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hey i am a 13 year old oriental chick named emily anne. i come in a full package, a crazy personality, totally lovable, fun, perky, and last of all gorgeous. ;D I know more than the average 13 year old girl should know and for sure i kno how to have some fun. i'm 100% Philippino. i can be a bit blonde sometimes but thats what makes meh so lovable :D i love giving advice nad helping people with there problems. so i can't wait to help you guyz out!
E-mail: asiazFLYangel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: manila,philippines
Occupation: student
AIM: asaizFLYangel
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 111
Last Update: March 31, 2005
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ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do... (link)
number one) who gives what your friends say becuase i mean if they were your friends they would support your 100% number two) you'll never know if your not good enough if you don't put your self out there.


Ok...there is a seventh grade dance on thrusday and this guy...asked me to the dance. I don't like like him. The guy that I like gave a hint he liked me but does this mean he likes me? Should I go with the other guy? (link)
if this is such a problem i say go with who you wanta go out with becuase i mean what if the guy you liek is just waiting for the right time and just becuase the other dude asked you first doesn't mean you have to say yes. go w/ your heart it'll never fail you!
xoemilyanne


ok i have a gf i asked her out and she said yes so we talk on the phone and i see her at school. we didnt want any one to know but now we dont know what to do i also was wondering if i should take her some where and where like the movies or dairy queen.{im 13 male shes 13 also}some people know and some dont i love her and she love me so what do i do??? and she doesnt have any one to take her any where and her arents dont know she is going out what do i do???
take her out and where?
tell every one or keep it a secrete? (link)
well i had the same problem w/ rides and everything. but first of all if you guyz love each other why can't you tell your friends and what not but i wouldn't tell your parents. i am not allowed to date either but what momma don't kno won't hurt her ;D but tell her to tell her parents that if you guyz wanta go out just say you and a bunch of friends are going and maybe her mom can just drop her off and boom you and her are together and same thing when she leaves make sure her mom doens't see you. it worked for meh a lot of times! good luck! and i kno from experience telling your parents is a bad thing.


ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love? (link)
the first week of course your gonna feel like your in love with him but after a few months your gonna see the real him and you might find things that are major turn offs. so wait it out and right now its really hard to tell.


i starting to really like this guy and he likes my bestfriend but she doesnt like him at al. what should i do, should i just try to stop liking him? (link)
well i have been through this before. well if your friend really doesn't like him then i say you can still like him becuase sooner or later he will get tired of liking someoen who doesn't like him and he will move on and maybe he'll move on to oyu. but make sure he notices you ;D good luck!


Whenever I get $$ I spend it!! I can't help it, whenever I'm in town I see something I want and I spend it. I don't even need what I bought!! How can I save my money? (link)
i would have someone either hold my money and only give the money to you until you find something nessecary to buy or just leave your money at home so you can't spend anything hope i helped!


Hey i know this guy and hes like always talking about how hes never been kissed and asks about it to people and im always there. We used to be best friends until a fight but now we are becomeing friends again... i used to like him a lot while we were best friends. I want to kiss him soooo bad cuz he keeps on complaining bout not being kissed yet but i know he'll think Ewww if i do and i mean im only 13 so i dunno. I just always want to kiss him wen i see him. (link)
well i mean think if hek eeps bringing it up i mean it might mean something that maybe he is hinting something giveh im a little surprise but thats only if you want to take teh risk.


i dont get it y do we all have 2 deal with crap from our exes some1 help im me i cant take it he treats me like shit!!help me please i dont know what to do anymore because it gets on my nerves and then hes going out with my best friend or ex best friend and its pissing me off and i have tried talking to both of them but it doesnt help at all and i think she knows she is pissing me off real bad!!!and it hurts though ya know?someone help i rate fives and fours at the least!! (link)
the only way to get over it is to get over him. find someone else. becuase i mean you guyz aren't together anymore so technically he can go out w/ whoever he chooses too.


ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do? (link)
no no no don't ever think that there is something wrong w/ you. it's not bad really. your just the type of person that is into old fashion relationships... you like to take it slow. but seriously nothing is ever wrong w/ you. your just not ready. and thats cool! but if you wanta come out of your nutshell then get yourself out there and flaunt what you got! lol well i hope i helped!


im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks (link)
maybe your not prude maybe your just shy if you will like make out or something it makes you not prude but just becuase you won't like have sex or something doesn't make you prude. cuase i mean when your not ready, your NOT ready. but hey get yourself out there and start reeling in those boys and flirt you may hear alot of people say that but hey it works.


