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... I'm always down for a good time..i absolutly love to have fun.
laughing is my favorite thing to do.
seeing other people laugh makes me laugh even if its not funny..
My friends are the most amazing people around they're one of a kind...
Living in the moment is def. a must.
overall i'm a pretty laid back person.. i'm up for anything.
When it comes to music.. basically i like anything that will make me get up and dance :]
dancing just makes my day..
i love dancing in the rain. And dancing in the streets.
I love thunderstorms.
summer is my ultime favorite. time to party and meet new people.
i absolutly love going on vacation especially with friends.
I love the feeling of sand in my toes.
Sometimes i say the wrong thing at the wrong time.
I'm usually pretty random with things.
Everything happens for a reason.
There is no such thing as perfect.
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ok here is what my friend said lets call my friend T and i like his friend J. T knows it, and i guess so does J. but i dont know if this is a good sign or what, here is what my friend texted me.
T: well he was askin me who likes him? and he was asking me questions, and asked if she was tall and i said yes, and then he knew it was you. then he was like ya i already knew she liked me. but do u no ne one else who likes me? and i said no. i dont know it was really weird
sorry this is kinda a weird question... any advise would be helpful. if you need anymore information, just say so thxx
By the looks of it.. it doesnt show that he "likes" you in that way. i mean theres always a possibility.. but if he knows you like him and he hasnt acted upon it or tried to "hang out with you" more and stuff then idt he does. but i could be completely wrong. If you want to win him over.. try to be more mysterious.. like make him come to you and when you're around him.. make him start the conversations.. try not to be the one chasing him. make him chase you..
kay well my new years revolution this year was to learn how to do a slit by the end of the year.
Im pretty flexible but i cat manage to do a split.
are there are easier ways to do a split or to let you thighs MORE flexible without hurting becasue im pretty scared of my legs sticking in one place lol.
anything will help thanks :D
haha theres not an "easy" way to get yourself flexible enough for the splits. I've been dancing and in gymnastics here for about 11 years. the easiest way is to warm yourself up.. a jog? however you want to loosen up your muscles and then stretch for 30-45 minutes stretching your legs.. then slowly work your way into the splits.. each day try holding however low you can go for at least 15 seconds and slowly move the time to about 35 seconds.. it's going to take time.. if you need any good "stretches" let me know i have pleanty for the past years..
I have a razor cell phone, and I was at the beach and got splashed (not bad) but my phone got wet in my pocket.
It didnt turn on for like a few min, like didnt work so i took the battery out and stuff, and it took me a while to turn on.
Well the phone works, but the numbers dont like work , and i cant answer or send calls.
HELP?
i had somewhat of the same problem.. when you open your razr like the battery part there should be a small dot (sticker like thing) on the batter and on the phone in that area.. if they're both white your phone should be fine.. but if the one on the battery is red then you need to take it in for a new battery.. if the one on the phone is red.. then your phone wont work anymore and you're going to have to get a new one.
this just happened to me 2 weeks ago n thats what the "repair shop" said.. so look for that!
whats a good song that pretty much says i like you a lot but i know you dont like me back and stuff like that?
To make her love me by Rascal Flatts
Have you ever by Brandy...
if you want more let me know i can search for some good ones.
hey!
ok so im going on vacation to the beach in 2 days and i wanna come back really tan. How can i tan fastern in the sun, but not get burned? i dont want to use fake bake or any of that spray on crap :]
thanx!
-abbie
i just went on vacation.. what i did was i got one of those "dark tanning oils" at like a walgreens or wherever and has spf 8, that way you'll get tan but still be protected from the sun. i suggest not using it on your face though because it usually will cause you to break out (acne) so use regular spf 15 maybe would help protect you but get you some color
hope it works.
have fun :]
ok, so one of my best male friends and i like each other.
1. he's my oldest friend's ex and she said i can't go out with him under any circumstances, which is totally unfair because she hooks up with his friends in front him and dumped him and completely broke his heart.
