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Hey this is angelwings saying if you need advice don't be afraid to ask. Anything goes, if you're not ashamed to ask it im not afriad to reply to it. If you feel you can't talk to anyone around you remember you always got me.
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Hey theres this girl and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants do to more with me and dont get me wrong i do to but the only problem is that i'm not quite done with puberty soo what do i do? do i tell her? do i just wait? do i just go for it and whatever happens happens?
PLZ HELP!
P.S. we love each other VERY much and shes a virgin same with me and f we did do anything it would be the first for both of us i'm 14 thanx :)
I think that if your not sure you should just wait. If you love each other as much as you say you do, then I'm sure she won't have a problem with waiting for you. If she asks why just tell her your not ready. But if you feel comfortable telling her your problem, then tell her, she'll understand. Trust me. Sorry it took me soo long to give you an answer i didn't know i had anything in my inbox. Sorry again.
P.S. I hope i helped
Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 weeks now. Friday nite we were hanging out and my bro was around so I couldnt give him a kiss without him telling my parents (btw im not allowed to have a b/f) Yesterday, my b/f's best friend asked me if I would kiss him b4 1st pd on Monday, and I said that I was going to Friday, but I couldn't so I would Monday. But I dunno what I should do now because I like dont want all his friends around and everything. I kinda want a kiss from him first tho!! Someone please help me!!! btw I am 13/f and he is 14/m
If you don't want all his friends around tell him that and he should respect your wishes. Tell him that your not comfortable kissing him in front of everybody and i bet he would tell them to back off. Trust me. Just tell him how you feel.
this incident happened maybe about a year ago, but i'm still baffled to this day on what really happened. read on and see if you can decode this guy's actions...it's long, mind you!
i had a really good guy friend throughout all of high school. we both hung out in the same group, and i was known as the bachelorette (i never had a bf before and all my friends did). when i got together with my boyfriend, my guy friend started acting funny as in at first in big shock, then being distant toward me, and then "maybe" flirting with me?
why i say maybe is because he tends to do that with all of the girls in our group. he tends to joke a lot, but one thing he almost never did to me was touch me in any way shape or form (not even playfull hitting). when i got together with my boyfriend, he started acting kinda clingy like when the group departed for class he walked with me instead of them. as for the touching, he sat really close and made up excuses that could be played off as "joking". everytime i questioned him about it, he denied it and said he was "joking around". but if his behavior changes like that i don't think it's joking...?
i hardly ever talk about my bf cuz all my friends were currently single at the moment and i did it for their sake so that it doesn't make them feel bad. and whenever i do (very rare), my guy friend gets really quiet. later on that year he claimed to be mad at me because i talked about my boyfriend too much, which isn't true! he started ignoring me, giving me dirty looks, and vice versa.
it's odd because not long after i hooked up with my bf, we talked online and he admitted that he liked me. later (way, way later) down the line my boyfriend decides to call him up and told him to just leave me alone. it got kinda intense, and i called my guy friend and asked him the reason why my bf doesn't like him is because he said he liked me on the internet that one day. i asked him if he meant that, and he said no, he was "only joking" that day.
to this day i really don't even know how this guy feels about me. does he like me or was he playing with my head? can anyone tell me?
I think its pretty obvious that he likes you, and as for him saying he was just joking, he was protecting his feelings. He didn't want to put himself out there and get regected which is what was going to because you already had a boyfriend. He probably didn't do anything to promote his feelings for you earlier because he probably thought since you never had a boyfriend he had more time, or he just didn't realize his feelings until you weren't availible anymore. If you keep asking him abouyt his feelings he will probably always denie it and say it was just joking. But don't be fooled like that. He likes you
There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
M-15
I don't think you can make her like you any more than she already does. But I think you should tell her how you feel and how much you like her and find out just how much she likes you and if she likes you in that way.
ok so like i have those type shorts that everyone wears and they have a little cut on the side. Right you know what i am talking about? Well i have a bunch of those. Plus i have long legs with awesome thies and caves. My sister thinks i wear them way to short. I just think that the shorter the skinnier i look. When they are long i look short and fat. Then my sis gets some and she wears them shorter than i do and she is 10!!!!! I brought it up to her and she got p.o.ed! Isn't the reason we wear them short is b/c girls feel like they are sexier? Please help! Atleast now my sis can't blame for wearing them short! help!!!!
