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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

no dont feel bad, sure most of your friends probabally have..am i right? but it will come, trust me! i thought mine never would,im 13 also! but it did! so dont be worried, you will get it sooner or later, there are tons of people that havent gotten there first kiss yet (some i might mention are even in like highschool) so dont worry! you will get it!! just keep your confindence high!! goodluck and i hoped i helped

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Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!

I think it sounds like he does like you, but then again he might just be the flirt type, and may just think of you as a really good friend. but the way to find out without embarrssing yourself is get a GUY friend of yours, and that is friends with him to ask him if he likes you! if you dont have a ny GUY friends that are friends with him, ask one your girl friends to ask him!well hope i helped, goodluck

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I'm 13, female, about 5'4" and about 140 lbs. I've tried dieting, since i'm too young i can't use diet pills, and i've run out of solutions. I can't even get dressed without crying because i can't stand the way i look. i have absolutely no idea what to do. any suggestions are greatly appreciated. thank you guys so much

well first of all, im sorry, 2nd of all,try walking,jogging,running to get into shape, excersises, going to the guy, even talk to your parents about maybe buying you a tredmill to run,jog,walk on at home if your that concerned with it, try eating healthy! and most importaunt be confident. god made you the way he wanted you to look, so i promise..god will not let you down! he will never make a mountain you cannot climb! so goodluck, and i hope i helped!

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I reallllllllly like this guy.. and he and I went out before.. and yeah we hooked up in eveyrthing.. but i regret it tootally!!!! and thenw e broke up after about a week :( and then he and I kept talkign and stuff and were realllly tight.. but now we like never talk.. and he acts as if he hates me or something.. but deep inside of ME I really want him back!! is there anything I can do to make him want me again?

well im VERY sorry to say i dont think there anything you can do to MAKE him want you back. ttry calling him up just to talk occasionally..Not to much, he might think your weird, but just every once and a while, and become good friends agian!then maybe he will relise he made a mistake, and he will want you back. but if u dont wanna listen to that advice..go with this one..jusst try making him jealous,and wut a fun,crazy, or (or whatever kina girl he likes) you can be! make him be sorry for breaking up for you,make him miss you well goodluck! hope i helped

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OK well theres this kid at my school. (Hes in 10th im in 9th) Well we always got along because we have alot of the same friends and do one sport together. But I never really liked him that much untill we both started spending alot of time together. I really started to like him and he even kissed me once. Well after that we kinda stoped talking, but then one night we talked again and i started to like him again. He even asked to go to the movies. But I was talking to one of his friends and he said "well hes not looking for a relationship" but im confused because i was messing around with the kid and i said "What if I was like I love you and can't live without you will you go out with me" and his response was "i would proally be a little shocked but then prabably say yes" Help im so confused!

awww this isss a cute situatuon!!i think you both like eachother, just lets things happen, try talking to him about it, and see if he feels the same way about you as you do for him, i hope i helped, and gooduck, let me know how everything goes!xo

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Ok...I am content with my body except this little pouch of fat or something on my inner thighs..its the only thing that bothers me really..im pretty active, i walk and exercise about every day or every other day and play ports and was in track, and i try to eat fairly healthy. soo anything i can do to get rid of this? i'll rate high...!

the other answer is proababally better, but just try jogging or runnning some more, or some magizines have exersicers, try leg exercises, or ask a doctor what you can do to get rid of it.try going onto google, and searching leg exercises or something, and if nothing works.just remember you are perfect in gods eyes, and god made you the way he wanted to, so if you cant get rid of it, im sure your still very pretty and any guy will be able to see that! well i hope i helped atleast a little! goodluck

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ok thanks for the answer but see the thing that is confusing is that like alot of time in artclass he will like still my markers and when i try to get them back we always end up like face to face as if where going to kiss but then i like pull back!!

aww, well..ask him how he feels about you, and if he feels the same, well then there you go, does he act like he likes you?

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Me and my ex broke up like last year we kinda dumped each other at the same time. well a week after we broke up he got a new girl friend. i wasnt jealous i didnt care really. but ii didnt get over him that fast. he called me and said he still loved me and it was stupid for us to break up. ( he did this when he was going out with his new girl friend). well a year passed and i havent thought about him in like ever but all of a sudden i started thinking of him again! i dont no if i like him again or dont! i cant call him cause his number is changed and i dont no it. is this normal and what should i do?

Yes its Totally normal to just randomaly have feelings for a guy all over again out of nowhere! maybe you can find better, but if you feel you just have to see what hes up to these days, find a friend that was friends with them and ask them. or if you known his last name, look it up in the phone book. but if you do find his number, and get ahold of him, and you find out he has a girlfriend, just know your putting yourself into MAYBE getting hurt because hes moved on, but remember..everything happens for a reason! i hope i helped.goodluck

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what brand of mascara works really well?

revlon!!

