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how do u make that hair style with your hairthat makes it curly ands scrunched? if anyone knows what i mean can u tell me how to do it>?

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if you have a perm or have had a perm, and it still curls when its wet. then scrunch it when its wet, style it, then use a lot of hiar spray. that will make it scrunch and stay. im not sure the other way.


OK I like this guy Named Chris But I used to Like this guy Named Matthew But the Day I met Chris was the Day I met Matthew In person And It was kinda Awkward Because I like Chris more and I dont want to hurt Matthews feelings So I didnt tell Matthew that Chris spent the night with Me But he found out by a friend But its ok I didnt tell her she couldnt tell!! so anywayz that night me and chris were laying down next to eachother and we started kissing ever since then We have had this big huge crush on eachother so But ok
Chris is really sweet, nice, comments me on stuff and kisses alot and hugs alot a cuddles alot And likes me for me which is really kewl
on the other hand
Matthew- Cocky, kinda mean, nice sometimes
comments on how Hott I am doesnt give me hugs, tells my friends there hott all the time in front of me talks about my friends 24/7 and U see why I dont like him
I just need to know How to tell HIm I dont like him but IN a nice way!! (link)
hmm...first of all, i think matthew is a little jealous. and i dont kno how you could tell him taht you dont like him. he probly kinda caught on after he found out that chris spent the night. you could just say, i'm not sure if i like you any more because you dont show affection and you talk bout how hott my friends are all the time and never say that you like me. sounds like you are more interested in them.


i have a problem with my ex boyfriend.... when i was going out with him he hit me a few times.... twisted my arm and hurt my side and i have bruses from him.... but lately i have been with him more and more and then last nite he kissed me and he told me that he loved me still... i don't know what to do? (link)
omg! he hit you? dont go back to him! you cant! he may say i wont do it again but he will trust me. same thing happend to my parents. YOU HAVE GOT TO GET OUT or things will just get worse. im serious.


mind you, im 18 years old.. and my guy friend is upset because awhile back ago his girlfriend broke up with him. hes become suicidal and everything, and i was always the one he can come talk to about all of his problems. well, recently, he got really upset with the girl, so he wanted to me IM her and tell her that im going to beat her up. i told him no, because im not going to beat her up if it has nothing to do with me. thats immature. everything about it. so he makes a fake sn and IM's her pretending to be me and talks a whole bunch of bullshit. which pissed me off when i found out, but i said nothing to him. anyway, the girl IM's me under my real sn and i told her i didnt say any of that shit. so now, my guy friend called me a "bitch" and said that he thought he could trust me. im pissed, but not really.. in any other situation, if someone calls me a bitch, theyre gettin beat the fuck up.. but hes my friend, so how should i go about this situation? (link)
tell him to get lost.


hey ive never been kissed, but at my friends party we're playing 7 minutes in heaven. i really wanna get my first kiss from the guy i like (whos invited, but has a g/f whos not) so i dunno what to do!! if u could help i rate =) (link)
dont kiss him. dont make him a hcheater..that could lead to some major problems.


You see, I used to go down to my cousins house and I would stay the night there because one of his friends moved in with him because his mom is a crazy bitch, so he was like and adopted cousin. But now my cousin still lives at home and my adopted cousin moved out with his girlfriend, who is really nice and all, but now i barely see him. I used to be able to call him on my cell phone because he had a cell phone, and my home phone cant get long distance, BUT NOW my damn phone is turned off because my dad had a cell phone and he used his ALOT so the bill was like $400 so now he has to pay this, or i cant call him, so now i feel bad about not calling him, or even going down there. I cant go down there becaue of my knee sugery i had recentally. I just love my adopted family members so much and now i cant even see them or talk to them....WHAT SHOUD I DO (link)
hm...try emails or ims.


Where can u get those live strong braclets ??? please help me becuz i really wanna kno becuz i wnat to get one really really bad please help me

Thank u very much

Nicole (link)
lol they cost a dollar, and you can get them from malls, nike stores, athletic stores, places like that.


Alright, this is gunna be long...
ive been with this boy for a year, and im in 7th grade..everythings great i love him...im pretty sure, then theres another guy in 8th grade who really likes me and hes so sweet and im starting to like him too..i dont want this to happen because i REALLY love my boyfriend, and id do anything too stay with him and im scared to let go of him cause i cant live without him...what do i do (link)
just tel lthe 8th grader whats up, he'll probly back off a little bit, and everything should go okay.


I have really bad split ends but my mom doesnt have time to take me to get my hair cut and she wont have time till like October or November. I scrunch my hair now so you cant tell I have splint ends...is there anything I can do to make it less visible until I cut it? Thanks!!

P.S. I'll rate ya! (link)
i dont really think there is anythign you could do. you could try a cute bun to hide the split ins, first just put it in a pony tail and on the last loop, keep the little loop thing.


ok, what's "7 minutes in heaven"..i know its a game, but what do you do? hows it played? rules? etc? =) (link)
its where u go in the closet wit the opposite sex, and you stay in there for 7min and he does wat he wants wit u for 7 min.


