My name's Erica, I'm 16 years old. I may seem young but I've experienced a lot more than you'd think. I joined this site because my family and friends always end up coming to me for help on various subjects, whether its just be help on homework or help on relationships I always seem to know exactly what to say or do, and they always end up thanking me graciously. I hope everyone here has a question to ask me, and I'd be really glad to help anyone out who needs it!
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i want to loose ten pounds.
i have the motivation and the willpower but i just dont know how to do it.
can someone give me a guuarenteed eating plan to make me loose ten pounds in the shortest amount of time?
i have till october to loose ten pounds.
dont just give me a diet name, tell me a percise diet i should follow!
thanks. (link)
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Last year I started a diet that was really great. It's called the "S" diet. It's rather simple, and it helps you drop a few pounds every week.
It works like this. Monday - Friday you follow the three "S's"
- No Snacks (3 meals a day, that's all)
- No Seconds (Take whatever you're going to eat for the meal, and eat only that, NO extra)
- No Sweets (No desserts after your breakfast/lunch/dinner)
Except on Saturday & Sunday you can break those 3 rules.
So you can only do the "S's" On the "S" days of the week!
It's really simple, plus jog for 10 minutes each day except Saturday and Sunday and you'll lose pounds even faster!
Keep working on a healthier diet, and more exercise and you won't have to worry about gaining more weight, only losing it!
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Ok so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He is really sweet and cute. Last night we were chatting over facebook and he told me he wants to go to the movies and finger me when we are there. I am 13 and i wanna know if i should? and if i do what should i know.. when he does is my cherry gonna pop? And is it gonna hurt? I think he only likes me to have sex with me but I am only 13 im not ready to have sex.. Ok well Please Help Me! (link)
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First of all, you're only 13...way too young to be in that kind of relationship. If he's only in the relationship with you because he wants sex (which is probably the most case since you're so young and that's all guys are starting to care about) then you should break it off, especially if he's asking things from you already, when the relationship just started.
As far as if you should or not, it's really up to you, I can't tell you what to do. But being as young as you are, it's not a good idea...especially when it's so public.
The facts about cherry's being popped is, no, he probably wouldn't pop your cherry if he did finger you. It's possible, but there's no definite way to tell. For all you know it could already be popped. (it can pop very easily, ex. horse back riding, bike riding, tampons, etc.) But you won't know for sure until you have sex for the first time. (Which shouldn't be anytime soon!)
Also, if you did decide to let him finger you, it shouldn't hurt. Unless his fingers are too little, or he's doing it wrong. Truth is, you'd probably like it. But that is no reason to start sexual activity at such a young age.
My advice would be, if you really want go to the movies with him. But tell him he can't touch you "down there" and see how well he responds. If he doesn't seem angry or upset or argues back and just accepts it, maybe he actually does like you for more than just sex. But there's no way to be sure. Tell him you're not ready for a sexual relationship, say he's rushing things too fast...you're only 13. And if he can't deal with that, then honey, it was never meant to be.
Hope this helped!
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Ok, so the first question is easy really. Though it's something I've kinda worried about for a while about myself. To put it simply, I prefer to be friends with girls, perhaps date them, over sleeping with them. I'd rather stay in for a movie and cuddle than have sex. Does that make me weird, for a straight guy? None of my guy friends see what I like about it. (But my female friends tend to love it haha)
My main part to the question is, I see this aspect of me ruining future relationships. I tend to have a couple of female friends at all times, who I often spend an evening with alone. We might go out together, or watch a movie, or whatever. Nothing happens, we're just friends. At the moment I'm single. I worry though that when I have a girlfriend, she'll be always jealous of the fact that i'm alone with other girls (Because I thought about it, and I don't want to stop haning out with friends the way I do because some girl doesn't want me too). I do think that this will make it incredibly hard for me to start a relationship. When the trust isn't built yet, how do you persuade her there's nothing going on?
Any help would be appreciated, but don't insult me, I get enough of that already. (link)
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You're not weird for liking to watch movies and cuddle instead of having sex. It just makes you different from the normal horny guys out there. Which is good in the girl world. As for having a lot of girl friends rather than guy friends that you like to hang out with, good for you. It's good to have a variety of boys and girls around and you're probably more sensitive and used to girls feelings, which will make your future relationships a little easier.
However, a girls trust is hard to gain, and when you're with these other girls alone, you're right, it will be difficult for a girlfriend to understand. But compared to other guys you could probably understand why a girl would get worried by you being the only boy alone in a group full of girls.