2. he doesn't want a relationship.
what do i do? he's absolutely PERFECT. i don't want anyone else.
this is def. a hard situation to be in. but in end i think if he doesnt want a realtionship.. no matter what you do he's still not going to want one.. so dont fall head over heels from him cause your just putting yourself in a bad situation.. because you friend will eventually find out you like him.. and u two may not even go any farther than friends if he doesnt want a relationship.. so for right now if i were.. just lay back.. n have fun its almost summer n you'll meet a lot of people.. maybe your friend will find someone to settle down with n this guy will want a relationship.. it can only take time but until then get out there n meet new people
Please help! I want my boobs to go bigger their tiny please help what can i do to make them bigger apart from wear padded or water bras. Thanks, oh, how can I make my period start.
just like every other girls answer. there's nothing you can do for either of those besides the bras and surgery and im sure you dont want to do that.
i guess right now dont rush things your body will mature when it's ready. i know it seems like its not soon enough, but trust me once you get your period you will wonder why you even wanted it to come.. n your boobs will grow once you hit puberty just give it time.
is it true that if girls wear a bra overnight, that overtime it will make your boobs sag? is this just a myth? are there any consequences if a girl actually wears her bra to bed every night?
That's def. a myth. i've also heard that if you wear a bra that your boobs dont grow over night. which idk if thats true either.. but if your comfortable wearing one at night go for it, but otherwise i suggest not wearing one. especailly if you sleep in your own room
is there any way to put music on my razr phone, other than downloading it. because i don't have easy edge or anything in that sence.
?
well you can record music... and listen to it or set is as your ringtone... when you open your phone.. on the top half theres a button on the right... hold it down until you get a screen about recording.. press the o.k. button to start n stop recordings.. then go into your music thing.. and there it is!
I'm having a sweet 16 party next weekend and am down to last minute things. I want to get a tiarra to wear. Any suggestions on what store i can get one for under like $20?
only cheap place i can think of is Claire's.
I plugged my iPod into the computer, and I got the "do not disconnect" message. But the computer didn't sense the iPod. I tried quitting and restarting iTunes. I tried turning the computer off and on again. Still not even an icon on the desktop. Then I tried unplugging the iPod and turning it off, but it didn't respond to anything I did. What do I do now?!
you need to reset your ipod.. to do this you have to hold down the menu and select button as long as needed until you get the "apple" icon (usually like 6 seconds) and then let go n it should restart the ipod n then connect it to the computer and it should pick up the ipod connection
Ok, my best friend in the entire world's brother has a crush on me. He asked my friend for my s/n but is kinda shy and hasnt IM'ed me. And then my friend told me that he was interested but this was way back in january. So about a month ago me and my friend went out to eat and he tagged along. So now I'm scared to go over her house. I'm afraid it will be awkward! Idk if I like him or not cus he's kind of a rebel and plus he's 17, almost 18, and i'm only 15, almost 16. What should I do?!
Well, i've been through something like this before.. and i highly recommend just hanging out with your friend like you usually would.. dont be "weird" around him or something bad will happen just be chill with him.. but hang out with your friend as normal as usual.. and UNTIL he says something to you in person.. dont worry bout it.. but maybe try not to flirt with him.. idk if you do.. but def. avoid that.. and when he does tell you if he ever does.. let me know and we'll go from there.
hope i helped!
How do you put a photo in your about me section on your myspace?
I recommend getting a free username for photobucket and you can change the size of your photo and then get a url for myspace and just copy and paste it
i have been looking online for a hairstyle for prom. I have a dress and it's strapless. i want something amazing and elegant all at once. My hair is about to my boobs and it is layered from my jaw line and on down more layering. is there any good websites i can find a good style that doens't look like the 90's? i really like the celeb look
alright so i did a little research just for you on some cute hairstyles.. so look at these and try them (bring them to your hairstylist she should know what to do!!)
http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=4104&c_id=65
(my personal favorite!)
http://www.haydenpanettierepictures.com/gallery/10/hayden-panettiere-28
(if you do this one.. do some big earings!)
http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=2884&c_id=65
http://www.haydenpanettierepictures.com/gallery/1/hayden-panettiere-146
Im 14/f. I am fully developed and not growing anymore so my sweating problem isnt puberty. No matter where i am or what i do, i sweat under my arms. It rarely smells but the wet spot can be huge sometimes and im really bothered by it. I dont want people to see ofcourse because it's embarassing and i cant wear a lot of the clothes i have because if i sweat, (and i always do), it shows. I always, when i can wear tank tops and stuff like that but I just want to stop sweating so much so i can wear anything without worrying about the constant sweating under my arms. Please help me. Any good deodarants? I've tried almost everything! Any way to stop it or prevent it from happening? Please help. :) Thanks.
