I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm getting my ears pierced for my 14th birthday which is in a month. I don't have any other piercings or tattoos or anything like that and I'm just getting the regular ear lobe piercing on both ears, and I don't ever plan to get another piercing.
My whole family supports me and they think it's a great birthday thing, my Mum suggested bringing Panadol or something just in case I get a headache? I'm most likely getting it done at my local chemist or doctors office, so they will be done by a highly trained professional.
Is there anything very important I should know? Is there anything I should take with me? (link)
dude i pierced my ears when i was 9,if you feel any pain at all it would be just for a sec,you eally dont need anything else :)


13/F

I'm Scared To Go To School. A Lot Of Things Happen There, And I'm Only In 7th Grade! Example: People Bring Drugs, Knives, Etc! The Other Day Someone Got Stabbed (That's What I Was Told) And Now I'm Scared To Go To School. I May Go To Homeschool In High School Throughout Then I May Go On An Online College.

But Anyways, I'm Scared. I Want To Move, But I Sort Of Want To Go To Home Schooling NOW. I Just Don't Know How To Tell Them In A Way So They Understand.

So What Do I Do? I'm Scared That Guy Will Go After Me Or Something. I Don't Really Want To Go To School Anymore :(. (link)
just get over it,believe me homeschooling isnt a good idea,u go to school and you learn how to comunicate with people,with homeschooling you can get very antisocial i think that youre experiencing anxiety,panic disorder,its not serious but you need some pills because it can lead to depression and thats bad,i suggest you talk to a shrink it may help u a lot :) (ive read lots of book about mental disorders haha)


Hello! So I am an instagramer with right now 800 followers. I make collabs! I want to be an inspiration intagramer though. If you don't know the difference let me explain:

Collaber: you make funny collabs with captions and other peopls sometimes.
Inspirationist: takes photos with a clear camera and the photos are of inspiring movements. For example, making stories through photos.

I want to start taking photos with a camera and all I have now is my ipod 4 and I was wondering if anybody has any advice for choosing a camera that can zoom, take great wuality pictures rather than pixels, can enhance automatically and is under $150-$200

I've found some point and shoot cameras and zoom's that are pretty good and the point and shoot is about $130 so that price is in my range.

Please help! Thank you :)

P.S. takes good photos in dark? (link)
my first one was a nikon d5100 its not so cheap but is great and very easy to work with fr beginers,but for your budget i suggest you take an old camera,the make awsome photos and you can find one thats not very expensive also canon arent bad


I have this very important exam! It's in just two days! I'm ready of course, but I'm freaking out as well :/ What can I do to simmer down? Thanks! (link)
i cant realy say that i get you,because for some fucked reason i am never nervous in situations like that,but you should just listen to some chill music,tell yourself that you'll succeed and you will :) http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RVmG_d3HKBA :) listen to that,makes me very chill,just stop thinking,usually when ur too nervous u fuck things up,chill (:


Is it weird that I really don't like going on dates? I don't like a guy to try really hard to make me feel special by holding the door, telling me I'm beautiful, etc. but most girls do. To me that's really cheesy and fake.

I'm an interesting and down to earth person and I've had feelings in the past for guys I see all the time, who are in my friend circle. I really want to form a natural friendship with a guy, and hang out with him with other friends first and then when we start to like each other we hang out one-on-one. I want to have the desire to hang out with someone because I really know him and like him as a person. In other words, I feel like it can't START romantically for me to feel "right" and "natural" and "comfortable" about it. Ughh dates are so stupid.

All of the dates I've been on have been with guys that I just met and the first time we're hanging out is one-on-one on a date. Date means more than friends. Guys usually expect at least some kissing and cuddling by the 2nd or 3rd date and I can't feel comfortable doing these things with someone I feel uncomfortable with! Even just spending hours trying to entertain and socialize with this person makes me feel uncomfortable.

I feel like we need to be FRIENDS first and THEN more than friends. For me, forming meaningful friendships takes lots of time. And this is an issue because there aren't that many guys in my friend circle.

I've been VERY sexually attracted to FRIENDS I've had feelings for, but not guys I barely know and have hung out with twice (unless he's really hot). I don't know how so many girls find their boyfriends with skipping that important friendship step. I want to start out with a genuine friendship and then let it blossom.

I don't NEED a relationship right now, but of course I have natural girl desires, much of them strong physical desires, so how do I get this to stop bothering me?

I'm also 21 and very, very inexperienced. Am I closed-minded? Do I need to make myself uncomfortable and do things that are unnatural for the sake of "putting myself out there?"All I keep hearing is that I need to "put myself out there" but at the same time to not "do things that make me feel uncomfortable." Well, dates and kissing with distant aquaintances make me uncomfortable. So, which way to I go? (link)
all the romantic things you think are cheesy,well they are just bullshit.the friends stuff i agree,ive had a thing for all of my guy friends,feeling uncomfortable o. dates,probably because its not the right person,but even if hes cool sitting in some restaurant or something isnt that good for a first date,go to a park or something,its much better,somehow makes you feel not so uncomfortable,you seem loke a very cool person to me,ull find someone :)


Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. We were sitting in his room last night watching TV and we started making out. His hands roamed all over my body and I loved it. Then he grabbed my hand and put it in his pants... i stroked and grabbed but I don't know if he want's me to just feel around and explore or for me to just give him a hand job... I'm confused on what to do but I don't want to ask him what he wants me to do. Are there signs I can look for to see if he wants me to just explore or do some more? (link)
you can just do it or you can ask him first,but hes 16 hes probably wanting it,i mean what boy wouldnt want a handjob fromhis gf?! :)


Is it wrong to want to be hypnotised to forget your name or have an orgasm or cluck like a chicken?
Do you know anywhere I can get this done? (link)
i dont agree with the other person who wrote you a comment plus being starnge is so fucking awsome :) emrace it! i dont think that its wrong,i myself am quite curious about hypnosis but i have no idea where you can get it :/


i am not a loud n clear person, i cant tell anyone the way i feel,at times when i m going through serious depression the people who hurt me i begin to feel hatred.

