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Breezy:)
Gender: Female
Member Since: June 28, 2007
Answers: 33
Last Update: August 10, 2007
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I wear a 34A bra, and my breasts are just too small for the rest of my body. I wear padded bras, but I've only found one kind that fits me right.
What I need is this:
1) Bra that has a lot of padding that looks smooth and natural on the outside of my shirt.
2) Bra that has some push up so give me cleavage while making my breasts look bigger all around for low cut tops.
I'd really prefer to hear from girls who have USED the bra before and approve of it...not just guesses. Brand names would be great...but links would be even better. (link)
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Well I dont have a link but i have the brand...and the good news is that...well I got mine at Wal-mart! I use the fruit of the loom push-up bra...but to get more cleavage...buy one that is like 2 sizes small for you and put it on its tightest function...but DEFINITLEY try it on before you buy it cus if it isnt comfy it may not be worth it...Tell me how things work out if you can!Bye!
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Breezy:)
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My ex-friend, Dylana, is so annoying! Somebody on this site said I wasn't a real friend just because I got mad at her for simple things! Do you call copying my every move, stealing, can't take a tiny joke simple things? I don't. Now, all she wants is a freaking pity party that I'm being invited to! I don't like Dylana at all. Everybody takes her side! If you were her friend you'd be blowing a gaskit too! I mean come on! Dylana says she never does anything bad. She does! I mean what the F is up with that?! I get a lot of attention that I don't want. She gets attention she wants, but doesn't deserve. I'm mad because she thinks that a real friend always says yes to her, kisses her freaking feet, does her every biding and what?! She likes to be pitied! I really don't like her, but I don't hate her. Hate is too strong of a word. Anyway, can somebody help me with this girl? I don't want to be her friend because I've already forgiven her... 88 million times! Anything will help! Thanx! (link)
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I know what you mean...I had a friend like that once too. ALl you have to do is TOTALLY IGNORE HER! It will drive her CRAZY! She will start something and that will prove to alot of people how bad of a friend and a person she is...just ignore problems and if that doesnt work just find another group of people who like dont even know who she is...I hope this helps...if you can let me know if this helped you. Bye!
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Breezy:)
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Okay, so I'm going into 8th grade after Summer this year, and I want to make new friends. Problem is -- I have one particular friend that makes it hard. Really hard.
Like she'll get really mad whenever she hears I've gotten together or made other plans with other friends (even if it's my cousins!) and insist or invite herself to come with.
But she's friends with this other girl that I'm also friends with, and we were all supposedly close through 7th grade. I've been friends with the girl that makes it hard to make friends (Let's call her A) since halfway through kindergarten!
The thing is, that A thinks we're still BFFs, and no matter how many times I try to tell her, I get the same result. She's like "No I don't!", we get into the occassional fight, then get back together. But this time I don't wanna get back together. I never really did. It's not that she's a bad person or anything... it's just that I can't be friends without her holding me back. I know I must sound really unloyal but I want a new group of friends, and fast! In time for 8th grade.
Luckily -- There's a possibility we won't be going to the same highschool. I'm willing to wait and all, because once I get there it'll be GREAT, but I just don't know what to do. What if we do end up going to the same highschool? Odds are we wouldn't have many classes together anyway.
Evidently I just need new friends, you don't know my past with her... and it's come to light that I really need to tell her. I can't just expect her to know why -- but how do I tell her?
How do I tell her the friendship should be cut off?
How can I branch out for friends in 8th grade?
(I go to a Private School so it's pretty small and not a lot of people, mostly just the same people that think I'm weird I think)
I want 8th grade to be perfect, I really do. So how can I make it that way?
--Many thanks! (link)
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You shouldn't wait until high school...I can TOTALLY relate except me and her have been friends since 1st grade...this person doesnt really sound like a friend to me...SHe sounds like a person who just is annoying to you...tell her...just say that you feel as if you aren't the friends you used to be and that you are a different person now...now ways to make new frinds...are you taking an elective next year...that can be a class that you have alot of fun in...so meet people you have fun with in that class...and your other classes! meet new people at lunch...whatever you want!
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my mom wont let me out. she gets mad even if i go to my friends house. since its summer vacation i dont want to stay in my house all bored. but she doesnt let me go out. i dont have cable, im an only child, and the only thing is the computer but i hate playing games in it and a computer cant entertain me for 12 hours a day. what can i do at home thats fun for me? or how can i make my mom let me go out. im tired of staying here. thanks! (link)
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You should talk to your mom...work out a system...like...if you go to a friends house you call her every hour you are there!(probobly not what you wanna do tho Im sure!) I hope this helps!
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ookay well i like this guy and am pretty sure that he likes me. he is always flirting and it just loks like it. so laast night we are talking over myspace and he says that his friend that i met once likes me and i am like whatever okay and then he says to call this number cause the guy that met me wants to talk to me but for some reason he puts his own number and i ask him if that is the guy i mets number and he says no lol that is mine and i say okayyyy and then he gives me the real number and tells me to text him. okay so now my questions are if this guy liked me wouldnt he want me for himself instead of setting me up with his friend? and should i tell this guy how i feel????pleese help!!! (link)
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You know i've always said that to live life you need to live it to it's fullest...but iv'e always been scared when it comes to boys...if you really think this guy likes you and you cant contain yourself let him know! If he does like you he would want you to himself...but he's not going to let you know that...so he will probobly put his friend out there...but remain cautious for signs before you tell him...and if he likes you back...awsome!But if he doesnt its not the end of the world...it just wasnt meant to be! I hope this helped!
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ok so i really need money. my parents dont give me allowence and its just so hard to go shopping with my friends and not have enough money to get what i want. so i know i can babysit, watch a house for a neighbor while they are on vacatiuon, walk dogs and stuff like that. but how do i ask for those jobs. like i have asked some of the neighbors that i know and they said they dont need anyone right now. so what should i do? i really need the money. like how do i let anyone else know that i am whilling to take care of there dogs and things like that? help? thanks!! (link)
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Those are great suggestions you've gotten...but i would like to add to them...ask people at you parents work if they need a babysitter...any family friends? Ask the people you know first then make flyers and such!
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Okay so my parents divorce is finially ending second week of July. I've never been so happy (its been going on for two years in August). I live with my dad right now but I really want to live with my mom when the divorce thing is set. I get along way better with her and she understands me more than my dad ever has. the only thing my dad is good for is him telling me what to do and getting stuff (like food, cds, etc).
The only problem with this is that my dad doesn't think my mom is a good mother. But thats kind of bull too because she has been there through everything then last year i cut myself and they all thought it was because of her, but it had nothing to do with that.
Anyways.. I think that I will be happier living there, but how do I convince my dad that I will be? I hate living where I am now. I feel like time is just moving and i'm not doing anything with my life. I want purpose, pretty much.
can someone please help me? i don't know how to tell my dad i don't like living with him.
i'm 16/f if that helps. and i will be a junior next year. (link)
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I know EXACTLY what you mean...and as much as you may not want your parents to fight they may fight over this...you dont have to ignore your dad...just tell your mom if it becomes an issue the judge can take care of it when they are deciding custody if your dad asks say dad im a girl I need my mom and you cant take her away from me...your mom can also take care of this problem by talking to your dad. I hope this advice helped you!
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ok well just recently my friend sent me a message over myspace saying that we havent hung out in forever and we should. i havent hung out with him since last summer and he is a year older then me and we were always good friends. well he messaged me and said how about friday? and i said sure. so then i just started gettin texts from him and i think he thinks were more then friends and this is gonna be a date type thing. weve never been more then friends and i dont like him like that. i dont want to go out on friday with him anymore beause i dont want him thinkin its a date but i dont wanna blow him off either but i dont wanna tell him that i think we should just be friends because i think he will back off and wont talk to me cuz thats his personality. what do i do? (link)
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you should go with him and be straight and forward tell him you have sorta been getting the vibe that you think this is a date... and that you really just wanna be friends because you really value your friendship...hope this helps.
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On Mother's Day of this year, I started talking to this guy over the internet that lived near me. We talked on the internet for awhile, and then on the phone. Eventually he asked me out. We dated for 2 weeks and then he had to leave for California for a 2-month working vacation. During the time we dated, he seemed so PERFECT. Everything he said was so sweet and I fell for him fast. The first week he was gone I barely talked to him. Then this girl added me on MySpace, and long story short, they started to date. I was miserable for days and all he said when he did reply to my messages (he only replied to a few and ignored the others) that I didn't trust him and blah blah. Eventually I broke up with him. They dated for a week and then he completely erased her from his MySpace. She broke up with him for not telling her what was going on but took him back when he offered her a really lame excuse. I didn't talk to him after the break-up at all, even though I told him I was willing to be friends.
I talked to his mom online recently and she asked me to tell her the whole story. She was angry at him for treating me that way and apparently gave him a piece of her mind. Later that day he IMed me and said he was never dating that Tiffany girl and she was lying to me and all that (I realize this is all a lie) and he thanked me for messaging his mom because she really liked me. Well, he said what he did was really f***ed up and he was sorry and that he finds that he can be a hurtful person and he's sorry about that. He said maybe it ended up like it should for the best so I didn't get hurt any more. But he kept flirting with me and when I said we should hang out when he gets home (as friends) he said "well I know you don't like me anymore....". And when I accidentally sent him an IM that was supposed to go to my best friend that said "I'm nothing special. lol", he replied with "You are special" and when I said I didn't think so he says "Well I do". But he didn't talk to me as much as he used to and didn't call me like he would when we were dating, so I figured it was all a guilt trip from his mom.
NOW, I started a new job with a new guy. Before I started the job he asked my sister and a few friends about me and seemed really into me. Well, we talked online a little before I started the job before I finally met him. I worked with him one day and we talked a little bit here and there and I talked to the guy he lives with some too. Well, they were going to the movies last night with some friends from work and I was invited. The guy called me yesterday asking if I was going and saying that I should go. Then he said he'd call me with all the final times and stuff when he knew them. In the end, he didn't call back.
He's REALLY shy and I'm not used to that, so I get frustrated. I don't get why he wouldn't call back if he's as into me as he makes it seem with the stuff he says to my sister. I just don't know if I can date someone that's almost too shy to even talk to me. He might be different with someone he's actually dating, but I'm getting aggravated with how long it's taking him to make a move. I had a few other guys interested in me recently, but this guy is the only one I actually like. He seems really sweet and he's cute and all, but he's just REALLY shy.
Ever since my ex IMed me again, I've realized how big of an effect he still has on me. I still think about him all the time and I've had dreams about him EVERY night since he IMed me. I know he treated me badly and lied to me and I don't want to be stupid and just go back to him so he can do it again, but I just don't know what to do to finally move on and get him out of my head. It's just that our whole relationship was so perfect and I loved being with him and everything.
My question is this: I want opinions on what you guys think I should do. I want honest opinions about it all. I really appreciate it! (link)
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IM sorry Im not a boy but I have already read your story...so if you dont want my opinion than you can just ignore me. I think you should go with the shy guy he seems to really like you and seems like a much better guy...But if you still have feelings for this other guy...than your not bieng very faithful...you should tell this other guy that when people do stuff like that sometimes you cant forgive and forget...this may be one of those times unless you dont feel that way...seriosly just do what you really want.
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im not fat or anything but i can tell i've put on weight and i feel really fat (my tummy was completly flat now it is a lil bigger and curvey) im trying to loose weight and eat healthy but i just cant seem to get motivated to do so... what should i do so i can motivate myself and feel good about eating healthy.. i always choose unhealthy choices to healthy... how can i stop that... also school holidays (2 weeks) start tomorro.. considering that i dont want to put on more weight.. can you help... thanxx
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something that always works for me is that you should not eat wHEN YOUR NOT HUNGRY if you eat when your hungry it turns STRAIT to fat...also dont drink alot of soada...drink lots of water...hope this helps.
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ok so some friends of my family know a girl my age and she just moved to my town and she doesn't know anyone but she'd like a friend so my mother volunteered me to be her rent-a-friend i guess or just friend.lol. anyway im getting her email address and i'm going to write her and sort of say hey welcome to "(my town)" but i don't think she knows that our family friend called us asking me to be her friend so i don't want to be like, hey so and so said you're lonely and now we're gonna be friend's ok?...yeah i have a feeling that would be an akward conversation so...what should i say to her? i know absolutely nothing about her except why she moved her and that she's here and doesn't have friends, oh i do know her name.lol but nothing else, what do i do? (link)
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Well...you can simply start a conversation and say hello there...i heard you were new and wanted to welcome you...ask her about interests and things she maywnat to do with you...ask her about any movies or sports she likes. Just be friendly.
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im back again sadly...see if you know.my life hasnt went up only down hill. i went across the world and i just had the worst breakdown ever so far but mentally not physically. i tried so hard to cut i couldnt take it i wanted to die on the spot. all i had was my camera, their was absoluty no sharp objects. no computer, nowhere and nothing to write, no music, no tv, not even my own room. their was nothing i had to leave. i just started running...jumped off our porch, kept running. i hate my family they only made it worse. i was ready to run then my dad started showing my brother all my pictures i took laughing saying all thats wrong...i wanted to knock them out cold right there but i just sat on the couch after yelling louder then ever and got in the biggest fight ever. then i ran. half a day later i came back only for a new battery but i stayed. did they care, no. i was takeing pictures. then when i got back it started again i tried cutting i guess but deep with my sharp nails till i bleed. then with cacti. im back home with a scar reminding me. when i cut, i cut my wrists so i can watch the blood. then on the plane i was going through my pictures the person i sat by was watching hes a adult photographer saying everything about my pictures he loved them and he said i should enter contests. if i dont like you at the start i probly wont talk to you youd sense the deepest hate in hell between me and someone. but we talked the whole flight for hours. i felt good once that whole vacation. i sat away from my family on the plane. them 3 sat together then i sat 13 rows ahead. i look normal most of the time, my parents think im just like this because im a girl?!wtf?nothing about that do they not get it through their thick skulls. idk im better off alone because im used to it they leave me everywhere. they do not notice a thing about me. i might add more later, i might leave to someone elses house or down the street or 6flags the mall or anywhere ill get my friends idk i just need help i WILL NOT talk to them discussing it. how do i drop hints or what ever though i doubt theyll take it......and so much more..ill add (link)
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As hard and terrible as it sounds right now...you need your parents alot right now...if you cant talk to them...dont. But you need to know that whatever they do..they do because they love you... they want you to be safe...but something that was wrong of your parents was to show your brother the pictures you took...this issue does not concern your brother...it is between you and your parents. As for the man you sat next to on the plane... dont trust people you meet there...they could be taking advantage of you...that is one of the reasons I say you need you need your parents alot right now...please remember this....I hope you seek the answers that can help you.
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okay so lately i havent felt really needed by anyone at all. like i know that my family needs me and its not like im a total nerd or loser or whatever and i dont have any friends. but i seem to be the only one planning everything. you know when we hangout and stuff. and its real bad between me and my one friend. like i keep droping hints to her but she doesnt seem to notice.
HELP!!!! (link)
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Sometimes that happens to the best of us it is totlally normal...I also had a friend once who had done that to me..very recently...you really need to talk to her...tell her that she has kind of been making you feel unwanted or not appreciated and that you know she wasnt trying to but it was hurting your feelings. If she gets mad at you for telling her how you feel than shes not a true friend. I hope this helps good luck!
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