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So, there's this guy who works concessions at the movie theater that I go to regularly. He seems really cool, and he's cute (I sound like such a girl, haha, I'm sorry)!
How can I get to know him if I only see him when I go to the movies? Thanks in advance. =]

Well it depends on how much you talk to him when you go to the movies.If you talk to him regularly when your there then maybe you could ask for his number to hang out sometime.Other than that you'd just have to ask him.
Hope I helped ya

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do you think I should get my lip pierced, heres what I look like with a fake one in.

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=638mbeh

In my honest opinion,you look like a cutie with or without it ^_^
But if I were to decide,no you probably shouldn't get one.
Maybe a small stud like a nose peircing maybe?
But yeah.

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Hey.

Well my boyfriend and me are quite close.
And i know he likes me and just doesn't want sex!
He is horny (which is embarassing to say)!

But he's like --wanna root--wanna fuk--lets have sex--

But i don't know if i should and im a virgin ... i need to know if i should have sex or not!

HELP PLEASE!!!!

Well obviously he thinks you two are close enough that he can try and get you to have sex with him.If you don't want to,then don't.In my personal opinion,no you shouldn't do it because you should save it for someone that's really special.And if he's really horny then no,it's not a good idea because all he's thinking about is that and nothing else.
Make the right decision =]

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alright so this might sound really stupid. ok well i go to this daycamp thing and there's this kid that's 11 and going into 6th grade. and im 13 and going in 8th. so he's really cute. and he likes me. and i like him. is it weird if we went out because of the age difference? and also he's short for his age, but i don't mind. thankss

No that doesn't sound like a big age difference at all.I mean I like someone 4 years older than me,so liking someone 2 years younger isn't a problem.Go out with him ^_^

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ok i hate my brothers best friend joe. i fight more with his friend then i do with my brother. joe knows i hate him i make it clear to him and he says im a emo bitch. IM NOT EMO. i...do cut and wear black daily. but im like half and half happy or sad. am i emo? i say im not. although im not sure. and hes always over! once we went bowling and i had 3 friends and my brother had him. joe says were all emo. well 2 of my friends like attacked him when he said it and i walked up. i fight with him atleast 3 times as much as with my own brother and joes so nice to parents. my brother and him are 15 and my friends are all 13 14 or 15 im 14 soon im 13 soon 14. my friends are all probly emo or goth or punk or skaters i guess since stereo types are everywhere now. and one of my guy friends is 15 hes ''emo'' acts just like me is always up to something and burns and bands. they got ina big fight. joes a pussy though. and i could even beat hime up. but im in enough trouble as it is hehe. what else can i do? im not even emotional at all.

Okay.You may or may not be emo.If you wear black constantly and cut..then that's what your more than likely going to be called.But don't get offended by it,be proud ^_^ It'll make this fag Joe even more mad if you show him it doesn't bother you.Because he's just going to have to face it that your not going to change for him.And maybe when he's around just try to stay away from him as much as possible..by maybe going to a friend's house or going to the mall.Or you can just try to convince your brother not to hang out with him.Or to tell him to go somewhere else when he has to hang out with him.And that makes me happy your friend's attacked him ^_^ Hehe.
Hope I helped hun

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yesterday and today I have felt starving 24/7 no matter what. Like i'll eat a meal, then feel really painfully starving 2 hours later. (or less)

But before 2 days ago I rarely ever felt hungry!

What's wrong with me?

this is driving me insane b/c i'm on a diet and this is making me gain weight.

im a vegeterian if that helps.

Hmm well if your a vegiterian and your always eating..then it should'nt affect you any.But if your eating other things..then that's whats going to ruin your diet.Perhaps your just going thruogh a stage in your life that's making you want to eat constantly.Like maybe your upset about something? Because that could be causing it.
Ask for anything anytime :D

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15/f. So, I was friends with this guy who lived in another state last summer. We talked online a lot and he talked to my two best friends also. We kind of stopped talking during the school year and then I was kind of a bitch to him because he was kind of a bitch to one of my other friends. Then, around April, my best friend (who was still talking to him) told me that he really disliked me. Then, in anger, I deleted him from my Facebook friends AND Myspace friends. Then, I started missing him, and in around June, I Facebook-poked him and he poked me back. And that was it. Should I message him? What if he wants nothing to do with me? I really wanna sort this out and be friends with him, but I'm afraid that he'll want nothing to do with me.

