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My boyfriend chats with this other girl while we are talking and I'm not stupid I can see they are talking but he doesn't tell me. It feels like a knife in my stomach and I start shaking so I end up telling him good night and going to bed where I lay awake for hours crying. Now I know that is probably pathetic crying over a guy and all. But this is stupid. Why can't he just be honest with me and TELL me that he is talking to this girl or something. I hate her already. I've already talked to him about it last time when he said I was over reacting and I asked him to PLEASE tell me if he talking to her instead of letting me FIGURE IT OUT. Idk what to say to him today, I'm .... in a very bad mood.... should I avoid him or not... this is so messed up. He loves to say that "well I can be friends with whomever I want" I KNOW THAT OKAY GOD I KNOW!!!! But what if that girl is KILLING ME ON THE INSIDE... geez
ADVICE PEOPLE PLEASE!!!! (link)
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I know this will be hard because from the looks of it he is in your mind and heart and it will be hard to let go, but LEAVE HIM. You take control of your life. This is YOUR life and you shouldn't have to live this way. You should be happy. Just break up with him and tell him your not stupid, you know the truth. Deep down you know he is cheating even if only with words. It will progress to physical cheating. I want you to get out there in the world and be the awesome you and fall in love with someone who really deserves you and treats you like a real woman. He sounds immature you can do better. Take control of your life. You said you start shaking, that is a very bad sign. He has a mental hold on you and it is making you physically ill. I have had this happen to me. I am 32 and trust me you'll learn about these guys they only care about themselves and what ever they feel like, but what about YOU?
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I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have recently started to develop feelings for my step-brother. He is two years older than me and we see each other ever other weekend.
We've known each other for about eight years and we've always had a sort of love/hate relationship.
We would annoy the hell out of each other and he would insult me but recently things have become different.
Before we would wrestle and I'd just be determined to win. But now I don't care about winning I just enjoy wrestling and it isn't as serious as it was before it's more playful. Also a few times whilst we've been fighting I've brushed his lower are and felt what turns out to have been an erection. We'll be fighting and one of us will straddle the other and just sit there and tease the other. Or when we get tired I'll lie on his chest and he'll wrap his arm around me and we'll just stay there for ages.
He still insults me but it's not as intense as when we were younger.
I'm pretty sure it's not normal, I've never actually met anyone whose had a crush on their step-sibling before. I came clean to my friends about it and at first they were shocked but now they think I should go for him because it's not incest because we're only related by law not blood. I'm not sure what to do because I'm doubtful that the feelings I have towards him are mutal and even if they were I'm terrified of what would happen if I told him. What should I do? (link)
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You are just going through puberty. You are going to fall in love with any guy right now. I think you feel close to him and safe but you can find that with someone else later. Just dont take it to the next level with him it would not be healthy and could break apart your family
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First of all, my boyfriend and I have been dating for like 1 1/2 years. I love him and I don't think he's a bad person, but I've really been having a problem with the way he treats me lately. We always hang out everyday after school until 4 (so like 30 minutes) and then we hang out every friday night from 7-10:30. Now, it's not that I have a problem with the amount of time we get to hang out, I just HATE how it's so scheduled...I feel like he doesn't even want to hang out with me outside of the schedule unless he wants to do sexual stuff. He never wants to break the schedule :( I just want to have a carefree "see each other when we feel like it" thing so it's fun and spontaneous, but he's more focused on keeping everything in order so he can get home and play his videogames for the rest of the day. I guess I just feel like he puts my feelings 2nd to videogames. I've already tried bringing this up to him many times and he just says I'm "accussing him of being a terrible boyfriend and I need to understand that he isn't going to part from his hobbies for me"...but I didn't ever ask him to do that. I'm glad he has hobbies but I just don't understand why he has to schedule his entire life, including me, based on his videogames...I don't know it just makes me feel like I'm not very special, I'm just part of the schedule to him...I don't really know what I'm asking, I just need advice please. Thanks. (link)
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He sounds very immature. You need more exitement in your life. Maybe start going out more with the girls and dont worry about that jackass
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I am 13/F
There is this guy that i really like a lot and i know he used to like me to, but i am not sure if he still does. I want to get to know him better, we were on a the same team for a turnement for P.E. and we were pretty good friends and he sat by me a couple times in my history class instead of his assined seat, and I want to hang out with him a lot. I don't what I should, some of my friends are telling me to ask him out, and others are saying are you crazy? He is very popular and im not, but i really don't know what I should say to him, or if i should ask him if he wants to hang out, or just forget about him. (link)
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Only think of him as a friend. If you 2 can become better friends, then tell him you like him more than that. Don't just ask him out not a good idea. I'm 32/female, been there done that. Guys are mostly jerks too, make sure he is a nice guy that knows to respect you.
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Well, I am moving soon away from the person I love alot. He has been there for me ever since i moved here and his friends and family are awsome! But my mom decides to move due to really personal issues and there is no way to change her mind. Me and her DO NOT get along! Everday i go home after school and into my room and lock myself in my room and cry into a pillow. I have actually tried to commit suicide three times and I have been cutting myself. But I had quit cause i already 13 marks on my arm. But i feel useless on this world..like no one will miss me when I'm gone. I want to die but at the same time i don't want to face the consequences of hell. What should I do? I dont know why i have these feelings of depression..its not because of my mom.. I love her to death even though we don't get along. and I noticed that im going throught this at a very young age, 12 and a half to be specific. I dont want therapy because first it will make it worse and i will think i gone crazy and just cry even more. I feel like a mistake. Or that i have one of those illnesses that could be cured. please help me, i am scared that i'll snap one day and just runaway from home and on the verge of life and death. i am female. (link)
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I am 32 years old and I'm alive and well and here to tell you you WILL get through this. I was just like you when I was your age, everything you said is exactly what I went through, how I felt, and I tried to kill myself too and thank God it didnt work. I have had so many beautiful and wonderful experiences since those times and always think how thankful I am to be alive and all I've been through in my life has made me so strong and proud of myself. You will go through troubles in your life but that's okay. They are just there to make you strong. Also, you are not alone and you are loved. I don't even know you but I love you and can relate to your pain. You will make many friends over the course of your life. There are people you haven't met yet that need you. You have to just move on and be the best person you can be. Start reading self-help books that talk about positive things to build yourself up. Start eating right and taking vitamins and omega-3 to boost your mind and immune system also helps with depression. You dont need therapy and drugs. Draw closer to your source (God) and He will take your hand and walk you through the flames and fill you with love and warmth. If you ever need to talk you can write to me anytime. Hugs, Jaimie
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