Hey guys I am Emily. I am a person who always tries to be her best and loves giving people advice. It comes natural to me. So I really hope you ask me a question because I know I could make a great effort to help you. I have already helped many and have seen really good feedback. Alright I hope to hear from y'all soon. :):):)
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13/m
does anyone know some things i could get my girlfriend for christmas? we're both 13, turning 14 next year, and i kinda have a budget, probably under $60 would be good, like maybe a necklace, or some flowers? umm her favourite colours are red and black... if anyone needs to know more about what she likes.. ill add it.
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Well I guess if it is her true taste and if it comes from the heart, its a winner. I think the suggested things you said were good. Necklace, or yes even flowers. A nice shirt, I'm not sure. Well I hope you have some luck.
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17/f I know most teen girls go through some form of eating disorder but my friend took it to extremes. She only eats once a day if that. And all it is is salads. Her hair is falling out, she is pale, and her mood seems more depressed/ lacks life. I keep telling her to stop but she won't. Her mom doesn't even seem to care she works slot and is never around. (link)
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Now this is common. I myself would talk to someone about it. Since she herself can't stop. It may make her hate you, but you could save her life. Just think what a real friend would do. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I know this is a very opinion based question but do guys find tattoos on a girl sexy?
I have a small quote on one hip and I'm planning another for another quote on the other. The most tattoos I would want would be 3. Trust me I'm not doing it for the guys, I'm just wondering peoples opinions. (link)
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Well I think tattoos are kinda cool yes. Especially when they really mean something to the one bearing them. The only thing with tattoos is that they are permanent. So when your 90.... but right now you shouldn't really look at that constantly. You're still young right? Just do what you want. HAVE FUN!!!
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So I am fourteen years old, female, and freshman at my high school. I have never had a boyfriend and I don't even think that any boys have really liked me :| I would love any ideas on how to talk to more boys maybe? Or just getting more attention, different styles maybe? Not to be desperate, but i just feel like all my friends have these great relationships and I'm stuck with nothing.
Please and Thank You!!
MyssLyss:) (link)
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Well good of you to ask! I would just start a convo like any regualar person. And you don't have to start right off with your biggest crush just a regualar boy for a warm up I mean. I really don't think you should change who you are just to get a boy. I personally don't like that at all , so don't be doin' that. If you just be you , you can really see who you should really be interested in. If a boy leaves you b/c your not who he WANTS you to be, screw him you are you. And you certainly don't have to do anything out of your league. I hope I have helped you :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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I want to learn how to play a specific song on the piano. It's not too complex, but not easy either.
I've never played piano before, nor can I read sheet music. I intend to learn to play it through a video tutorial on youtube that basically tells you which keys to press, in which sequence, and for how long (it's already helped me a little).
Any tips on this?
And is it better to learn how to play the song one hand at a time (if so, which hand is best to start with?) and then combine the two, or learn the song little by little with both hands? (link)
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Well I think it is smart for you to be looking up lessons instead of paying a fortune for them. I would say keep it up and also ask me again for more info cuz I can only give so much at a time. Alright I hope to be hearing from you soon! :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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When is it a great time to have sex? (link)
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Well whenever you feel like it is a good time. No one can tell you when to have it. But remember who your partner is and think a little more about it. Especially if it is only your first time. k? GOOD LUCK!!!
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sometimes i get gas. like every two days.
i dont feel any abdominal pain, but i expel gas constantly the entire day. it's annoying. what do i do?
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Well it doesen't seem like there really is anything wrong with gas. It's a part of life. Maybe if you feel you release too much, there are many medications that will help to control it. Such as "Gas-X" or something like that. GOOD LUCK!!!
