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Hey. We're learning a new chapter in algebra now and I don't really understand it at all =(. I want to get ahead and figure it out before we have a test or quiz so help would be Greatly appreciated! I'm in ninth grade and doing Algebra. We're working on solving linear systems by graphing. If anyone can explain two of these problems step by step (literally) I would be SO happy and wish that I'd be able to give you a medal =)Ok here it goes. number 30. -3x+y=10 and the second one that goes to this is 7x+y=20 My question is what do you do step-by step and how do u graph it? Sorry I know this is REALLY confusing but I know someone out there can help me! Thank you sooo much in advance! =) (link)
-3x+y=10 7x+y=20
+3x +3x
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y= 10+3x plug this equation in to the other one
y= 10+3 7x+10+3x=20
y= 13 10x+10=20
-10 -10
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10x=10
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10 10
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x=1 plug x in to the other equation

Sorry it is so hard to follow, it's really hard to show without arrows and oral explanation. If you have any questions just ask.
I hope I Helped
~Morgan


okay i like this guy named derek alot i mean ALOT okay
an im doing a project with him an stuff
but anyway he already knows i like him i mean we've been friends since first grade but each year we become closer then the last. anyway yeah the thing is he has a girlfriend and they have a long distance relashionship i mean she lives on the other side of state an they only see each other when they go to church
an then he is always flirting with me an everyone else around him
okay
an all his girlfriends are older then him
an they only go out for like 2 to 4 months at the most
i mean his last girlfriend he had he met off the internet an she lived in kentucky
north of were i live like way way way north
anyway
i just want oth ave a chance with him
i cant stop thinking about him
am i just sorta know he likes me but not sure
i try flirting like nothing happens he just doesnt realize im flirting an stuff..
so what i want to know is how can i like get him to actually really see i liek him
how can i be sure he really likes me
and should i worry about his current girlfriend? (link)
If he only seems to go out with girls older than him who live far away and they don't last long at all is this really the type of guy you want to be with? He has a girlfriend at the moment so back off and think about if you really like him or if it's jsut a crush. If you still want to be with him when him and his gf break up then try just talking a lot and maybe casually bringing it up in a conversation.
Hope I helped
-Morgan-

P.S.- the difference between a crush and liking someone is when you have a crush you'll like him for a while but then you'll just move on. If you really like him the feelings yo uget when around him will seem to never go away.


ok..i know that making out with just a friend is wrong..but i still want to. Not because i want to use him, i just want to learn how to make out. I've had a boyfriend but it was only for a couple of weeks and when we kissed, it was like kissing my mother. I just want to be less nervous for the next time i have a boyfriend, and i want to actually be able to know what im doing. My friend is single now and he knows how to make out. I was just wondering if yall thought it was still wrong. If you think it's fine, how can i convince my friend to help me out? (link)
I don't think it's is wrong if you seriously just want to practice with him but if there is any chance that either of you may like one another as more than a friend then it is getting a little risky. It might end up that after your "makout session" you really like him, but he might not like you, breaking your heart. Don't get too nervous about making out, when the time comes it will happen and you will just know what to do.
Hope I Helped
((Morgan))


Ok well I was in gymnastics when I was 4 and I went till I was 6. Then I basicly taught myself how to do everything like a front handspring, back walkover, etc. The problem is that I want to do a backhand spring. I know I could probably do it Im just too scared to try. I can do a backflip on the trampoline. So how should I start to do one? Like all the steps? Do I need a running start? Can I build it off of a back walk-over? (link)
A back handspring is a very scary thing to try but the first time is always the hardest. You can build it off of a back walkover but it is a lot different. You don't need a running strat unless you want to do a round-off backhandspring. It is easiest to do on a tumble track or off of a tumble track. Make sure you arch you back when u go back and jump backwards not up. If you need any more specific help let me know.
~Morgan


heyy, im in 8th grade and middle skool is goin by fast, my life isnt do hot right now, i dont got too many friends and no matter what i do things arent gettin better. I dont want my whole life in middle skool just to be a waste. I feel like im on the outside lookin in. i just want to get some new freinds, stand out a little more and not feel like a loser when im talking to some one a little cooler than me. not be afraid to express myself. I guess its hard to be urself when the people around you dont accept you the way u are right now. So i guess im rele askin, how do i get more confidende to get more people to like me and show others the real me? (link)
I'm in 8th grade too and you're right this last year of middle school is flying by. Try to be more outgoing and show people who you really are. The most popular kids might not like you for you but I'm sure somebody will. Don't change yourself just so you can hang out with different people, it will only make life worse. Make the most of the rest of this year because once middle school is over it's going to be a whole new world. Don't be afraid to express yourself and have the most fun you can while it last.
Hope I Helped
xoxo Mo


hey i love you but you have a boyfriend what do i do (link)
You let me know who you are ASAP!!!
I'll try to help you out.
IM Me
~morgan


hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these things work.. it's a weird sort of heartbreak too, like he didn't cheat, we didn't fight or anything.. he's still the perfect guy i fell for, the guy i love, it's just that i moved, to another country.. and if im lucky i'll see him once a year, but that's it. so it had to end, we were forced to end it. i know it was the right decision, but i dont know how to deal with it.. please help! (link)
It's possible that he is thinking the same thing about you...it would be way to hard to make that long distance relationship work but try to stay in touch and stay best friends. Find someone new that will help you get your mind off him. I know having your heart broken is horrible but you will make it through I promise. Just keep your options open and don't make your whole life revolve around this guy that you never get to see.
Hope I Helped
~morgan


