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All of my friends always come to me for advice. I am pretty much the peacekeeper in my group. I know i have not been part of this for like any time at all, but i hope i can get bigger and help people with problems like i do the people i know. I will almost never say anything rude mean or annoying, but if i do withought thinking, just comment me and tell me so i can fix it!

-alex(:
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Do you think it would be great if Miley's permanent partner (lover) in the show (hannah montana)is David Archuleta? (It was my friend's idea)
Anyway if not, who do you suggest?

Remember just Asking (link)
I don't think it should be someone famous. Just some random kid really would be better...plus, i just really don't like him.


Hello, I was wondering if any of you knew of the code to like hide your comments on myspace, but still keep the add comment link or the view all/add comment link.

Also, good places to get like myspace quotes, photography, and graphics. I've already searched tinypic and photobucket.


Direct links would be great!

Thanks so much! (link)
go here :

http://myspace-crash-codes.com/blog/codes

and they have bunches of more codes...stuff that makes your myspace unique. they have some quotes and photography and stuff, but i would suggest adding various layout sites. such as sunshine layouts, static layouts etc. I think that about covers it.

-alex(:


So your on a date and its extremly horrible. Whats a legit excuse to leave? (link)
you could call *08 and then go to instant alibi, and you set a time, and you pick an excuse, and they just tell you what to say. its great! or you could just have a friend call you. but personally, i like to use *08....more accurate really.


ok, so i was in psychology. and the teacher said that this lady made herself believe she was pregnant. and she even missed her periods and got bigger and stuff. like, retained water and stuff. but she wouldnt actually give birth to a child.

like, could that really happen? i mean, its really weird. and you cannot have a child without intercourse... (link)
She was not acctually preagnant. She just maybe wanted a baby so bad, or beleived she was acctually preagnant so much, that she just got the symptoms of being pregant.

-alex(:


could you guys give me a step by step thing on how to put a tampon in? my mom just makes everything sooooo embaressing. and its just horrible with her. so is all i'd have to do is ask her for some, not have her teach me. please don't try to get me to talk to her about that. just a step by step please. (link)
I know HOW you do it. Just not WHERE to put it in!


what name of brand coloring dye box or whatever that will color my hair the exactly same color i want?

like i want sandy blonde for my hair and when they dye it, my hair won't be sandy blonde hair, it will be mix cuz of my differnt color, know what i mean? or have to go salon place or what? (link)
When my sister tried to dye her hair a darker shade of brown from a box like that, it turned out to be like the color of uran. Or applejuice. But, they are sometimes marked wrong, so i would recomend going to a salon, and getting it proffesionally done.

-alex(:


How can I mix up and create new outfits out of all the clothes I already have? I have zero creativity and I always end up wearing jeans with a tshirt and layered cami underneath. I need some new inspiration, anyone got any ideas?

Btw, I've tried fashion magazines, but I don't have the money to go out buy a bunch of new clothes. (link)
well i'd say go to pacsun..buy a few cute tees and belts. then go to forever 21, buy some nice skinny jeans (regular jeans will work to) and put leg warmers over them. and maybe a little jacket over your shirt, and balet flats. its extra cute, but some people think its weird. but you have your very own style that you are known for, which i think is pretty cool. Hope i helped!
By the way, those stores are pretty good priced. i don't know what other kind of clothes you own except for jeans and shirts, so i would need more info to get combinations for things you already have. Delias also has cheap but cute stuff!
-alex(:


Ok...yea i no this is going to be the most stupid question ever lol but is there any way to get you can purposely get hiccups because i like only get maybe once a year and i (this is really weird) absolutely LOVE hiccups because i jus think they're funny lol any help is appreciated
-Lesha
P.S. i've already done the breathe in really fast thing (link)
It works for me whenever i accidentally choke on water or my spit or something, then once i finish choking [lol] i always get them. Or you could chug some water, then breathe in really fast right after. That usually helps me. Hope i helped!

