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Q: holy crap people i want to beat the shit out of everyone at my school.

There is this grl that i sit with every single day at lunch and i chill with her at school all the time and i really like her cuz shes 1.REALLY HOT..but 2. shes the nicest n sweetest person i have ever met in mi whole life and like seriously i love her..ppl r like kid ur so shallow u just like her cuz shes a cheerleader..when thats not even the reason...wut do i do?? beat the shyt out of all these gay kids or just ignore them cuz theyre just people and i shudnt care wut they think??

ignore them their opinions shouldnt effect how u do things, if u like this gurl go 4 it

Q: Can I Give My Kitten Infants Tylenol?

No b/c cats cant handle that strong of amedication plus its 4 humans not animals

Q: okay, this question is to guys (and gurls, but mostly guys). theres this guy who i have feelings for (he has feelings for me too), we used to date but not anymore. he tells me he cares about me, sometimes he really shows it and sometimes he acts like a jerk. when i show him i care, he acts like he doesnt care, if i give him "attitude", he shows he cares a lot. why does he do the opposite of what im doing??? what is wrong with him? does he really care about me or is he just playing games?

the reason hes acting like this is b/c he doesnt no how 2 express how he cares
bad_gurl

Q: okay so my friend Alexwas with this one guy and then they broke up. well me and this guy that Alex likes did something. what should i do? I don't want her to hate me.
XoXo shelly oXoX

ok shelly if they broke up then u shouldnt worry about it he was free game, just tell her the truth and if she gets mad, then tell her that she needs 2 move on and that just because they just broke up doesnt mean u have 2 punish urself and him, if hes moved on so should she

Q: hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.

so what should i tell him?

sry it's kind of long and confusing...

tell ur friend that he needs 2 let the other gurl no that he has a g/f and that they r not going out just b/c he talks 2 her doesnt mean anythang, he also needs 2 tell his g/f about wat happened so if it gets 2 her she nose wats true

Q: hey, ok.... ive been feeling sad lately b/c my bf dumped me. we went out for about 3 weeks and then someone told him i was breaking up w/ him. that wasnt the first time it happened. we continued to have these problems until one day he told me he wants to be single anyway for the first marking period. i didnt know what to say so i just acted like it was ok with me but its really not. were still acting like friends but sometimes i get some clues toward thinking that hes with someone else now. hes asked my friends many times why i broke up w/ him. he didnt want to be with me then b/c he thought i couldnt decide whether i wanted him or not. i think hes moved on but sometimes thinks about me again. i wish he would really want me back. this guy is really important to me alot. ive only had like two bfs b4 him and this one means alot. i feel like ive lost something i didnt deserve to lose. every day i wonder if he will go out with me again in the second marking period like he promised. if he doesnt i dont know wht i will do. please if u have any advice let me know so i wont feel as depressed. thanx so much! ~tepy - 13 -female~

im goin through the same thing rite now and its just best 2 let it go if he wants u back he'll let u no and if he doesnt then try being friends itll hurt 4 awhile but ull b ok

Q: Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?

u need 2 let him no how u feel it wont help u ne 2 keep it in just talk 2 him about it b4 u do something ull regret

Q: can yall give me some tips on what i shouldnt do when im around a guy im dating or just friends with so they dont get mad or annoyed at me? thanks!

just b urself if they dont like who cares

Q: hey, i was wonderin if you can help me?
i like this guy and i am pretty sure he likes me
but he is KINDA dating this girl. me and him have done stuff but he is still not telling me what is going on between us. what should i do!!!

Hey if this guys got a gurl wait it wont last 4eva just let him know how u feel and dont get obsessed o by the way mary im getting back 2gether with tank luv ya bye

Q: my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him

u should tell him u no b/c he needs 2 find out wat drugs can do believe me i used 2 do drugs 2 and i dont wanna go back. if ur brother doesnt listen then find his stash and call the cops. i no this sounds like ratting him out but its 4 his own good

Q: well theres this guy...we'll just call him bill...well i rlly like bill and i think he likes me too...he's moving to florida and the end of the school year which is in june...im really upset b/c i rlly liked him...i want to leave him with a good im pression today so that he'll go crazy and like me even more...i was thinkin of my friend askin to take a picture of us and then after she'll be like wait one more..and when she counts to three ill kiss his cheak in the picture...what do u think?

thats a brillant idea if u like him go 4 it
Bill deserves to c the best of u b4 he leaves

Q: ever since june two of my friends told me they didnt want to hang out with me anymore and wouldnt tell me why....now they tell everyone else not to talk to me for no reason and make up all these lies and tell people them....they tell me i wont let it go yet they're the ones who tell me to committ suicide and spread lies...they wont let it go...what should i do?

ok first u need 2 call ur friends and ask them y theyre doing this if the wont tell u ask their parents if they no y if they contiue 2 spread rumors about u then go 2 some1 u can make them stop
bad_gurl559

Q: So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do?

ok if u really luv this gurl first find out wat she wants if she wants another guy let her go 4 awhile eventually she realize how much u luv her and shell b back

Q: wat would you say to ur best friend who wants to go to the movies next week wid u? lol. so....

it depends do u like this friend or the movie if so then go

Q: my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused

well first of all u need 2 confront ur bf. tell her wat u think about her and her problem. then work out a agreement but make sure u respect her decisions
bad_gurl559