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i am currently living with ym best freind. been that way for a month and a half. recently her fiance came back from out of the country and is living there now too. well i have been looking for a job but in my small town, jobs are hard to find. i have looked everyday and everyplace and still nothing. but the past 2 weeks she and i have been jumping down each others throats. every little thing and one of us flips out. like she flipped b/c ravioli stained aplastic bowl and i put soap and water in it so it WOULDNT stain but it still did and hse said it was my fault. so its a constant thing. and watching her and her fiance, they run around the house making out and have no respect for me at all in teh house. they run around grabbing each others "private parts" for lack of better words. and i am fed up with them having no respect for me at all. and when i confront her about what is bothering me (them making out bothers me b./c my boyfreind is currently out of state with his family.) she gest all defensive and says "its my house, i will do what i want i dont care. when your in love you wont carew what others think." so i cant get anywhere b.c she will coem back with its her house. so i dont know what to do i am backed into a corner. i mean granted my boyfreind wants me to move in with him in new york with his family...but i am not sure i want to give up my family...what should i do? (link)
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WELL, IF you DECIDE TO STAY, you BETTER SUCK UP TO HER. IT DOESN'T MATTER TO THEM HOW you FEEL, BELIEVE ME! iM IN the same situation. do you pay rent? if so, then you should only voice your opinion if there is no compliance, than your screwed. your boyfriend's place is probably not going to be much different. you still have to put up with crap, except it would be your boy friends. i hope i was of some help to you.
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This is going to be long... BEAR WITH ME!
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now, and we are very much in love. Just like any other couple, we have our fights and our ups and downs.
A few weeks ago, at my homecoming dance a friend of mine was driving me and a large group of my friends back to a girls house for a sleepover. (Don't worry, there were no guys sleeping over) In the front seat there was a guy sitting there from another school. He used to go to my highschool but was transfered out, not sure why though. Anyway, we were tall talking in the car, and I said something and the kid in the front seat turned around and turned on the light and said "I want to get a good look at you". We were talking about random things for about 20 minutes then we got to the girls house I was staying over at, and I left.
A few days later, he added me as his friend on myspace, then we started talking alot online. We realized we had SO much in common. We like the same foods, have the same aspirations, he lives RIGHT next door to my aunt, alot of the same beliefs... About after a week or two of talking online he said to me "I'm so in love with you". I figured he meant the kind of I love you that you'd say to your close friends. And I was said "Yeah, I'm sure". He said "No, I really do. You're the most amazing girl I've ever met. I talk to you more than other girls. You're beautiful, sweet.. Everything I could ever hope for in a girl". He does know that I have a boyfriend and that we've been together for a while and that we love eachother. He says he doesn't want to get in the way of our relationship.. But he is.
I've found my self slowly but surely falling for this guy, and it sucks. But I've noticed a few things about him.. Everything he says doesn't seem sincere. He tells me how much he likes me yadda yadda yadda... But then he goes and says the same thing to other girls. So, at this point I'm thinking to myself that I'm just another girl to him.. Nothing special. I'm trying to not think about him because I DO love my boyfriend dearly.. But I keep thinking about this boy. And I hate it.
I need help to stop thinking about him.. I don't want to stop talking to him completely because he's really nice and a great person to talk to. I'm so confused... What do I do? I'm not about to ruine my year and a half relationship for something I don't know is going to even last... I'm tired of taking chances. (link)
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Do not, I repeat, Do not go for this guy. Beleive me, you will appreciate and cherish what you have now once you go for the other guy. I've been there and don that and have found out that the grass is never greener on the other side. stick with your boyfriend. you'll thank me for it.
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Ok guys, how do you like girls flirting with you? Like how much flirting and what kind? I would really appriciate it!
*I rAtE hIgH!!!!* (link)
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Well, act interested. Just throw in a smile here and there. Most of the time the guy will be asking questions if he is interested. All you have to do is answer them with a happy face. Ask a question every so often guys like that you show interest.
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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Most guys like the slutty-protraying girls. The ones that are outgoing and are not scared to talk to you. Also, if you are hot, then you sould try being more outgoing. Most of us guys are a little intimidated when we see a hot girl.
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So I am going to start taking BC Pills and I was just wondering...
1. Will I gain or lose any weight or will my appetite increase/decrease? Is there any chance of that?
2. My friend was really PMSy when she started her pills. Was it because of the pills?
3. Can I get pregnant in the first week/two weeks of taking BCP? (link)
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you will most likely gain weight. your feet will swell. and your appetite will increase.
the change in hormoes does have an effect of mood swings. and yes you will get pregnant in the first week. The clinic will tell you to wait till after your next period.
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Okay, Im kinda big if you kno what i mean but im not like huge and i cant get a boyfriend..but all my friends say im really pretty and everything but i dont think i am..is there anyway i can change how guys look at me ?? I wanna do it for me and not for them. I rate 5s
14/F ( if that helps ) (link)
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Well, if you truely are unhappy with the way you look like then you are probably not happy with yourself. What I suggest is embrace what God has given you or do something to change it. Like work out, take a walk, get a healthier diet. There is plenty (well maybe less) of guys that love bigger girls. I hope I helped you out.
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How do you burn calories? (link)
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By moving a muscle.
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