-alex(:


13/f

Okay... This makes me nervous, but I... Well... You know the word. I do that, but today... I hit this part and it really hurt... It kinda hurts now. Did I do something wrong??? I cannot tell anybody else this because it's my secret... Nobody knows about my... Thing. So... Can somebody tell me what i might've done????
p.s is it bad to... Do that at my age? Thank you! (link)
You seemed a little emberressed. Don't worry, nobody knows you on here, you shouldn't have a problem talking about it. But, you weren't too specific, so i'm not sure what part of he vagina you hit. You most likely just hit something, that wasn't used to be hitted. It'll probably go away in a few days. Also, i started masturbating when i was 12. Its completely normal, just whatever age YOUR comfortable with.


Hi guys how are ya'll doing? I just wanted to ask if ya'll thought that I was freaky. So I'm a tomboy and a bounch of girls have been teasing me. I never wear my hair down, I play football and basketball, all of my friends are boys and the girls at school wont stop teasing me because of it! They call me lesbian, stupid, and one of them said "Who are you going to the dance with...oh wait no one would want a mud coverd bitch as a dance partner". So what should I do about this they are really hurting my feelings? Please help I really apreciate it if anyone answers thanks. (link)
There probably just jealous of you, because you're the one who's not afraid to be yourself, and go opposite of the crowd. They are probably too afraid of getting in or out of a certain clique, when you're not. Plus, you're the one that gets to spend all of this time with the guys, that all of those girls are probably intimidated by. If you're like at another dance again, and they tell you 'oh who would wanna dance with you', just tell her off or something. Be like 'Well who are you dancing with? Oh wait, nobody would wanna dance with such a slutty skank bitch like you.' That might help a little. Just don't change because they are riding you about it. Just come up with stuff, to show them that you don't care about their little comments. They're just rude little girls who have nothing better to do with their lifes. they really need to get one. My mom used to tell me that if someone picks on you, its most likely that they have low self asteem, and makes them feel better to tear people down. They probably wish they had as much confidence as you. Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!

-alex(;


I started talking to this boy on AIM one day(about 2 years ago). he is a year older then me (im 13). he had a girlfriend when we started talking but i think i got in the way and they eventually broke up. he lived in a different state then me, but he is my best friend. I love him. I really do. Sometimes you love a person for their looks or how they kiss you. but ive never met him, so i know its honest to god love.a few months ago we stopped talking for about a month in a half, and now we are back to the way it was before. we call each other like 3 times a day and stuff. but over christmas and winter break (now) we have barely said a word to each other. he has no more texts this month and he wont really answer my calls. but everytime he does answer them he tells me he is with a friend or he is busy or something. This boy is really my life, i would call him every mornning be4 we went to school and when i got home from school. and we would be on the phone for hours. we even had phone sex. But now that he wont talk to me, i dont know what to do. my days are going by slow. And i miss him.About a month ago he told me he didnt know why we stopped talking, and that he would never want that to happen again. so why is he being such a jerk now and leaving me hanging alll the time? I cry over him almost everyday =[

THanks! Please help (link)
Your only 13! I can see how you think you might think your in love, but he could just be playing you. By that, I mean that he could just be telling you what you wanna hear. Your 13, and having phone sex? I'm sorry but i think thats a little ridiculous. He might just be doing this, because he's lost his feelings for you. Ever thought about that? Sometimes guys don't know how to tell a girl that they don't like her any more, so they just ignore her. However, that might not be the case here. He might just always really be busy, or maybe he thinks your a little too obsessed with him, so he thought that maybe if he backed off a bit, so would you. Just give him some time. A couple days would work, then call him once. Even if he has a friend over, tell him whats on your mind. Don't let him pick what time its good to talk about your relationship. Especially if you've been trying to reach him for such a long time. But if you guys do meet anytime soon, please don't think about acutal sex. You have no idea some of the damage it can cause. Hope I helped! Don't Forget to rate!

-alex :]


Ok well tomorrow i gotta give my boyfriend his xmas present a lil late i know,but we hardley see eachother anyways,i'm too embarrassed to give people presents especially him i got him a $250 chain,im too nervour and scared he might not like basically his face expression anyway i can calm down lol ? and what should i say "hey heres your xmas present " :S (link)
If he's your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll like it. Even if he doesn't, he will pretend he does, he wouldn't want to dissapoint you! Just like hand it to him, and say Merry Christmas. Good Luck!
Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!