Upon getting a new girlfriend, make sure to gain a strong connection with her right at the start, where you can be completely open with her about everything that ever goes on, and make sure she's well aware of your close girl friends. Make sure that she knows they're just friends, and if she wasn't involved in your group of friends to begin with, introduce her to your other girl friends so she realizes there's nothing going on. Maybe they'll even get along well and you can all hang out together, but when you're all not together you and your girl can be alone or you can hang out with your girl friends with out her. A girl is more likely to trust you with another girl she trusts, than just some random girl she barely knows.
Good luck with the ladies, hope this helped!
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when you have sex for the first time but he didnt pop your cherry does it mean yor still a virgin ? (link)
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No, once you have sex you're not a virgin. Chances are you popped your cherry before you actually had sex. Any type of physical activity can cause it to pop, even without anything entering.
Some girls cherry's pop when they're very young. Simple things like riding a bike or a horse can pop it, but even gymnastic or dancing can do it as well. Even putting a tampon in can pop it. Just because you didn't see any evidence of it popping after you had sex doesn't mean it hasn't popped. Chances are it already has. Some people are even born without a cherry. Even though most are popped when you first lose your virginity.
But no, you're not a virgin the minute a penis enters your vagina. Hope this answers your question!
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How does it feel?
And What can i do to get one?
Okay well i'm 18/f and i'm not even sure if i ever
gotten an orgasm.
I've only had sex with one guy we dated since i was 15 and have been dating since. We started having sex after six months of going out and we did it at the park cause we had nowhere else to. And afterwards we just had sex and stuff it kinda hurt but felt sort of good.Then we would have sex at his house and stuff and it would feel good but i don't know if i ever had an orgasm. Someone once told me it was like a climax feeling, but i've never felt that. My friend told me she first got hers when her boyfriend went down on her. But i'm traumatized because one time at the park i told my boyfriend to do that and he was about to go down and had one look at my vag and didn't do it:(. My vag is not dirty or anything i always clean it and its not hairy or anything like that. And i always go down on him all the time and i tell him how it's not fair and he never said anything until recently he said he would do that but i think it's just because i bring it up. Is it possible for him not to like the thought of eating a girl out? I mean he loves sex and everything else but i don't know i feel bad i wish he did that. But how can i have an orgasm is that the way to make most girls have an orgasm? how exactly does it feel? And what can i try to have one?
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And orgasm is the climax of sex. You can't describe what it feels like, and your partner is the one who can get you to have an orgasm. (By being very good at sex)
It is very possible for a guy to not like the thought of eating a girl out. Most guys I know would never even think of doing the deed. Guys think going down on a girl is not like going down on a guy at all. Guys don't find going down on a girl the slightest bit appealing. Even though it seems fair to us girls that if we're going down on them they should return the favor.
As far as having an orgasm, before sex try more foreplay to turn you on so you're more prepared. During sex try different positions, and have your boyfriend go at different speeds.
Hope this helped, Good luck!
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My friends and I are really close. Like we can tell each other everything and be comfortable changing in front of each other. So I say we had a very good relationship. We are still close like that. But now whenever I open my mouth they always have to argue with me. I've had enough and it really just ruins my night. They tend to gang up on me when this happens. I will admit that we are a more 'popular' group in school. I have one friend that I actually like and she doesn't really like our group of friend's either. Sure, sometimes she does get on my nerves to but she never ever gangs up on me. Her and I are very different aside from our music tastes. Which she is the only friend I have that likes 'screamo/ hardcore' music too. And since music is a big part of my life we go to concerts together and it's fun. I'd love to make different friends but I honestly don't think I can. I have been through a lot with them but it just sucks now that we just started high school. I know friends come and go but I don't see myself with any other friends. Sorry this is jumbled I don't really know what to say. (link)
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Upon entering high school people say that's when they discover who true friends are. If your friends are arguing with you and ganging up on you on certain subjects, maybe you should confront them and tell them it hurts your feelings. If you are as close as you say you are to them, they should take it to heart and try to lighten up a bit. But if they continue to argue with you, maybe they aren't the true friends you thought they were.
Furthermore, it never hurts to make new friends, and there's no reason you can't. Since you said you only have one friend that likes the same music as you, try to find more people in your school or around your area that are interested in it too. Maybe you guys can create your own group of friends based on music, and you can all go to the concerts together.
Besides that, in high school your classes are more widely spread apart, it should be easy for you to make new friends. More movement throughout the day, and you see more different people from your school. Try to make new friends in classes, and work with someone you don't usually pair up with on group assignments. Just be friendly and happy toward every new person you talk to, and you'll have some new friends in no time.
