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hi im 13 and i love giving advice! just ask away about anything!
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Age: 13
Member Since: August 27, 2004
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Last Update: September 3, 2004
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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?

14/f (link)
you should suggest playing a game of truth or dare at a party or something when your bf is there and beforehand tell your friend to dare him to kiss you. if you never get the chance to play truth or dare then just make the first move!! hes your bf. if he didnt like you then he wouldnt go out with you and if he liked you he would want to kiss you.


A while back, I used to use a lot of hairspray and gel on my hair and, when the stuff would drip onto my back, it would break out.

Since then, I've stopped using leave-in hair products altogether but my skin is still breaking out.

First of all, my back is awful. It's a lot clearer than it was a couple months ago but the acne never seems to completely go away.

The skin on my chest is also bad. I have little, red bumps all over and, although the pimples aren't that big, their very red. I can't wear any low-cut shirts because of this.

Also, I have a problem with the skin on my inner-thighs. It's not acne. In fact, I'm not entirely sure what it us. But I do know that I've have little, red bumps all over my thighs and they're EXTREMELY hard to get rid of.

Can anyone tell me how I can get rid of these pimples (and redness) on my back and chest fast?

And does anyone know what the bumps on my legs are and how to get rid of them?

Thanks in advance!

(Sorry if this is posted twice.. O.o It didn't show up the first time..) (link)
You should try Neutrogena body acne wash. Its supposed to be really good at getting rid of pimples. Also if you want something more expensive then you could try Proactiv on your body. I heard of lots of people who have used it on their body and face and they said that they loved it! Also you can go to epinions.com. Lots of people rate products there and you can read what they have to say about it and how good it is. If all else fails and you dont want to spend the money to go to a dermotologist than the next time you go to the doctor just ask him about it. Doctors have the same acne medication and dermostologists and usually the prescriptions are stronger that stuff you can buy at the store. The presciption probably wont cost a ton because insurance usually covers most of it! Hope I helped you and sorry this is sooo long! Lol!


i have acne...more then most of my friends...but not ALOT of acne...i want to try proactive but im not sure if i have bad enough acne...is there any other tricks to ged rid of them fast and make your face look clear and smooth?
(i get it around my nose and on my chin every once in a while)
Thanks for the help!!! (link)
proactiv isnt just for people with bad acne. its really good for your face. but that bad part is that your face gets worse before it gets better but then it totally clears your face up and keeps it that way! the face wash is really god. it has exfoliating grains in it too get off all the dead skin cells and it doesnt irritate sensitive skin. it is medicated to treat and help prevent zits. the toner refreshes your face and gets off the dirt and oil the cleaner might have missed. the repairing lotion works really quick to take away pimple. the mask is my fav! if you leave it on for one night on a big zit or whatever it is almost gone in the morning! it also comes with a guide that tells you what to eat and a ton more about your face and how you can get rid of acne!


My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!! (link)
your friend probably means that she saw her sister cutting the inside of her wrist with a pocket knife or something sharp. they cut it until it bleeds. they think that it relieves stress because all you can think about is the pain. it creates permantly scars too sometimes. you should really tell an adult you trust because she could really hurt herself. if she cut a major nerve or vain if she cut deep enought then she could be seriouly hurt or could die. tell an adult!


is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
yes walking is very good for you! it gets your heart rate going, helps you lose weight, and it really good exercise! walking is just as good as running if you walk pretty far. if you just walk for a few minutes each day then i probably wont do anything for you. but walking is really good for you trust me.


hi, i need help. I have so much trouble paying attention. If Im very interested its easier but with some things i try so hard to stay focused but i just end up getting spaced out. I also have trouble absorbing information. Like when i read its like im not really reading... like theres a wall between my brain and the book. I get spaced out when i read... especially things i dont understand, like fantasy. I just failed my first test in high skool bcuz of it and it really sux what should i do?
thanx (link)
you might have adhd. its when you are really hiper and you have trouble paying attention or focusing. the next time you go to the doctor just ask him or her about it. its nothing to worry about though! they just give you medicene if you do have it.


what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense (link)
thermasilk leave-in-conditioner is really good to control fly aways and frizzeness. it also is heat activated so that means that when you blow dry your hair the thermasilk spray makes your hair silky and soft and pretects it from the heat. if you want to you should use a serum such as pantene pro-v because it reduces frizzeness. i hope i helped you!


what is the best conditioning treatment or product or whatever for dyed hair? thanx (link)
try a mosterizing shampoo and conditioner for color treated hair. herbal essences has a good one that really conditions well and smells really yummy and pantene pro- v also is good!