Well yeah you should message him ^_^
He would probably be happy to hear from you again..and he probably misses you too! Just do it and see what happens.
Hope I helped

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I like a cute boy and havent talked to him before. But i think i might love him. Can you be in love with someone that youve never talked to??? Hes at my bus stop and hes REALLY cute!!! Please Help

Ooh sorry sweetie,but no your not in love at all.
I've been talking to this guy for almost 3 months now and I thought I was in love,but I'm not because I haven't met him.I mean you can't really be in love if you don't know anything about him can you? And you certainly can't get upset or anything because he doesn't know who you are.You could be in love with him if you talked to him everyday and hung out with him sometimes,but not if you know nothing about him.
Hope I helped ^_^

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If anyones heard of sarah lenore, or heard her songs, shes a really amazing singer. But shes new so theres no lyrics out, but if anyone could please please please find me the lyrics to the song Anything But You, i will love you forever. Heres her myspace, if that helps, http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=29545504.

Thanks a lot.

Sorry hun but I'm afraid your just going to have to wait.I looked and there's nothing about her in anything I typed in.
Sorry =[

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can your period stop from being firgered?

Noo it can't.

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13/f 8th grade.

sorry in advance for this being long.

in 6th grade i used to be best friends with this guy..lets call him "jeremy". jeremy is two years older than me..so when i was in 6th grade he was in 8th grade..we were best friends and we always used to talk..but then i liked him.i told my best friend to tell him i like him because i thought that we were such good friends that nothing would change. he was okay with it for awhile but then he kinda got annoyed at me and we stopped being friends. i was so upset! =( i never thought that we would be friends again.

when i got into 8th grade [[jeremy is in 10th grade now]] i met this really cute guy..lets call him "roger". ive liked roger ever since september but i never stopped having feelings for jeremy even tho we didnt go to the same school and we werent friends anymore. roger and i used to like each other but we never went out. we are always nice to each other and we tease each other all the time

the other day i had field day out on the track. [[field day is like when the 8th grade classes compete in sporting events with each other]].
field day was going pretty well so far.it was the best day ever! me and my friends,erica and alyson decided to walk down to the food stand and get some drinks. we saw across the parking lot the high schoolers getting out of school..so we kinda waited for like 5 minutes to see if anyone would walk over.

then i saw jeremy across the parking lot. he was walking over to the track. i started freaking out. i didnt know what to do. i was about to turn away cause i thought he hated me but then he said "hey! what are you doin here!?" in a teasing way. we talked for like 5 minutes and i was so happy =)
i realized that some day me and him would be friends again. me and erica started screaming and jumping up and down. [[shes known about my friendship w/ jeremy since 6th grade]]. we were so happy. i still smile thinking about him now.

but then today roger was being a total jerk to me. i walked into his class to get a text book and this girl nikki was like "kayla kayla kayla! hey wats up!" and then roger was like "kayla kayla kayla GO AWAY".and he was just being a b*tch.
he was giving me crap like all day and was just making fun of me.

so my questions are:why is roger being such a jerk for no reason now?[[and i dont think he knows about jeremy if that helps at all]]. and do you think i should stop liking him if hes being such an ass? should i wait for jeremy?

thanks.any advice is muchh appreciated =)

Well maybe at feild day he saw you with "Jeremy" and so that's why he got a bit offended.And in my honest opinion..yes maybe you should wait for him ^_^ If you guys were friends,he'll more than likely start talking to you again.
Hope I helped

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I am an African American teen! My mom is black and so is my father. I look like I am half black half white, half Mexican, Mexican, Puerto Rican?! I have long curly hair, too. A lot of people ask what my ethnicity is and I tell them what I am. They often reply, "FULL?!" "No you're not!" "What else!" "Well, you don't look like it!" "You're lying!" "well, why is your hair like that?!" "No, because look at your hair!" "your parents must not be dark!?" My mom does have light skin, but that doesn't make her any less black than a darker person! I get so mad when people tell me I am not black or I am half! I believe there is nothing wrong with being multi racial or biracial, but that's NOT me! I KNOW what I am. What's the best way to tell people to not tell me what I am or tell me I am less black because of what I look like?