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last night i had a dream i ate a candle, it was gross. i thought it was white chocolate but when i ate it, it was obviously a candle. i havent felt good all day, and it's putting a toll on my academics today. i havent been able to concentrate all day. also, i had a dream my brother texted me and told me he was going to buy me a car. AND i had a dream the car alarm went off twice but i didnt get up to look and see what happened.
please interpret this..i dont know what the meaning of this is. (link)
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Well there are alot of dream books interpreting dreams such as "The big book of Dreams" that has helped many of my friends and also me as well. These books can be found in many local book stores. GOOD LUCK!!!
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19/f
Lately things have been very odd for me health wise.
About a week ago It started with frequent gas. Then the one hiccup came. I hiccup only one time about every couple hours throughout the day. I am having more bowel movements than ever and I feel bloated, crampy, and nauseous. My breast are sore now and the past two nights I have not been able to sleep. And then to top it all off I woke up this morning with a nosebleed! I just feel sick and achy. I can't figure out whats wrong with me :(
Any ideas? I'm scared I might have ovarian cancer or something. Thanks. (link)
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Well the only person who could really tell you if something is wrong with you is your doctor. It could just be a sign a an upcoming period. But you really can't tell if it is serious or not. I strongly suggest a visit to your doctor wouldn't be a bad idea. GOOD LUCK!!!
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heyy 14f
Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We are a great couple and i haven't felt this way about someone before. I'm very lucky to have him...well i only have two days this week and i was thinking about giving him my bracelet to wear..you see he'll be moving soon and i want him to have something to remember me by...my friend said its a good idea..her bf gave her one...with his cologne...so i was thinking about giving it to him...its not girly its just a plain purple jelly braclet...i saw him wear one to but with a different color. if i should what kind of perfume should i spray on it? hah (link)
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Well I think you should do whatever you think is best. If you think he should really really have it give it to him. You can always buy another one. I think it is a great idea to give him something that he'll remember you by. But, it really is up to you. GOOD LUCK!!!
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im forteen and my parents still wont let me out after dark and its really annoyng becasue all my friends can, how could i convince them to let me out later. they know im not the type to go out and get drunk and stuf like that, but i really wont to be allowed out later but how ? any help please :) (link)
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Well you should definately say something to them. If you really think you are indeed capable of being out later then stand up for what you beleive in! GOOD LUCK!!!
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It's been... a month and a half? He's my best friend. See him everyday at school, except now that we are off on winter break. I used to feel horrible, I didn't sleep, eat, and I may have begged him back several times. But, being the good guy that he is, he put up with all of that mess and we have stayed close friends. Sometimes I think I'm over him. It's surprising how much I can tell him and how much advice I have given him about the girl he currently likes. Does all of this mean that I am getting over him? It does sometimes get to me that I miss certain things about the relationship but as a whole I do acknowledge that there were more problems than good. And well, I want him to be happy. But sometimes I forget that he's my ex and I just see my best friend. What do you guys think? (link)
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This kind of stuff means that he may not think you two are right for dating, but that he will certainly think of you as a close friend. And you can only tell yourself if you are over him. I suggest stay close friends. Hope it's for the best! GOOD LUCK!!!
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I'm having a sweet 16 in more or less 3 weeks and I need to look for the perfect dress. I don't want a long gown, I want a cocktail one. I want something uniquely cute, gorgeous, anything that'll make me stand out like a dress full of bling, etc. Could you suggest me any dresses (with links) please? I'll ♥ you 4ever. Thanks a bunch!:) (link)
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Well I have a sister who had the most beautiful red dress, not a gown or anything, it was very pretty, and she said that there were alot of those kinds at Dillards, or KOHLS. I really hope you find what you are looking for. :) GOOD LUCK!!
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15/f
So me and this guy have been going out for a month. I have no idea what to get him. He said he just wanted to be surprised and want something from the heart. Sooo I have no idea what to get him. Are stuffed animals weird to give to guys? Just any ideas would help. Thanks! (link)
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Like he said as long as it really and truely comes from the heart it will be easily loved. So get whatever you think is best. No one can really command you to get the right thing. And by the way, nothing is too weird sweetie. GOOD LUCK!!!