I have braces and for me its hard to brush them right. so when i get them of (in 6 months) i want to get something that will whiten my teeth so i can get baq on track. do you have any good-cheap ideas of what will work. (cuz i try so hard at doing a good job but it doesnt help!)
thankyou so much! (link)
remembrandy whiten strips work as good as crest white strips only they whiten your teeth in 2 hours!


Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me. (link)
i think he really does like you alot! he wouldnt dance with you for the slow songs if he didnt like you. i mean if this guy liked you but you didnt like him at all would you want to dance with him? also i read this article in teen magenzine about 5 signs a guy likes you: 1. if his toes are pointed to you when you are talking to him. everyone tends to naturally point their feet at people who interest them. 2. same thing goes for his upper body. he may not be facing you or may be at the other side of the room, but if he notices you he will angle his body towards you without even realizing it. 3. check out his eyes.when he looks you in the eye, his pupils( the black part of your eye) will get bigger if he liked you. it happens automatically when you see someone you are attracted to. even if the guy you liked knew this was happening he couldnt control it. 4. if he stands within 3 feet of you he is probably crushing on you. that means that he is very comfortable around you. 5. if a guy gives you a nickname, its a pretty sure sign you've taken up residence in a little corner of his heart! hope i helped ya! sorry if this is sooo long!


Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on? (link)
braces dont hurt really bad for me at all. it only hurts a few days after they tighten them which tends to be every month but it depends on your ortodontist. someimes wires will be poking the sides of your mouth a bit but that is no problem at all. all you have to go is put wax on the ends of the wires. they will most likely give the wax to you. make sure to brush at least 2 times a day so you dont get marks on your teeth from where the braces were. oh and dont worry about if you think that you look dumb in braces or whatever. a TON of people wear them and they come in really cuts colors too! hope i helped ya!


I have blotchy skin like pimples and its kinda red should i go to the dermatologist? Also what kind of face wash should i get? Thanks (link)
clearasil total control cleanser is really good. it exfoliates your skin really gently, you cant really feel the microbead. also it mosterizes your skin and is good for sensitive skin.( i use it) it has shine control and it treats and helps prevent pimples. it smells really good!! but if you are looking for something that gets rid of zits even better than you should get neutrogena oil-free acne wash. it does what it says it does. treat zits! it contains mosterzers so it doesnt irritate sensitive skin and it removes excess oil. whatever you choose both are really good! hope i helped ya!


okay i'm 14 years old and occasionally i get these little pimples on my forehead and sometimes on my nose and around my mouth. i don't have acne or anything and to be honest i have pretty good skin but i'm trying to keep my skin really clear. i've used proactive and that didn't work at all it just made it worse! i ordered it twice i used it for 2 months and nothing worked on my skin! when i get a big pimple it's BIG like i swear it looked like i had a miniature tumor growing somewhere... okay maybe not THAT big but they get big and they bother me. does anyone have any products that i could use that aren't that expensive that would help clear up my skin a little bit more? except for proactive because i used that already and it didn't work (as i mentioned before) if you have any just let me know!!! (link)
neutrogena acne patchs get rid of your pimple or reduces the size of redness in one night. also neutrogena rapid clear gel gets rid of your pimple or reduces the size or redness in 8 hours!


Has anybody heard of gender identity disorder? it's when you are born one gender but with the opposite gender's body? example, you can be a guy trapped in a girls body. I think I have a friend who has this. She's more than just a "tomboy." She dresses like a guy, acts like a guy, does manly things, talks manly, denies that she has or ever will get her period, and she duck tapes her boobs down. what do you think of this? (link)
omg yes i believe you. there is this guy or girl at my school named acamy and it really weird because he dresses like a guy and acts like one but talks like a girl. all the teachers call him or her a girl but i dont know. i also heard of people who are born that have both parts of a boy or girl.


Ok, I have a problem lol. School is starting in a few days and I have acne. It's not that bad but it is in a way lol. What are some ways to remove or cover the acne on my face? I hear that toothpaste and nail polish remover works but could you explain to me how to use it on my face with good details? I'll rate you because I know the answers will be long. Thanks (link)
neutrogena rapid clear acne eliminating gel is supposed to reduce size, redness, or make the zit go away in 8 hours. its good for sensitive skin.


does any one no how to get rid of acne and pimples FAST like about . in one day or two lol (link)
neutrogena acne patchs work really well. they are designed to make your pimple smaller, less red, or gone in one night. if you use it for 3 days it should be gone by then! also neutrogena rapid clear acne eliminating gel is supposed to reduce size, redness, or make the pimple go away in 8 hours! hope i helped ya!


I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks (link)
if you want a really dramatic look then use liquid but in my opinion it looks scary if you use to much! lol. i perfer pencil cuz it is more suble and you dont look like you put to much on or you have a black eye or nething.




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