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Well, two days ago, I ended up falling for my best friend, he told me he had dreams about me all the time and they were like sexual.. so then like he talked about fingering me and like making out and stuff.
so i went to the movies with him last night, and he fingered me but we didn't kiss at all? so i was like okay but i was about to give him a hand job and then he said something about his ex girlfriend, so then i didn't because that made me mad...
so im still talking to him like my best friend, and i told him that i like him, and he was like i like you too, but he wants to get back with his girlfriend, and he was like you should have told me before i was about to get back with her, but like the thing is i told him that it was a bad idea to do stuff because he like wants to get back with her, and i told him i didn't want him to use me and he says he likes me but i told him i didn't want to talk to him anymore, and he told me that he doesn't want to lose me because he is the only one he can trust, but like i don't know what to do because i really like him but like he likes me and his ex girlfriend, and i think he is going to pick her over me being since they have a past.
please give me ideas on what i should do, the faster the better. ):
thanks in advance. (link)
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If it was me I wouldn't be friends with him because I wouldn't want somebody using me like that and you got to think about how he talks to you and acts around you and see for yourself if he's worthy of you.
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ok so im a 15 year old girl and for two years idk
why but i think girls are hot i can't help but look at there bodies and stuff and i actually have and internet girlfriend but i know i like guys to but they don't really you know make me happy sexually i mean i can see myself doing it with a girl and a boy together but i can't with just a boy and idk why i need total help . i know for years ive been tryin to hide that i think girls are hotter than guys but know that im about to be 16 i want to figure out my sexuality and have it out in the open so i can start looking for that special someone so any advice will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance . (link)
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Only you can say if you're lesbian/bi/straight and nobody else can. Even if you have sex with girls you can still say you're straight and it would true.
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Hey 15/F
OK so there is this guy at my school, Sam. He is really nice and I think he is a really good friend but i think he might like me as more than a friend and i dont know what to do. And im like a huge flirt and i flrt sometimes without even knowing. So i think he might think that i like him too. When truly i dont. I really like having him as one of my friends but i know i would date him or anything it'd be to weird. So what do i do?? I still want him as my friend but nothing more than that. (link)
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Tell him upfront that you don't want to get into a relationship and that you're just flirting with him and say it firmly BUt don't be mean about it.
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Ok i know this sounds really weird but is it normal to really really really really like/love someone if you've never even met them like you know alot about them but you've never met them and not like your a stalker or something but like a celebrity that you've read alot about and yeah is it normal? like your completely and utterly in love with and totaly attracted to them like you get butterflies when you hear thier name or thier voice or read somehting about them or see a picture of them or a video with them in it and stuff like that and that you litteraly cant see yourself with anyone else and you dont want to be with anyone else and you want to experience EVERYTHING with them but there that chance of never meeting them i mean what are your odds of marrying a celebrity or even meeting them and becoming friends with them? ok i know that was long, confusing, and theres lots of mistakes but please jsut answer it (link)
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Lol I had that feeling about Tony Hawk. It's really just a phase that may last a long time, but will evenually wear off even if you don't think it will.
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Every weekend my boyfriend gose to his moms or to his friends. He hates to use the phone but I ask him to call me so that we can talk and he never dose. I end up crying most of the time because we never talk over weekends or vacations..What should I do?
Love Funsize (link)
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I don't know what to say but the only thing I can think of is that he's either cheating on you, or he's just getting tired of you for some reason. Or maybe he just doesn't like using the phone. Try confronting him about it, make him talk about why he doesn't call you when he doesn't.
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my bf and my ex are good friends and when we are hanging out together and hes there he always talks about things that happened when we were together and stuff and he tries to make my bf think that me and him did stuff and its weird..and like my best friend..and my exs gf was there and when she left is when he started talking about all this..whats going on? (link)
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He's either jealous or just a donkey (Lol you know what I mean.) He can't stand the thought of you being happy with another person and he's probably miserable with her but he just hides it.