Just tell them to stfu.
Lol okay?
There idiots to think they can compete with you,when they know that your right.
They're just trying to start stuff because they know it makes you mad.
Don't show them it affects you any,just blow them off =]
Hope i helped

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okay there is this guy i like, we hung out last week for the first time. (met through friends)A very cool kid we have a lot in common. I got out of the car and i gave him a handshake and thanked him for the nice evening. I mean it was our first time meeting and i began to like him so i didnt wana rush things. He hasnt talked to me since last thursday. I left him a comment, he didnt return one and i just called him now and he didnt pick up his phone. Do you think he isnt interested?

Hmm maybe he was just busy or something.
I'm pretty positive that he likes you, but I mean you JUST started hanging out you know?
It'll get better ^_^
Hope I helped babe.

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14/f

My parents are very protective of me going out... as on dates

well recently I met a guy and we are friends. (nothing more than that... we both agreed) ok??? so we are just friends.

Well he asked me if I wanted to go to a movie, and I said yes... but only as friends. So we agreed that we would go to the movies only as friends


Well how do I tell my parents that I wanna go to the movies with one of my guy friends??

If I tell them it's a guy, they will automatically think i'm going out with him and they will say no

I guess I'm just scared because I know that if I say "can I go to the movies with him, and we both agreed it was only as friends and nothing more than that"

well then they would probably let me go once they got to know him better

I could say that but i'm just so scared to tell my parents that!

HELP!!

AHH!!
HELP!!
Lol okay.
Well my parents are the EXACT same way.
So maybe just tell them that you just want to go to the movies.
If they say with who just say his name and be like "We're only friends!!!" Like make it sound veryyy convincing.
Lol.
It will more than likely work.
Your lucky you even get to go to the movies alone with a friend.
I don't =/
So your lucky!
Hope I helped!

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Hi..im Tara and i have been wanting to have sex more and one time i got my freind on the couch naked with me while my parents werent home....and once i looked up naked girls on the computer.....ive been doing this for a long time now almost 1 whole year. Sometimes i just ask my freinds over so i can look at there boobs and vagina and i ask them to have sex with me and they do it....and i love doing it with them...it all started when my freind took my virginity away from me she held me and started humping me and takeing off my clothes....fist the shirt then the bra and then shes says can i see it? and she takes off my under wear..and she starts licking it and licking my boobs andshe does it alot but now i like it and im starting to feel realy sluty and one time i sent a picture of me naked to her and she sent one to me...i like loking at naked women and haveing sex with women and feeling there vaginas and boobs...i just feel good when i do it what is wrong with me??

Eeek..sorry to say..
But in my honest opinion..
No offense..
But yes,I think you are.
>.<
What you just described sounds like something a lesbian would say.
I mean normally you would hear guys saying that..
So maybe you are..
Hope I helped you..

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i dont knw what to do right now.... i feel likemy whole life is falling apart and i dont know what to do about it!!1 i just want to break down. tomorrow is the kast day i can see the guy i like for i dont know how long.... i dont think i am going to ever see him cause we dont go to the same school and we dont even live in the same area and i hate it!!! i actually find the right guy and i will probably nevere see him again and this whole thing is never going to work out!!!! i dont think anyone can help but any ideas????? :((( please help b4 o go crazy

Oooh jeez sweetie first you need to calm down.
Now where exactly is he going that your not going to be able to see him anymore?
Because you can get his number.
And you can call when you want to and make plans to hang out with him.
I have sort of the same problem..
So just ask whenever ok?