OK, this is complicated...
14/F
I had a boyfriend. I HAD. Let's say his name is Collin.
I saw him making out with this other girl after school, though. In public, like, right out the school doors, at the stairs. He and that girl didn't even try to hide behind anything, pretty thoughtless. So I told him I'd seen what he did the next day, and his only excuse is, "I'm sorry... I couldn't help it." I guess he expected me to forgive him because he looked seriously freaked when I dumped him right there.
I got over him, and he kept apologizing to me (probably because THAT GIRL turned out to be taken) and begging me to go out with him again. I know he's not loyal. I had a major heartbreak because I thought I was special to him but he just goes whatever about me to kiss THAT GIRL.
I started going out with this other guy, say... Brent. I'm really starting to love Brent alot. He helped me out of my depression and he;s really sweet... but then Collin shows up with slit wrists and tells me he'd keep cutting himself if I don't go back to him. I told him I really like Brent and even though I hate Collin, I don't want him to hurt himself because he's still a human being.
What should I do? (link)
If you can...tell somebody about Collin slitting his wrists because that could be dangerous and you shouldn't have to go out with him just to make him stop. Don't dump Brent and go out with Collin just because you don't want to hurt Collin. He should learn that it is his fault and if he really cared about you he would want you to be happy, which is with Brent.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan


ok so i was about to get together with this guy when my family decided to move.. so i toldhim to wait for me, i'd be back in a year.. and he waited.. now im supposed to be back for xmas.. but my family decided to saty here for another year.. so its' over. but i dont want him to give up on me! i know he's going to date other girls, thats okay, as long as he doesnt give u on me completly, as llong as im in the back of his head.. so what do i do? I WILL NOT TELL HIM THIS. so is there any other way to MAKE SURE im on his mind, and he doesnt give up on me.. ?? (link)
Keep talking to him as much as you can on the phone, AIM, write letters, e-mail...whatever you have to do to stay in touch. IF he really loves you, he won't forget and he will try to wait. The best thing to do is tell him all of this but since you said you won't just don't give up onhim and he won't give up on u.
Hope I helped
xoxo Morgan


Im going to a christmas/brithday party this weekend.
It is for 2 of my very good friends, im better friends with one of them over the other though.
I have NO IDEA, what to get them.
For most of my friends, i just give them money in a card but since they are such close friends i dont wanna be corny.
I only have about 45 dollars to spend on both of them, does anyone have any suggestions?
Like maybe 2 small gifts for both of them, or something good?
They are 13 and they are prep and ya know.
Theres gonna be over 65 people there, so they wont focus on my gift, but i need help.
THANKS! (link)
If you want to make somethin personal scrapbooks/ scrapbook pages or photo albums are always a nice gift and don't cost much at all.
You could also get something that has to do with an inside joke or good time. You can get 2 t-shirts for $20 at Aeropostale.
I Hope I Helped
~Morgan
P.S. Have a good time at the party


14/F

Hi, me again!!

I have yet another question about "Graham". You said to just let him know I like him when we've gotten to the point of good friendship and that certain comfort level...but how do I tell him, or even bring it up for that matter??? (I want to ask him to turnabout, but I'm not sure he'll say yes.) What to do, what to do....do you know?? Can you help please??

Again!!, xox! (link)
Well...asking him to turnabout is deff. a way to hint to him that you like him. Don't be worried about him saying yes, remember, the worst thing that can happen is he says no and there isn't to much evil in that.
You can try telling him you like him online or through a note...or if you have the guts in person but I know that is really hard.
If you need anymore help, I'm here.
~Morgan


14/F

Hi!! I am in highschool, and I REALLY like this guy. We are friends, and are in some classes together. How do I get him to like me? (Let's say his name is "Graham".) Graham is the type of guy who basically every girl fawns over. But he is also really nice, smart, hott, and shy. I don't know how to get his attention in quite that way where he would be interested enough in me to ask me out, since he's shy and all. Can you help me please? (I really want to go out with him, and also have him be my first kiss.) :) (link)
Try talking to him as much as you can and partnering up in classes. Don't forget to be yourself and try to make friends with him. When you get comfortable talking to him and stuff, tell him you like him. It's hard not to fall for someone when you know they like you. Good luck!
I Hope I Helped
~Morgan


there is this problem.... i am to shy to talk to guys i mean not cuz i like them just to make friends idk if it is because i'm so used to girls or what but it is hard.i mean i can talk to them on the internet or on the phone but not in person. what is the Problem here? (link)
You dont have any problem...here are some tips to help you open up to the guys in person:
-Find one that you know the most and try talking to him and hanging out with him, after a while you will get to know his friends too
-Don't worry abotu being anything but yourself
-Join big groups when they're talking and stuff so that you are not the only girl
Hope I Helped
xoxo Morgan


Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
Yes, Ex's can still be friends, I have seen it happen plenty of times. If you were friends before you went out soemtimes breaking up even makes your relationship stronger.
~Morgan


Ok...i like this boy and i told my bff. Now, i know that she is flirting with him. She let him carry her backpack down the stairs and i know that he likes her because he told his best friend who told us. I dont want to talk to her about it because she is not easy to talk to about this kind of stuff and would immediatly deny it. She is not a bad friend at all...she wouldn't do anything to hurt me bacause we have been friends for a while and she has never done anything to hurt me intentially. So...i dont know what to do. He always asks her to be partners with him and says hi to her everyday and he never talks to me unless he needs to borrow something. I dont care if he likes her because everybody can like who they want to, i just dont know why she is flirting with him when she knows i like him. Any advice for me to take without having to talk to her? If so...thats okay to.
Thanks (link)
If this guy likes your friend anyway maybe you should just try to move on and find someone else. Don't get mad at your friend for flirting, especially if you haven't talked to her. It will just make matter worse. If you don't want to give up on this boy then you really have to talk to your friend even if you don't want to.
Hope I Helped
--MOrgan


okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do??? (link)
Give him a little time to plan everything out and talk to you before you completely freak out on him. There is a chance that he has a reasonable explanation for all of this, maybe he is dumping his gf to be with you, who knows. My best advice to you is to just stay calm and let him explain before things get worse.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan


ok, so, yesterday, somehow, i asked my crush out. he's my guy best friend, and while we were talking, i just kinda slipped it in there. I ACTUALLY ASKED HIM OUT! this morning when i woke up, it seemed like a dream. but it wasn't. after i asked him out, he replied by saying, "i need time to think". how should i take that? what does that mean? if you asked somebody out and said that, what would you have thought? maybe i'm looking into this too far, but i can't help but do it, cuz i'm so nervous and stuff.

please help! (link)
Yes...You are taking this to far.
I know it's nerve wrecking when you have to wait for an answer but try not to be so nervous. Look at it this way...
-If he says yes, you guys will be happy
-If he says no, you'll still be happy.
He probably just wants to think about how it will effect your relationship.
Try to calm down a little bit.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan


well my friend said that i've changed. she said that i NEVER talk anymore and stuff like that. now i sort of believe her, but i kind of dont. i know i've been quiter, but thats because im not with all my friends that im very comforable with. see i have a three of groups of friends, "the cools","the not so cool", and "the ones i dont see anymore that much". ive benn hanging out with the "not so cool" and latly i havnt been comunicating with them very good. for example ive been disagreeing with them and trying to advoyed my friend who said i've changed. and honestly i have no idea why thats been happening. i know this might sound stupid and all but do you have any idea of what i should do?
please help if you can (link)
Is there something going on in your life that has made you not want to talk anymore or hang out with your friends?
That could be the reason why everything is saying you changed, your friend just cares about you and she wants to make sure you are okay.
If there isn't any reason for this then ask your friend why she thinks you have changed and what you can do to fix it. If she gives you ways to change that are possible try it! Start hanging out more and getting more involved and before you know it, I'm sure you and your frineds will be right on track. Remember: You're friend wouldn't just tell you that you've changed if she hasn't noticed anything different.
I Hope I helped
If you need any more help, IM me, or leave it in my inbox.
~Morgan~


There's this guy I met, a friend of some friends. And I really like him. I know he likes me, he's told me. And I think we're going to make a go of it. But I've got one doubt - he's also made it clear from the beginning that he likes another friend of mine. They've known each other for years, and she says to me that she isn't interested in him and that I should go for him. He's liked her for longer than me though - but he said he liked me the minute he met me. Which is a big plus, because he's liked her for so long and nothings happened but he meets me and after 6 weeks we're as close as he is with her. Should I go for him? I'm just a bit worried that he'll still have like this unrequited love for her (OTT, but you get me) even if he's with me. (link)
It's up to you..
1) You can take the chance and just home that he doesn't end up cheating on you with your friend and hope he falls for you more.
2) You can wait it out until he completely falls in love for you and you know it will last.
It all depends on the type of person you are and how willing you are to take chances. If I was in this position I owuld probably go for it and if he seemed to still be tlaking bout my friends and stuff after 1 to 2 weeks I would dump him.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan


so i started to like my friend at the end of last year and it hasnt changed sence. about a mounth ago he found out i liked him and i was all worried that every thing was going to change. and yet to my suprise it didnt just that we dont talk that much anymore. he doesnt notise me that much in the hall way either. he also likes this girl at school but what i have heard is that he doesnt anymore, and i really like him, u kno? how can i make him notise me more and mabey even like me?
please help me Morgan! (link)
Try to talk to him more and spend more time with him. Don't try to change yourself. that is the worst thing to do. Be yourself around him and show him what a truely great person you can be. Hang out with his friends and don't be all
"goo goo gah gah" over him all the time. The best thing you can do is to just be yourself and try talking to him. Good Luck, I hope I helped!
If you need anymore help just IM me or send something to my inbox.
-Morgan




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