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you know when you dont really like a person but you know they like you and since they are constantly being nice to you, you kinda feel like you like them?
but then you know that deep down you dont REALLY like them. yet, all you do is flirt with them and in a way lead them on. well this guy that likes me goes to a different school than me and i really dotn think he should even like me because he doesnt know enough about me to like me. yet i being a carefree sagittarius cant control my flirting on myspace which is a completely unreliable website to begin with..
so if he asks me out or confesses his love for me again which im sure he will eventually, how can i tell him its a no without being completely rude and hurtful?
thanx =] (link)
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Just be honest. Tell him there is other people for him out there, and that he is probably only infatuated with you and not really in love with you.
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what are some funny movies to watch with a group of boys and girls?
not somthing like superbad that could be awkward with guys around
thanks so much! (link)
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Try Airplane or one of the Monty Python movies if you want something really stupid, but stupid funny.
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me and this guy were together for like a day and a half I broke up with him cause we didnt talk much at school...well i continued to like him and now we might get back together 5 months later now that he has ended his 3 month relationship with his girlfriend and well he dosent want ne one to know we are together cause he is always to him self and dosent like my friends and well how do i keep him interested in me...I heard to play hard to get but IDK (link)
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He may not still like you as much as he used to, because he's saying that he doesn't want anybody to kow you two are together. Maybe he isn't worth keeping.
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ive been going out with this guy for awhile now and he just yesterday broke up with me out of no where and whats worse is he dosent really have a reason he says he still cares about me and has feeli for me but if he dosent break up with me now it will just be harder later i just dont understand and i dont know what to do do i try and win him back and make him realize we really had something or just move on and if i should move on please tell me how (link)
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If he did that then that probably meant he had lost interest in you for some reason, but if he doesn't tell you why, means he's a jerk and not really worth obsessing over, let alone to be loved.
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i like guys. im definitely attracted to guys, not just looks but everything, how they feel smell, hold you, whatever, but then i hang out with this one friend(girl), i question my feelings for girls. she gets near me and i get that same tingling sensation.then after i have those thoughts about her, i wonder if i like girls in general... cause i look at others like that too.
i dont know if im bi or gay or whatever, or is its just a girl crush or a phase, gimmmie alittle insight (link)
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Whether you gay, bi, or straight is completely up to you. If you think you have real feelings for this girl, don't deny yourself.
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is there any like cute teasing things to do to your boyfriend along the lines of kissing? (link)
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If you want to like make-out or something, you could tease him with fast regular kisses first. Some guys also like it if you nibble on their lip (gently)
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so I read a question that you had answered and you said you werent a virgin Im 15/f and still a virgin and I want to know does it hurt when you lose it>>>> (link)
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Yes it does hurt but it's because you're getting "loose" down there and it depends on how "fast" and "hard" the guy is going. But it goes along with how small you are already down there. The more often you have sex the more loose it gets, but it gets tight and loose off and on. (Don't worry it will still give you pleasure lol.)
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I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys? (link)
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Your virginity is the only thing that is completely yours and that nobody else can take. You would be better off is you didn't have sex at this age. You're a lot more unimmune to getting sexually transmitted dieases, and sex is not really worth it unless you're in love. I'm not virgin but I'm also 14. My boyfriend loves me and he waited for me. But still I think you should wait because if it happens too soon then you'll most likely regret it.
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ok ok ok, i am very wierded out right now. i just went round the girl i likes house, she likes me and i like her, her mum went out for about an hour and all she tried to do was get it on with me, now not that thatsa bad thing normally but shes got a boyfriend allready so 2 things run through my mind 1.) I SHOULDNT BE DOING THIS (which i tryed my best not to no matter how hard it was) and 2.) if shes like this with him why the hell wont she be like that with me if we were to go out???? i'm so exausted and nerve wrecked to think straight at this moment i dont have a clue what i'm doing anywere (link)
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It sounds like the only thing she wants with you and sex. She sounds like a couple of unpleasent words to me. She just wants to use you, so you really shouldn't care for her. If you two did go out, I have a feeling that she would do the same to you. So just forget about her, there are more girls that are worth a fight, but not her.
