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He's my Friends ex-BF
13/f
hi well i have this friend Hanna and i have this other friend Marc and they use to go out but i think that Marc likes me...
i mean i'm started to like him to and he shows alot of signs like on my space i'm like on his top friends before a lot of people he's known longer. i catch him randomly staring at me in the classroom(i sit behind him). He's really causious of me like when i was crying at school the other day he was there and kept asking me if i was ok and if there was any thing he could do.
But hanna saw him and i sitting by eachother and she got jealous so she stopped talking to me and i was all like that's stupid because we were just talking about homework. then the next day she asked me if i liked him and i lied and said no i see him only as a friend....
she probably knew i lied because she still stopped talking to me...
and i know the saying "chicks before dicks" but i'm so close to him it's like i tell him everything and shes not even that close idk
wat should i do if he asks me out?
HELP please!!
&& thanks a bunch!!!!!
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I had a friend of mine do some grimmy stuff like sleep with my ex's and stuff and it was bogus, but the problem I had with her is that she never once asked me before she did it if I was ok with it. The truth is you gotta do what you feel, if you feel like this dude is worth sacraficing your friendship then do what you gotta do, I would talk to your friend and be honest about your feelings about the dude and at least give her a chance to get used to the idea. Maybe he did her dirty and she doesn't want that to happen to you. But it really comes down to what is more important to you. If this dude could be the one then you gotta be with him, But if it's just like a 2 week crush kiss kiss thing then i would say it's not worth the friendship. Do what is in your heart though ma. That's all you can do. Peace.
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hi,
I think that you should just go and do whatever you want to do. If your friend Hanna isnt really there for you or if she really isnt as close to you as him, than she really isnt your friend. Friends are supposed to be close and if shes not than you guys really arent friends. Think about that first and talk to her about that. Talk to her and see how she feels about you and this guy going out. if shes ok with it than go for it and if she makes a huge deal about it tell her how you feel about him. Maybe she will come around. So if you really like him go out with him if he asks you or you can ask him. It might be hard at first not being able to talk to her if shes not willing to talk to you but believe me she will come around eventually. I had the same problem when i started going out with my boyfriend my friends really didnt talk to me because they thought that i was betraying them by going out with him after my other friend did. But she got over it and over him and now we r like best friends. So maybe your friend really istn over him yet. maybe thats why shes jealous or upset. Ask her about that and see watsup with her and her feelings towards him. Ok well good luck with everything and if you have anymore quesionts feel free to ask me at any time!
~katelyn~
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