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I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do? (link)
well what youy should do is sit her down and tell her that its a no no before she grows up and then she will be doing it to you or you can give her a spanken


how do i ask a girl out (link)
well go up to her and ask her or you can do like i do and send them a note saying do you wasnt to go out with me if she says no then she probly isnt ment for you anyways


my friend was playing with others and when ever i trired to say hi to her she would go play with some one eles what should i do (link)
try to talk to her make her understand


I am failing in math I don't want to do grade fourth again!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
well try to stay after school or you can turn in some extra homework try to make up all the stuff u missed


Okay this is weird. I am advice~gurl on this site. advice~gurl is a good screen name huh? lol
Well I just wanted to say hello. lol
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kat (link)
lol yeah my frieds call me the advice gurl to


i have a bf who is cheating on me and wat shold i do (link)
well go up to him and tell him that you know what he is doing then tell him that you dont want to go out with him if he is dateing another girl and why would he break up with a nice gurl like you he is a loser if he cheats on girls a real man dosnet cheat at all


A bunch of my friends keep complaining that they do not have dates for prom. They have even stated that they will not go if they do not get a date. Some of them have gone so far as to say that they will not go unless someone asks them.

I, for one, have a date, because I got off my sorry ass, swallowed my pride, and asked my best guy friend to go with me, because I'd rather have fun and have fond memories of prom than ruin it by going with anyone I'm remotely romantically attached to - I learned my lesson at my ninth grade social. Whenever my friends complain and I tell them that maybe they should do something about it, they pretty much tell me to shut up because I have a date and "I'm not one to talk." Which is fine, but why complain to me when I took care of the situation already?

I really want my friends to be there, and it's not like they don't like my date or anything. This is the only time of their life they'll get to do something like this, so why don't they want to go? I understand that money can be an issue for some people, but not going because you don't have a date is a stupid reason to give.

What should I tell them the next time the situation arises? (link)
well tell them to get of thei butts and find a prom date and trust me proms are special you only get to experance them once and a while so dont waste the chance


Is it wrong to make plans with one of your best friends and after all the trouble they went thur to ask there parents,they go and make plans with someone else. After you have been planing this since like Sunday. Or is it a signal that they dont wanna be your friend anymore? help
-Me (link)
no its not that they dont want to be friends any more just sit her or him down and tell them that they made plans with you and that its not right to make other plans with some one eles trust me this happend to me


I have a really good friend. She is head over heels for the guy of her dreams. She even now dates him. She is overbering in a caring way. She really likes him but while she was gone i found something out. He thinks that she is crazy and is going to break up with her. I know if he does, she will be devistated. Should i tell her of the impending doom. If i do she might hate me but if i dont she will lose the guy of her dreams. What can i say? (link)
sit down and tell her nocely if she dosent belive you then leave it alone when it dose happend tell her he was bad news and that you tried to warn her but be nice about it because she might cry.


Well their is this boy that i really like and he also likes another girl. i think he likes her more though because at lunchtime he always sits next to her and he says that he likes her more. Meanwhile, their was this school dance and he asked ME to go with him and i said yes. We have been together for 3 months and this girl came along now! wow! Also, This other boy really wants to go out with me and he said he will do anything. But i think i still really like the other boy.What should i do? He also really likes me . we are having a trip and he wants to sit next to me on the bus meanwhile the boy i went to the dance with asked this new girl to sit nex to him.and if i say i like this new boy the boy i went to the dance with gets mad.what should i do? (link)
well if the boy you are goin out with sits by someone eles then that boy must be dumb not to go out with a nice person like you go out wit the other person and see what he is like


Okay, I do one thing wrong and where does it get me? IN A HOLE. WHERE NONE OF MY FRIENDS LIKE ME! I have 1 friend now. Her name is Ellie. See, I did one mistake to Sabrina. Now she is mad at me. Then all of her best friends which happen to be mine too hate me. (Sabrina, Amanda, Bella, Monica, Rosalie, and Samantha) What can I do to get my friends to like me again? (link)
well if they dont like you over something dumb then dont friends with them at all just make knew firends with others


ok so there are these 3 girls tommy summer and jordan lets call them (tsj)then there is me darci and courtney lets call us (adc)ok so tsj used to me really close friends with us but now tsj have like theri own little inside jokes and we all used to be really good friends but now whne tommy or summer are 2gether they are big bitches then whne summer and jordan are togfether they are bitches me darci and courtney try talkign to then but the when the words come out they go right through tsj ears they ignore us and we fell excluded an really want to tell them how we feel but if we do we are afriand that they will hate us even more.... ok so here is whats going on summer ignores me all day except for history and jordan hates my gut which i dont know why and tommy never talks to me its the same going on with courtney and darci to those stupid bitch whores leaves us out of everything should we write them a note telling them how we feel or should we just let it go???i mean summer and jordan have these little inside jokes like cherry and bazooka and all this crap and it pisses me off the most cuz they leave us out of the picture andi fell like choking them they need to be more nice to us shoudl i tell them that?? ok we are all in 8th grade and i know we should resolve it asome how but its still not gonna work i really really really nedd help on what to do???? help (link)
well dosent sound like good friends to me you can do much better


I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
well be brave and ask him out or you could do what i did and write a note to him it always works he will write a note back of come up to you and say yes


I want men to die... is this normal? (link)
yeah it is all girls really think that but we really cant live with out them if you know what i mean.


My sister, who is almost 20 years old, is with a guy who is totally wrong for her. He never takes her out on dates, or buys her anything, (not meaning that material things are that important but come on...), and the second she gets her paycheck he turns around with his hand out, telling her that he deserves some money for some reason or another. She is in college right now, and I can tell that this guy is ruining her life. She has dropped a lot of classes just because she doesn't have time for them because she has to go help him with his kid (from a previous relationship)or some other chore that she really has nothing to do with. He wont let her hang out with her old friends, because they might make her "disloyal" to him, in his opinion. I keep telling her that she needs to back off and find a better guy who has her interests at heart, but her response is "you haven't been in a relationship like tihs, when you're in love you have to make certain sacrifices" I don't know, maybe it's just my opinion, but when you're in love, you normally don't break up at least twice a week. (4 times so far since the beginning of April...today is the seventh...) Am I overacting or am I right in trying to convince her to ditch the guy? And how do I go about convincing her?
Concerned Sister (link)
well this guy sounds like a loser a big loser tell you sister whats on your mind and if she thinks that he is good for her tell her whats been happing in her life and whathappend in her life with out him if that dosent work tell her that she is only hurting herslef by being with a loser


In our school, we have teams that everyone is seperated on each year. We dont usually associate with the other teams. This year my best friend and I were put together...but next year, we won't be. I know everyone says that I will make new friends, but it is the hardest thing in the world, because I will never see the person that means the most to me! What can I do? I feel really empty inside...I can't live without seeing her everyday! We won't be in the same hallway or anything, not even the same classes! Now what? (link)
well dont worry you will still be friends wont you? i mean dont u guys hang out or call each other i have been friends with some one for 3 years




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