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14/f
i like this guy, i'm pretty sure he likes me too. but today i wa son myspace and this other girl was super flirting with him. he was also talking to her like he talks to me. i was really hurt by that because it feels like he's playing both of us. but i want to win him over and get him to stop thinking about this other girl. how can i make him like me way more than her? what are some things i could do? (link)
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Sounds like Jealousy to me. Don't try to overdo it. You might come off deseperate or slutty. Just act normal. Find things you have in common and get him interested. Also approach him with witt and humour. Guys love it. Dont try to make him look dumb and dont say things about the other girl because you will look immature. It can hurt sometimes when guys flirt, exspecially the ones you like. Truth is guys like to feel sexy or wanted so they flirt to get girls to say hot things to them. Try to compliment him in a sophisticated way. Good Luck.
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okay well i met this guy like .. 2 months ago .. well i had been VERY hurt before & to b perfectly honest.. i didnt have much interest in this kid i was mad & wanted to leev my house so i told em to come get me liddle did i kno wat was happening.. well we ended up hittin it off we were perfect for eachother.. weird eh? .. well we ended up kissing & it just all felt right.. well still i was worried of my image at school cuz it was liek a complete random hook up & wat not.. well we ended up gettin together.. & all was GREAT i loved being with him & he always said the right things & wat not well one night to much liquior & sweet talkin led to sex.. i was SO SO SO scared to open up like i HAD A HUGE TALK with him the night before & hes liek u gota trust me babe im different i promise.. & i bought it all well next day.. we broke up i culdnt figure it out he swore he stillw anted to b with me he juss needed to think i culdnt figure out wat i did that was oh so wrong but i dont kno.. well he invited me over that night nothin reallty changed we still kissed & stuff.. school eh okay i guess kinda embaressed but okay i guess well we spent the next month off & on till i got so fed up with i ignored him more & more then one random night he came back & told me he wanted to b together & he was really sorry bout it here we go again all up hill.. he called em everynight & called me baby & there i was fallen again.. & i was so ready to be his.. well i went to his house a few days later.. & he told me he was in love with me i didnt say anything i thought he was jokin but i juss sat there so he walked off then no lie 5 minutes later & he told em he didnt like me at all.. so there i was cryin hurt cunfused & it didnt get much better a few calls & kisses still back to the start,, well then it got good again sorta.. we were supposed to hang out & i was so totally happy all day a HUGE smile ! well then he text me & said dotn ever talk to me again... & supposevly one of my guy friends said i promised i wuldnt talkt o him & now he wont talk to me & he said "i want nothin between us juss friends i cant deal with you" so i spent the entire night cryin i didnt go to school i culdnt face him i cant let go im stuck i have no idea wat im doing so wrong && i love him alot .. i really do it sounds dumb but i do & he was juss in a long relationship & the girl broke his heart so i feel terrible liek i cant amount to her i wana juss show him i love him & i wana b okay.. but i cant.. & i kno he'll coem back but i cant do it again & he leaves at the end of the year .. so im screwed i just wish i never met him.. im sorry this is long but i need someone out there to help me.. & sayin "get ocver it" wont work ive tried so so so hard.. i love him i need something better.. thanx....... (link)
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This guy seems to be confused, which is leading you to be confused. Woah. That's a lot of off and on. It can't be healthy, your going to get sick. He keeps jerking you around. I know you've heard it so many times before, "get over it" and you're right, it's not that easy. You should talk to him and ask him why he keeps pushing you aside and then changes his mind, over and over. Let him know that it is hurting you and how mind boggling it is. He will either want you back, turn you away or feel bad and just want to be your friend. You're going to have to be prepared for all of them. Love is a silly thing but you know what if he really loved you he wouldn't do what he's been doing. Try not to dwell on it too long if things stay sour, theres nothing worse than a broken heart. Good luck.
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I have a horrible sleep pattern. It never used to bother me much, but now the realization of how much it can hurt my body has kicked in. I really want to change it, but it's really hard for me.
12:00AM/1:00AM - 5:30 AM
SLEEP
6:25AM - 2:17 PM
SCHOOL
4:00PM - 8:00 PM
SLEEP
Then the whole cycle restarts. I really want to change, but changing a pattern completely out of nowhere is very hard to do. Any advice? I would like to start sleeping around 10:30 or 11:00, but since my body is so used to how I sleep now, those times are too early for me. Plus, I also have a lot of homework and fitness I need to fit in too. Help, please?? (link)
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Okay. Stop. That sleep pattern is no good at all, toss it. Continuos non-disturbed sleep is way better than sleeping-waking-sleeping-waking. Your body cannot fully recharge if you dont let it. Do this: Go to sleep at 9:30 PM
Wake up at 5:30 AM
Go to school-come home
Homework and workout
Its not that hard, really.
