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alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high

hah i agree with spike397

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I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it??

sleep dummy

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my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.

i rate very high.

signed confused friend.

tell her and be nice

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hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??

i wiah i had freckles! they hide ur pimples!

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I have taken an overdoes bcoz of my exs engagement. I hated being in hospital. And i promised my mum i'd never do it again but resently ive felt low enough too. i dont know how to stop myself. my life is spining outa control what am i gona do?

what are you thinking! dont do it again! TALK TO A THERAPIST

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ok so lately all ive felt like doing is crying whenever someone says something to me i wanna cry even if its nice and im always yelling at my mom n my sister just so they leave me alone and i get annoyed by the easiest things.and my sister is MR(mentally retarded) n she gets on my nerves sooo bad cuz she doesnt know when to shutup! i hate being mean to her! n like yesterday we were out and these 3 guys were making fun of her and i just went off on them i dunno what happened it just came outta the middle of nowhere. i get pissed off so easily..but i never used to be like that.ive been sleeping alot n being really tired.Whats wrong wit me? i rate high! thanx!

its called being a teenager

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Am really close to my older cosin and all ways have been. She started seeing this guy james ive known a while. They both love each oyher very much but the problem is she NEVER spens time with me any more. I was the 1 that got them together and now my jobs done am left behind. I know it will end in tears and she'll come runing bak but am stuk for what to do just now.

stop whining and talk to her

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Last night I was on MSN talking to one of my friends (tom) and my boyfriend (Jon) while they were at Jon's house. Tom asked me what I would do if Jon broke up with me so I asked if he was and Tom said maybe. Later on I asked again and Jon said he wasn't. This morning I asked my other friend (who is Jon's friend) if Jon was going to break up with me and he said yes. I tried texting Jon last night asking about it but he hasn't replied. I don't know what to think. Dan and Tom try to break me and him up alot and I don't know whether this is just another attempt.

i think hes gunna break up with you

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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f

no- use a tampon, they are way easier and you can do more stuff with a tampon

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Hi well see my locker mate is the hottest guy in school and well I was standing at our locker and he came up and asked me out when he already had a gurlfriend!!! I couldnt say no then his gurlfriend came up and asked why was he french kissing me and he said that they were threw and she slapped him!! he called me 10 minutes ago asking if he could stay the night with my older bro and heis over here right now what do I do?!!! we sit together and stuff but then we make out like there's no tomorrow!!! my friend came in on us and she isnt talking to me why??? Plz I really need ur help His name is Jason and he's from france! what did I do to make my friend mad at me?

ur a slut? and maybe she liked him too

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I am always paranoid that people are lying to me. My boyfriend will say something nice like: I think you are beautiful and I just can't accept it. I am always convinced that my boyfriend doesn't really like me and wants to break up with me. What should I do?

umm trust people?? i swear everyone isnt out to get you- if ur bf asked yououthe must like you @ least a little

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I get migranes all the time! Does anybody know what may be causing it? I dont know much about migranes. My mom and I get them all the time! I usually take advil or asprin, or something. Do you get migranes? What works well for you?

when i gte migranes i take sleeping medcine and they go away when i go tot sleep
also turn on relaxing music...that helps me

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my bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. actually, my bf's friend-lets call him joey broke up with me for my bf-lets call him mike. when joey broke up with me for mike, mike was at joeys house. my 3 best friends told me that mike said he didnt want to break up with me and that joey just said that mike was breaking up with me. they talked to mike after the breakup and he said joey told me that him and me were over so he was afraid to call me. so i called him tonight because i just found out about the whole thing and he said that wasnt how it happened. but i know that my friends would never lie to me, especially about that. then i told him i couldnt stop thinking about him and i think i gave him a bit of a shock because after i told him he couldnt say anything. i could tell he was trying to say something and i know he doesnt have a gf but then i said he should come hang out with me and all my friends he's friends with and he said ok and he promised me he would come. do you think he still likes me? cuz we havent had relationships after we got broken up...do you think he still likes me and should i give him some time to think? thanx, blind and confused

u need to talk to him face to face. stop with all this stupid using ur friends as messengers! all it gets u is breakups and confusion

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i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious

theres this thing called and IRREGULAR PERIOD
btw somtimes if ur skinny then you dont get ur period that month. you have to have 20% body fat to get ur period. once i didnt gte mine for elike 3 months and then once i have mine everyday for a whole month! it is just weird like that. plus ur just starting and you cant totally rely on one day a month to start.

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




u never know... what if it is some fat ugly old man who is making up some lame ass story just so you guys can "cyber" or w/e .... i say dont do it. online relationships are stupid neways...its not liek you can actually do anything like go out with them unless ur ideal date is kissing the computer screen, know what i mean?

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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting?

ur friends a bitch

u are def not overreacting. i would be sooo effing mad!!! beat her up or something

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Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious..

she needs to go to a counsler and her mom is dumb not to beleive her
tell her to tell another adult like a teacher or neighbor
talk to her and figure out whats goin gon in her head
make sure she knows everyone cares about her
fix boyfrined problem

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Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!

what school do you go to?

ok first of all it is like a common gene girls share that they cant keep a secret and they have like a crazyneed for gossip...its nit like they could help it...it just comes

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Hello, I have a question about embryonic stem-cell research. It was brought to me that the embryo is still alive when it gets sent to a lab, and then the scientists grow it. And the embryo then gets killed when the stem-cells are removed from it. I was told today that the embryo is already dead from an abortion when they do the research on it. I don't believe that, but I need some feedback to see which choice is really correct. Thanks

wtf?

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Hey! I might sound stupid for asking this, but I really want to know. I was talking to this really cute kid about my birthday. He's kind of a minor pothead. Anyways he likes me. I was asking him what he was going to get me for my birthday, and he said he was gunna get me a G, and a platinum necklace. Yeah, so I was just wondering, what is a G? does it have to do something with weed (he knows i dont smoke) or does it have to do with jewelry? Or something else? I'd appreciate anyone whos answers this question and I'll rate high! Thankins in advance!

ITS A THONG..DUMMY

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