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I am 6'8 240lbs. I have blonde hair. What else,,,, I work in concrete. I love sports, fitness, poetry and woodwork. You can ask me anything. I have gone through a lot in my life. what ever your concerns are or problems tell me and i will do my best to help you. I am honest and open minded. I wont take you for a ride but treat you as i would like myself to be treated.
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Age: 25
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i like this guy and im just starting to get to know him. but when we talk i dont really have anything to talk about. any suggestions on how to get the conversation going? (link)
What kind of career are you interested in?
What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your favorite actor/actress? What do you like about them?
What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they will still be next year? Who do you think is the most over-hyped
If you could hang out with any celebrity for a whole day, which famous person would you choose?
If you knew you would be stranded on a desert island for a year, what three things would you bring with you?


What are some things a girl could do for a guy to give their relationship a push? (link)
Is he slacking or both of you. Write little love notes and leave them in his car, bedroom, bathroom whereever. Write him love letters sign your secret admirer. Have more heart to heart conversations. Make out. Spend more time together


I like a guy at work. His friend also works with us (they've known each other for a while but didn't seem to be too close)and he quit today. I'm afraid that the guy I like will quit too. What are the chances that he quits? (link)
That question his hard to answer. Does he like his job. Is he happy at work. Does he depend on this job. Is he crazy about you. Chances? you talk to him. ask him if he'd ever quit. take care


Theres this guy i slept with a couple of weeks ago. He was quite good and Id like to have more sex and NOTHING ELSE him. But I cant get him to come to me, whenever he texts me Im in bed and whenever I text him drunk or whatever, he never replies. What can I send him to make him wanna come over whenever I want him to? Im a 20 year old girl.

Thanks guys (link)
This may be harsh but your best bet, don't contact him. He knows that you are ready for him every time you contact him. He is in no hurry. He needs not to worry. When hes ready he knows he has you. Now, if you dont message him, he will worry and begin to miss you and whammo, hes yours.


okay this might be long but if it is sorry .. this one boy lets call him "guy a" has liked me on an off and at my party we did stuff and im not sure if he likes me any more hes always surronded by girls cus hes the hottest guy in school well another guy "guy b" likes me and he has a girlfriend well weve messed around alot and i really like guy a but i dont know how to talk to him and what should i do about guy b? (link)
well, "guy a" is an iffy. You say he likes you on and off. uh uh. Nope. To me thats testing you and playing. In other words, your his back up. Dont bother with him. "guy b" uh uh. Nope. he has a girlfriend. Pls dont mess with him. You deserve better. Enjoy your girlfriends. When the right guy comes around for you you wont have to worry anymore. You take care.


I just went to a dance at my school, and my boyfriend, mike, hugged me(twice!) . Im asking when its the apropiate time to kiss him. Also, somebody at the dance said that him and i made-out, and we didnt. (i never kissed a guy in my life! =( (link)
It is just as nerve wracking for him to make the first move ( kiss ) as it is for you. Patience and time will let you know when the right moment is to give him the kiss or visa versa. Hugging is not making out although its part of it. When you two kiss passionatly, cuddle, neck, hug, then yes, your making out. But give it time. Don't rush or worry. Enjoy eachothers company. Everything will fall into place.


well this weekend one of my good friends invited me to this party. and someone from her old school is havin it--this guy. and i told her i would go already since i promised her i would go to the next one with her...but im scared! because i havent been to much parties before and this time im not gonnna know a single person besides my friend and there is gonna be drinking (that dont matter) but i think my friends "crush" is gonna be there and im scared she is gonna leave me to like go makeout with him or somethin then what am i suppose to do? i wont know anyone and i will look stupid standin there by myself. and i already said but you better not be goin off with andrew (her crush) and she didnt say anything about it so now i dont knwo..i am just a shy person so i dont know what to do. i think my friend might get trashed..but i wanna drink SOME i dont know about gettin drunk..because i dont wanna regets somethin the next morning you know...but what do you think i should do?? because i promised her i would go sooo i cant cancel..i cant bring another friend that would be rude..and everyone else is doin things already anyways..ugh! this is making me go crazy!! HelP?
i will rate anyone who answers a 5!!
thanks sooo much
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you are exactly like me. im usually alone at parties to. (sniff) but this is what you do. Let her go with her crush if she does. Don't let yourself be affected by it. You go to the party as a happy girl. Your going to walk in their with a smile on your face. Don't for one second look shy or out of place. You'll be faking but it will work. You go have your drink or two. Wear an attractive outfit. Something unique and sure to catch anothers eye. Be super friendly. You know what, you might think its lame. You might think to yourself," yeah right, easier said than that plus no one will pay attention to me". let me tell you this. Wrong. You will be surprised. It tis the power of possitive thinking that will give you a good time. Some girl will talk to you and chat it up or het even some guy might be lucky enough to notice you. You go have fun. don't let anyone ruin your night. You take care. Hope I helped.


