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what are some healthy ways for a teenage girl to masturbate? i've already heard about the water and the fingers...but isnt there something betta?
well the guy that wrote under me is an asshole huh? he obv. can't take anything seriously. but there is alot of ways. but the most common one is fingering yourself. & if you have a shower head the comes off. that's always a good one :p.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
ok ... i sexually please my boyfreind on a regular basis. But we don't have sex b/c im a virgin and want to wait but he is ok with it. Now...I am contstantly doing things for him (oral, hj's...that kinda stuff) but when it comes time for me to get some pleasure in return...nothing happens. I could lay on the bed for an hour with my legs spread cuz im so horny, but he doesn't seem to notice. he will do things like play with my boobs and put his hand down there and get me turned on...but wont do anything else. I end up having to masterbate when he isnt around. How can i remedy this? I'm kinda shy about asking him to do things to me ... and i dont want him to feel like he fails b/c he doesnt do stuff to me much anymore.Sometimes I dont think it crosses his mind... how can i get him to start returning the favors? lol. Thanks in advance ... sorry it was so long.
if i was you. i'd talk to him n be like what's good. because if anything you should be getting action before him :p. but yeah i would deffinatly talk to him n i'd just be like heyy .. n just start off easy with the conversation. good luck
hope i helped.
-anjelica
when guys finger you or have sex with you do they hate it when your down there is hairy or do they not care?
most guys like it shaved but then the other like it nice n neat. the best way to figure stuff like this out is to just ask you're boyfriend. im sure he'll tell you what he likes without you being totally embarrassed. :D.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
I'm 18/f he's 21/m. My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for over a year now. Yesterday we tried a new position and if made me queef (I think that's what it's called). Anyway the point is I was really embarassed about it. My boyfriend is sweet and said he didn't care, but I don't know. Does that kind of thing gross guys out?
you know it's normal. so don't let it embarrass you. as much as i could see it embarrassing. it IS normal. every girl will do it atleast once in there life. if not more :p.
but don't let it get the best of you.
it's alright sweetie.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
okay so last week my bf fingered me for the first time in the pool. now what i want to know is would doing that kind of activity in the pool be bad for my vagina? I heard that sex is bad in the pool, does it go for fingering as well? i mean it hasn't bothered me at all. In fact, i really enjoyed it. Like most people say, it hurts the first time to be fingered. It didn't hurt at all. He eventually used 2 fingers near the end. I'm a dancer and i use tampons so that could be why.
Also since it was my first time and haven't done it since, would doing it out of the water feel better than being in the pool?
just curious...
thank you.
i would have to agree with the limit the sexual activity in the pool. because of the reason they listed. but being fingered in the pool isn't all that bad. but do limit your self when it comes to anything sexual. being fingered doesn't make you out to be a whore or anything like that. if you enjoy it then why not? just don't get too carried away.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
Hi. I'm Female and 14 and my boyfriends 16 in october. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, I know that isn't that long, but i have been thinking about having sex with him. He keeps talking to me about it and he said he doesn't want to rush me into anything i don't want to do and he will wait for me, but because he is going to be 16 soon and I am going to still be 14, he can get arrested for having sex with me. (I'm from England and the legal age for sex is 16, if anyone didn't know) He therefore said he doesn't want to have the risk of being arrested so we can either have it before october or wait until i'm 16, which is over a year. I'm stuck :( How do you know when your ready for sex? I think i am, but i aint sure... Can you be ready? I'm confused, How do you know? And can anyone help me out with my situation?
noone can tell you when you're "ready" there is no pacific day that you will be either. it's your choice to choose if you're ready or not. you know? but maybe you should wait. longer than 2 months. but it's your choice. just make sure you're ready for all the out comes.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
okay. 15/f. is it normal for a 15 year old teenage girl to fantasize about having sex with women? because whenever I think about a man and a woman having sex, I get grossed out. But the other way around (people of my own gender) I'm fine with that. does that necessarily mean that I am a lesbian?? Or do all teens go through this 'stage'?
0.o?
just because you think about it, it doesn't mean that you're necessarily a lesbian or bisexual.
i think everyone goes threw a stage like this-
hope i helped.
-anjelica
To Start with I am Female and 16. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he has brought up having sex quite a bit recently. Me and him are both virgins and he seems pretty keen to get it over and done with. I am worried however, not because i don't think i'm ready, but because i was wondering whether I should shave down there because he would prefer it or should i just leave it? I keep getting told different things. Some of my friends says it shouldn't matter, but then a majority of people I have spoken to said that guys prefer it to be shaved. Does anyone know what guys prefer?
most guys do like it shaved. but like your friends said it shouldn't matter. but alot of guys do like it shaved. but like christina said. make sure you're ready. you don't want to rush into anything that you're not ready for. sex is a big step. even after 2 months. make sure you're ready for all the out comes of having sex. Sex is overrated.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
Hi, I Am Female And 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and we are thinking about having sex in the next few months. Me and him are both virgins though. I am worried about how much it is going to hurt on my first time. I am quite shy sometimes and don't like showing I'm in pain. So the question is How much does it actually hurt? And How can i cover up the pain or reduce the pain? I desperatly need help with this. Please help. I am kind of scared about how much pain I may have to go through, but I just want to get it over and done with. So, How much pain? and How can I cover up the pain or reduce the pain? thanks xx
well it all depends on how big your boyfriend is.
of course it's going to hurt. but the pain may
vary. sometimes it hurts a little and sometimes
it hurts more. you wont know until it happens.
make sure you talk to your boyfriend about it.
hope i helped
-anjelica