Hello .. Its just some simple questions .. they say Its easier to give out great advice than to actually follow it urself.... now I like my ex i was the one who broke things off (2 times).. i do know for sure he still has feelings for me but what i don't know is whether he would like to "go back" and try to see if it works (again).. i'm not going to tell u guys my whole story but when i say its complicated TRUST ME... so here are my questions.. pls be COMPLETELY HONEST.. answer them as if u were the one following the advice..ask urself "would I do it? REALLY?" ..
1.
Would tell ur ex u still have feeling for him? (even though he is still mad at u cus u broke things off (2 times) )
2.
would u give up and try to forget about him? REALLY?
3.would you tell him u still have feelings for him even though u r not sure if u want to go back until u fix some "issues" u have?

this is really imp for me cus i feel like i´m running away from something real..so pls if u canjust advice me with this ..or if u can leave a little note i´ll write into ur personal column.. thanks so much .

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1. yeah i would actually tell him if he still like me too.
2.no i wouldnt give up unless he didnt like me.
3.depends on the problesms you have.


I was just wonderin, what are some obvious hints or nost popular hints that a guy likes you?
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hmm if he flirst a whole lot, hell flirt a whole bunch. and he might stare at you or eat lunch with you or things like taht


ok, there is this guy i like, and we are friends but i like him more then a friend. should i ask him out? my friends say yeah just to see if he will, but will that change our friendship if he says no? (link)
hm...i would ask him out just see what happens. and if he says no...then just act like it never happend. just try to forget...i dont think it will change things between you but it might.


Homecoming is October 9th. I can't dance at all. I never have been able to... Also I don't have a date yet and I have to go because I'm having a foreign exchange student. No one will go with me... I asked this one guy whos my friend and at the time he wuz going out w/ someone and i liked him as friends. THen I got over him and he kissed me but I don't like him anymore like that... or I don't think... DO you think I should ask him? I'm 13 I'm a Freshman in highschool! (link)
nothin wrong really with just going as friends.


My father is the closest person outside of my house family to me. I love him very much but all of a sudden he has developed a mental illness and doesn't remember me. Sometimes when I walk into the room to visit him he shouts things like "Killer!" and "Why did you have to hurt my leg Barbara?" although that is not at all my name. I'm not sure if there is a way to help him remember me, but it's hard to cope with the pain of him thinking that I have hurt him in the past. What should I do? (link)
you cant really do anythign to help him get his memory back, but you can try wearing the same thing or something that he might remember that he can recognize you by. mayb a bracelet or sumthin...and jsut tell him im your daughter or sumthin.


If anyone has any personal expiereinces with this, that be great!
Anyway, there's a few guys in my school who i talk to and we're regular friends. But, they sometimes say things to me and i dont know how to respond. They say likie, "hey can I get with you?" "ooh ur so beautiful" and " i give you 9 out of 10" I want to flirt back, but i dont want to make a fool of myself. I know theyre kidding, and flirting, but how can i do the same without blushing, or saying something stupid?Because thats what i usually do. I just sit there and laugh. Does anyone have any lines or things to say back to them?? (link)
when they say like ohh ur soo beautiful just be like thanks i kno! lol say it in a joking way though...and if they rank you be like well ur a 9 too lol say it joking....dont b serious...or theyll think you like thme or w/e


Hi. At school, the kid i am crushing on, always looks at me. He smiles too. Dose he like me back. =/?. But, my friends all like him, and i do too. I dont want to have them be mad at me.Whats do i do?? (link)
i dont see how your friends would get mad if you like him too. he may just b flirting with you or he may like you.


ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me (link)
ok calm down. you can pass time by reading or sumthin you can talk to ur bff at school and explain to her what is going on. and that yal might not talk for awhile. dont get all suicide. its jsutbeing a teen i kno what you mean im 13 and fight with mymom all the time. but just calm down and dont get to defensive or it will only make things worse


ok here it goes and i really hope yall can help me. ok i wanna lose sum weight in my tummy n my inner thighs but i want my bottom to get bigger not shrink. does anyone know any exercises or diets i can do to get this?! oh and also my face gets oily during the day and i really dont like it. is there anyway i can stop this?! thank you and tell me if you want a rating cause i rate good! thank you! (link)
do some crunches and get on all fours, then lift one leg at a time in the air, and hold it for like 10 seconds. this firms the thighs and tones ur butt...it will look like it shrank but it just got toned and firmer.


I have a problem with not eating right. im afraid that in the future i may gain a lot of wait. I need to go on a small healthy diet. Not to lose weight, but just to eat right. Does anyone have any helpful suggestions on how i should go about this? (link)
you can still eat the foods you like, just eat smaller portions.you should start eating more healthy foods too though. start out with fruits and stuff...when you come home form school or w/e,just dont pick up anything in site...try some low fat yogurt or bannanas or sumthin




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