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Since it's getting hotter and I'm starting to sweat a little more I'm getting more zits popping up. Does anyone have any not expencive (and actually work) products, or any home remadies? Ill rate 5's!!

They have this cheap zap-zyt stuff at Walmart and it works real good, but it makes your face really sensitve and dry if you use it too much.
I really reccomend just spending 40$ on Proactiv

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I got a small penis. Wut should i do?

Its the motion of the ocean!

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What are some ways that u put a tampon it that makes it easier..ive only tried sitting down but that doesnt seem to make things any easier

Stand up and put one leg on the toilet seat and relax

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hi okay there is this guy i like and we dont talk to each other but we were like best friends when we were 2-4ish and somehow i got his sn and i really want to talk to him but like how should i start off...should i say i've had ur sn on buddy list but i didnt know how it was so i was figurin out or is dat to corny or will it end da conversation short? HELP!asap

Hey. Just IM him and tell him who you are and that you found his screen name and ask him how hes been!

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i have got finguered and i havent had my period and i get wet alot and i have a order problem and i dont want to tell my mom HElp please Im soo scared!

fingering doesnt do anything, you wont get pregnant by it, and everything else is fine

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i might be moving to texas, half way across the country. i am really scared because i dont want to leave behind the life i have now and enter a new one. on the other hand there are some good things, but does anyone have any advice on this? if i do move, how can i make it more bearable? does anyone live in texas?

I live in Texas :D Entering a new life is great. Just jump in and make new friends, youll be fine

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why is it that everytime a guy i like starts to like me back, i stop liking him completely?

The thrill of wondering goes away. When that happens, theres nothing to be excited about anymore, so your crush fades out. Its a phase you go through, and will eventually get over.

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

Presents& Let her know how much she means to you

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ok this is a weird question and im guessing that no one knows but its worth a try i guess. i downloaded what i thought was "Lying from you" by Linkin Park.. but it wasnt that. I can't figure out what it is. I'm guessing its still by Linkin Park and whoever put it on the internet messed up the title. it sounds like them too. ok well i really like the song and i want to find out what it is! Heres the beginning of the song.

From the top to the bottom
bottom to top i stop
(some other stuff)
theres a place so dark you can't see the end
(and the only other thing i can make up 100%) clear is "The darkness holding me tightly"

thanks so much

Forgotten by Linkin Park, I love Linkin Park , Im like obsessed, buy the cds, dont steal the music.. :(

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i have some friends who wont really talk me any more and i guess since i dont have money like her she dont like me . she when i call her she never talk to me. what do i do about her? we have been firneds since the 8th grade.

Okay, If someone wont talk to you because you dont have money, then they arent even worth your time... But, are you shure thats why they she isnt talking to you? Just ask her why she doesnt talk to you as much anymore instead of just assuming. I have friends that I dont talk to as much anymore, mainly because I am busy, or I dont see them as much as I used to. Just talk to her, ask her whats going on. Thats the only way to figure out what to do about it.

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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop??

Im a senior and im 17 and i AM going trick or treatinggggggggggg :D

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my b.f doesnt want me chatting online becuase he thinks its nothing but trouble, but thats where i met him, even though he doesnt chat anymore, do u think hes trying to train me to obey him if i listen to him and stop chatting, i really like this guy and would give up yahoo for him.

I think that he is just a little insecure. Maybe he has had a past girlfriend find another guy on the internet. About the training you to obey him part, I dont think he is " training you" but I think that it's not healthy for him to be telling you what to do. Guys come and go. Even though you really like him, you have to accept that he's not going to be there forever. Whats the problem with the internet? He needs to trust you..

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I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?

freak...... no real friend would do that

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Does pro activ really work? any body ever tryed it, how long did it take for you to have clear skin.? any dis-advantages?

yes, it works, I use it. It works really fast, and the only disadvantage is the price :)

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I know this isn't really a question.. but I have a lot of spare time on my hands and I was wondering if anybody wanted me to make them glitter name's or glitter sigi's. Just respond to this with your screen name, what you want me to make (like a name or something) and what color you want it to be.
Here's a question though..
Does anybody know any good places where you can get glitter sigi's like just the glitter part not the name? I'd appreciate it if you could help! Thanks!

