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Hey! The most important things in my life are: boys, friends, family, having fun, music, dancing, photograhpy, writing, ect.

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ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck

who do you like more? sounds like you like Johnny more. Tell your boyfriend you don't think it's working out, tell him that you guys never go anywhere, and just tell him how you feel. then go for johnny, if thats what you want. If not just wait till you and your boyfriend breaks up with you.

Ok, this guy I have liked forever told me somethings last night i confused me a bit. Well to start things off, we went to a dance at our school. When i got home i talked to him on AIM. He said he really screwed things up when it came to this he liked. He said that he thought she kept eyeing him throughout the whole thing. Which i was doing. Then he said that he never asked her to dance but he could tell that she wanted to...but he never had enought courage...and i never danced with him, but i deff. wanted to. But the wierd part was he never told me who it was...he refused, he usually always gives me a name of the he likes...so im wondering if its me this time. Please help me...i rate high

It probably is you, ask him out!

okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend

this sounds serious and you should talk to your friend about seeing professional help.

the other day this guy i fancy asked me to go out with him so obviosly i said yes.....the thing is although he "asked me out" but i dont think we will ever actually go out to places....so i dont know if theres is any point in the relationship....HELP PLEASE!!!!!

thanx

Kim xxxx

call him up and ask him if he wants to go to the movies or invite him to your house.

17-f so i have this really good friend...a guy...and we've been friends for three years. I love spending time with him because hes just about the funniest person i know. We have a lot in common too and now since we've been friends for so long he knows me really well. Anyways for a while now im beginning to think that he likes me. I dont like him that way. How do i tell him that i dont like him without actually doing it. And if i need to tell him outright...how do i do that without hurting him?

Well he hasn't told you that he likes you... so you dont have to hurt him now. but don't lead him on or give him a reason to think that YOU likeh im.

Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help!

garlic :)

What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High**

I LOVE COFFEE! (with stuff in it ofcourse) Try the flavored creamers like the french vanilla, they are really good. I also like to put chocolate or vanilla powder in mine, or you could try chocolate or vanilla syrup.

Hey..I think its SO cool that you used to live in california! Omg i love cali so much cuz ive been there a couple times! Just wondering have you ever been to Orange county or Laguna Beach?? Haha theyre my fave tv shows

I lived in Orange County all my life until about 4 months ago I moved to Texas. I really miss it. I lived in Laguna Niguel, Costa Mesa, and then I lived in Irvine for 8 years.

For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*

Good Riddance by Green Day. It's an awesome song. Anyways, watch MTV and VH1 in the mornings, they play popular songs, and watch TRL on Mtv.

There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa*

Tell some of your friends that you can trust, it may help you not think about him so much.

my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

you can't. :)

i want my hair to grow longer but i dont have really thick hair adn mine takes forever to grow. its blonde and sholder length but i want it past my boobs any ideas on what to take or what to do to get long locks??
muha
Lisa

When people say trim your hair every month to make them grow faster.. that is not true. It is just a old wife's tail. It will not do anything to speed up growth. You just have to wait. On average your hair will grow about half and inch a month. I'm growing my hair out too. They do have pills and special shampoo and stuff but I doubt they actually work. Hope this helps.

ok last week i had a test coming up in math but i thought it was a quiz so i didn't study very much 9cause i got all the homework questions right) but during the test i didn't understand a lot of questions. i got my test back today and i got 25 out of 40! my parents are really spaztic and i know they will get really mad at me. i know u will say not to tell them but my homework is to get it signed by a parent! i dont know how i should tell them! please help me! i rate really well!

Talk to you teacher about retaking the quiz or ask her if there is some way that you can make your grade higher. It depends on your teacher

Does anyone know any ways to peirce your belly button and like ways to make it not hurt! plz respond asap!!! i rate high!

You should numb it if your gonna do it yourself, but you should get it done by a pro so it doesn't get infected.

I have a new boyfriend at university, but I find myself keeping this news from my friends at home because I don't want it to get back to my ex-boyfriend, becase he is in a very fragile place at the moment and it would really hurt him to find out that I've moved on to somebody else. What I'm trying to do is protect my ex-boyfriend, because I still care about him and don't want to hurt him any more than is necessary, but I feel bad for misleading him and my other friends. Would it be better to just come clean, even if it hurts him in the short term, or should I wait until he's in a better place until I break the news?

You should tell him and your friends. Maybe not right away, but soon. Even though you and your EX still care about eachother, you are not together anymore, so you don't have to hide it from him.

There's this guy that I'm going out with, and he likes me alot, and I like him too. However, I know this girl who is not really my friend but sits at our table at lunch, and she isn't very pretty. Anyways, this girl and my boyfriend have a class together, and my friend told me later that the girl was flirting with my boy! She would ask him in a fakishly sweet voice if she could borrow something or other, etc. She also says hi to him whenever she sees him. My boyfriend doesn't like her at all and always ignores her whenever he can. What can I do to stop her from flirting with my guy?

If he doens't like her than there is nothing to be worried about. So don't be jealous.

As a post-election project. My teacher wants each of us to write and give an oral report about which party we support and why.
I am a communist, and communists tend to be frowned upon and I wouldn't feel right not doing it because I'm afraid of what other people would think.
So, should I do it on communism, or just pretend to be a republican?

I think you should for doing your report on communism if thats what you support, be yourself, who cares what people think. But if you pretend to be anything, be a democrat haha

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