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ok so there is this girl i like in school but i am scared to ask her out i keep getting her things but i think she hates me what should i do

don't be scared to ask her out! you never know---it could be a yes! the worst is a no, but that's just fine if she doesn't like you...at least you tried. and if she doesn't like you, maybe you made the wrong choice in person. there's always someone else out there for you. go ahead and give it a try.

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(continued from you last question)...but he wont understand...if I say I dont wanna go wit him he wiuld take it all personally and then would hate me. and i dont want him to hate just because of a stupid dance.

explain to him all that you can your reason you don't want to go with him. he's your friend. he should truly understand. if you really really wanna keep him, go to the dance with him. it's not like it's a bad thing to go with your best friend. best friends can make great couples, but if you're just not ready, tell him that. let him know.

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A guy asked me to the dance. And now he said he doesnt want to go with me. How mean....but he still says he might ask me again later....i dont want to go with him anymore cause he might say i dont wanna go wit u anymore....but he is one of my best frinds....what should i do?

if he's your best friend, there must be a good reason about why he didn't want to ask you out anymore. if you really don't want to go out with him because of that, don't. make your own decision. if he's your best friend, he'll understand.

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I went to a party and played seven minutes in heaven. I had to do it with my best frind. It was amazing! He is the best kisser I know. He asked me out. And I wanna say yes...but I have a boyfriend. Should I say no to my best Friend(I think we could have a really good relationship goin out) or should I dump my boyfrind?

well, it depends who you feel more comforatble with. if you've been together with your boyfriend for a long time and don't want to part with him, maybe wait until that dies down to hook up with the other guy. but if your best friend is your perfect match, which could be true since you were already friends, then you COULD dump your boyfriend, but do it carefully without being rude or anything. also, don't get together with your best friend RIGHT after you break up with your boyfriend, because he'll probably need time to get over it, ya know? i'd suggest you don't tell your boyfriend that you're dumping him to see someone else. that'd most likely break his heart. be nice about it. =]

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My best friend has a crush on me....i sorta like him as more than a friend but i am not sre....what should i do?

think about this. are you ready to be in a relationship? are you comfortable spending time with your best friend in a closer way? sometimes people can feel queasy about having best friends has boyfriends or girlfriends. if you're one of those people, let him know how you feel. since he's your best friend, he'll totally understand that you're not ready. but if you really do like him, and if he's a great friend, then chances are he can be a great boyfriend, too.

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me and my friends are ALWAYS getting in fights. And everytime it is ALWAYS my fault(even if I wasnt fighting)It is REALLY starting to get on my nerves. I really try and work things out and tell them I wasnt even involved but they just get madder. What should I do?
Blamed

dear Blamed, if you weren't the one fighting, it must not really be your fault. you should explain to your friends why it isn't. if that doesn't work, catch them in a good mood and talk to them about it, and don't let go of the situation. if they start talking about a different subject, get right back to your point. hopefully they'll understand how you feel being locked in the middle, and might even stop fighting so often. also, try not to get into those fights by not getting bossy, too demanding, or bad-tempered. hope it works out!

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ok well i have a boyfriend and ALL my friends tell me how ugly he is....and i no he isn't the nicest thing to look at but i don't care about his looks...i only care about how he treats me and how he acts....its starting to bother me how they ALL say that HELP!!

don't listen to those so-called "friends" you've got...just because a guy is ugly doesn't mean he's not a nice person. it doesn't matter how hott the dude should be, it matters what his personality is like and how much you love him. you'd think looks are part of love, but what's the point? it doesn't show what he's like on the inside. remember not to prejudge anyone from the outside. keep loving him. =]

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He finally asked me to the dance!!!..But now i think he wants to go as more than friends. I dont think I am ready for that. I mean..he a a really great guy...he seems to really understand me but i am just not ready for that. What should I do?

that's fantastic that he asked you to go with him to the dance! i can understand how you feel unready to be in a relationship, so i suggest don't get too tense around him. if he makes a move or anything, tell him to slow down or give him signals to let him know that you're not ready to commit a new couple. hopefully he understands how you feel, and maybe later on if you two still like eachother, you can hook up. =] thanks for keeping in touch! be free to tell me what happens next!