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Theres guy Ive liekd for a year and something nowww. And he use to like me when we were both in middle school but now hes in highschool and hes changed so much and hes being an asshole to me all of a suddden. But when we liked eachother, we hooked up and we did a little more then making out but not sex or anything. But that was the first time ive ever done somehthing like that with anyone. But then he stopped talking to me and hes a jerk now but I can NOT seem to get over him no matter whattt. Im always the one to talk to him first and it ends up in a fight usually or something. I called him once and he actually called me again after that and we talked a lot but one day he called and I didnt call backk and the next day I told him to call me n al he said was ughhhhhh. And ever since then weve never really talked even though Ive tried. How do I get over him or move on or anythinggg?
:) Thankss (link)
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If he's being a jerk, try to hammer that into your brain first of all. Remind yourself that there are better people out there, and you're too good for him. Next time if he tries to talk to you or bring you down, just toss your nose up into the air and walk away.
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16/f. alright. so today in school, we had lunch (as we always do) and my boyfriend has my lunch. apparently, so does his girlfriend. i usually wait for my boyfriend at a specific spot and we all meet up there (a group) to sit and socialize and stuff. well, today...i didn't see my boyfriend coming for a while. and i was standing with my friends. and i see him walk towards us..but he stops at where his ex girlfriend was sitting. he sees that im there, he makes eye contact with me, yet he goes to his girlfriend, says hi, kisses her (like as a hello)...and starts talking to her. without saying hello to me first. he talks to her for about 20 minutes..and then he comes and says hello to me as if he just saw me...yet he meets with us everyday. what do you have to say about this? i don't think he's taking me too seriously..he's in my grade btw. (link)
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If he's kissing her in front of you, or at all, that's a big red flag right there. You shouldn't stand for that, you have to confront him about it. That's wrong it really is and tell him if he doesn't want to be with you and only you, then it's over.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months, on and off. we really like eachother. we break up for stupid reasons. he gets me reallly angry sometimes. his friends used to like me, and tell me things. but in the past month, me&my boyfriend broke up & i was really hurt. all of his friends knew, they told him& blahblah, we got back. but then all of his friends started talking about me, as they pasted me in the halls.. they tell practicly everyone they hate me. its really bothering me, & me and my boyfriend barly hang out now. i approached one of his friends, who hates me the most, & asked him why he has problems with me & he was like i just dont like you haha and walked away laughiing with his friends. i dont know what to do, i cant even talk to my boyfriend because him&his friends are alll alike. this is realy bothering me (link)
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You really shouldn't care what they say if you really love your boyfriend. If they start saying crap about you, if your boyfriend really loces you, he would know they are not true. Just ignore them, that will really tick them off and sooner of later they should stop bothering you. Confront your boyfriend about it, tell him that you don't appreciate them talking to or about you like that. If he doesn't stick up, maybe you shouldn't be with him.
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okay so one of my best friends has an abusive boyfriend but she thinks it is ok. me and my other bff have tried talking to her about devonte (her boyfriend), but everytime they break up they get back together. he punches her and calls her names sometimes and hes always trying to take her stuff and look through it. how do i convince her to break-up with him for good this time. (just in case you want to know, a lot of guys think she is the prettiest [black] girl in the WHOLE school--devonte is-not to be rude- butt ugly,in nice terms) (link)
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Yeah you should get her help real quick. She's in denial because she thinks he loves her, but he doesn't because he wouldn't be hitting her or calling her names. Try calling some crisis hotlines or telling a trusted adult(parent, teacher, cop, etc.) and try to get both of them help, but mostly the boyfriend.
P.S. Love is not abuse
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ok look theres this boy who i use to go out wit but broke up and he goes wit someone else.now everytime i see him he is blowing kisses at me or flirting and touching me does that mean he still likes me or is he just teasing me please let me know (link)
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Umm it depends on how he does it. If he does it with a stupid little grin on his face, he's teasing. If he's not, he may still like you.
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