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i thought he was a best friend.


Question Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 5:55 pm

Well, two days ago, I ended up falling for my best friend, he told me he had dreams about me all the time and they were like sexual.. so then like he talked about fingering me and like making out and stuff.
so i went to the movies with him last night, and he fingered me but we didn't kiss at all? so i was like okay but i was about to give him a hand job and then he said something about his ex girlfriend, so then i didn't because that made me mad...

so im still talking to him like my best friend, and i told him that i like him, and he was like i like you too, but he wants to get back with his girlfriend, and he was like you should have told me before i was about to get back with her, but like the thing is i told him that it was a bad idea to do stuff because he like wants to get back with her, and i told him i didn't want him to use me and he says he likes me but i told him i didn't want to talk to him anymore, and he told me that he doesn't want to lose me because he is the only one he can trust, but like i don't know what to do because i really like him but like he likes me and his ex girlfriend, and i think he is going to pick her over me being since they have a past.

please give me ideas on what i should do, the faster the better. ):

thanks in advance.


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FrannieLouWho answered Sunday March 30 2008, 9:24 pm:
Thigs get so complicated with the friends or more boundry. I have a friend who likes me and i like him but i just cant date him because of the huge possibility of it ruinig our friedship. So ejoy him as a friend. Recognize you like him, but it's just not time. But no more hooking up, or he has no incintive to get with you.

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caitiebug6793 answered Sunday March 30 2008, 8:08 pm:
If it was me I wouldn't be friends with him because I wouldn't want somebody using me like that and you got to think about how he talks to you and acts around you and see for yourself if he's worthy of you.

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