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I believe that everyone needs advice sometime or another. Its human nature. Im not gonna tell you to much about me. Keeping my mysterious persona will add alot to my answers. Im into to keeping it real and giving unbiased advice. Good Luck.REMEMBER: No Question Is A Stupid Question.
If you have the courage to ask for help, I will answer your question. That is my policy
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Hola! (16/f) I'm an advice columnist on here and I always read those questions that ask "should I tell him I like him". How do you tell someone you like them?
Although I appreciate the last Advice Givers words; not many people are brave enough to "spill their guts" to someone they are infactuated with. There are many ways to do so, while not directly saying it out aloud:
1.) Spend more time with the person. Try to determine what their hobbies/activites they are interested in.
2.) When you are talking to the person, look them directly in the eyes. Don't shy away but be confident.
3.) Lightly touching the person will form a closer bond between you and the person and also make your motives more clear. For ex. touching the person's shoulder when you are talking to him/her.
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Advice Guy
how can i get rid of white spots
thanx
Your question will receive better answers if you specify exactly what you mean. What kind of white spots are you talking about?
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Advice Guy
... I'm 14, and my boobs aren't that big.. they are 36 B's... which is Alright i guess, but the problem is, I've seen other girls boobs, and my nipples are really big... their's arent!...
I feel so weird, and recently at the beach, they wanted to go skinny dipping and I didnt too, but I didnt want people to see my breasts and laugh... they're weird :( is this normal?
Breasts come in all shapes and sizes: nipples included. They are a part of you that you should come to accept and love no matter what they look like. I don't think anyone will laugh at you.
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Advice Guy
can you discharge if your pregnate?
To put it short and simply:
Yes, yes you can.
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Advice Guy
does anyone know how to release a troubled soul? Recently i have been feeling like an outsider twith my friends. I feel like my friends have to be too serious around me and i feel like i cant relate to them and i feel like a total outsider. i feel like there is something worng with me.i can hardly ever laugh anymore. i think i'm going into a depression.maybe i'm gonna die soon so i can be released from my torubled soul. Plz help i dunno wut i'm gonna do!
You seem to be very depressed and appear to have thoughts of death. Any thoughts of death accompanied by depression require IMMEDIATE professional help. You need to contact a help line or someone you trust to talk things over with. Rationalizing things within yourself at this stage could only make things worse. You need human interaction. Although things may seem bad now, they are not permanent. If you get the help you need your life will get a lot better, quite quickly.
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Advice Guy
Hey,
I really want to work(im 16 yrs old and a female), but my parents say that it will take away from my studying time and that im going to start getting bad grades. But i know that i can balance my time. I really want to work so that i can buy me things when i want and i could buy what i want. In this case its easier to convince my mom than my dad. But i really want to start workin. PLEASE give me ways to try to convince them.....i rate 5's for any answer.
Thanx
You could always use the classic argument of how working teaches students valuable skills such as time management, responsiblilty, and communication.
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Advice Guy
I was wondering if anyone knew of a site where I could order stuff to convert Records to CD's. Ive looked up some stuff, but I havent got anything good. Thanks for the help.
DemonDrummer21
This task seems quite difficult and lengthy, but nevertheless, here is a website that may help:
http://hometown.aol.com/blaneep/myhomepage/profile.html
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Advice Guy
how do you have sex with your parents being home. if there room was downstairs and yours was upstairs and you wanted your boo to stay the night. how do you do it without gettin caught!
If you feel that you have to hide your sexual activity from anybody, then you clearly should not be having sex.
does anyone know how to make this site a home page? you know, so that each time i open up the interent, it will automatically go to this site right away? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~
Follow these easy steps:
1. Tools: scroll down until you see internet options
2. You well then see a HOME PAGE SECTION in which you can type the web address for this site.
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Advice Guy
Ok...So I am getting my hair cut, and I dont know how to cut it. and I cant find any sites with nice pics of hairstyles and stuff. I need a few sites that have alot of pics of long and medium hairstyles. thankies.
Don't be lazy... this is an advice website, not a search engine. If you can type this message, im sure you can find what you are looking for using your brain, and a search engine.
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Advice Guy
im going into the highschool next year and i heard that you have to carry like a little backpack around school.. i have a normal sized backpack like what you would wear to the middle school.. is that too big? what should i doo? like should i get one backpack to cary around school and the other for home? PLEASE HELP!
You need to stop relying on what you "hear" and rely more on what you know. After your first week of school, you will get a deeper understanding of what you need and what you don't. You can then make a better judgement. Further more don't stress out. It’s just a backpack. High school is filled with many twists and turns, and once you begin to feel their effects, the size of a backpack will seem insignificant.
