I like this guy, but I've got a few things I'm worried about. The first thing is that he never starts conversations. We talk and stuff, but I usually need to start the conversation, whether it's in person or over AIM.
The second thing is that I don't want to be annoying! I mean, what if I'm talking to him too much? He's not in any of my classes, so I can't talk to him often to begin with, but I'm still worried.
What should I do? Thanks!
The reason he doesn't initiate conversations is because he asks himself the same question, but is so concerned with annoying someone by talking too much that he says nothing at all.
If you don't say anything, he probably won't say anything back. Not because he may not like you, but because he is just shy and afraid of annoying you. [ AGEHA's advice column | Ask AGEHA A Question ]
Dominicangrl123 answered Monday April 3 2006, 9:48 am: Im not sure by that if he likes you or not....however If he dosn't start conversations it could be because he dosn't really want to talk to you ... or because he is to nervous to talk to you. You should ask him if he likes you at all. Dont talk 2 him as much as you are now you should wait for him IM you or something and see if he starts a conversation dont ever seem desperate....
gentlegiant answered Sunday April 2 2006, 3:44 am: You are worried but sweetie there is no need to be. I don't know how close you two are but he is not obliged to begin conversations. However if you two are close yes then he should also. If he really likes you, he will begin to start conversations. If in his eyes you are just like everyone else, chances are you will be starting all conversations, To not be annoying is to limit your approaches to him to ever so often. One time you just say hi how are you. next time you talk some. then go back to hi how are you and then to talk some again. eventually you will see where you stand. I hope I helped. Take care. your fine. [ gentlegiant's advice column | Ask gentlegiant A Question ]
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