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i was just wondering. is there anyone on this website that wears pads instead of tampons? cause i've tried so many times and read the directions but i just couldnt put a tampon in. also if you wear pads do you play sports? cause i do and i wear pads and i wanna know if its bad. i think its really uncomfortable though. thankss. (link)
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I didn't start wearing tampons til I got to college. I played sports sometimes and I refused to go swimming when I was on my period cause I think it is grose, but that is me. There is a hole in your vagina. I'm not sure if the hole is the vagina, I think the vagina is the whole area but the hole that the penis would go in, it is right below where you urine out of. Take a mirror and look at it, spread your legs open and take a look down there, there's a hole. That is where the tampon goes. Sometimes i take a little vasaline and put on the tampon so it goes in easier, cause i was a virgin when I first used one and it hurt me until i put vasiline on it. ok babe. Peace
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i was just wondering, does everyone e? and is it bad for you? is it bad for you during your period? thanks for answering. (link)
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Not everyone does it. I didn't used to do it because I was raised religiously that it was wrong. But I got over that as I got more into my studies and my personal beliefs on sexuality and decided that I wanted to be ok with it. It took a lot of emotional release techniques to get that guilt out of my head but I did it, It is so SO SO SO HEALTHY for your body. Sex is healthy and nothing is more healthy than doing it your self. Masturbating is apart of loving your self and knowing your self. And yes it is ok to do it when you are on your period. (NOT SEX! But masturbation. I do not suggest sex while you are menstrating, but that's my personal thing. Do you.) Maybe a lot of people do it and wont admit to it, and and maybe a lot of people do it, and maybe a lot of people don't do it cause it's grose hahaha But WOW DOES IT FEEL GREAT! hahahaha
Just make sure you have a towel next to you so you can whipe your hands and you know what you could do! You could lay down with your legs up in the shower and let the water hit on that area, or if you have one of those detachable shower heads that they use a lot in europe, the kind you can pull off and hang back up and put it on massage and aim it right there. YEAH! THAT'S THE GOODNESS HAHAHA. This way you don't have to get your hands or your d!#do dirty. HMMMM hehehe. Peace.
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I was molested by a family member of mine when I was little. I don't remember what happened at all and I've questioned my sexuality since I was 11 or 12 years old.
I've been afraid of penis' since I started fooling around with guys at 13.
I don't know what it is but unless I'm "under the influence" I can't muster up the guts to go down on my most current boyfriend.
Now, I've done it before but every time there's a new guy involved, I freak out.
I really feel like I'm being selfish to my boyfriend. I've also talked to my sister and him about it, but it just seems like there's nothing anyone can say to make me feel better about the whole thing.
What in the world should I do? (link)
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Well babe first of all i think it's really brave for you to admit to people that you have been through this type of challenge. Secondly you... ok Only do what is comfortable for you sexually. You don't have to go down on anyone unless you are ready willing and able. There are a lot of people in the world who don't do that, or do it with only certain people. It is not a requirement. Third I suggest that you get your self emmersed in some emotional release techniques like the Sodona Method. It is really necessary for you to get all of that fear and anger and confusion out of your system so you can live your life the way you want to. Go to Barnes and Nobles or Borders or the Library and read some books in the self help section and the psychology and child psychology section. There is some really good stuff there to help you get over your sexual uncomfortability. And lastly if you feel like you want to, and if you want to spend the money, go to a psychiatrist and talk about it with them. Hope it gets better for you. Peace and Love
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13/f
hi well i have this friend Hanna and i have this other friend Marc and they use to go out but i think that Marc likes me...
i mean i'm started to like him to and he shows alot of signs like on my space i'm like on his top friends before a lot of people he's known longer. i catch him randomly staring at me in the classroom(i sit behind him). He's really causious of me like when i was crying at school the other day he was there and kept asking me if i was ok and if there was any thing he could do.
But hanna saw him and i sitting by eachother and she got jealous so she stopped talking to me and i was all like that's stupid because we were just talking about homework. then the next day she asked me if i liked him and i lied and said no i see him only as a friend....
she probably knew i lied because she still stopped talking to me...
and i know the saying "chicks before dicks" but i'm so close to him it's like i tell him everything and shes not even that close idk
wat should i do if he asks me out?
HELP please!!
