who am I, who are you? are we the same? or different? what should I ask, who do I ask? Is it it the "RIGHT" time....What does the "MIRROR" say...are you talking to it, or are you talking to the reflection, in it....Do you recognize that person?? and if you do, "TRUST" yourself...give"YOU" a chance.....Now thats F'N deep.
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I'm fourteen years old, but I'm small and I have a very young looking face. When people guess my age they think I'm twelve. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and very pale skin. If anyone had any suggestions on how to look a little bit older, they would be greatly appreciated =] I was also thinking that highlights might help, and if anyone knows about if that would help or not, I would love it. Thanks! (link)
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check this out, while your try'n to look older now, when your in late twenties or thirties, you'll say to yourself hmmmm "I wish I looked younger" isnt that sorta ironic...but, listen I wouldnt try so hard to be old so quick, beleive me it will creep up on you so fast, and then youll say "DAMN" where did all the time go,so If they guess younger now when your up there in years, maybe that youthful look will still be present...so revel in your youth...
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i need some exercise tips; i want to tone my inner thighs, my hips, and majorly flatten my stomach. Thanks (link)
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For the parts of the "body" you mentioined, the best in my opinion,"CARDIO" training, this includes, arobics, walking on the tread-mill or outside, sit-ups (not crunchs), and light weight training, and its best to change your "diet", your intake, stay away from certain food groups, like "starches", certain "carbs", but it takes a little dediction, dont think that in one hour your gonna see results, it took time to get there, it will take a minute to get off..its best to set-up a short-tem goal, and keep a daily log, of your schedule, even food...good-luck
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ok so like my friend is turning 15 like next week. and like she hasnt develpoed anything yet. and she never got her period yet. shes like flat. is this normal? (link)
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well I'll tell you somethin, everyone's body is different, some take longer to "mature" than others...dont worry, she's probably just a late "bloomer" really..
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What do you do when you are afraid that your mother in law is going to try to tell you how you should raise your kids? Like, I need to do things this way or that way, and they need to go to her church that my husband grew up in that I totally don't agree with everything. (link)
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I'll tell you what, you better sit down with that woman, and tell her what up, ok...she raised her family , let "you" raise yours... I know you dont want to hurt anyones feelings, be as diplomatic as possible, you and your husband should sit down and talk first, you need to set some "boundries".....Opinions are great, but "YOU" and your "HUSBAND" are still the parents,right,and you have the final word. Good Luck
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Okay uhm...
Lately, I've been looking at porn a lot.
Specifically lesbian stuff.
Videos, pics, anything.
I just wanna know...
Is this normal?
Cause I'm a 15 yr old girl.
You wouldn't think I 15 yr old girl would be interested in that kinda stuff.
Idk why I do it.
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Is it normal?
Is it perverted?
Is it wrong?
Is it weird?
HELPP!! (link)
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First,what is normal? is it the "label" soceity, gives people,"grouping" ...I personally dont think it's wrong, perverted, or weird...Are you more interested in a "female" to "female" intimate relationship, opposed to "male" to Female", or just not sure, CURIOUS ,maybe, Do you think your gonna learn something by watch'n, or do you become "aroused" by this...YOU are the only one who knows the answer to these questions, You have to make a decision, not right away.. but I do know, alot of women who are "bi" and they lead fullfilling lives, what ever your sexual preference is, well thats your business...dont ever feel embarrassed about it, or confused, you'll find your way...be patient...
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I'd rather have guys anwser this.
but
If you call a guy beautiful or gorgeous, is it kinda weird for them or something like that.
But would they rather be called handsome or cute
or just all of it is fine.
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If your talking amongst your friendz and say your refering to lets say,"johnny", yeah, "oh he's so beautiful, blah, blah blah," but if your talking directly to "johnny" "oh johnny your so handsome," do you get my drift...but I would except either, ya-know a compliment is a compliment right.....
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I think I'm going crazy because for four months now I've been thinking I'm dying from various reasons. I have a headache I'll stress over it for a week thinking its cancer. I have pain in my neck and I freak out and think I'm having a blood clot. My chest hurts I think my hearts failing. I have some bruises I cant explain I think its cancer. I have a swollen lymph node and I think its cancer. I THINK...but in my mind I KNOW I dont have anything wrong. I mean I dont get these things at the same time they come at different times. I dont know how to stop stressing myself out over this because its...taking a toll. Every day something else makes me question my life and I'm starting to FREAK OUT. Please help me out here!! (link)
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check this out....{hypochondria-1. unnatural anxeity about one's health: imaginary illness 2. low spirits without any real reason...} I got this out of the dictionay...but if you, believe theres something wrong will you "internally" maybe you go and have a complete physical...to rule out any possible "internal" conditions..and if you still feel somthing is wrong, try talk'n to therapist..about you anxeity....about stress, and anxeity...Hope this helps...