-Alex :]


does anybody know something i can download to get rid of spyware,viruses and pop-ups? my computers constantly going slow and i have millions of pop-ups saying i have spyware and errors on my computer. but i need something thats free and doesn't include having to register. Something that will scan my computer and get rid of all this junk for free. i really need something to download quick.i'm really getting frusterated. please reply soon. thank you veryy much. (link)
I use spysweeper, and ad-aware.

for spysweeper go to - www.spysweeper.com

for ad-aware go to - www.ad-aware.com


Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!


-alex :]


what is a song about doing something that hurt so bad, and youre soo sorry for hurting the person, but it was the right thing to do for now, but you love them with all your heart and its hurting you too?

is there one?

preferably rock/alternative.
three days grace, seether, linkin park, all time low, etc...
or even like rascal flatts..
and preferably something newer.
thanks.
withlove. (link)
What hurts the most- Rascal Flatts
When Your Gone- Avril Lavigne
Complicated- Avril Lavigne
I Miss You- Avril Lavigne
Keep Holding On- Avril Lavigne
Thunder- Boys Like Girls
Beautiful Girls- Sean Kingston
Boulavard Of Broken Dreams- Green Day

Hope I helped! Don't Forget to rate!


-alex :]


AGIAN , A very broad topic .
Snopes says it is unditermined .
If any of you are unsure of what it is , It's were you look in the mirror chant a name and see a figure .
Know , On personal experiences has anyone come to beilive that there is a possibility that this is not a myth ?
I am to chicken to try it out .
Some people sware its real , Others don't .
-Jaime . (link)
I have tried it multiple times, and nothing has happened. But I do remember doing that on the last night of a camp one time. That whole night, it sounded like a branch or a coat hanger was scratching at the window. And noises coming from the bathroom. I could not get to sleep at ALL! The counselers said it was just my imagination, others said it really was bloodyMary, others said it was the "camp ghost". Who knows? Also, i read in some world record book or something like that (not the guiness one) or maybe ripley's beleive it or not, it was talking about thw worst cases of bloodymary. Like it showed pictures and everything. It said that, if you spin around 3 times, and say her name within each spin, she will appear. These people said that as soon as they were finished, they saw her face appear and say "you will regret this" and blood started to shoot out of their bodies, and blisters formed all over them. Brutal, i know. But those pictures were probably fake, if not from a different case. I personally don't think this is true anymore. When i was in about 5th grade, i still beleived in it. But now, I don't have anything to worry about, and neither do you. Its just some stupid story someone made up, that got carried away. hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!

-alex ;]


so, i became a vegetarian last year for my new years resolution. the reason that i did was to lose weight. ive never actually been at all overweight or anything, but im very tall. im in the 7th grade and im 5'5 and a half. i weigh more than all my friends and still think of myself as fat. some of my friends get annoyed when i call myself fat, so they start saying 'yeah, omg jennas soooo fat!' and they dont realize how much it depresses me and makes me want to go anorexic. also, this guy that i really lik called me fat once, but i know he was just kidding b/c he doesnt know how to flirt. i used to have a kind of eating disorder b/c id skip many meals but still eat so it wasnt anorexic. i keep wanting to go back to that. i get plenty of excersice [i do track and cheerleading] but still have tummy and thigh fat and some days i get so depressed and just want to cry all day. one time at school, i actually cried all 5th period in the bathroom.
I NEED HELP! [im a girl] (link)
First all, you didn't specify your weight, so i don't really know if your maybe a little overweight, or average, or maybe even underweight. Almost every girl i know, including me, worries about their weight. I can see how your friends could get annoyed by that. Some of my friends keep saying things such as "nobody in this group likes me, i'm such a loner, your my only friend" and sometimes i just get so fed up with it, i just go yeah you are! or something like that. I feel horrible after i did that, but i just tell her that i need her to stop saying that, when the fact is that she does have a lot of friends. The same case is with you. If you happen to express 1 particular thing, quite often, people will get annoyed with you. Maybe tell your friends that when they do that, it really hurts your feelings, or makes you feel depressed. Then if a guy says that, he is probably expecting a laughing reaction to it. So you could just keep a straight face, and go "not funny" and maybe just walk away, or act annoyed.
The running should help your thighs stay toned. Do crunches, those really get rid of fat. They might not be the most preferrable option, but they really work the best. If you have some love handles (fat that goes over your pants, around the waist area) do side crunches.
Get in the regular "crunch" position, then drop your knees to one side, do about 25-30 then switch sides. You are perfet the way you are. There is no need to change yourself. Hope I helped! Don't Forget to rate!