yes some girls wear them because they want to look sexy and some wear them because they don't like the way they look in longer things, and there's nothing wrong with that. If your sister wears them also then tell her she doesn't have the right to talk about you, or how you wear them.
is it wrong that i dont get along, or not really like my best friends boyfriend?..i didnt think of it much, untill i remembered that i didnt like any of the other guys she has talked to before in the past...any advice on this??
No, I don't think its wrong that you don't like him. Personally most of my friends don't like my boyfriend but im still with him(boarderlining 5 months). You should probably tell her but not every one gets along with every one else, and its no exception for him just because he's with your friend. But you have to also remember that she does like him so that doesn't mean she has to break up with him just because you don't.
[13/f] everyone at my school sees me as a shy person who always follows the rules and everything and thats not at all how i am! i got detention today and this kid saw me in the office [iv'e had detentions before, but i dont brag about it to look "cool" like all the other kids] and he was like "whoa! YOUR in DETENTION??" I feel like everyone knows me for someone i'm not and it's really starting to bug me. i'm not at all how anyone sees me, not even my own friends.. does anyone know how to like idk, show everyone "who i really am"? i know that sounds gay but i don't know how else to say it
Well i think if you act more like the person you are and show everyone the side of you, you want them to know, they would start to think of you as that person instead of the shy, goodygoody.
ok i have a girlfriend and i think she's cheating on me with my best friend but she said she has no idea what i'm talking about!!!! and her best friend said she's dumping me on valentines day,and he best friend she is really cute.but i'm dumping my girlfriend.SHould i ask the really cute girl out and should i give her the valentines day present i rate high so help
Well, you should probably see who is telling the truth and who is lying. Your girlfriend might actually be telling the truth and she might not dump you. But If you really believe that she is cheating on you, and that she is going to dump you, then yes i think you should ask the other girl out and give her the present
I have been going out with this girl for a little bit of time and we are having problems. Our number one issue we have is trust what should i do. Should i break up with her or what. Also i like this other girl and i dont know if she likes me we are close friends and have known each other for a long time. I am confused what shall i do.
Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well first i think you should find out how this other girl feels about you so you won't break up with this girl for her and she doesn't like you. As for the other question i can't tell you what to do you have to go with your own heart and how you feel about her. I am going to say this though, you can't have a successful relationship, or any relationship at all for that matter, if there is no trust. But if you think that she's worth the fight stay with her and work on it
hiya,
im 14 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. it'll be exactly a month on valentines day. he's the sweetest guy i could ever know, and i know he'd never do anything to hurt me. he's so sweet in fact that he texted me last night to ask if it would be ok for him ti kiss me on valentines day. we're going ot watch the sunset in the park overlooking the city, it should be really pretty.
in theory, it should be the perfect evening, but im terrified. ive never kissed a guy before, so im really scared about my first kiss. and i like him so much, i really dont want to mess this up. everyones told me it'll be fine if i relax and enjoy it, but im scared that i wont enjoy it! i mean, what if we kiss and its horrible? what do i do then? and what if i screw it up completely?
please help!
xxx
I think your friends are right and you should just relax. If you do i think it will come naturally. If its really right you'll feel it and just go with the flow of things. If the night is perfect like you described it to be, the kiss will be too.
i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!
I think that if you want to go futhur with your boyfriend and care about what he thinks, that you obviously care for him a lot. I'm assuming that he feels the same so i think that he won't care about whats on your body, or how it looks. And that he will charish it no matter what and if he doesn't than you don't need to go that far with him anyway.
a guyy and i were really good friends and he said he was gonna ask me out and stuff and then he asked out some other girl!!! now he tells all my friends he likes me a lot and when i asked him if this was true he said yes and then said he is just going out with her to see if he really like me so i dont have to waste my time.... should i just give up even though i like him a lot?
I don't think you should give up because you like him and its obvious he likes you so, just ask him to make a decision, is he going to go out with you or the other girl.
