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There's this guy in my English class, I like him (not like... obsessive-crush-like, more like fond of), I don't talk him a lot though... only on MSN LOLOL, because he's almost always talking to someone else in class, and not to mention he sits at the other end of the classroom.

Right now I'm like... terrified to talk to him because I slept over at a friend's house, with another girl (I'll call them A and B). I was talking to him and then they decided to like kick me off the computer and talk to him pretty much saying "I'm mentally disabled and I like to contradict myself", making it look like I said that. Right after A said that, he COINCIDENTALLY went "Gotta go bye". Later on A and B pretended as if they didn't do anything wrong :|... Not to mention that some other girl flirts with him a lot.

So like.. how do I stop being a chicken and talk to him :|?

This one is kinda easy... get up the nerve to explain to him what happened and laugh it off, act like it was no big deal and it won't be. I would do it in person if I were you too. I hope this helps Good Luck!

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i've checked out the symptoms of depression,and i have all the mental ones but one,which is thoughts of suicide.although i have though about death,but not like that. (i dont know the phisical ones of depression,if there are any) it all seems to fit, but the problem is, im really not exactly sad,i just feel compleatly emotionless. like, i feel no emotions. i wish i could just feel something,but its never there. so what do you think, would it make sence? i know you can't diagnose,but is it worth telling my mom and getting help? by the way, i'm 14 and female. thanks.

I have chronic depression and yea there are physical symptoms...like you are sore all the time and nothing seems worth doing. It sounds like depression to me, of course I was in denial for quite some time but yea it is worth it but there are "consequences". I got help and I see a therapist and psychiatrist the only problem is sometimes you don't always agree w/ their diagnosis. Also, parents can get weird about it and get really concerned and it can get very annoying! If you think you could get over it by yourself that is the way to go but if you think talking to someone and possibly taking antidepressants is the way to go...shoot. I hope this helps, Good Luck!

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hey so I know this girl named alyeesa
she goes to a really small school and I was just wondering if you liked her or not as a friend I ean

Are you kiddin me she is soooooooooo chill i love her and any body that says otherwise is just jealous because she has a sparkling personality and beautiful eyes and they are insecure lil queers!

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You are sitting on the ground, as your friend is sitting besides you, they slowly gets close to you and then grabs your arm and holds your arm and hug it as they lay their head on your shoulder and cruls up to you.
but thay are the same sex (females).
Do close friends do that to each other?
or is the one who is the toucy person is trying to tell you that they like you?

No, I don't believe she just wants a friend this girl seems to like you a little more than casually. She wants a little more than just a friend, it may not be "real" (her feelings)she probably is wanting attention more than a friend. Close friends that do that to each other are considering hooking up so I hope this helps and Good Luck!

Confront her gently if that is your plan!

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which damages hair more:

straightning your hair

or

blowdrying your hair straight


thank you!

OK first of all the answer is straightening hands down it causes a ton of damage! If you blow dry your hair there is not as much direct contact and if you use a nice comb you will get the same result with a little more volume. I'm not saying however that blow drying does not damage your hair it just is not as fast to ruin your hair.

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I finally came-to last night. Like, I had doubted for a long time, but last night I woke up and realized and fully believe in God now. I accepted Jesus into my heart. And, this morning, since like EARLY it has been raining HARD and thundering and lightening bad. Could this have anything to do with my experience last night?

Do not think of it as a bad thing. Maybe it was a sign, saying you should just keep on believing. My first epiphany of God happened w/ a horrible thunder storm it kept me up all night. I sat in my bed asking God to make it go away (I thought I was going to die!). He didn't make it go away but all of a sudden I got a rush of good "vibes" like hey maybe its God celebrating or expressing himself so , maybe I should listen?! The thunder seemed to quiet and I found myself being soothed and relaxed, I slept like a baby. God wants you to have faith in him that everything is going to be alright. I hope everything works out for you and that maybe I helped!Sorry if I sound like a hippy?!

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my boyfriend's birthday's coming up in about a week and a half, and i have absolutely no idea what to get him!


i can't really get him anything TOO romantic or cutesy of a present because we've only recently started dating about a week ago.


anybody have any ideas on what to get him?
any girls have ideas they've done before,
or any guys have stories of what they've recieved?


it just can't be something expensive or anything, though, i mean, i'm 15. i only have so much money.


thanks so much!

OK... I had the same problem last month w/ my guy and I asked around and found some awesome ideas! Here is what I got:
-wallet
-hat
-nice shirt w/ something he likes (dirt biking, football team, surf boarding)
-candy (its a classic)
Well I hope this helps and good luck and just explain that it was a little difficult for you! Good Luck!

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