My boyfriend and I are getting releeee close and like I wanna kiss him. But like, were never really alone, were always with friends. But I don't wanna plan it out, but like how do I just move in to kiss him and make it romantic. It'll be my first but it won't be his, so I'm nervous. Help!!!
Lovies x3 -Jamie (link)
heres what you do. When the two of you are alone, in a car, on a walk, in a room, whereever does not matter whaen you think its a precious moment, you tell him , "sweetheart, close your eyes for a second" then when his eyes are closed you pucker them up and kiss him. Then tell him you love him. Thats the ultimate for you. Best wishes.


Okay so my boyfriend broke up with me not even a week ago, and we had all these plans for the summer and stuff like go camping, waterfall, etc. but he said we can still do all those things but as friends... I want some quotes that kinda tell him that hes going to miss what he had.. etc. so does anybody have any quotes that i could put in my profile that has to deal with all these "memories" were supposively going to make i guess im not sure how to word it but just like "oh your going to miss me sooner or later" or some quotes about doing things together in the summer as "just friends" please i'll rate 5's!! (link)
One day you'll miss me like i missed you
One day you'll cry for me like I cried for you and
One day you'll love me and I won't love you”

Someday you'll cry for me like I cried for you*Someday you'll miss me like I missed you


me and my boyfriend french kissed........so does that mean we made out or just french kissed???

i dont know im confused lol whats the diff between the two or isnt there really one?? (link)
French kissing in it self is NOT making out. The true meaning of making out is if you go down "lovers lane" - a place you two pick to spend quality time together- or your bed room or a car or any private spot and you guys cuddle, hug, french kiss, wisper loving words in each others ears all in one. Doing that is the real making out. Just kissing even for a minute or so is not making out. If you spent 30min - 1hr cuddling and kissing and etc, you have made out. I hope this makes it more clear. xox


Hey! im a 14/f and i have a disabiliy called cerebral palsy, it affects the way i walk greatly.I really want to start dating. I am sick of hearing my friends go on and on about thier boy friends and things like that.Do you think that my disability is a "turn off" for guys,does it scare them?I think that i have a great personality and try to use it to my advantage.Any ideas, advice or suggestions would be great!
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I really feel for you. You must have a difficult life. Life can be so unfair. I hope your doing fine and that it wont further disable you or not be fatal. You are not a turn off. Don't ever let that thought cross your mind. If a guy finds you a turn off because of your condition he is not worth you. You deserve the same as a healthy girl. The right one will come for you. Sometimes soon, sometimes later. Don't let your condition put thoughts of low self confidence in you. You will meet the man of your dreams. Don't change nothing. Let your true colors shine. He will come when you least expect it. For now, try take care of yourself. Keep a smile on your face and enjoy your friends. You take care okay.


This sounds like a stupid question but is there any way to make your hair grow faster?




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im a guy but got six sisters. Let me tell you.

The truth? there is no real way to make your hair grow faster. Hair grows one half inch per month.

Here is some tips though to improve your hair growth. Use shampoo only design for your type of hair. Dry mild thin. Follow with conditioner. Wash your hair ever night. Avoid using hairdryers. Remove slpit ends and trim your hair everyso often.

Hope I helped.


my hands are always icy cold,and i know that its not normal.what should i do about it? (link)
Three exercise movements are helpful for cold hands. (A) While you are standing, rotate the shoulders forward, up and back in a circular motion for about 30 seconds. (B) Rotate the wrists in both directions for a total of 30 seconds. (C) Make a fist without digging the nails into your palm. (The final joint of your fingers is not bent.) Alternatively tense and relax the hands in this position for about 30 seconds.

You could also be having poor blood circulation. I have that in my legs. These help:

ginger, fennel, cayenne, niacin, vitamin B, vitamin C, vitamin E, lecithin, Ginkgo Biloba, apple cider vinegar, distilled water, lemon juice in hot distilled water. (Lemon juice in hot distilled water will have an amazing effect on cleansing your liver which is the “heat producer” for your body.) Also if you’re trying to avoid meat for whatever reason, this could be contributing to the problem!