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I grew up in an Episcopal Church and my husband of almost 2 years grew up in Church of Christ. We are both Christians, but why does there have to be many forms of baptism? I was poured upon as a small child and my husband was emerged when he was a young teenager. He accepts my beliefs but does not accept the way I was baptized. This is a big issue for me. Why would I want to be married to a man that does not accept fully me? Why would I want my children to grow up(when or if we have any) questioning me, "mommy why weren't you baptized?" Does this make sense to anyone? Has anyone went through this to know what I am talking about? If so, please give me advice or a way to show my husband that either way can be right.
Thanks! (link)
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Well let me tell all forms of baptism, are correct,I'm a catholic....When martin luther, broke away from the catholic church, way back, in the day he started the (church of england) (protestants)he made himself a bishop..as the story was told, anyways from this order alot of "sub" you can say, episcopians, lutherans, so get where I'm going...anyways..hate to say this the extreme right wing of the church is "baptists"...you can find all this information on line just look under "church" or "church reform", but since your married, you both are "one", and for him to "JUDGE" you is wrong, and the bible says "THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE", so I really think you need to have a Heart to Heart talk with your partner, but look up all the information first and get it writing for you have a little more to on...Hope this helps you...
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i need to get my splits (both ways) by the end of may for drill team tryouts!!!! thats almost six months! if i stretch everyday and go down and hold my splits and stuff like that how long do u guyz think it might take me to get my splits? could i get them by may??? im not super flexible but i am pretty flexible if that helps. thanks!!! also do you know any stretches for them?? (link)
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look to build up your flexibilty look to yoga training...youll find out there way is the best to suit what you want to accomplish..., in this amount of time--but remember youll only get out of it, of how much you put into it.......
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months today. this weekend we are going to his cousins house and there will be no adults. i am a virgin but i think i am ready for sex. how do i know if i am or not? do i know at all? should i do it? (link)
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Well congradulations, this will be one of the BIGGEST decisions you have to make on your own, I can give you my feed-back , but in the long-run, its totally up to you...If you decide to go thru with it, at least be safe...there are alot of diseases out there, and frankly, I'd rather live along life then a short one...There are alot of "protection" on the market, I wouldnt leave this burden totally up to him , seek your own out, because people forget...and I dont think your ready to raise a child and go to school...so think.....Hard.....15min..could be a life of re-grets!! and who knows it could be less time then that..
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I want some references for Family counseling in Palatka Florida. I would like to get my Father into it,
thnx
--Syd (link)
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go to google search, for your area..and youll have browse thru the different counseling offices..best to suit "your" needs or your fathers...
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ok. i asked the question before about my hands being sweaty. but i eman i looked online of what palmer hyperhydrosis i mean my hands to get sweaty. but only when i think about it. like when im thinking of holding hands with my boyfriend then they become sweaty. and like right now i was reading this question and since i was thiking of my hands being sweaty. they now are. so i have no idea if its just nervousness or if it really is palmer hyperhydrosis. and also is it true that baby powder can help this or?
so i am asking two questions.
1.do i have palmer hyperhydrosis
2. does baby powder help? (link)
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well, I am looking in my med. dictionary right now, your right, about what those two words are, but dont get your panties in a up-roar, just contact a dermatolgist, ok..because he deals with the skin...and maybe he can give some closure about whats really happening...k
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Ok, I have streach marks around my waist, a few tiny ones on my stomach, and a few on the back of my legs. I'm a tiny bit overweight, but not that much. how can i get rid of the streach (sp?) marks?? thanks everyone!! (link)
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ok...check this out..start doing some "cardio" work-outs.(walking) like on a tread mill, yoga, you have to start eating ,right...if you decide to go this route, sit-ups(not crunchs)..just take it slow, just remember it took time to get there, its not gonna disappear over night, if you start now by spring, you'll be right you want maybe more....it takes a little effort to achieve some short term goals, and maintain them...good luck...
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I'm really into making hemp necklaces and stuff. I have two pretty good necklaces that I have made. But....
My question is: Is hemp supposed to be itchy for a while untill it gets more worn in? Or could that be that I just dont have a good quaility?