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

Hayyy! Can you make me one thats pink and says "Kristy"
My screen names are advice: dancer_freak05
aol:littl3 8itch
msn: dancer_freak05@hotmail.com

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i feel so young all my friends are turning 15 this year and i just turned 14!! were all in the same grade though. i just want to grow up to where in 16 so i can party and drive. my parents are so protective because im there only child and they dont want to lose me with all the murders and kidnappers and shit in the world. it upsets me. they think im still a little kid still and they treat me like im a little kid. does anyone feel this way what should i do??

I learned about that the hard way. It all has to do with your maturity level and the age you act. When I was 14 and I would ask my mom if I could go to a party, she would say no. Instead of acting my age and having a nice mature conversation about it, I would say MOM!!!!!!! WHY NOT!!!!! THATS NOT FAIR!!!
Eventually, I learned to show my mom that she could trust me, and I had to show her that she could trust me. The best thing you could do is just sit your parents down and let them know that you arent theyre little girl anymore, and that your ready to go out and see the things that the world has to offer. Let them know that they can trust you. Hey you can even offer to be home by like 10 ( better than nothing right) If they still say no, then just back off and give it time.

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well im a freshman and im in this boys class i really like him and hes in 11th grade.. he always talks to me and is realy realy nice and always just looks back at me and smiles. last thursday night i went to a football game and he was there and sat next to me. friday in school he was like why didnt you even say hi to meee? and i said sorry and then he said why are you shy around me and i relized i liekd him, that was why!.. i started talking to him alot more and he talked to me on monday morning he came in class and talked to me right away and asked if i had a sister because he saw a girl that looked just like me.. my cousin said that thats kind of weird, she thinks he just wanted to talk to me, and its a weird pickup line i dunno lol.. he also said he lives nextdoor to my grandmother .. he still talks and always smiles to me in the hallway and i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me cuz hes always with other girls too... how can i get him to know i like him? thanks.. if you think i should tell him i like him tomorrow to his face or in a note, what should i say in the note or to his face? im so nervouss i might even have my friend tell him but.. i dont know.. thanks alott

Hey! Well it sounds to me like he likes you, so you probably have nothing to worry about. I would have one of my friends tell him, and tell him myself too. If your not shy, then when hes talking to you, just say something like "hey, you know I think your a cool guy and I really like you" and see what happens from there. But, if you are shy, then just write him a letter saying that you do like him, but keep it short, most guys dont like long letters. good luck! let me know what happens

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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...

i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..

i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?

im like that sometimes haha like in english, we dont have to ask to go to the bathroom, you just get up and go and im so afraid to go because im freaking out thinking the teachers gonna yell HEY! WHERE ARE YOU GOING! SIT DOWN!

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Sorry if this question has been asked before!!

You see, i wash my hair everyday, and it always smells soo good like my shampoo! I let it airdry, + it naturally goes curly.
The thing is, i straighten my hair; a lot, with the CHI [ceramic hairstyling iron.. it's my saviour!! :D hehe] my hair isn't dead, but it always smells kind of.. well, burnt i guess. So my question is, how can i get it to not smell like that? lol. It's kind of embarassing because people are always playing with my hair, and if i can smell it, i'm pretty sure they can too. Is there any kind of product you can put in afterwards to give it a nice smelling scent? Some sprays i've tried have only made it frizzy :S

thank you in advance guys!!

I love the CHI too ....... The best thing ever invented. What I do is put a LITTLE Biosilk silk therapy ( keep it away from the roots to avoid oilyness and only use a little dab) on my hair before I straighten and then if it smells burnt when Im done, I will add a little bit more Biosilk and then it smells great. Just be careful not to use too much.

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Anyone a senior in high school? its so hard because of senioritis, anyone else have it, how can i get thru it, i dont want me GPA to lower, i want it to stay the same at least, if not for it to raise, help.

I have senioritis bad , seeing as how im not at school right now. Ehhhhhhh I guess just push yourself harder. Maybe we will both make it this year.

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