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What are some techniques on how to do a backflip? I really want good advice. What are some good techniques/excersises which I can do at my own house, which does NOT have a trampoline:(. What else?


~Aaron Leung

http://www.blender.com/guide/articles.aspx?ID=1763

Haha. Try there. You need some crazy lower body strength and flexiblity. Good luck!

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does any one out there have an ipod nano .. do you know how to add pictures?
please help me!

When you first download the iPod onto the computer, it should ask you where they should upload pictures from. Your My Pictures folder was the default option, but if that isn't where your pictures are then that could be why they aren't going on your iPod. Just install the software again. If it still doesn't work, feel free to ask for more help.

Go to your control panel, add / remove programs, and then uninstall the iPod software. Then, put the disk back in and reinstall it all over again. But, this time, don't ignore that part. Any more problems, ask away.

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okay so here's the thing...i really like this guy..i mean like REALLY like him..but im a freshman and he's a sophmore. In my school it's not that uncommon to have an upperclsssmen go out with a freshmen, but i'm afraid he is too out of my leauge. i mean, im a cheerleader and not to be like full of myself but i know im not "unpopular" but i am SOOO afraid of regection. i talk to him and all but not for more than like a minute at a time..IM SCARED TO TELL SOMEONE! what if he doesn't like me and thinks im like a freak..here is my question...am i waisting my time drooling over this kid or should i stick to it and maybe something good will come out of it...SOMEONE HELP ME!

You should try flirting with him a little and see if he acts interested. I'm sure the age thing won't concern him very much.

Try to become his friend before you go for anything else. Be there for him and help him when he has problems. He might fall for you after a while.

If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

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i have a friend who ive known for 2 years, we've dated on and off through out those two years, i love him too, but there wont be anymore relationship because he's moving to another state.. his sweet 16 is on the 19th.. which is why i need to get something special for him, does anyone have any cool ideas, cuz i cant think of anything, i can spend up to like $50 maybe a little more, but not a lot

**Thank you to anyone who gives me ideas**


*it needs to be really special too*


This is a little above 50 dollars (I think that they cost about $100), but you could get him an iPod shuffle filled with songs that make you think of him.

The songs are always random, so he'd always have something new to listen to.

I'm sure that whatever you got him, he'd love it. Sorry if this didn't help, though.

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I really like this guy and i have for a really long time. A couple nights ago was a dance and we were around each other pretty much the whole time. and if i walked away he'd walk with me. He's kinda seeing someone right now but they arent going out. Well, to make things specific, I've liked him for about a year. We've gone out a few times. He calls me once everyday or every other day but he doesn't call the girl he's seeing on the phone. And the night of the dance he's like "this dance blows" and im like "why cuz (the girls name) isnt here?" and he's like "yea"..i dont know I'm just really confused can anyone help me? thank you sooo much!

I'm not 100% sure about this or anything, but I'll try to help.

First, he obviously DOES care about you. There's a good chance he cares about you more than he cares about his girlfriend, too.

If there is any trouble in the relationship he has with his girlfriend, maybe he just wants to reassure himself that you're still there.

But, at the dance I think that he might have been feeling guilty or something that he was there without his girlfriend.

It doesn't mean he doesn't like you or anything. He might just have felt he was doing something wrong.

Sorry if it wasn't very helpful... if you have anything else to ask, please do.

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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.

My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?

Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?

Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.

Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something.

Being a guy, I'm just going to answer what I can.

First, I want to say that boys DO enjoy flirting with girls, but I'm pretty sure that girls like to flirt with us as well. In most cases, we DON'T want to lead anyone on, unless it's the person we like.

I don't think it would be right for me to answer the other questions about what we want in a girl, because it's different for everyone. I think, basically, we just want somebody we feel comfortable around and that we can tell anything to.

Personally, I believe in true love. I don't believe in love at first sight at all. While physical attraction is initially important, it's personalities that grow on you and can play a much bigger role.

I think the difference between love and lusting would be what you want out of the relationship. If you want it to go somewhere and care very little about the physical aspect of it, then I think it could be close to love. You need to ask yourself what you would give up for them. Or what future you think you could have together.

I hope this helped. If you have any more questions, just ask.

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