&& thanks a bunch!!!!! (link)
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I had a friend of mine do some grimmy stuff like sleep with my ex's and stuff and it was bogus, but the problem I had with her is that she never once asked me before she did it if I was ok with it. The truth is you gotta do what you feel, if you feel like this dude is worth sacraficing your friendship then do what you gotta do, I would talk to your friend and be honest about your feelings about the dude and at least give her a chance to get used to the idea. Maybe he did her dirty and she doesn't want that to happen to you. But it really comes down to what is more important to you. If this dude could be the one then you gotta be with him, But if it's just like a 2 week crush kiss kiss thing then i would say it's not worth the friendship. Do what is in your heart though ma. That's all you can do. Peace.
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You know how people say if you have a positive attitude, good things will come your way or whatever? Well yeah it seems like whenever I'm in a good mood and I'm confident, I'm really happy and good things happen to me. But half the time, I'm in a really bad mood and bad things seem to happen to me. It's so annoying. I wish I could be in a good mood all the time instead being in a bad mood half the time. The littlest things put me in a bad mood, too. Like if I get a lot of homework in English class I'm pissed off for the whole day. Argggg. Is there anything I could do to, like, help me get out of a bad mood when I'm in one? I also get really mad at everyone when I'm in a bad mood too lol. Help? (link)
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There are a few books you should check out. They are on DVD too if you don't really like to read. They are called "The Secret" and "What the Bleep do we Know" They are both about Quantum Physics and Creating the life that you desire through Creative Visualization. Also check out "The Power of Positive Thinking". I used to he horridly depressed. Even to the point of suicidal. I used to cut my self and everything. The fact is that evertime you experience something there are cells that are created in your body that need to be nourished and the more you nourish them the more you need. So you like me have been nourishing depression cells and you have to start making more happiness cells. You gotta take those little things and make something interesting or funny or positive out of them as hard as it may seem. The more you work on it the easier it will get and if you work hard enough eventuall you will be like me and others who get sad but don't have to wallow in it anymore. Peace and Positivity.
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hi i haven't really had any male role models in my life and its awkward showing my boyfriend affection..
how do i get more comfortable? (link)
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Well I didn't have a male role model either and my mom wasn't very affectionate except when she wanted to be. She got phobias with touching. But I wanted that affection so badly, yeah it is awkward at first but just take it slow. Talk to the dude about it and just do what feels nice to you. Know the difference between uncomfortable and unexperienced. Hugging and wraping arm in arm is a lot more comfortable than holding hands so try that too. Holding hands is so awkward for anyone hahaha. Peace
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Okay, so my boyfriend has a little cousin and she is veryyy large. She turned 5 in the beginning of February (Feb 2nd, ironically enough Groundhogs day haha.) and weighs around 110. We are both very close to her, and care for her alot.. but her weight is downright unhealthy and I just wish there was something more we can do. Her parents seem to be unphased by her weight and just don't really acknowledge it. This obesity runs in their family and so does Diabetes. (Lucky for me, my boyfriend doesn't have either) But we just don't know what to do with her.. take her running? Haha I really am at a loss. Any feedback would be FANTASTIC!! Thanks!! ♥ (link)
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I'm gonna agree with the other people. I definately think that you should attempt to tell her parents when she isn't around just to see where they stand with the whole thing and you know just do your part. When you are with her tell her how beautiful she is and teach her about organic natural food and a balanced liveit. Eating right and playing outside and stuff. Like the guy said get her in a child sport she'll really like so she'll wanna do it all the time. Peace
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is there any shampoo recipes i guess thats wut you w ood call it that u can make ur own shampoo (link)
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Yeah! All you gotta do is buy some neutral smelling shampooh and get some oils from the candle shop. you could even take some flowers and soak them and get the scent out, and you just take whatever you like i.e. vitamin e or shea butter and mix it all together and try it out. you know experiment. Be careful and make sure everything is good for your hair. Then make some labels on the comp. hahaha Peace.