I've answered this questions a few times.. check out my column theres one towards the top!! it should answer your question!!
I'm always trying to keep myself busy when I'm by myself but I'm not sure how. I read, write and make collages but it's starting to get boring. I want to pick up new hobbies like crafts or just something fun to keep me busy like making things out of duct tape and clay. What are some [relatively easy] things that I can do in my spare time? I'm interested in any ideas.
well.. idk if this helps.. but there are things called "no sew fleece blankets" you can find em' at any fabric store such as joann fabrics.. i suggest getting a kit at first otherwise get 2 fleece fabrics you like one patterned and one solid color to match or w.e. you like and when they cut it.. just ask for what sizes they recommend.. its not real "fun" but it's time consuming and you can do it while listening to music or watching a movie or something its real easy and you're left with a nice warm blanket!!
This is for a school project. Suggest me songs that represent happy optmisim...a positive "your life is beautiful, keep living!!" attitude. but not anything cheesy or corny please. i'll appreciate it even more if it incorporates going to heaven or something religious!
thanks!
Hmm.. well the first thing that came to me is
Here comes the sun by the beatles
Do you believe in magic by Aly & Aj (dont know if thats what you're looking for)
Heaven by DJ Sammy
That's all i can really think of right now.. let me know if you need something else!
ok so i go out with this kid and this is the fourth time we have gone out and i have never kissed him. I'm 14 yrs old and a girl and this is getting ridiculous haha. I love him alot and i know that im young and all but i really do. And i really need advice on how i can just suck it up and kiss the kid i mean seriously its not like hes asking me to do it w him its a flippin kiss... and he has broken up with me in the past cause he doesnt want to put up w me being prude and all and i really want this to work out i know he likes me alot and i want to be with him for a while... and hes not pressuring me at all, he wouldnt do that i want to kiss him sooooooo badly!!! but when it comes down to it i just freeze and i just cant i dont know whats wrong with me when im not around him i want to makeout with him really bad. Ive kissed other ppl easily but why cant i kiss him??? please help me im desperate
probably because this time... you really like the guy so it's sort of like your first kiss all over again.. my suggestion is try to relax.. and when he makes the move.. just go in for a "peck" then you'll calm down and be like that wasnt so easy.. and then you can actually KISS him. or maybe tell him that you like him so much that he gives you butterflies n you want to but its gotta be slow
I seem to sweat a lot. The deodarants that I use do work, because it does'nt smell or anything. But im constantly avoiding shirts with sleeves because I mostly always sweat and there it is, the wet spot that doesnt smell, but it's just there and I hate it! I dont know what to do. I have already gone through puberty, im fully developed and everything, and i found out that im not growing anymore so i just dont know what to do or if itll stop when i get older. But i have had this problem for quite a while and i just need advice on what to do, please please please!
ha this question seems to come up alot..
i used to have the same problem with that too. sometimes it just depends on the fabrics you wear as far as shirts.. but it doesnt seem like thats the problem.. my suggestion is (weird i know but..) go to the doctor because he can perscribe you something that you put on every night.. it's a little dabber of liquid you put under your arms.. and then it sort of shrinks your sweat pores under there and then put on deoderant in the morning and your good to go and you dont sweat at all.. unless doing like highly active things.. hopefully it works otherwise try going to a walgreens or something like it and try drysal it works too but not as good
hey, well.. you said that you'd be willing to help me with my problem, so here it is.
14/f.
mmk, well I knew this kid, who was like my bestestestest friend ever. like, i asked him for help with everythinggg. & he always looked out for me. & then eventually, we dated. for a couple months. then, he broke up with me, but a couple months later, we were best friends again. & it was like we were dating. but we never made it offical. considering, i just had gotten out of a bad relationship at that time, + i wasn't 100 percent sure if i liked him & only him completely.
that all happened in 6th grade. [ i met him in like 4th grade, & we became like best friends at the beginning of 5th grade.]