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Ok, well i need you. theres this guy who askes me out a lot, but i just REALLY care about him, and only like him a lil. Then this REALLY hot guy who i like, but i dont know if he likes me. I dont wanna ask, or it will be weird if he says no, but should i wait for the guy who i might never get? or should i go out with the guy who i REALLY care for and only kinda like?
Thanks!

i think the guy you REALLY care about seems right for you. even though you don't like him, you still care about him, so that's a good thing. the hot guy maybe be REALLY hot, but if he's not a practical person to be with, he's probably not worth it. so if i were you, i'd play it safe witht he guy you're comfortable with and care about. hope i helped! =]

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I'm 16 and in high school. Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up at the beginning of September. I had broken up with him because I wanted to be with someone else. It didn't work between us and I have been single for quite awhile. I really like this guy that I know, but recently me and my ex have been spending alot of time on the phone. I don't like him as a boyfriend anymore cause I like someone else. My ex flirts with me and calls me all the time. I try not to be mean or anything but I don't like him like that anymore. I have a feeling that he might ask me out again. I don't know how to tell him that I like someone else. What should I do? Please help me.
~Confused Chica~

dear Confused Chica, the best thing for you to do is to simply tell your ex how you feel. it's easy for a girl to start liking someone else, so the guy should understand that you're not that interested in him anymore. i would start by not getting mad, talking to him calmly, and to let him know that you still wanna be friends. he'll probably be happy about the fact that you still like him as a guy friend, so he can keep calling you or flirting with you if he wanted to, just let him know what you don't like him. it's fine to be friends with a guy that likes you...please keep in touch and let me know what happens. =]

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ok i have this guy friend and we met in august 2004 so not that long ago and then like 2 weeks after we met he left for college but we became really tight like we consider each other family...and i know this is a little late, but what should i get him for christmas? i never have any money(i am trying to save it for a trip) so if anyone has any ideas let me know

you've probably heard this before, but it doesn't matter what you BUY for a person, it really matters what's inside. i suggest you make a card for him from paper and scraps of fabrics, or with anything you have that doesn't need money to buy it...and in that card you can write him a nice long letter explaining how much you love that you guys are friends, something that will really touch his heart. and, if you guys are REALLY great friends, maybe he'll understand that you don't have enough money and you could just give him a great big hug for christmas. he'll probably love that. =]

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i seriously dont kno wut to do bout this friend of mine.. .im 14 nd i have dis friend who never invites me 2 any of her afterskool sleepovas but were like bffs in skool... she also alwayz puts up on away messagez like 'i have so nd so over nd were havin a blast yea ur jelous of our party' nd its so annoyin cuz i dont understand why she neglects me online nd after skool but were so close while skools in session

okay, this girl probably isn't your friend. if she seems to not like you or doesn't hang out with you anymore or tries to make you feel jealous, she probably doesn't want to be your friend anymore. if you enjoy all this neglectance, i would try to keep in touch with her. otherwise, i think you should talk to her and ask her about this. if she's a true friend, she'll understand what you're talking about.

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hey...i wrote u b4 bout a skool dance i am going to....well the guy still hasnt asked me and i am kinda worried he wont...he gets really nervous round me...but we r still really good friends....but last night we got in a fight...we made up and everything but i think he is still kinda mad at me(even though he says he isnt) wat should i do???

if you really like this guy, how about asking him to the dance? it wouldn't hurt a bit. if he refuses, he either doesn't like you or just needs time to cool off from the fight. another reason he hasn't asked you out yet is probably because he's nervous or he wants to wait till the exact moment before the dance. who knows...he could be planning some surprise for you or whatever! but my advice: just wait till a day or two before the dance and see if he changes his mind. if he doesn't and you really want him to and you really like him, go ahead and take charge yourself. and if he wasn't telling the truth about not being mad at you, that could mean that he isn't an honest guy to be with. glad you kept in touch, please send me more updates when it's time for the dance!

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Hey! I have a problem (of course! lol! My best friend is going out with this boy I REALLY like n at times it doesnt bother me but then sometimes I feel like ITS TAKING me over! i only like this boy bcas he's reely nice n cool n he has a great personality n of course he's HOT! i jus want 2 a close friend of his at leest but he doesnt no that. My best friend tells me everything he says n sends me all of their IM conversations. IM reely sort of mad cas shes not suppose 2 b going out with a boy n her parents dont know shes going out thats why she doesnt want everyone at school to know and shes not actin like herself. I think shes changing the way she acts because of him! Shes thinkin about going to the movies with a group of people including me next weekend and she would never do that. She basically isn't suppose to b doing any of the things shes doing n it reely gets me mad! I know this is kind of long but this is the only way i can xpress mi feelings! lol! Can u help?!! thx soOoO much!

