OK i have a problem.. I kind of told my friend i started my period a longggg time ago ( A WHOLE YEAR) so all this time ive bin lieing. Lately my friend was talking 2 my sister and mentioned me and my period. My sister asked if i really did and i said yes. So now i am lieing 2 my sister and my friend but wait it gets WORSE! my friend asked my mom about it ( my friend is like family) and my mom said she didnt think i started! i HATE lieing 2 them about it and everytime i see my mother im worried she'll bring it up! Same with my friend! Please HeLP!
I think you should tell your friend the truth. And i think you should tell your mom and sister that you didn`t start it yet. They are girls, they will understand. Just tell them the truth and it will all work out.
good luck!!
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when ever i talk to a boy, i always talk to them as a friend. when ever i try to flirt i cant. how can i flirt more. what should i say?
Just say "nice shirt, i really like it" or "your hair looks awsome today" something likt that. dont be shy, it can all work out for the best. You might just be talking to boys as friends b/c thats how you feel comfortable talking with them. But if you want to go out with the guy you like and he likes you and if he doesn`t ask you out yet, then i think you should ask him out. I know it sounds hard, but once you do it you`ll be glad you did.
good luck!!
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im 15 and offered to watch my brothers instead of going out with my friends so my parents can go out. Its now 1:00 AM and they still have not returned. Im annoyed because its not fair that they think they can stay out til all hours of the night while i sat home on a friday night for THEM. If they were planning on staying out this late they should have told me. Honestly i have no idea what their out doing putzing around about..Am i wrong for being mad? How should i express how im annoyed at them? i understan that they are adults and a child has no right to yell and act like their parent..but im just annoyed with the lack of consideration i guess
Just tell them how you feel. Say: "i would like to go out on friday night and go out with my friends too. i know you two want to go out and im ok with that. But i have a life and i would like to go live it (ONLY say that if your parents have a sence of humor)and i am willing to babysit(if you are) but i would also like to go out on a frieday night too" say something like that. And tell them how you feel and how you felt when they were out at such a late time.
good luck!!
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whenever i click the "my questions" or "give advice" the screen goes blank and i go nowhere. does anyone know whats wrong?
The same thing happend to me the other day. you might have to re-start your computer. (thats what i had to do) then go to the website and try it again.
good luck!
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The summer before my freshman year in college I began dating one of my best friends. This was my first relationship with a woman, and to my knowledge at the time, it was her first as well. We dated for 11 months. I was scared, confused, vulnerable.. She went to school two hours away and we saw each other once a month. It seemed as much as I put her first in my life, I was always a side show to her life. The breakup was awful.
She is now dating my ex-best friend, and they recently moved to Florida to live together. We talk very occassionally, and the conversation consists of her telling me I've changed so much, whereas my other friends tell me I've grown up but not for the worse. She asks if I would date her again if things fell through with the new girlfriend.
How can I let go.. she is no good for me and only brings me down. She is manipulative and is a burden in my life but I am too attached, we have been 'friends' for 7 years. Help...
If you feel you dont need her in your life you dont have to take her back. If she wants to get back with you and you dont want her back just say "no im sry i cant"or "no im not avalible" something like that. If she is just brining you down, you might not be able to study for school (if your the kind of person who gets upset easily). Just tell her you dont want to your you cant.
good luck!!
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I have no friends ne more.... they treat me like shit I hate my life why dont i just kill myself
No! dont kill yourself. Its not worth it. Get some new friends that like you for who you are and will treat you like a freind. (or just talk to your old friends) killing yourself is NOT the anwser. ~~always look on the bright side of life~~. I think you should make new friend or talk to your old ones about how they treat you.
good luck!
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Ok, My boyfriend and I got in a fight that got misunderstood and now my Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore... I feel awful!! What should I tell him??? He knows it was misunderstanding but he doesn't belive me!! PLZ HELP SOON!!!
Talk to him. Tell him what really happend. Tell him you really want to stay together with him (if thats what you want to do) Just tell him thw whole truth what really happend. Im sure he will understand.
good luck!
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i think my best friend and i are slowly becoming a person you just say hi to in the hallways. she only hangs out with her other friends and is dumping me for them all the time. what should i do?
I think you should talk to your friend. Make her relize you are her friend too. Tell her how you feel b/c if she doesn`t know what she is doing, she cant do anything. Just talk to her. Im sure it will work out for the best!
good luck!!
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Okay, well I'll tell you what I ate first(yesterday), for breakfast I had a muffin(8am), and about 5:20pm (at a basketball game) I had some M&M's and a rescee cup, and for dinner(7ish maybe 7:10) I went to wendy's and got chicken strips but instead of fries I got a ceaser side salad. Well I felt perfectly fine until after using their ranch dressing on my salad and was joking around like gosh I probably got food poisening because I had a small stomachache, and today I woke up early and was super sick. I went to bed at 11, I woke up at 5 sick to my stomache, and I haven't been able to get to sleep since (it's now 8:15.) And I was wondering, the last time I was "sick" (throwing up) was at 7:11. I wanted to know am I just sick or could it have been something I ate? The only thing that's going around is mono and I haven't kissed anyone lately. Also how long should I wait until I eat, and what can I eat. (like crackers, or toast, or something like that) and how long should I wait until I get something to drink? I have gingerale and I have water. I usually drink gingerale and I usualy make it really fizzy and drink it VERY slowly through a straw. Is that okay? I'm kind of worried because my mom is asleep still, my dad is at work, and I figure I'm 14, & 10-15 years from now I'll have to deal with sick kids and right now I want to know how to take care of myself. I'll probably ask my mom when she wakes up, but I don't want to wake her up because I know that all she'll tell me is to put mats down so I don't barf on anything and to always have a bucket with me (I'm not stupid) and like should I try to stay away from my brother and sister, I don't want them to get anything. Also, I was supposed to go to a 12:05 showing of a movie, should I just stay home and see it next weekend?
