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i like this guy alot
okay i like this guy named derek alot i mean ALOT okay
an im doing a project with him an stuff
but anyway he already knows i like him i mean we've been friends since first grade but each year we become closer then the last. anyway yeah the thing is he has a girlfriend and they have a long distance relashionship i mean she lives on the other side of state an they only see each other when they go to church
an then he is always flirting with me an everyone else around him
okay
an all his girlfriends are older then him
an they only go out for like 2 to 4 months at the most
i mean his last girlfriend he had he met off the internet an she lived in kentucky
north of were i live like way way way north
anyway
i just want oth ave a chance with him
i cant stop thinking about him
am i just sorta know he likes me but not sure
i try flirting like nothing happens he just doesnt realize im flirting an stuff..
so what i want to know is how can i like get him to actually really see i liek him
how can i be sure he really likes me
and should i worry about his current girlfriend?
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If he only seems to go out with girls older than him who live far away and they don't last long at all is this really the type of guy you want to be with? He has a girlfriend at the moment so back off and think about if you really like him or if it's jsut a crush. If you still want to be with him when him and his gf break up then try just talking a lot and maybe casually bringing it up in a conversation.
Hope I helped
-Morgan-
P.S.- the difference between a crush and liking someone is when you have a crush you'll like him for a while but then you'll just move on. If you really like him the feelings yo uget when around him will seem to never go away.
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Ok. First off. If he has a girlfriend, just stay back for a little while. If what you said is true and they only last a few months, then just sit back and let him talk about her to you. His likes and dis-likes about her. That way, you can learn from her mistakes and be his dream girl when they break up. However; if you have tried flirting around for a long time, maybe he realized it but just didn't feel the same way? I know it sounds mean, but did you think of it that way?
Hope I have helped. :)
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Yes, you should be worried about his current girlfriend. Key word: girlfriend. He's taken right now and if you try to steal him from a girl who's his girlfriend...not good.
So just lay low until they break up. Then, treat him differently form how you act around other guys. If you hug them, hug this guy and link arms with him. Just take it a step above, you know what I mean?
But becareful because guys are sometimes blind to flirts brough on by girls. And also you could ruin a great friendship by flirting with him when he doesn't want anything more than a friendship with you.
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