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My friends have always said I've been good at giving advice, so I'm trying this so i can help more people. Dont get mad if I'm bad at this pleease. =Plittle info:
age: 16
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grade: junior
sign: aquarius
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What do you do if you're boyfriend is hot but he doesn't believe it?
hmm.. a lot of people are self-concious, and he might never really find himself attractive. but if he doesn't find himself attractive, then he likes it a lot when you let him know you think he is. reassurance of a good thing can never really be bad. but even if he doesnt say he finds himself attractive, he might still know it somehow and just not be able to say it, because he doesnt have enough self-confidence.
**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**
There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin'
if he asked just you to go to the movies, then it's more likely to be more of a date, so you can flirt with him then and see what he does. also if you go to the movies together, that'd give you two some "us" time to talk.
Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??
i suggest you stop looking for other places to cut, just stop cutting. from experience of someone who used to, it causes a lot more troubles than it helps you. find another outlet to get your anger/depression/whatever out on, but putting yourself in any sort of pain or danger does not help. it's a quick-fix that causes a lot of problems for you in the end. i know it's hard to stop and to find other things to do, but just take whatever you're cutting with, put it down, and listen to music or go to sleep or whatever you need to do to stop hurting yourself.
i am sort of stuck in the middle. my mom lives in michigan and i live with my dad in california and now that its getting time to go to college i choose 2 really good schools from both states and applied to them and surprizing enough i got into all four ... no problem right wrong i have friends in both states each wanting me to go to the college in their state and i dont want to make anyone feel bad and say NO im not going but im still a little unsure about what i should say to them beccause i dont want to hurt their feelings ???
just go to whatever college would be best for you. if they're really your friends, then they should acknowledge that you had to go to the college that would be best for you, and you could still visit them at times.. its not like they'd never see you ever again.
ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..
you need to talk to her about it, and see what's going on. if she really doesn't see you as a friend anymore, then it's no fun being in a friendship when the other person doesn't want to be your friend. if she does still want to be your friend, tell her you've been questioning what's been going on, and tell her she should be more friendly if she still wants to be your friend.
Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing??
well theres not really anything you can do to make yourself shorter, but you can change your views on it. being tall isn't a bad thing, and you can make the best of it from your own views. a lot of people like taller girls, it's all just personal taste.
I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16
teen hormones, especially in guys, are very heightened. it's not wrong that you're turned on all the time, but you should be able to learn more self-control and not masterbate so often. if you get yourself to thinking you need to relieve yourself that much, you'll start feeling like you need to even more.
well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.
if he's your friend, then you should be able to trust him. You should tell him that you and this girl are going out, and he should be happy for you. if he ends up trying to wreck anything with you and her, then he's not as good a friend as you might think.
I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?
not every guy is in it for sex. sometimes you need to just take chances and trust your judgement, if he really seems like he's not the type that'd be in it for sex, then you can try it and see what happens. if he ends up only being in it for sex, then its not that bad, stuff happens, dump him. but if you let him go and it'd turn out he wouldnt be in it for sex, then you'd miss out on a lot.
Does anyone know how i can find a distance between one place from another like hackensack NJ to garfield NJ?
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ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
his ex gf is still in love with him and wont leave us alone. he feels guilty for leaving her for another girl and she wont stop trying with him. help !
it basically comes down to how you and him feel. he might feel bad about leaving her, that doesn't mean he still likes/loves her, and it doesnt mean he'd do the same thing, leave you for her. you need to sak him how he feels about her, and use your trust towards him for his answer. you can either trust him and what he says, or you can throw out your trust and let him go to her.
ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
well if he's coming back into your neighborhood, then can you talk to him then? if he wouldn't be coming back soon enough then start talking more just through email or whatever, however you've been keeping in touch a little. let him know you still wanna be close to him and at least be his friend.