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i think andrew's right about writing it down,but not only writing.it could be anything artistic you just have to find a way express yourself,im a bit like that myself but i draw very good and i erite and it does help,even when im angry(and i get very angry,anger issues) when i write it all down or draw some crazy shit it helps me :)


I am 13 year old girl.For about a month,I am feeling strange and broken.Whenever I look myself in the mirror,I felt that the girl inside the mirror needs my help and I felt that she isn't me.I can't understand myself.I am tired.I have strange dreams.I am tired,tired and just tired.I can't understand who am I and who I was.It's not me,it's someone else but who is she.I felt that she is soo innocent,I wanna help her but who is she.Is she me?If I am her,than who am I??
Help me!!
My Past..its a falling bridge (link)
dude i get you,i was you last year then i just embraced my crazy fucked up " me " and it got better,i personally dont think that a shrink is very usefull,i mean you need to talk to someone though,maybe a friend or an aunt or a shrink,but not your parents,naah. the way you feel - http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vWjIoAkp4Ao just like that song :) listen to the lyriks and about finding who you are,well that van take years and you are 13 afterall,you have time :) im 15 btw so i get how you feel,try to accept it,if you dont it can ruine you :/


My name is dreanna I'm 15 years old and I just had sex with my boyfriend for the first time ever yesterday around noon yes it was my first time having sex with anyone not just him... I'm scared I'm pregnant because I've been looking up stuff on the Internet and I'm pretty sure I found something that said if your wet constantly after having sex you could be pregnant and I've been wet constantly none stop and it's starting to scare me. Do you think I'm pregnant??? (link)
i dont think so,but its best to get a pregnancy test :)


Okay so im in highschool (10th grade) & i hang out with a group of people. At first i really liked them all. but for the past 3 weeks i can't stand ANY of them. Everything they do annoys me. I get to school in the best mood but when i see them it just goes down. I don't want to be with them anymore. It really sucks because i don't even know what the hell is wrong with me? Did i just kind of outgrow them or something? im not happy anymore with them & im thinking of leaving them for another group . How do i tell them? or i don't tell them & just leave? Like honestly they are so BORING. Like i want to have fun & go to parties, go to amusement parks etc. but they just want to do all the boring bs. like watch movies & stuff like that. What should i do? time for new friends? (link)
totally time for new friends,they do sound boring.Ive been where you are twice.maybe youve changed,new interest,new likes,new thingking,uve grown up a bit and they are not interesting for you anymore.just tell them that you dont think that you guys get on well anymore and go have fun with more exciting people,fucking live :)


I have hit rock bottom, I hate myself to the point where sometmes I just look in the mirror and cry, I can't figure out why my boyfriend loves me and I dont even love myself, I'm 5'6 , 110lbs and skinny..its hard being a tall skinny teen girl.. especialy when a "real" woman has curves..how to I learn to love myself? (link)
tall and skinny,thats sooo hot,ive awlays wanted to be like that.all the models are talland skinny :) it actually helps to look in the mirror and say a lot of times "im beautifull" or "i love myself" doing it every day :) its some sort of psychology thing,it works believe me


I asked out this guy at school today and he said yes. The problem is, we don't have anywhere to go. We are both 16 and he can drive. Any ideas? (link)
dinner's boring and on a movie you cant talk,so do something outside,even going to a park can be awsome.really depends with what type of people you are,but if theyre cool the place doesnt really matter :)


and I decided that I'd buy them today and I did, only I saw later that the jeans really didn't match anything I own, and I really want to wear them to school on Monday, but with what? My sister said that a purple/violet or teal shirt might go with it, but I'm not sure. Would black, white, or grey? What colors might go with it and what kinds of tops. And if it helps, I consider myself tomboyish, so no anything too girly or frilly or whatever. Thankx! (link)
black would work :) not so sure about purple,depends


(I'll just review this if you don't remember one of my questions from 2 weeks ago)

Ok so my friend send me a text that read "RIP to everyone that died in the military! Send this to 10 people and look at your wallpaper! This isn't a joke - Even call your phone company!" And I was stupid and sent it. I then looked at my wallpaper and it was scratchy!

Anyways, I would call my phone company but I have an iPod 5g. The think I'm scared of is that they hacked my phone and they can see everything on it! Do you think they're able to do this? Like see my pictures, apps, Safari history, etc.? I'm like having a panic attack and I might die, no joke. I'm like so scared right now. (link)
maybe they can(i myself have always been paranoid about stuff like that) but if you believe that they can do you have anything that you dont want people to see? if you do,just delete or go to so e hacker and ask :)


How do you suck dick w/o using teeth?
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just like you suck a lollipop i guess,watch some porn or something and see :)




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