-alex ;]


So, I really like this guy named Jason. But there are many things that make it seem like it couldn't work. At the beginning of the year, i went out with his best friend, James. Also, he calls me and my friend slut #1 and slut #2. but i think its just a joke. And he makes up these 'episodes' of me and teryn [slut #1] being lesbians and all this other stuff. Ya see, jason has these random mood swings that i cant stand! today, i whispered in teryns ear 'i cant believe i ever went out with jake!' and he goes 'if you dont tell me what you said, then i wont be your friend anymore'. also, one day [i cant remember what he said that made me say this] i said 'i dont like your haircut' then he goes 'well i dont like your chest' then i gave him an 'excuse me' look and he said 'yeah! grow some!'hes such a pervert but hes so hott and ive tried to get over him but i just cant! the only reason i like him isnt that hes hott though. i dont even know why i like him so much! (7th grade; im a girl)
HELP ME! (link)
Your only in 7th grade, you have plenty of time to find a good guy. Alot of guys especially in middle school are verrry perverted. If you ask me, seventh graders should not be going out yet, i'd say about eighth grade would be a good time to start. But anywho, he doesn't seem like a nice guy, so if you are going to date, choose a nice guy. Maybe you've had an encounter with him, to were he was really nice or something, and you just can't get over the guy he was THEN! Think of all the mean things he's done to you, would you really wanna date a guy like him? I sure wouldn't, especially if he's gonna treat you like crap. Imagine what he would do to you if you guys dated. Because then he would know that even though he was mean to you, you still went out with him. So he could just treat you worse if he really wanted to. He could also only do those things because thats his way of flirting or something. Some guys are like that, they just don't know how to express there feelings in any other way. And maybe he said that "i don't like your chest" thingy because he wanted to let you know that you were interested.Bottom line, I don't think you should date him. Hope i helped!
Don't foget to rate!

-alex :]


i think i have that .. how do i get rid of it.
i brush all the time -- but it doesnt seem to die down.
what products would work great?

& i also have braces.. (link)
I had the same thing when i had braces. Use listerine everytime before/after you brush. You can even use it more if you want. You could also ask your orthodontist/dentist if they could prescribe you some medicated mouthwash. I don't remember what its called, but that also works really good. Get one of those pick things, and make sure every time after you eat, to go through each bracket, and clean all the food and plaque out. Hope I helped. Don't forget to rate!


-alex :]


How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings? But without telling him the truth, he is bigger and i'm not physically attracted to that? We were friends before we started dating and i want to go back to being friends? Thanks!

16/f (link)
Don't tell him that he is "bigger", guys have trouble with anorexia, and bulemia too. Just say something like "I don't think my feelings match yours anymore. I really wanna go back to being friends. Okay?" and then like hug him or something. Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!


-alex :]


Well ok i have talked to this girl for awhile so i asked her out and she tells me yes so were going out and everything seems fine then she text me one night (about two into the relationship) and says i have changed and she just wants to be friends and being the kind of guy i am i was just like ok cause i just want her to be happy well so then two days later she text me and says she has made a big mistake and wants to be with me so i text her and ask her what she wants to do and she wants to be really close friends....so then a couple days go bye and we have big brother big sisters and we hang out and she kisses me and then the next day at a basketball game i tried to kiss her but she would not so i was wondering if you think we are going out or if were just friend or maybe something else? (link)
She is obviously verrrry confused. Just give the girl time. She will make up her mind soon. Girls are confusing, i would know, because i am one. Its really hard to make up your mind about some things. She might like another guy also, and doesn't know what to do yet. Maybe the reason why she didn't want to kiss you at the basketball game, was maybe because she just wasn't ready to be seen kissing in public yet. Remember, ggiivvee hherrr ttimmmeee!! Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!


-alex :]




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