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I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?

well i hate to be honest with you..but heres what i would do..it might hurt..but its what you should do..
*..Number one:if yall are really goodfriends, as much as it hurts to see him love/like another girl, you have to be supporitive of him, and be happy for him! now i kno thats hard, but it will mean alot to him if you are just happy for him.
and EVENTUALLY..i mean we are 13, they will break up, support him and tell him its ok if hes the one that got dumped, if he dumped her, than go ahead, and then make your moves on trying to get him back, i know that just being supportive and being happy for him is hard, but..think if you were the other girl, try and consider her feelings,shes likes him alot..and pretend you are her, and another girl steals him away from you, you wouldnt like it, so..dont try and get him back until they have broken up, hope i helped, and goodluck

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Over the years ive dyed my hair so much from boxes and its developed this orangish/yellow blonde color. A couple months ago, i got my hair professionally highlighted blonde..but the horrible tint/color in my hair is still there. So if i go and get my hair professionally done again, could they strip my hair (take out all the color/dyes)? If so, how much does that cost? I know when you strip your hair, your hair becomes red. So if i dyed it blonde (professionally) after i got it stripped..would it have a red tint to it? If thats not the way to go, what should i do to get rid of all the color in my hair, so i can professionally highlight it so it doesnt look bad? (I cant dye over it, that doesnt work. I need to get rid of the ugly color.)

well my mom wont let me dye my hair yet, she says im to young, but anyways..ive gottem professinally and store bought highlights, and each time you just have to let your hair grown out back to the normal color. like..arg this is hard to explain..like..you highlight it, or dye it, and then you let the roots grown, and obviusally the new hair that grows is going to be your normal color hair..and when your normal color gets long enough, and your dyed color more towards the bottem now , cut that off..and rehighlight your hair, and WA LA!! well..ahaha..that was confusing..i hope i helped..maybe try asking a professional hair salon what to do. goodluck

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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!

well im gonna be honest with you, if there gettig mad or annoyed with you over those things. and never including you, maybe you should try to make some other friends besides those that are getting annoyed with what you say and do. they have no right to get annoyed that you talk about your other friends, and guys you like. ugh i tryed,hope i helped..goodluck

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I have this friend.. she tells me im her BFF but she always ditches me when im with her. What can i do??

try talking to her about it, sit her down, or call her, or instant message, or email her and ask her if we are such good friends, why do you ditch me when we hang out. maybe..shes just so caught up in her own world! and did she go with any friends?? did she go with you? or tell you she would meet you there? if she toldyou she would meet you there well then the friends she went with she has to concentrate on!, try asking her to do something one on one. see i had a problem similar to this. one of my BFF thought i was ditching her! and its just i had friends i WENT with that i had to concentrate on. and was wrapped up in my own little world. but i love her dearly

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Ok, I'm like head over heels in love with this one guy. I know, cliche. But i'm only 15, and he already is planning us getting married and all this stuff. Now, dont' get me wrong, i wanna marry him, but i dont' want him to start saying all this stuff and end up hurting me. So i'm having trouble telling him i love him, but he means the world to me. How do i tell him without the risk of gettin hurt?

hm tricky. but..to be honest, you cannot hide from getting hurt by love. love will ALWAYS find a way to backfire and hurt you. the more you try and hide from it, the more it backfires on you and hurts you more. its completly understandable to be nervouse 2 say those words. they are 3 very big words.has he said them to you yet? maybe wait until he says them and then try and figure out your feelings on saying them back! hope i helped.goodluck

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okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's

hm this seems a little tricky, but ill do my best. number one-how rude, thats very strange of him, but arent all guys strange haha! anyways,I know this might be a little embarssing for you to do, but you could call him and ask him whats going on between the two of you, like.."are we dating.." "do you like me.." or..just ask him some things that might clear things up a bit. if its to hard for you on the phone, ask him in an email. or on instant messager. or get a good friend you trust to. well i hope i helped.goodluck

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Hi! I have a hugeeee family. The number of people that live in my house is 12

Hey! well thats totaly normal! most rich girls are snobby! im not saying all..but most! because they think they are better than everyone eles! now just because she is mean to you, doesnt give you the right to be mean back, because being mean back is making you just as bad as her, so sit down with her, and talk it over! tell her you dont like the way she treats you, and your family, and cousins! if she keeps doing it, try ignoring her! but if she keeps being mean, dont be mean back, but stand up for yourself, and tell her calmly she needs to lay off of you, and just because she has more money doesnt make her any better than any of us! :) hope i helped!goodluck

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hey rainey! its erica i dont really have a question.. but i just wanted to let u kno that i love ya and that ur the best ever!! :D screw this.. im gettin me some ruffles.. hehe love ya! BFFAE!!

haha and everyone.. rainey gives good advice.. trust me!! ;)

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heyy erica!! haha i love you sooo much!! :D thank you 4 everythingg!! the time when i needed help the most u made me pictures, and cheered me up with a picture of a bag of ruffless...:) haha ur an awesome friend!! i love youuu!! BFFAE!!
^^Erica is the sweetest girl eveeerr!! aww haha i love you eree!!

_Rainey_
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