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After being told you're a bad kisser, do you ever get over it and get the courage to kiss again?

Yes.
Practice makes perfect.

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So there is this guy, he's my 2nd and he lives far away. he might be able to come to where i live soon and i recently asked him how far he would go with me and he knows that i want him to go to second i wanna know what bra [eg back close, front close], t-shirt etc would would be best to wear for make-out sessions
13 female if that helps
seriously i love this guy, the only reason that we would break up is if he broke up with me

I don't really recommend this, as it can lead to other things such as forced sex, but I'll still answer your question.

Wear a low cut tank top or cami, and a lace bra that closes in the front. This way, it's easier for him, and you can make out with him while he takes off your bra. And a skirt with lace panties (maybe that match the bra?). Have fun with it. Look sexy. :)

And Be careful.

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hey! ok, so does anyone know when the new season of one tree hill starts? and does anyone know if there is going to be another season of hidden plams?? i'm guessing there will have to be by the way it ended, but idk. thanks!

I'm not sure about Hidden Palms, but One Tree Hill is returning in January and will end around the time that last season ended. (June)

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Whenever i shave my binkni area its nice a smooth right after. But then when i put my underware on with in like an hour i have like a million bumps where i shaved. I use a sharp razor, soap and i just dont get it. It seems like the other girls i see who wear their bathing suits dont have any bumps at all. My sister also has this problem. It seems like me and her are the only ones. Is there any way i can stop these anyoing bump from coming???

thank in advance

When you shave, make sure you're using a lot of soap or shaving cream.

When you get out of the shower, put baby oil and baby powder down there. It's soft and doesn't irritate your skin.

This helped me, so I hope it helps you too!

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i have a cold.
ive had it for aboutt i dunno two days now. and i feel like crap! anii ideas on how to feel betr??other than eatin chicken noodle soup? thank you!

Rest rest rest! Try to stay in bed for one/two whole days. Keep things on your bed to keep you busy like your cell phone, books&magazines, paper and a pen. Make sure you have everything you need so you won't have to get up.

For a sore throat, ask your mom to make you some tea, or make it yourself, and put lots of honey in it. Honey soothes your throat. Make sure you have some cough drops to suck on if your throat gets dry.

For a stuffy nose, vicks vaporub works good. Rub some under your nose and it helps you breathe better. Try not to blow your nose too many times, it will get irritated and sore. Nyquil works great when you have a cold but it makes you verrry sleepy!

For any body aches, make sure you have some advil, tylenol, or motrin in the house.

Don't forget to keep hydrated. Make sure you're drinking lots of water, water flushes out your body and it will get the germs out faster!

Eat soup for lunch and dinner. For breakfast, eat whatever you usually eat and drink one to two cups of orange juice.

Feel better!

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If I had to pick my 5 best features, I think they would be this:

(in NO particular order)
1) hair
2) stomach
3) eyes
4) legs
5) hands. (lol)



1. My hair is brown and curly, I can straighten it!!

2. I gues im pretty slim.

3. My eyes are dark green with dark blue around the outside.

4. I have slim legs.

5. Idk I like my hands they are cool lol


WHAT ARE WAYS TO PLAY UP THESE FEATURES?
links are always appreciated.

:]]]
Love yahhh! hahaha

Stop asking all of these questions. You're not going to get more answers if you ask the same question three times. You'll eventually get banned.

1. Don't wear your hair the same way everyday.
You can scrunch it after you take a shower with gel, straighten it, find someone to french braid it, put it in a messy bun, half up half down, or a regular high pony tail.

2. Wear tight fitted shirts.

3. Eyeshadows and liner colors should be brown, apricot, purple, plum, deep khaki or forest green.
I found that answer on google. You could have easily done so yourself.

4. Skinny jeans.

5. Keep your fingers painted. It will draw attention to your hands. If you are allowed to or if you can afford to, get acrylics at a nail salon. People always notice them. Wear a ring on your ring finger.

Hope that helped.