My favorite pants have a hole in the crotch and the fabric is worn thin around the seam. How can i fix the hole without sewing. I have tried duct tape and safety pins already. Do you have any ideas? (link)
well what you could do that would make your pants so hotter maybe is by putting like patch of somethin cute or something over it it may be in an odd place but hey it's better than a whole


this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting

there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email. (link)
well i mean if your love her so much then beleive her. maybe some things are true and some are not not everyone tells the truth 24/7 thats like inhuman lol but imean don't judge her until you kno something is 100% positive or else feelings can get hurt or maybe worse.


Okay. I used to go to private skool 2 years ago. Me and this guy really liked eachother and we went to the skool dance together. I now go to public skool and I like this guy. The guy from private skool sent me an email today saying that he truly likes me. But
I think the guy from the public skool likes me too. Which one should I choose?
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well base your desicion on who you feel most comfortable with and who you see most. and who has the better looks lol just keeeding but think it through. hope i helped


okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
just not the same* (link)
well you do like for sure are certain that he's gay? don't assume anything. but if he is then i think gay people are cool and just becuase he may be gay doesn't mean he likes every guy he sees gay guyz are like girls and i'm certain we don't love every guy we see. and he might need someone so don't ignore him help him out


My friend is coming home.. she is up for adoption and her and her bf want to hang out w/me but i already have plans w/my boyfriend and i dont want to cancle them how do i work around them (link)
go out together or hang out w/ your friends the beginning of the day and then near the end hang / your boyfriend!


Ok im a 13 year old female and im five two. I weigh one hundred and thirty two pounds and I want to lose like twenty five. the diets dont work and i feel really fat. help me please i rate high. (link)
well okay instead of eating alot just drink alot of water while you eat it'll make you get full faster and all i can say is exercise 20 minutes a day. and eat healthy and if you want some sugar only eat it like once a week and have a good amount but don't over do it.


Okay...Well I went out with this boy name Jarred and before we went out I thought I really liked him but as it turned out I couldn't stand him while we were going out! It was one of those kinds of relationships...don't you hate that lol. Well so we got Christmas over with and he bought me a fricken diamond ring! I was like OMG we were going out for about a week. Well actually the thing was I did like him but he ANNOYED ME! He was sooo clingy and he fricken bought me a ring..it's sweet and all but over the top! Well I made an excuse up and told him that I was punished...I just wanted a break basically and if I wanted to get with him again I would tell him I wasn't punished anymore. So like I was missing him and he liked me still and I told him I wanted to get with him again and then randomly he stopped liking me and saying how he misses his EX GF!! omg *tear*! Well I guess I have been being clingy lately and I talked to my brother about it and he told me to back off of him and not be clingy. Well I did and I called him this one day and he ended up getting mad at me so now he isn't speaking to me at all!! I miss him soo much and want him back...I don't think I could stand to see him with another girl! Anyone know what I should do?? Also..I have another quick question..it seems the only reason I always get hurt is because I crush so hard over any guy I go out with!! Anyone help me there?
Thanks...mad love (link)
well i mean i think telling him you were punished wasn't the way to go becuase i mean HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY yeah i'll stick w/ that well like you should've told him straight out that you need some space and maybe he would've been even more crazy about you. so give him some space and well if you don't want to see him w/ another then don't look at them lol or try to find a new crush and get over him.


Somethimes i feel like my boyfriend is only with me to get booty . I dont know what to do cause I really love him and I dont know if I should tell him how I feel. Please Help!!!!!! (link)
talk to him and ask him whats the real reason he is w/ you and if he can't be honest then he doesn't deserve you. he might just be using you for a booty call or something and that is not cool. all i can say is talk to him and use the right kinda of judgement.


Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =] (link)
okay 3 years difference isn't like totally bizarre i mean i have went out w 16 year olds too but i mean if you wanta take it to the next step like fingering and what not i say its up to you like are you ready. dont feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do and if your boyfriend cared he'd wait too i mean what more does he want? well wait forget i asked that question lol but why does your friends hate the fact that your going ot w/ him becuase i mean he hasn't done anything to them i think but don't do anything you don't want to just becuase someone else is doing it and think its cool. well good luck and i hope i helped you out a bit!


Ok my I have a friend Laura* and she is always copying me! For instance, I got my hair cut short and the next thing you know she decides to cut off her like 3ft long hair too! And the other day on the bus I was singing the Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme song (:D) and she goes " OH! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!! " I was like...goodddddd!!!!! It just gets on my nerves alot! Idk how to make her stop...anyone have any ideas? THANKS! (link)
do something that you kno she would totally not do becuase i mean then you could see what she'll do but like maybe she just likes more things in common than you think and maybe she just likes your taste in style and songs :D i personally like that theme song lol i tihnk its hott




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