I was supposed to babysit tomorrow ,but my boyfriend's basketball game got cancelled today and resceduled for tomorrow ... at the same time that I have to babysit. The woman that I babysit for doesn't think going to his games is a good excuse to cancel ( I know this from past experiences). So I need some help thinking up a good excuse to cancel on such short notice. I know this is very wrong but I really need the advice... Fast! Thank u so much... I rate high!
Well, first off i would like to say that i think you should babysit because their will be other games you can attend, and you're letting her down and putting her in a no-win situation if she can't find another babysitter, but if your sure that this is what you want to do i suggest that you say that you have to stay after school for study hall or something, for a big test you need to pass and you can't make it. she's a mother so she'll think education and grades comes first.
ok heres the issue-
theres this guy at my school(lets call him josh) and me and josh always hang out at school. about the second day after we started hanging out, josh started to flirt with me. ALOT. the problem is hes a senior, and i think he has a girlfriend, but she doenst go to our school. should i flirt back???
thanks
Well, in my opinion flirting never hurts(god knows i do it enough). and you never know he might not and if he does and hes flirting with you then things might not be going so well in his relationship. But if you really think that its wrong to flirt when your not sure if hes taken or not, then don't. Always go with your conscience it will never steer you wrong.
My mother just got married, though we've been living with him and his daughter for a year or two. Recently I've realized what a bad person my new stepsister is (evil stepsister!!) but I have to live with her until I go to college (two years). I told her I didn't like her flat out, but I still have to deal with her on an almost daily basis. What can I do to make this less painful?
To get through the day only aknowledge her when you have to. Don't let the things she does get to you and keep your distance. Try and act like shes not there and only talk to her when its absolutely necessary. You'll find out that it is much easier if you act like you don't notice the things she does. Remember she only does them to irritate you so just don't pay attention to her.
Okay im 15 .. and i like these two guys .. tha first one lets call him Joe ..okay well he goes to my school .. and hes a junior(im a freshman) well our lockers are right next to each other so thas sorta how we met but then we started talking,talking bc i became "close friends" with his friend (lets call him) Steve .. well me ans Steve just have sorta drifted away .. but me and Joe still talk alot !! n we talk online n everyday at school .. and i like him alot .. hes 17 .. soo hott and is soo sweet to me!! we just sorta click i guess.. hes so awesome .. and then tha other guy lets call him Bob .. well i met him about a month and a half ago from my two bff's ..Well we have all hung out together a few times and me and Bob talk online all tha time n see each other about every weekand(hes a freshman too but goes to another school) .. so every weekand me and my friends go to these local concert things .. its just basically a whole bunc of local punk/emo bands and they play .. its really awesome .. well me n my friends have been goin every sat. night for tha past month .. well this comming up saturday .. i invited Joe and Bob .. and they are both sorta thinking like im guna be there n we can get close or flirt or hook up or w/e .. which we prolly will ... but i dont want like Bob to think like we are guna make out or anyhthing bc then Joe is guna be there and vice versa .. i dont want to hurt either of them .. Me and Bob talk ALOT and we both like each other and know it.. but me n Joe .. well i like him ALOT and i think he knows it but im not sure how he feels about me .. I really like both of them .. Bob has a great personality and is SOOO sweet .. There are so many things i love about him .. but then Joe hes so hott ..and nice and sweet..n i like alotta things about him too .. and i told my mom that i liked both of them but she keeps insiting that i should forget about Bob and just keep persuing Joe !! but i think she thinks that bc hes older and his family is way rich ... so im not sure what i should do about this upcomming weekand .. Pleae help ? I rate 'XoX
Well first i think you should find out how joe feels about you before you make your choice. If he doesn't feel the same then your choice is made for you. If he does then you have to think long and hard about which one you feel the most for. I don't think you should have invited them both to the same event on the same night, but on the other hand it might help your decision a little bit. You can see how each one acts around each other. See which one gets jelous or acts like a jerk. But if they both act really cool then i think you should pick bob because he is closer to your age. Remember if you need more help or advice just hit me up and send it to my inbox.