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okay i am 14/f and i weigh like 110. i no that's not alot but i really want to get skinnier. i no it's really bad for you and all but i really want to be annerexic, because i no it works! but it's hard for me to discipline myself not to eat! i have been riding my bike 4 miles like everyother day. that's really easy because im very athletic and i play soccer 2 times a week also. and i have been trying to cut down on food and also eat more fruit. it's so hard because when i'm bored i want to eat even though im not hungry. i also do 500 situps every day. i am skinny i just want to be skinnier. i am trying to be annorexic but maybe eat like a banana a day or something but it is so hard not to eat! please help me and give me ways to stop me from eating when im broed and stuff like that! im desperate! thanks in advance!

Get help.
Anorexia is a disease.

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ok so i cant stand hair people. they always never do what i am told like they always say i have gorgeous hair and if i ask them to cut it they cut about half an inch off and htey never want to color my hair. but i want to. so if my mom dyes my hair what can go wrong? like if i get the color dye i want and just have my mom do it for me how can it go wrong? like people say have a professional do it. but what could go wrong if my mom does it. and she dyes her own hair anyways so she knows how to i guess

I wouldn't let your mom dye it because she COULD make a mistake. Go to a different hair place. If those people don't want to listen to you then you shouldn't give them your money. Search google for hair salons in your area.

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I'm not sure what topic this should be under but I need some suggestions for my sevententh birthday. Thanks a bunch

Well you didn't really give us that many details, but I have some ideas.

* Go to Six Flags or a fun amusement park with (x)friends. Not really sure if you want a lot of people or a few.

* Bring a couple of your girlfriends to a waterpark.

* Go out to dinner at a formal restaurant in a limo with a few girlfriends and your mom then have them spend the night at your house.

* Go to the movies with a group of people and invite them to sleep over after.


That was the best I could do. Try being more descriptive next time.

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How do you put in a tampon ?
Does anyone have any links or something for what ?
Thanks!

www.beinggirl.com
http://beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/goods_abouttamp.jsp
http://beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/tamponfaq.jsp


http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/goods_tampinsert.jsp
*^ on this website, go to where it says: To watch the "how to" video, click here.
I recommend watching the video. It helped me a ton.

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14/f

what nail polish colors would look best on me?

I have blonde hair and eyes that change from anywhere from light blue to dark blue to green to grey.
I am not pale, I am lightly tanned, but I will be getting very tan when I go to hawaii and the bahamas this summer.

what colors of polish would be best?

thanks!

Neon colors look great in summer.
Try a bright/hot pink.

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14/f

I am wear a size B bra.
Where can I find cute bras?
OTHER THAN Victoria's Secret.
please?

Walmart's bras are amazing and innexpensive. All of the bras that I have from Walmart have lasted a while. Also, try Target or stores like those.

Drying your bras ruins the cups, so if you want them to last longer, wash and hang to dry.

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so me & my boyfriend of over 1 year were laying together and being cute and cuddly and talking to each other and we were talking about why we like each other.. and we both started crying. why did we cry? is it because we love each other?

Well, why did you cry? He probably did for the same reason.

I'm not really sure why but it might be because you both care about eachother so much and the thought of loosing eachother scares you. I think it's sweet that your boyfriend cares so much about you and that he's sensitive. :)

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14/f

If I had to pick my 5 best features, I think they would be this:

(in NO particular order)
1) hair
2) boobs
3) eyes
4) legs
5) butt



1. my hair is dirty blonde (but getting lighter form the summer) with permanent blue and purple streaks (that you can barely see, they are so faded)

2. I am B cup, but I love my boobs.

3. my eyes change randomly from lightblue to darkblue to green to grey.

4. my legs are pretty nice, my thighs are a little bigger than I would like, but overall they're pretty nice.

5. my butt is a little on the large side, but it isn't fat. it's a nice kind of big.


WHAT ARE WAYS TO PLAY UP THESE FEATURES?
links are always appreciated.

thanks so much

I definately agree with the first advicenator.


Edit:
I am aware of that, but you're asking questions about the same topic. You asked two questions about 'playing up your features'. You could always google or check magazines?

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how long do you have to keep in the ring after you get it pierced?

From 3-6 months. It was recommended to me that I keep it in for six but I didn't listen to that and I was fine. Just make sure you keep it clean.

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So it's summer which means for sports I sweat and break out more. Wondering if there is any really good working creme or face masks that work to elminate the break outs.

