me and my friends are ALWAYS getting in fights. And everytime it is ALWAYS my fault(even if I wasnt fighting)It is REALLY starting to get on my nerves. I really try and work things out and tell them I wasnt even involved but they just get madder. What should I do?
Blamed
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? fromYou2Me answered Thursday February 24 2005, 10:51 am: dear Blamed, if you weren't the one fighting, it must not really be your fault. you should explain to your friends why it isn't. if that doesn't work, catch them in a good mood and talk to them about it, and don't let go of the situation. if they start talking about a different subject, get right back to your point. hopefully they'll understand how you feel being locked in the middle, and might even stop fighting so often. also, try not to get into those fights by not getting bossy, too demanding, or bad-tempered. hope it works out! [ fromYou2Me's advice column | Ask fromYou2Me A Question ]
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