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its so fucking annoying. this entire year so far i've probably missed the bus about 15 times. and now my mom is fed up with driving me to school (my dad used to do it but he leaves for work very early now) so she makes me stay home. this is the 2nd time i have to stay home.. idk im so fucking disorganized with everything. after tidying my room (which will take me like 1-3 days to do.. cuz i get distracted) it just gets messy during the week and then i go through the same brutal weekend ritual of cleaning it and then it just gets messy later. i dunno why my mom obsesses over that. i wanna clean it when i want to. but honestly i dont give a damn what it looks like unless visitors or something are there. i can find things in the mess too. nothings wrong with it being neat but its hard to maintain it. same with the bus.. well not really but all the time it happens.. this is the 2nd time this week iv'e missed it and im so mad because today was hat day and i had this cute had i wanted to wear. ive done everything else.. i took a shortcut to a diff bus stop in a diff neighborhood twice when i missed my regular one till my bus driver told me not to do that anymore or she'll like call the police or something. once i went with my aunt and lied my mom wasnt home because i knew she'd make me stay home all day. i got in alot of trouble for that.. and another time i went with my friend's nanny who i hardly knew.. i knew i could have gotten murdered but she doesnt seem the type and she's seen me go to school with her well the girl she babysits since like elementary school (im a 7th grade now. a girl by the way). but if i told my parents they'd kill me. not that i'd do that again. but seriously.. i've done everything.. i even considered walking like.. 5 miles to get to my school... or ride my bike.. even though it goes through like a highway and like a woody area and like 2 train tracks. i even considered going on the 5th and 6th graders bus but then i thought that i may not be able to do that either. this reaaaaally sucks. and now my mom wants me to clean my room.. maybe she'll drop me at school then? probably not. IM SO FUCKING ANNOYED. I dont even usually curse but now i feel like cursing every second. its already 11am and school started at 9. and the school called and asked where i was or something and i said i was absent cause i missed the bus and nobody would drop me. i didnt add the fact that my mom was home and she also had a car. well she isnt home now. shes out. im not even supposed to be online or watch tv or listen to the radio. just clean my room. im about to wash my clothes.. but seriously how can i fix all of this? im extremely extremely pissed off. (link)
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Honestly dude if you are missing the bus that is your fault and you can't really be mad at your mom for you messing up. Yeah it would be cool for her to take you and she should but you have a responsibility to do your growing up thing. You gotta take a shower at night and pick your clothes out at night like home boy said and you know set like 2 or 3 alarms then you gotta do it. It's responsibility. And be safe, ride with people you know. Try to figure out why you over sleep all the time and change that. Peace. Oh and i keep a dirty room too but you know when in rome do as the romans. When you get your own crib you keep it how you want babe. Peace.
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i really like this guy
whos i guess my friend, because i sit with him at lunch and stuff, and hes in the group of people i hang out with, but me and him dont talk that much, like we talk to everyone else even more and when we do talk its like for 2.2
but ive caught him looking at me once, no idea if that helps.
But anyways my best friend, flirts alot and i think she likes him too but wont admit it and i think he likes her.
But idk
how can i get him to like me or something or us to be closer friends
and i dont care if they date, well i do but idont want to say anything thatd be dumb too. Its life we need to live
xox help please! (link)
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Honestly in my humble opinion, you gotta just grab your "balls" and ask him. Get ready for whatever he says. If you already asked your GF and she said that she doesn't like him and doesn't care if you date him then she can't get mad if he says yes. If you like him you gotta just take that chance. Get your heart prepared and everything and you know if you get rejected then fine you'll get over it, But wow! If he says yes! It is gonna be so awesome and you are gonna be so glad you did. Do what you feel and don't be scared. Peace
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what happens when you eat too many vitamin tablets in one day? i just ate 3 and i wanna eat another becuause they taste so good! lol its the childrens ones.. its kinda like the flinstones tablets but they are kinda bigger. it says to only eat 1 daily though.. what could the side effects be? idk.. (link)
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Why don't you just buy some tasty snacks and snack on them? Maybe you just want something sweet and crunchy. Try some grapes or something organic. Yeah but don't go crazy on the vitamins. Not healthy. Peace
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Ok I like this guy lets just say his nme is Bob.
So i told BOB i like him then he sent his friends to talk to me
they were like sooo BOB has a thing for u and what would you say if he asked you out? i told them i would say yes. But that was the week of valentines day.he also told like all my friends he was gonna ask me out after Vday because he didnt wanna buy me a present!(GURRRRR)But about a week ago this girl asked him out HE SAID YES!
i really want to date this kid! but hes dating someone else! theres no way im going to get over him unless i like move skools wich isnt an option
What should i do????
HELP!!! i luuuuv BOB (link)
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What I wanna know is why you like this dude if he is bogous and cheap! Are you serious. You have to know that you are worth more than that. First of all he didn't want to buy you a valentine! How much is a valentine. Like all of $5? He couldn't make you one? Get the F*@k outa here! Second he gets you all excited and then dates another chick! Are you kidding me? I wouldn't settle for that. How does anyone else feel?
