askadvicelady232
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do?
Ok listen even though he is gay give it a shot you could be the hero and you could change his mind about the way he loves people!!!! go ahead be the hero let me know how it works out

Q: I think I may like my exboyfriend again. But the thing is, we never really talk anymore. I think he likes someone else but I'm not sure. I know that if I ask him out, he'll say yes because I almost asked him to a dance a few weeks ago and he found out and asked me instead. Theres something stopping me from asking him out though and I just don't know what to do. What would you do in my case?
I think you dont have to get the courage to go up and ask him write it on a note its not desperate but it isnt oh my god i am so in love with you!

Q: I just got a new boyfriend the other day, and when we talk our convos usually start and end at "Hey you, how are ya?" ... What are somethings I could say to get the conversation to move on?
What you should do is you should start totalk to him about sports and some things you know he likes. Talk about anything you think he likes and get to know him more.

Q: i broke up with my boyfriend and said that i just wanted to be friends then he was saying that he loved me and stuff like that. i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff. well like yesterday he started going out with my best friend and she knew i still liked him. on his away messages he always puts i love sarah turner.
he never put i love paityn smith on his away message and we went out for almost 3 months and they have been going out for one day! we arent friends anymore because of this. and i really want to keep it that way.i dont know what to do , and im miserable now without him. do you think its just jealousy or do i really love him?
im in the 6th grade and hes in 7th i know this probably sounds stupid, but he is the only boy ive ever loved.
thank you for reading this
paityn
You are in love! This means many things, you still love him and that is totally normal!! go for it and ask him say i always think about you and i still love you.

Q: 13/f. I know that around here there are loads of moronic girls saying stuff like "OmG diS gUy iS soOoOo hOT i wANt hiM! aM i iN luV???!!!" Now, I know that teenagers generally don't fall in love, but is there anything wrong with being
"infatuated" with someone? The way many people talk about it, they make it sound like a bad thing. Is it a bad thing? Because, I'm "infatuated" with someone right now. I try not to take it too seriously, but sometimes I can't help it...
It is not a bad thing to be in love. I am 14 years old and i was in love when i was 10! So i was crazy 4 this guy and he was crazy for me to. It is a great thing when you are in love!

Advicelady

Q: about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say?
I definitely think you should call him. Make sure things with you and him are okay. But definitely dont say anything to make you sound desperate. Because then he will be just thinking "why did i ever go out with her?"


advicelady

bio
advicelady232
i love to give advice and i love to help people so ask me anything i am especially good in love life and relationships!!! :)

Info
Website:
Gender:
Female

Location:
california

Occupation:
nothing

Age:
14

Member Since:
March 12, 2006

Answers:
26

Last Update:
January 28, 2007

Visitors:
3460

Main Categories:







layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker