I have had a lot of experience with guys so girls ask away because im pretty good at that stuff!!! on any subject in that particular area lol and i have also had experience with family trouble so you can ask that to
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I go to a boarding school, and I met this guy who's a senior (i'm a freshman- almost 15) and I'm so obsessed with him i dream about him at night and I get chills and my heart skips a beat when I see him... I sat with him at lunch one day (he called out to me and asked me to sit with him) and later that night we had a little conversation. I just said hi to him.
So i guess we're acquaintences? he always looks at me whenever we're in the same room.
When a dance comes up should I ask him to go with me?
I'm a very mature freshman and I look a lot older than my age. He's just so nice and caring and I would die to have him as a bf.
I'm really shy though and it's intimidating to talk to him b/c he's a senior.
So even if I can't get the courage to talk to him anymore before a dance comes up should I still ask him? (link)
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The way you putn it it seems like he likes you so you definately should talk to him more and make it seem like you are interested in him more than just wanting to get to know him. If you have trouble with talking to him cuz your shy it's ok just think about a topic and what to say before you start talking to him. Asking him to a dance is probably a good idea after you are more than just acquaintences. But maybe you should give him a chance to ask you
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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
Thanks so much to you all. (link)
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Look I know an abortion sounds like the easiest awnser but hey it's not the best i mean what did this baby do I know it may seem like a lot of work but you should consider adoption. my friend went through the same thing and she put the baby up for adoption and now it lives with a wonderful family.
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I wear a 34A bra, and my breasts are just too small for the rest of my body. I wear padded bras, but I've only found one kind that fits me right.
What I need is this:
1) Bra that has a lot of padding that looks smooth and natural on the outside of my shirt.
2) Bra that has some push up so give me cleavage while making my breasts look bigger all around for low cut tops.
I'd really prefer to hear from girls who have USED the bra before and approve of it...not just guesses. Brand names would be great...but links would be even better. (link)
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lol I am just like you I just barely got into b's but people think their bigger than they really are my secret... a water bra it looks and feels natural and it makes them look much bigger lol
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is being able to sing well something that you have to be born with, or is it something you can be taught?
thanks! (link)
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Well alot of people are born with that talent but even if you arent you can still be taught it and get the best out of your voice but if after your taught it and you still stink at it I would go for something else lol
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On Mother's Day of this year, I started talking to this guy over the internet that lived near me. We talked on the internet for awhile, and then on the phone. Eventually he asked me out. We dated for 2 weeks and then he had to leave for California for a 2-month working vacation. During the time we dated, he seemed so PERFECT. Everything he said was so sweet and I fell for him fast. The first week he was gone I barely talked to him. Then this girl added me on MySpace, and long story short, they started to date. I was miserable for days and all he said when he did reply to my messages (he only replied to a few and ignored the others) that I didn't trust him and blah blah. Eventually I broke up with him. They dated for a week and then he completely erased her from his MySpace. She broke up with him for not telling her what was going on but took him back when he offered her a really lame excuse. I didn't talk to him after the break-up at all, even though I told him I was willing to be friends.
I talked to his mom online recently and she asked me to tell her the whole story. She was angry at him for treating me that way and apparently gave him a piece of her mind. Later that day he IMed me and said he was never dating that Tiffany girl and she was lying to me and all that (I realize this is all a lie) and he thanked me for messaging his mom because she really liked me. Well, he said what he did was really f***ed up and he was sorry and that he finds that he can be a hurtful person and he's sorry about that. He said maybe it ended up like it should for the best so I didn't get hurt any more. But he kept flirting with me and when I said we should hang out when he gets home (as friends) he said "well I know you don't like me anymore....". And when I accidentally sent him an IM that was supposed to go to my best friend that said "I'm nothing special. lol", he replied with "You are special" and when I said I didn't think so he says "Well I do". But he didn't talk to me as much as he used to and didn't call me like he would when we were dating, so I figured it was all a guilt trip from his mom.
NOW, I started a new job with a new guy. Before I started the job he asked my sister and a few friends about me and seemed really into me. Well, we talked online a little before I started the job before I finally met him. I worked with him one day and we talked a little bit here and there and I talked to the guy he lives with some too. Well, they were going to the movies last night with some friends from work and I was invited. The guy called me yesterday asking if I was going and saying that I should go. Then he said he'd call me with all the final times and stuff when he knew them. In the end, he didn't call back.
He's REALLY shy and I'm not used to that, so I get frustrated. I don't get why he wouldn't call back if he's as into me as he makes it seem with the stuff he says to my sister. I just don't know if I can date someone that's almost too shy to even talk to me. He might be different with someone he's actually dating, but I'm getting aggravated with how long it's taking him to make a move. I had a few other guys interested in me recently, but this guy is the only one I actually like. He seems really sweet and he's cute and all, but he's just REALLY shy.
Ever since my ex IMed me again, I've realized how big of an effect he still has on me. I still think about him all the time and I've had dreams about him EVERY night since he IMed me. I know he treated me badly and lied to me and I don't want to be stupid and just go back to him so he can do it again, but I just don't know what to do to finally move on and get him out of my head. It's just that our whole relationship was so perfect and I loved being with him and everything.
My question is this: I want opinions on what you guys think I should do. I want honest opinions about it all. I really appreciate it! (link)
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Well i know how you feel I was in love with a guy like that and he seemed perfect for me then I realised he was feeding me lies and was only interested in girls who were willing to... so ya I tried countless times to get over him but it just wouldnt work he had a hold on me when I finally did it felt wonderful and I started seeing other guys I noticed how many other guys were out their that were better so my advice to you is it might be hard but just forget that guy he doesnt deserve you i would if i were you give that other guy a try he might end up being the perfect solution even if hes shy just try and make him feel comfortable around you.
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15->16F, 5'3", 140 lbs
I really want to lose ~20 lbs by the end of summer, or atleast 10 just to be healthier... since I`m a whole lot of flab (stomach+arms) which isn`t a totally good thing. Plus, I want to feel better about myself, because it`s really discouraging when a 90 lb girl goes "Omfg, I`m so fat". I`m also doing it so that I don`t bum around for the whole summer, since there isn`t much to do.
So like, if I supposedly (not sure if I can) go to the gym, atleast 3-4 times a week for cardio and such (burning atleast 400 cals), play softball/practice atleast once a week for about an hour, cut out junk food/unhealthy foods and drink a lot of water, would I be able to reach my goal? (Even though it`s assumed that if I lose ~2 lbs per week, I`d lose ~16 lbs by the end of summer)
(Excluding the gaining muscles then losing weight thing)
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ok well I can relate to your question I want to loose to im not really over weight but i would like to be healthier and slimmer. so ya the best thing for me is running on the tredmille I know most people hate it but it helps shed the pounds much faster than alot of other things so ya. And once you get used to it you start loosing and its really not that hard after awhile.
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