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Ok. So my boyfriend is one of them guys who will kick anyones ass and win. He likes to flaunt it to...and i know he can ive seen it. But the other day ago this one dude was pushing me around like i was a guy. And he pushed me in the wall (in front of my boyfriend) and my boyfriend didnt do shit. But its like if my boyfriend sees someone else in the hall way getting pushed around like that by a dude it seems like he'd say something. I was really pissed at him about it so you think i had a reason or i was just over reacting? Because being he's been my boyfriend for 6 months id expect him to stick up for me. (link)
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Hmmm. Well I never date a guy that can't stick up for me. Honestly you gotta ask him what happened. Be very calm and understanding so he doesn't get defensive and tell him he can be honest with you. Maybe he is scared of this guy. Maybe this guy has something on him that you don't know about or maybe he owes him something, in high school i tell you, you never know. I would talk to him. If he can't give you a good explination I would really think about your relationship and how much he values you and your safety. And take some Karate hahaha Peace
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Can you get a pimple, down there? I've been recently tested for STD's and everything came back clean. I popped it and everything. I was wondering if it could be a pimple, because that's what it looks like. (link)
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Sometimes when I was younger I used to get them down there right before my period. I imagine you can get a pimple anywhere hahaha back legs head nose vagina etc
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theres a song... its deffinently done by an indie band... and I have no idea who sings it! I heard it on someones myspace but their song was hidden. it was a rock song and the guy didn`t really scream, but he sang kinda loudly, if that makes sense? and in the chorus there was some screaming. in the chorus it went "but then you said that you can do this on your own. well i'm sorry baby i can't aid [or hate] you"
and then at the end it got more quiet and the lyrics went "now you see that the sky has turned black" and another two lines that I can't remember. please help if you have any ideas!
p.s. i deffinently tried google by typing in the lyrics, i asked the guy [but he didnt respond back], and i even did that tapping-the-beat website but nothing worked. thanks. (link)
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I put those lyrics in yahoo and I got this link check it out...
http://www.myspace.com/benjaminchristian
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I just realized what you said. Yeah I checked and that is all I got so I don't know maybe just keep trying to message him and maybe he will respond and tell you what song it is from. maybe? Peace. Good Luck!
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15/f. i hooked up with one of my really close guy friends who happens to be a senior on sat night. so we were talking about it and let's just say i'm not that experienced (even though he doesn't know that) and i was saying that i'm a boring person and he said "well you're certainly not a boring kisser." is that a good thing? (link)
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of course. If he said it in a complimentary way then heck yeah! He likes how you kiss. Peace
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I amg etting tured of hearing people say that my boyfriend is too old for me... we are 4 years apart... my Q is.. how do I get people to accept it and see us for who we are and not our age. we dont like each other because age.. we like each other for who we are. i am 15 he is 18... and i dont need anyone else telling me he is too old for me.. and my parents like him... and we like each other for the right reasons... just how do i get people to stop judging me for who I am with? (link)
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The best thing to do is to not try to get them to accept it. Do what you do ma. If you are ok and he is ok and the folks are ok then that's all that matters! If they say something just smile and say ok to each his own and that's it. Besides if you were 20 and he was 23 then it wouldn't be a big deal to anyone hahaha. if you were 40 and he was 43 who would care right. Do you. Peace.
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where do babys come from.
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This isn't the most scientific answer but... When the sperm from a man's body (balls going throuhg penis) goes into a woman's vagina and hits her eggs and goes in her egg and you know everything goes according to plan the baby starts to form in the utirious or whatever and then you know it starts growing and then eventually you got a baby and they gotta either push it out through the vaginal hole or they gotta cut it out of the stomach area. Peace. Get a book from the library on the birth process.
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I have heard a number of things.. and there all different.. My Q is... is it called child molesting.. or rape or whatever for someone over 18 to date a miner, Date... with no sex.
Please anwser only if you know the correct anwser... no assuming.. just facts. (link)
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Yup! That's the law. No sex No rape. Sex (whether they like it or not = rape) Wait dude. Wait. Peace
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17/m
Aight, i'm confused
my girlfriend tried explaining how tampons work? because i wanted to have sex and she couldnt because her tampon or something? ok, if the tampon goes in the same hole, does that mean she can have pleasure from it?
signed,
clueless (link)
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hahaha only if she uses it to masturbate but that would be like a really really hahaha really small penis HAHAHAHA but yeah they do go in the same hole. But you know what about ummm licking her titties and stuff?
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