Do you know any websites that have alot of different stuff about hemp, like how to's, pic's just stuff like that. Thanks alot! (link)
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I know this, to cure rope your supposed to submerge it water, till its soaked then stretch it, but about the "itchy" part hmmmmmmm...i guess just bein worn will do ....ok...curing rope(strecthing), I should had clarified this part, it pulls the fibers(thus being the hemp) tighter together, easier to braid, do certain knots, so and so forth, the reason you stretch..make sure its tight, maybe use a couple 1/2 hitch knots on both ends and pull tight between two un-moveable objects...Oh and when submerging, its always best to use fresh water , thus salt water, will have to rinsed anyways...if you need more answer, its best to get a book on how to do shipmans knots and they will tell you what i am..more in depth
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Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say! (link)
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well stay away from "short jokes" but hey, look at tom and katie, he's a shortie, I'm short only 5'6, I've had tons of taller women, its whats inside not out.....if you care about eachother, nothing will stand in your way...just remember when you lay down your the same height....right...it will work out...if it was meant to be...but everthing is not written in stone...
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Hi I'm 24 years old and I have a 7 year old daughter. I had My daughter when I was 16 and at the time was seeing this guy whao cheated on me the night I found out I was at a party and was drunk. Not that thats a excuse but this other guy had been persuing me for a while so I went home with him and we slept together. After that night my boyfriend and I kept seeing eachother he told me it was a lye he never cheated on me and ofcourse I was dumb and fell for it. Meanwhile I was already hooked with this other guy and we kept seeing eachother he new about my boyfriend and didnt care we kept it a secret til this day nobody knows we were ever together.
Well months later I found out I was pregnant. I was sure it was my boyfriends baby the other guy never came into my mind because we had only had unprotected sex once. how ever he did ask if it was his baby and I told him no. I told my boyfriend and we had the baby he was cheating on me the whole time we split up when the baby was 4 months. He has never been a real good dad he sees her once in a while sometimes he goes months with out seeing her but thats the guy she knows as her dad and loves him very much. I always have this other guy in the back of my head because my daughter looks nothing like her dad she mostly looks like me but I have always wonder it migh been a posability that the other guy could be her dad. But I didnt really remember what he looked like I hadnt seen him in years he moved away after highschool and didnt here from him since10 months ago I saw his sister she had a daughter wich when I looked at her she looked just like my daughter did when she was her age then I started really wondering then one month later I happened to run into the guys web page and I decided to contact him just to say hi I did and he contacted me bk on my web page wich has pictures of my daughter. We exchanged screen names and started chatting online the first thing he asked me was is she my daughter. I didnt know what to say but I told him theres a posability she could be and we exchanged pictures and everything my daughter looks just like him and his family theres things of her that he has thats it could only be because they were related well to make this shorter He is her father I havent told the other guy who has always thought that she was his but only because He doesnt really take care of her we havent heard or seen him in almost a year now and my number or adress hasnt changed he just doesnt care and she doesnt ask for him eighter. Anyways my daughter and this guy have seen eachther recently and now we are in a relationship and they get along great like if they known eachother forever and she adores him and he does too but how do I tell my daughter that he is her dad and not the other guy that shes always thought of her dad.
Please Help Me!! (link)
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well I'll tell you what, I would sit down with him and your daughter, and tell the truth she's old enough to understand, beleive me, take it slow, the transition, could be easy, or she might totally disagree with you, but be honest, ya-know thats what were trying to teach our children in the first place..right...I know youll do just fine...your still mommy....
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o.k., so i have this friend, let us call her "t" well she is fake signing my name on things she dose not want anybody to know about!! and she called me badgirl on one of her questions!!! i don't know what i should do!!! pleasse help!! and fast, she will be here in 15 minutes!!!!!! thanks for anything you can give to me!!! (link)
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confront her....if you dont like it...or did give her, the go head, in the first place.....
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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant?? (link)
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hey check this out...your "cycle" was f'd up, when you went on the pill, so listen, call your dr. ok....and schedule, for in exam..."OB" right
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Hey
I'm never sure how much perfum to spary on I'm always worried I'll put on tooo much but then I'm worried it won't last long. So how much should I put on if I want it to stay fairly strong thourhgout school??
If this matters I have armani code..
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check this out...take it with you to school and keep it your locker, but please dont over do it, just a little goes a long way, but if your still not sure ask your friend to smell you...come on
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What does it mean to lose your virginity?
Does it mean having sexual contact...because if so, then any type of contact would make you lose your virginity, right?
Or does being a virgin technically mean you have done anything but intercourse? I'm not too sure about this one, and I don't think Google would be of much help either. Thanks. (link)
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one word ..penetration...if he didnt put it in, your a virgin, and lord I wish I still was...When you decide to have sex, make sure you have thought about it and you got some protection....seriously
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