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Advice Guy
im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid
Overcoming an obstacle is never an easy thing. The best and only way ( in my opinion) is to practice the skill of presenting until you become more comfortable with it. If you think about your everyday life, you are constantly presenting: when shopping, when talking to people, when asking questions. These opportunities allow you to develop your presentation skills and ultimately overcome your shyness. Being shy is not permanent and can be easily overcome with practice. You must force yourself and make a conscious effort to become extroverted in order to overcome this minor flaw. Remember though that this cannot happen overnight, it is a skill that you need to develop slowly.
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Advice Guy
I've suddenly lost sound on my laptop. I've gone through the Help section to no avail. The nearest I come to an answer is that the system cannnot find %SystemRoot%\System\sndvol32.exe How do I restore this file?
I'm running WindowsXP Professional
Unless you are operating a stolen/illegal system, the first thing you should have done was contact Microsoft or your laptop manufacturer. Taking advice from novice trouble-shooters on the internet could work towards causing more damage/problems to your system. Get in touch with a professional.
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Advice Guy
i have scars from acne on my forehead, i was wondering what can i use to have to scars fade awayy? any help?
There are treatments to reduce the appearance of acne scars. Read up about it at:
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/health/beauty/surg/articles/0,,181478_183463,00.html
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Advice Guy
This is advice~gurl, aka AG.
I was searching advice columnists with the word advice in it and I noticed yours. I know that you haven't updated since June but I thought I'd send this to you in hopes that you would keep it up.
Your advice is good. I love the way you put everything so honestly and there is that sarcastic tone to it but you can't prove its there all the time either. Its great.
Hopefully you get a e-mail when someone asks you a question other wise this is in vain.
sincerely,
AG
Hi! I appreciate your feedback and I know it has been a while since I last attempted to give advice. I have looked up your column, and aside from being beautiful your advice seems very good. Keep up the good work as I will try to in the near future. You are making a difference in the lives of many people.
Advice Guy
i need as many ways as possible OTHER THAN SEX to materbate or have an orgasm asap please.
thanks loves
No problem. Here are some helpful tips:
1. Get a life.
2. Get a job.
3. Get an education.
Neither will assist in giving you an orgasm but will help become less of a loser.
i don't know if anyone knows the answer to this, but i figure i'll ask it anyways. recently, whenever i've gone pee i get a really weird, almost burning sensation. but it's not during the whole thing, it only happens at the end, and then it leaves the lower part of my pelvis feeling funny too. anyone have any idea what this could be? if it goes on for a few more days i'm gonna go to the doctor, but i was just wondering if anyone might have any random remedies or clues as to what i could do to avoid the doctor. if it helps any i'm 19 and am not a virgin.
Welcome to the world of STDs.
My friend and I hatw this teacher and as a joke we made this odd screen name and sent him e-mails. It was the worst dissoin of my life. I sent one that was like "I hate your class I am so glad I am in highschool now". But my friend HATES that teacher so she sent and e-mail like" teacher you hurt me so the hammer is coming down...have fun in hell" I didn't mean for it to go this far. Now the police are in his room for a long time like every day. Thankfully I deleted that screen name! They made an anousement on the intercom about it and ever since I have been shaking and I am so scared/screwd. If I get caught it wont be for the one I sent, it will be for the one my friend sent. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to my teach saying like sorry it was only a joke but I'm not sure... help! I am so scared but I know for sure I am not going to tell any one but I need to know what to do!
It seems to me that you are feeling extrememly guilty for what you did. I admire you for that fact and I also admire the fact that you deleted your email.
Though you made a mistake you can't be held responsible for a death threat that you did not write. I don't know why you think you will be in trouble for the email your friend sent?
I suggest that you completly remove yourself for any situations that may involve you getting in any more trouble. As for now, my advice to you is don't go looking for trouble. I won't suggest telling everyone you sent an email because it won't be easy getting yourself out of the mess.
For the time being, keep everything you know to yourself and try to remember the guilt you feel next time you want to participate in events you know are wrong. You made a mistake but its not the end of the world.
Good Luck
my little sister is 8 years old and she just got sick today and no one is going to be home for a week so we cant get to the hospital but she has a temp of 103 degrees and its not lowering at all, does anyone know anything i can do to help lower it or make her feel any better? thanks!! (I rate on how well you answer)
The only answer I can give you is: SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION. Any persistant high fever can lead to serious medical problems. You are not a healthcare professional and neither am I. Only a trained professional can accurately can give advice which will help your sister. If you cannot get to the hospital, I recommend you contact EMS or another transport service.
Please do not leave this fever unattended to.
Good Luck
im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!
Though I am very sorry for you loss, I can almost guarantee that buring letters will not help you get over this terrible event. The the death of a close family member or friend is not something that someone should have to go through by themselves. Spending alot of time alone can lead to other serious problems. Because of this, I recommened you seek the help of a counsellor who has the knowledge and resources to help you get through this terrible time.
"Getting over it" , is just a phone call away.
Good Luck