Keep your face clean. Take a shower right after you get home from sports or exercising. Some people below me already said proactiv, but I'm going to say it again. If you get proactiv, this face mask comes with it. You put it on your zits at night and wash off in the morning, it takes them away immediately. Use the rest of the proactiv to wash your face. Don't use it too much, it's very drying and I had to stop using it for a couple days because my face got really dry.

Good luck!

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I always get new sneakers for school but this year I have no idea what shoes i wanna get. Any cute ideas?



btw, im very preppy. so i don't want skater-ish shoes or anything like that. thanks!

Since you're preppy, try American Eagle. They have some cute sneakers and ballet flats.

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_feature_item.jsp?catId=cat370007

Really cute!

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http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=homie.jpg
helloo.
im megan.
that picture up there is me.
:]
im getting random platinum blonde in my hair.
chunks.
streaks.
oh yess.
and.
i was wondering yalls opinion.
on one clip-in coontail.
by the right side of my face.
[black and platinum for the colors on it.]
:]
thanks in advance.

I personally don't really like it because that's not my style, but I think it would look cute on you. Go for it.

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Hi, i'm 16/F.

For as long as I can remember I've never liked tattoos. EVER. I thought they were pointless and never understood them. But it seems like a lot of people I know have them. My stepdad has six or seven and my mom has three. A few of my friends have one or two, and others have tons. Earlier this year my boyfriend of two years got one on his arm. He was pressured into it, and regrets getting it terribly. But i've seen a few girls lately (I don't know any of them) with tatoos on their feet. I thought they were absolutely adorable. I never considered getting one, but the more I see them, the more I like them. It's not peer pressure or anything, but it's just that I simply think they are cute and I want one. I haven't mentioned it to anyone yet, but i'm seriously considering getting it done. I know that I deffinately want a star(s) on my foot but I can't decide what sequence or design I want. So if anyone has any design ideas, or websites I would love to have the link. Here are some I've found so far that I like. Opinions?:

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v236/melody_paige/?action=view¤t=thbmegl001662.jpg

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v236/melody_paige/?action=view¤t=th3friends.jpg

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v236/melody_paige/?action=view¤t=1bf213bf.jpg

I've already done research and i'm still doing so on the after care, and everything. I know getting a tattoo is a big deal, and i'm for sure going to think about it a little longer before actually going through with it.

My question is how to bring this up to my mom. She's not uptight about things like this. Infact, she let me get my belly button pierced a few years ago with a lot of nagging about it from me of course. But I wanted my tongue pierced a few months back, and she said no. She thought it was trashy looking. I wasn't very persistant about it like I was with my naval piercing, and eventually I decided I didn't want it done. The thing is, tattoos are different. They are permanent and i'm afraid it won't be so easy to talk her into letting me get one. I don't want to beg or whine like I did with my belly button, but I don't want to drop it all together like I did with my tongue. I'm positive this is what I want, and the one's i've so far picked out are very small and easily hideable. I'm very willing to pay for it myself, so how could I bring this up in a mature way?

So basically I have 3 questions.

1. How to bring this up to my mom.
2. Any websites with tattoo designs so I can go ahead a pick out what I want?
3. Which of the pictures did you like best?

1. Compliment your moms tattoo. Tell her that you think a little star or design on your foot or ankle would be cute and you feel that you're responsible enough to care for it.
2. http://www.rankmytattoos.com/picture-gallery/specific-body-areas/foot-tattoo/
http://www.tattoofashion.com/acatalog/tf_leg_foot.html
http://www.tddi.org/
3. I like the first picture.

I recommend making sure the tattoo is easy to be hid. If you ever have to go to a wedding, and at your own wedding also, you don't want it to look trashy when your all dressed up. Definately think it over well before you get it done. It's permanent!

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I was wondering if anyone knew how long cosmetics
last? How often should you replace make-up like
mascara and eyeliner?

My doctor told me to change my makeup every season, especially eye makeup because you can get an infection if your makeup isnt clean. Change it at the end of summer, before you go back to school and around Christmastime or in the beginning of December and again in April. Don't forget; even if theres still some left and you really don't want to change it, its very important to do so!

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