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hi, 15/m. well i really want to do well in life, but most of the time, when i have important homeowrk to do, i just cant be bothered to do it. like ill be all "i'll do it later" and i keep aying that, and convincing myself ill have enough time, and then when i do it at the last minute, i dont have enough time to do it, or dont do it properly, because i didnt have time to research it. how can i be more willing to work, and not put it off? thanks.

Hey there.Well I was just reading this and I have sort of the same problem too.I don't think you have any sort of disorder but maybe it's something or someone that's making you not want to do it? Like maybe you have a crush on a girl and can't get your mind off her, or maybe your just like addicted to the internet or something? Lol I don't know what your problem might be.Maybe your just going through a stage.
>.<
Hope I helped

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Last night I went to a party for a graduation. It was a fancy restaurant so I had nice clothes on and I looked my best. We had a HUGE group of like 35 so we had about 3 or 4 waiters serving us. I think one of the waiters liked me. I'm 13 and he looked pretty young like at least a teenager. I was sitting around all younger kids so there was no way he could really "flirt" with me. But when people ordered their drink for the girls he just said "What would you like to drink?" and then for me he said "Ma'am what can I get you to drink?" and like he wouldn't ask anyone for refills, but every time I was done he'd ask to get me another one. He wasn't even supposed to serve me because he was supposed to serve the middle section and another old dude was supposed to serve my section, but the cute waiter served me even though I wasn't in the middle. He would also keep refilling my water when I only took like 3 sips the whole meal. I also saw him look at me a few times. And for desserts I ordered this cake thing and then he comes over to my little sister later and he's like "oh yeah we ran out of the apple pie do you want anything else?" and I thought he was talking to me so I'm like "wait, me?" and he goes "yeah I think you ordered the apple pie too" and I said "no" and he goes "oh yeah, that's right." I think he only did that to talk to me. Also, when he was serving someone on the right side of the table, he'd walk around the whole left side to serve them. I'm thinking he just wanted to walk by me. Also, when I was talking to people he'd walk by and I could tell he was listening. It was weird. And then for desserts, I saw the cute waiter and another waiter talking and when I looked at them they turned around and looked at me. Then 2 minutes later, they served all the desserts EXCEPT mine. I was going to ask them where mine was, but they were in another room. Then, both of them came holding the plate with the cake in it and they set it down and said "we saved the best for last." I'm like "oh, thanks" and the cute waiter smiles and walks away. Haha, I got the cheapest smallest dessert so I think they meant I was the best.

The bottom line, do you think he liked me? He couldn't flirt much because I was surrounded by 34 people and he'd get fired. But it seemed like he was throwing in hints.

YES!! Yes it so tottaly sounds like he liked you.
Fer sure.
^_^

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why can only some people see my comments & others can't?
they aren't suppose to i have the right link and everything
i don't have a layout anymore cause i thought that was it but i don't get ittt..

Ooo honey I know all about myspace ^_^
You have to go to Account settings and then go to Privacy settings and you can change who looks at your profile,Who can see your comments,and so on.
And as for the layouts.You go to the site where you get them from,and you copy and paste the code they give you for the layout and then you go back to your myspace home,and go to edit profile,and paste the code into the about me section,anywhere.AND DONT FORGET TO SAVE CHANGES!
Lol yeah don't forget to do that.
^_^

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i frequently put my self down, and its really hard on me at times. i have very low confidence in myself, and was wondering what are the many ways to build confidence?

and if you know anything about depression medicine that'd be great to hear!

Sweetheart!
Don't take any pills okay??
You don't need them.
Having low self esteem is not depression.
What you simply need is somebody to talk to that'll make you feel better about yourself.
I think that's what you need.
I've had that problem..
And trust me medicine won't help you.
It'll only drug you up :/
So just find someone to talk to about it ok?
It doesn't have to be someone in person.
It can be anyone.
Just as long as you can trust them.
Okay? Hope I helped =]

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