Well, thanks for the help and sorry for the length. And sorry if it's confusing.
I think it might be food posioning. that can make you really sick. i dont think it was the other stuff you had b/c anyone can eat that and not get sick. But, maybe you were allergic to something that you ate,(maybe the dressing on your salad) I think you should deink ALOT of liquids, if your hungry, maybe what you said b4..crackers,toast,soup. something like that stuff. and a great drink to help you feel better is tea.
good luck!...(feel better!)
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this guy who likes me and i like him well we haven't gotten into a relationship just yet! but he has been acting weird his attitude is depressing! he use to be all crazy and stuff and now he says he's stressed out1 i wanna do something! what can i do?! any suggestions?
Just say "if there is something you want to talk about you can tell me, i am here. i will listen to you." "you have been acting weired lately and i really want to find out whast wrong with you. Please talk to me, just tell me" something like thats. Just tell him how you feel and it will be all good.
good luck!
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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?
I think you should just tell her flat out how you feel. If you dont know what to say just be like "i think its really annoying that you talk about your b/f everyday. im not trying to be mean but its for your own good. i dont want to hear about your sex life" something like that.
if you just tell her how you feel then it will be OK.
good luck!!
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Well my boyfriend and his ex friend want me to pick which one i wanna be with cause there so competitive between each other for me. but i don't think i should have to pick what should i tell them?
Just say"look, you two are both my friends and i want to stay friends with both of you. i really dont want to pick between you two b/c i want to be both of your friends, cant we all just be friends?" or something like that. If you just tell them how you feel then tey will understand.
good luck!!
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I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/
Just get involved in lots of activities you enjoy. Or just say..no i dont need anything. or if you go to take more of something just say to yourself no i dont need that. or something like that.
good luck!!
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this guy who likes me (Kyle) and i like him well we haven't gotten into a relationship just yet! but there is a rumor that me and another guy (Mark) are going out! and when i see Kyle looking at me when i'm flirting with Mark! and that gets him upset. what do i do? and what if mark does ask me out?! what do i tell kyle?
Well it really depends on who you like more. If you like Kyle more then you can still talk to Mark just dont make it seem like u like him like that. But if you like Mark then just dont make Kyle think you like him like that. But if you are looking for something to tell Kyle if Mark does ask you out (which you dont 'have' to say yes if u donr like him) just say "oh im sorry i cant, maybe next time" or something like that..
good luck!...sry its soo long!
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I love the air force 1 nike shoes. They look nice and they are in style in my school right now. But Im wondering...do they sell them in womens sizes and where can I get them besides the internet? What is the average cost? Thanks so much!
I know a place where you can get a real sweet deal for shoes. The place is called Dimmers Shoe Store. They sell great long lasting shoes for a great price,
good luck!!
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ok i made ya'll a holiday song! and it goes like this: happy! - holidays, have a happy!- christmas, kwanza, channuhah, halloween, thanksgiving, new year! and then have a happy happy happy birthday! with a cup of cheeer! after chrismas buy me some birthday gifts - its the perfect time of year! and then when my birthday comes - buy me some more! oh have a holly jolly thanksgiving - then buy some easter eggs for your bestest friend- get her more than a cup of cheeeerrr! buy me aaa $h!% !0@& of candy, some perfect lights from the can - this song makes no sense and i got you a can of... - well - a can of the "can" for x/mas and so its your year! i hope santa claus brings you a rag with - some old beer! and i changed my mind - i want to get u the orange stuff that i just found in my ear! F**K the visa card and the american express - the only thing you need to celebrate this holiday is a a thoughtfull present! - from my ear - and maybe a nice song like this to get you in the mood to spend all yer c@$h!
happy holidays, lots of love,
from,
~JJ~
or better known as -
julie!
hohoho
merry christmas!
hahaha...that rocks my socks!
lylas
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Where in Pa do you live? I live in the Poconos. if you don't want to post it email me at katesheeley14@hotmail.com
*Kate*
Hey. I am not sure if i know you but i will try and E-mail you. And who knows...maybe we met before and we just dont know it.
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Some years ago, I really liked this guy . The thing is that now I want to get over him . It was always a game of getting him jealous or making me jealous, and that's so pitiful and childish . I fell into that game cause I have liked, maybe loved, this guy for at least two years . I want to get over him and I am at the door step of doing that . So back to present reality . He has a girl, who he treats bad and all, and I have no one . He follows other girls , pays no attention to the girl he's with, and acts like he has a stick up the @## and it's so annoying me . No one deserves to be treated that way . I can't help but worry if things would've been different or would do the same to me . Guys help me out. What do you think, and why do some guys do this ? He continues the jealousy and looking game and I can't stand it . I want to move on , but somethings keeping me here at the doorstep . I want to be free but I can't fully do it . Why? Oh, please help me . I'll rate truthfully .
I think you should just tell him how he is acting and how you feel about it. Explain to him that its not ok to treat people badly. And if you want him to stop the games just say something like this :"look, i dont want to play these silly childish games anymore, and stop treating people mean and showing off, its just not cool" something like that. And dont be shy to tell him either.
good luck!!
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ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:
your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers
sounds bad enough, right?
well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.
she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her
thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas
helllp me
I think you should talk to your dad. i mean really talk to him. Just tell him how you feel. And if your mom doesn`t know about this other lady i think you should tell her. I think your mom is the first person who needs to know. If she know she can fix it.
good luck!!
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my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??
-kristi
I think you should go for it. If she cheated on him she must not like him like that. And she said it was ok so i think you should.
sry its so short!
good luck!!
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