Just make sure "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other's gold" (its a song my mom used to sing to me when I was little, haha) I hope this advice helps, and everything gets better with your current group of friends. But good luck on making some new ones too!
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How to turn on a guy on when kissing him?? (link)
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When ever I kiss a guy I usually play with the back of their hair, moving my hand up and down the back of their neck. Guys LOVE that. Every guy I've ever done it to tells me to never stop, haha. Other things you can do with your hands to turn them on is to run your fingers up and down his body, some guys like it, but if not they'll stop you (probably if they're really ticklish)
If you want something to do with your lips, guys like it when you kind of pull on their bottom lip with yours, or nibble on it. Sometimes even if you try to get a little more frisky with it, or just pull him closer it will edge him on a bit more.
I hope this advice helped, and good luck with your guys in the future! ;)
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how do u make out with a guy at the movies this is my first time n i need to now what it means an how to do it (link)
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I know this is a late reply, but I hope I can help you for the future! ...
In words there is no right way to describe how to make out with anyone. Mostly it comes naturally, and hopefully you can go along with whatever he's doing.
For the most part I could tell you that when you begin it starts off as a normal kiss, then slowly open your mouth slightly and he'll follow (or vise versa, he opens his and you follow) then you slide your tongue in his mouth and he'll do the same. In a way your tongues kind of...dance. You'll both continue to open and close your mouth in sync and play with each others tongues for a while, or as long as you decide to before stopping. I know it sounds a little weird, but like I said it's not very easy to explain in words. It just comes naturally, and you'll know what to do when the time comes.
Most people say to spell the ABC's, but trust me, avoid spelling any type of letter/word/phrase while making out. DO NOT SPELL THE ABC's!! Hahaha. I hope it's not too late, and I hope my advice helped! Good luck!
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I am a fifteen-year-old student. Just a small-town girl. Living in a loooonely world~ XD Just kidding. I have an amazing boyfriend; we've been together for a solid ten months, and I know I love him with all my heart.
But I've started asking myself a lot of questions lately. It all started at a summer boarding program, in which I was a part of the Theater program. It was basically me locked in a room with fifteen other unique, creative people. This was the first point in which I really noticed a change.
We were playing Truth or Dare. After having so many stereotypical dares (kiss this guy, hump that pole :P :P), everyone just decided to start kissing everybody. I, not really awkwarded out, joined in, making sure to avoid the guys because I knew my boyfriend would be bothered about it.
When I got back to my room, started to think about it, and realized that I had actually enjoyed that night. Later on in the week, at the big dance, I even danced pretty intensly with one of the girls; there were sparks flying everywhere.
A few days later, back at home, I really started flashing back on my life. I finally understood for the first time that I had been pretty attracted to girls for a while, especially my best friend. Also, soon after the whole kissing incident, I found out that one of my idols that I had met a while ago had kissed a bunch of people I know. I had no idea that she swung that way; honestly, it made me suddenly want to get to know her even more.
Since then, it's been growing. I am really magnetized to certain girls, but still am so confused. I've always been a hard-working Catholic, but I find I'm unable to block these strong feelings I get every time certain people are near me.
So my main question is...am I bisexual? And if I am, how do I deal with it? (link)
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It's common for people to have these feelings toward the same gender. Most people do question their sexuality, but everyone eventually picks a side. There's no real way for anyone to tell you if you are bisexual, only you can decide that for yourself. But, whether you're bisexual, straight, or gay, you will figure it out. But the most important thing is not to force yourself against any decision. Do what feels right and nothing except what you want.
The only honest advice I can give is to just be yourself and everything will soon fall into place. If you end up deciding that you are bisexual, the best you can do is accept it and stay happy. Tell your parents, but make a gradual change. Let your close friends know and be open about it. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual, a lot of people lean towards it.
In the end, as long as you're excepting of yourself, there's nothing you need to worry about. Hope this helped, good luck! :)
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I have really bad dried feet. Bottom of foot, inbetween toes, on toes, and top of foot. I've tried scraping my feet with a scissor after I showered and I even put vaseline on my feet with a sock at bedtime. Does anyone know what to get at a drug store or at Bath and Body Works that actually work? Does anyone know any routines on what to do or any materials in the house I can use? And how long does it take to get smooth feet? (link)
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Sometimes my feet get really dry also. I use a gentle ex-foliating foot scrub in the shower and massage it around on my feet with a scubber. My feet are usually much softer after I do this. But you can buy a "Ped Egg" at the most local drugstores, it looks like it would be painful but its not, it almost like a cheese grater but its gentler and specifically made for dried feet. It's much safer than using scissors on your feet, especially since it's made for it. I hope this advice helps. Good Luck!
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