-BroknHeart2233~

dear broknheart...that sure does sound like a sticky situation. but this girl doesn't seem to sound like a real friend of yours. if she's doing all this stuff that you know she's not supposed to do, try and remind her about the things that's she's doing just so she'll notice what's been going on. also try to get to know this guy a little more and try to become his friend. and if your friend is really your friend, talk to her and tell her about how you feel in a very rational but positive way...tell her about how you feel about her doing these things that she's not supposed to do, and tell her about how you feel about the guy. also, i think you should take this invitation to go to the movies and just try to talk to your friend a little more and get to know her a little more. as soon as you really understand this friend and the guy, i think your mind can have a better idea of what to do.

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hey angie!!

i got my tonsils out durin the summer since they were shaped funny.. and were causing a problem in my mouth.. and then i went back to the doctors a few months after my operation.. and the doctor said that on the left side of my mouth, the tissue of my removed tonsil grew back, so now i must get THAT taken out. im kinda REALLY worried! i was scared when i got my tonsils out. . and it wasnt THAT bad..so should i not be scared about this?

of course you shouldn't be scared about it! if you've already been through it, it shouldn't be any different this time...the worst has probably already happened! i can understand that you were really scared the first time because getting something in your mouth permanently removed can be kinda freaky...but since you've already experienced it, there should be nothing to be afraid of =D

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I am 11 and i am a girl. So..we r having a skool dance and I am expecting my guy friend to invite me. (we r really good friends and we would go as friends) but 4 some reason he hasnt invited me yet. we hav talked bout it a lot and i dont think he can get up the courage (but i know he wants to go with me cause he has tried and asked me, but always chickens out). Should i ask him or should i keep on waiting?

maybe this guy is nervous, and he probably likes you a lot better than you think. if the school dance is coming up soon, i suggest that you do ask him yourself to let him know that you like him too. =)

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ok, say my name is "scott" and im goin out with this girl, lets say "amanda", ok and shes the most perfect girl that you could amagine. and well i get nervous and i look like a fool but try not to be, around her. and i dont know what to do. I think of myself as a real idiot and a jerk to her and sometimes i do things that i never really mean to happen. i need help!

this might give it away
tah tah,

i totally understand, scott. try not to be so tense around amanda. if she's nice, she should understand how you feel. you never know...she might even be nervous around you sometimes. girls are humans just like guys, and they have the same feelings as them (usually). lol. anyway, i guess just try getting used to talking to her, and always remember that she'll understand how you feel. what's the worst that could happen?

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i have a prob.... all my friends are having lil groups for a skool thing nd i feel left out... wenever im happy i turn sad in a sec jus rememberin da groups at school... wut shuld i do? katlyn-age14

maybe you should start your own group the next time you have a school project and invite them in it so you can be included, too. maybe they'll realize that they're forgetting you (if they're really your friends) and will invite you in the next time. you can even try talking to them and ask them why they don't include you in anything. if they just don't like you anymore, maybe they're not your friend! but remember to be nice =)

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ok well i like this kid and ive told him that i like him b4 cuz that was the deal..if i told him who i like then he would tell me...then he was acting like a jerk a few weeks later..so then i was like forget it! so i told him that i didnt like him ne more..but then now i like him..i havent told him..but like im afraid to talk to him..how the heck do i ever get over this feeling of talking to him..its like if i talk to him im afraid i might say something that he will be like eww..i know he very nice AND kind...what do i do?(sry 4 the length!)
..love, hopeless!!

p.s.....he likes my best friend..but also how do i get him to "stop" i know it sounds mean but help!!!

if he's really nice and kind, he's probably understand that you're nervous talking to him and will understand what you're trying to say to him. you don't exactly have to make him "stop" liking your best friend, but maybe you could try and get to be better friends with him or something. and something i would do is ask your friend if she likes him, too. but you should never give up your friend just for a guy (unless you like him more, of course! =P). anyway, the main thing to get accomplished right now is to get confortable talking to this guy. just remember that guys are humans, too, and they've gotten nervous around a lot of girls before. like i said, if he's nice, he'll totally understand =)

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People say im 2 skinny but i don't think so. they say that ill break any minute. im 11 amd weigh 110 lb is that ok or am i under weight should i c a doc or stay the same plus im very active

i don't think you'll break just because you're skinny =P but maybe you should try and eat some more if you don't eat too much right now...though you surely can stay active if you enjoy playing sports. you're not underweight at all! 11 year olds can be under that, over that, or the same exact weight as you are. if you think you'd like to get a little more "plump", i'd probably say the best way to do that is to eat a lot. and if you're interested, you could also cut down on the excercise. but be sure to stay healthy! =)

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