Buy ThermoMax Warm Cream from any health food store. That works very good. I hope I helped you


hi! i'm 15 and a female. i'm plus size and i dress really nice, some guys tell me that i'm pretty but none of them seem to want to date me, why is that? how do i get atleast one of those guys to wanna date me? (link)
They won't ask you out? Their loss. Tell you what. You put a smile on your face. Be the happiest you can be. Dont let other peoples opinions affect you. Dont let yourself be influenced by others. Id say be yourself but your probably sick of hearing that. Don't be shy. Be super friendly. Outgoing. You know, theirs nothing wrong with you asking a guy out to. You dont't hear of it often but its normal. Don't be afraid. If you get turned down big deal. it makes you stronger. Guys face rejection all the time. You go girl. Hope I helped you.


Okay. So, i just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, it was a relationship that lasted about a week that i was pretty much forced into. After the third or fourth day this other kid that i've had a crush on for the longest time and that i'm friends with finally has started to notice me, we hug a lot during school and i film him skateboarding after school.
My ex although, once i told him i was interested in someone else, flipped out and told me to promise him i wouldn't give up on the relationship.
I never saw my ex and only talked to him through text messages and IM, this other kid calls ME, and it's great because we talk about the GREATEST things.

My ex is jealous and i'm not sure what to tell him to make him feel better. He was a good friend of mine before we went out and i care about him a lot and i'm still not completley over him. what should i do?
This other kid seems interested...right? (link)
Tell him sorry but its over. tell him you like him but this guy is not worth your time. The other guy that calls you, he seem sto be worth your time. get connected with him. you'll feel better and be more happier. Tell your ex no hard feelings but we can't be together. Take care


I run track, I try to eat healthy, I do sit ups but I need abs, well some of this fat into muscle. I need it in less than 20 days. I dont have any equipment and can't buy anything. Can someone help me please. ASAP (link)
Sit ups and crunchies are good. Try also to hang on a monkey bar and bring your knees to your chest, hold for 30 seconds and slowly let them back down. Repeat. Do as many as you can. Please stretch and don't over do it. Also watch your calorie intake and enjoy some protein bars. You should be okay not to mention drink plenty of water ( 8 cups a day) and get good sleep.


I like this guy, but I've got a few things I'm worried about. The first thing is that he never starts conversations. We talk and stuff, but I usually need to start the conversation, whether it's in person or over AIM.
The second thing is that I don't want to be annoying! I mean, what if I'm talking to him too much? He's not in any of my classes, so I can't talk to him often to begin with, but I'm still worried.
What should I do? Thanks! (link)
You are worried but sweetie there is no need to be. I don't know how close you two are but he is not obliged to begin conversations. However if you two are close yes then he should also. If he really likes you, he will begin to start conversations. If in his eyes you are just like everyone else, chances are you will be starting all conversations, To not be annoying is to limit your approaches to him to ever so often. One time you just say hi how are you. next time you talk some. then go back to hi how are you and then to talk some again. eventually you will see where you stand. I hope I helped. Take care. your fine.


i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing (link)
let me give give you a hug. Put your right hand on your left shoulder and your left hand on your right shoulder. Now squeeze. Theres a hug from me. This guy as really no true feelings for you therefore not worth your time. Let him go. There are other guys out there whom you would like and would love to hug you. Your worth more than this guy. Take care


I need some ideas of love songs. like really romantic soppy stuff. Im making a video for my bf. ive got a few so far..

boys 2 men - i swear
celine dion - i want you to need me

but i need a few more ideas can any one help please? nothing rocky thanks :)

I RATE! (link)
Bryan adams - everything I do I do it for you
Celine Dion - Dreaming of you
Celine Dion - I love you
Paul Brandt - I meant to do that

Heres some more

Always On My Mind" ~ Willie Nelson
Always Be My Baby - Mariah Carey
Can U Feel the Love Tonight - Elton John
I Love The Way You Love Me - John Micheal Montgomery
I Wanna Love You Forever - Jessica Simpson
Your Still the One - Shania Twain
I Wanna be with You - mandy moore


i am really shy around people i do not no too well and its a really big problem because im just starting to date this guy and i really like him (link)


If you had to eat only one food for the rest of your life what would it be?
What’s the best meal your mom/dad cooks?
Who is the best cook you know?
What was the craziest thing you ever did when you were a kid?
What was your best job?
What were your worst jobs?
Tell me all the places you worked
Tell me about your best friend
Tell me about your family
Tell me about your relatives
What was your first car?
Favorite movie star?
Favorite entertainer?
Favorite song?
What were your life changing moments?
First girlfriend/boyfriend?
First kiss?
What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?
Best way to relax?
Favorite thing to do alone?
Ever had a one night stand?
Do you save money?
What hobbies to you spend money on?
If you found a $100 what would you do?
What is one food you will never give up?
What is a food you can live without?
Favorite drink?
Perfect day?
How many cds do you own?
How many dvds to you own?
Favorite thing to spend money on?
What is the weirdest thing about you?

hope this helps you a bit. good luck




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