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me: 17f
him: 16m
so, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. and all we have done is make out, he feels me up.. and thats it. like nothing sexual. but today, i went over his house and we were making out.. first, it was just me like on his lap, then somehow he ended up laying down and i was straddling him. [he had jeans on, i had jeans on] and we kept making out. then he was like, here, lay down. [we were on a couch] and i was like.. uhm, where. and he was like, ontop of me haha. so im like laying ontop of him and we're still making out.. and then like idk, hes feeling me up all over. and i kissed his neck and i think he kinda like, shuttered. then after a little we kinda just stopped, and like we sit apart.. and i see that he has like a wet sopt on his jeans.. and i didnt say anything.. and hes like goin to the bathroooom.. blah blah. and we didnt talk about it afterwards.
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what happened hahhaaa. did he like.. ejaculate just from making out with me and feeling me up? and could i be pregnant. because i think i might die if i could be. like FROM MAKING OUT. aaah. and did i handle this the right way? and how did he get THAT turned on.. haha.. uhm. help? (link)
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Well first things first. You cannot get pregnant from just making out, you have to have a sexual relationship to be pregnant. Maybe you two want to begin sex but still don't feel 100% ready. Even 99% probably isn't enough. And only he knows for sure about the whole wet jeans situation. GOOD LUCK!!!
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Ok so my dad and the guy ive been dating for almost 2 years dont get along at all whatsoever. And i hate it. He cant come over when my dad is home. When we went to go on a date my dad told me he was going to keep us from hanging out at all to break us apart. My dad has no reason not to like this kid, and my boyfriend has tried to get along with him but my dad wont give him the time of day.
What do i do??? my dad is being a complete baby and anytime i say anything or he sees him he gets in a bad mood and its really annoying. ugh :/ btw 17 m && F
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Yes there are alot of fathers out there like this. You must know that he is only trying to protect you for whatever reason I don't know. But still he is your father and you should tell him how you feel about this whole thing. Hopefully, he'll understand. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end. (link)
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Yes, I have a friend with a very similar problem. I think that if you have fallen head over heels for this guy, talking to him would be worth a shot. But don't tell him how you feel right the second you begin talking. Just have a normal convo then things can get heated whenevr you fell like it. GOOD LUCK!!!
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Okay so I think I might be gay. How do I know for sure? (link)
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Well you could never get someone to just tell you if you are gay, but there are experts looking to help people just like you! Trust me I hear about them all the time. There are testings,catalouges,and even talk shows that talk about this. I really hope you find whatever you think is the right answer. :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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i really want to be a better singer, but i cant take lessons or buy a cd for it or anything. i have a flat voice. is there any way i can improve other than just singing along because even if i do sing along im still flat..? (link)
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Well, it's not like online advice will help your voice if that is just how you sound. But I rekon trying new things like different genres and maybe something will happen. You can listen to many different artist all over the internet if you can't get cd's. Listen to the music, rythem, beats, and of course the voice of the one singing, then try your hardest. I really hope I helped! :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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Ok this is gross but I'm going to be detailed lol.
20/f
I seem to have a lot of vaginal discharge. There is NOT any itching, burning, pain, smell or anything like that, just discharge.
Here is for the more detailed part, it is white/clear when it comes out but when there is some on my underwear and it dries it is yellowish.
I guess the reason it bothers me is because it gets a lot on my underwear and I don't want my boyfriend to get grossed out by it.
I've had this for honestly as long as I can remember and so when I recently had a pap smear I didn't mention it because I didn't really think about it as abnormal until I heard some stuff about discharge lately. The pap smear came back normal.
Any thoughts? (link)
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Yes this is normal. (I know because the same things happen to me, my doctor said it was very normal.) So you really shouldn't worry. ( or waste your time at a doctors office.) It is also just a sign you may get your monthly period soon. O by the way, if you hear nasty rumors that discharge is bad, don't listen. No one has died because of discharge! Just relax about the whole thing. I hope I helped!!!
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