so anyways, 7th grade rolled around, me & him were still the best of friends. & i was like wow, yano we've been friends so long, most girls i know dont stay that good of friends with guys for so long. so then, at the end of 7th grade, in the summer, well, i have a sliding glasss door in my room, which leads out to my deck, & like, its confusing.. my house is like on a hill, but anyways, its really easy for boys to sneak up there.. & stuff. so i had alot of visiters during that summer, most of the boys that i didn't really care too much about. but then, my best friend [the boy] was like omg your so hot. & i'd so wanna do you. & i was also talking to my old best friend at the time [well she was still my best friend then] & i was like hes tottaly kidding right? & shes like oh yeah deffinitly. so i kinda played along with what he was saying. but then he got all weird. like he was like, do you love me? tell me you love me. & i was like wtf is he high. & he just kept saying stuff like that. so then, he was like ok im comin over. & im like.. its kinda late bud? & he was all like it would be fun. & i was like whoa nooo. & he kept insisting. & like, it wasnt like him, for awhile i didnt even think it was him. so hes like, hayley you said you loved me. & all this stuff like that. & i was like, idno i was starting to get mad. so hes like..whatever i'm coming over.
so he came over alright. & i was like, well you should've known before you walked here, i wasnt going to do that. i'm only 13. i'm not a slut. & all this stuff. eventually, i told him to go home. he ended up being really mad at me. we talked for a couple months longer, & then, that ended that. he like tottaly just stopped talking to me, completely.
& i was like so upset. because i then felt like so wrong & guilty. i mean, i didnt know he was being serious. i never thought, that he actually would have came. i never knew i dont know. so then now, i go to his school. hes in like 5 of my classes. & my lunch period. so i see him alotttt. & he looks at me alot. like alottt. but he hasnt talked to me yet, & i've been there for like 2 months. & so, also, some of the kids he hangs out with, like hate me. & stuff. &thats not fair, because he basically twisted the story. saying i liked him & everything.
so, now its basically screwing things up there too. like there like, oh wait.. your that girl?
so, i don't know what to do. am i suppose to go up to him apologize? or should i just forget it?
& its like so confusing. because people though keep walking up to me. & theyll be like, wait you dated him? yeah, he always talks about you, in a good way. so like i don't know. i feel weird going up to him & just being like hey.
what should i do? i cant just forget about him. & i'm always feeling so guilty. how do i make it better? & show him that it wasn't my fault, that i didnt know.
ha you werent kidding when you said it was long.. but im gonna try my best to help you.. so i really hope it does..
First off, don't feel guilty at all. you didnt know if he was serious that night and it sounded like it was really hard to tell because he was being a little "different".. so dont feel guilty at all.. i know it might be hard to get by that fact.. but you shouldnt personally i think you did the right thing although it doesnt seem like it now.. it will when you get older.
As far as being at the same school as him now.. well if you have his screen name or e-mail... try talking to him on there to sort of make things a little more easier on yourself and him if you want to actually talk to him in person. so try talking to him on there and just be like ha the funniest thing happens to me almost everyday.. everyone says im "that" girl that went out with you.. ya know to sort of get that topic going and if he's like really? just be like yea.. n idk i guess people know bout that one night when you came over and hate me now.. n im confused do you knwo what thats about? and if he sorta blows the question off n is like nope just be like ha alright thats cool just wondering.. n go on with a normal conversation.. and just sorta build your friendship with him..
I mean by the sound of it.. he still thinks you're a great girl.. trust me guys dont just stare and random people dont say guys talk bout you in a good way.. haha guys just dont work like that unless someone means something to them... as far as being in classes with him.. idk maybe just be more "outgoing" in the class in general.. like volunteer a lot and just speak up answer questions talk more.. sorta just goof around with people in the class and he'll def. notice you n prob. wanna join in.. and if you ever see him in the halls.. he'll def. look so make eye contact shoot one of those "half smiles" and be the first one to look away.. it makes him wonder what just went through your mind.. and if it helps walk by with another guy even if he's just a friend he'll notice.. and WANT to talk to you more..
As far as everyone not liking you.. thats their opinion.. i mean they obviously dont know you.. so you have to show them by just being outgoing that your not who they think you are.. but not come on to strong to either the guy or his friends
I guess in the end to build a friendship you have to take baby steps... such as talking online first.. and try to get HIM to talk to YOU in class or in the halls and what not..
hopefully it helped let me know how it goes or if you need help with anything else.. im here!!
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