You're getting 8 hours of continous sleep instead of 4 here and there. If you need help sleeping to get used it then take a gravol or two half an hour before bed. Don't rely on them to get you to sleep all the time though just for the first little while.
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okay well my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow for our anniversary and i want to do something special for him. something sexy that he will like. anyone have any ideas? i rate 5's (link)
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Hmm. Something sexy, egh? Are you a good stripper? Well you could make/cook dinner for him and then invite him to the bedroom for 'desert'. Get kinky if you have to. Men always see this kind of thing in the movies but not in real life. Bring out the wipped cream and lingerie. He'll love it! Happy Anniversary!
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i know how to clean but i need a quicker way to do it....i hate to clean but i want to do it to get it over with..So if you know any ways to clean anythng then you can answer it
-suggestiongirl0302 (link)
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I bet you're a procrastinator. Me too. Well you should start it simple by making up your bed. Then pick everything up off the floor that's garbage and chuck it. Now would be a great time to pick up dirty clothes. Put anything else in it's proper place (ie. books, cd's)Vacume your floor. Wash your sheets once a week. Wala!
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I am stressed out! *sigh* I'm a sophomore, and in my state we have to take the graduation test this year. The tearchers are like "The graduation test is in March!! You must know everything!!!" Also, I have my permitt. I like driving and all...but I'm nervous. My sister (age: 10) doesn't help me much either... all I hear from her is "Help me!" I spend an hour riding to school, then spend 8 hours at school, then the hour ride back. Then I have to eat my dog or cat (my sister and I take turns), then I have to help my sister with any homework she has. Also, I'm getting worried about my grades. No, I'm not failing. I am getting mostly B's...but it seems like I'm not doing good enough.
*laughes* You want to know something sad? My birthday is a week before the graduation test, and the day before the gradution test is the earliest I can take my driver's license. -_- Lucky me, huh?
Does any one have stress management advice...or any kind of advice. ^__^ Thanks!!! (link)
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You have to eat you dog or cat egh? I think the problem here is cannibalism. Managing your time would be a good idea. If you want to do really well on your test I think the commute to school would be a great time. You could record the information on a tape and slip it in the tape deck in your car. That's two extra hours a day that you never had to study before. Other than that I dont think you really have that much to be stressed over. You're about to graduate, how hard can a ten year old's homework be? How long does it take you to feed your cat/dog? If you already know the road sign's and can drive well, I don't see the problem there either. Chill out. Your going to be just fine.
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I'm in 8th grade and in november I dated this kid in 7th grade. It was cool, it lasted for a month. But than he dumped me for like no reason. Then the night after that he called me back, begging for me to take him back, and I didn't. Now its been about 2 monthes, and he likes me again. HOw am I am going to deal with this? (link)
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How are you going to deal with it? Well you either like him or you don't. I take it you must have before otherwise you wouldn't have gone out with him in the first place. If you blow him off and he still likes you then dont let it bother you because it feels good to be wanted. Don't treat him badly though because that's a major turnoff. If you still like him then why not go for it again, its not like your going to get married. Make sure he treats you good. If you dumps you again for no apparent reason then do waste any further time on this ammature. Good luck.
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Symptoms of Depression .
Prolonged sadness or unexplained crying spells
"Some nights around midnight, I start crying thinking of how much i dont want to be here anymore. How much i miss my brother, and How much my dad bothers me. And how i feel so alone."
Significant changes in appetite and sleep patterns
"I can never get to sleep, i have such a hard time."
Irritability, anger, worry, agitation, anxiety
"I get mad pretty fast, and I worry over little things. And i think i have anxiety, early in the morning before to school, like about going to school."
Pessimism, indifference
Loss of energy, persistent lethargy
"I dont like many things, most of the time I'd rather just sleep away."
Feelings of guilt, worthlessness
"I do feel worthless, specially when im crying. And when i think of my brother, or see people in love, and i know I'll never have what they have."
Inability to concentrate, indecisiveness
"I think i have this some what, I can only concentrate when im intrested, but usally i cant just beacause im tired."
Inability to take pleasure in former interests, social withdrawal
Unexplained aches and pains
"I get sick to my stomache Alot, and headaches alot."
Recurring thoughts of death or suicide
"I think of suicide when im crying, or feeling really bad about something."
so yea, I dont think im depressed, but i have a few of the symptoma, do you think i have depression? (link)
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Well Honey. I can honestly say I've felt the same way. To keep proffesional I cant really say the details but more or less. You need to find something to keep you occupied. I ride horses, which is a great way of therapy. You should talk to someone about your feeling, maybe a counsilor, family member or a close friend. Talking about how you feel helps a lot. Find out what made you lose interest. Talk about that. You have a lot of life ahead of you, dont do anything stupid and quit slitting your wrists' it's a waste. You're 13 egh? Have you gotton your period yet? That could be the effects of PMS kicking in. PMS makes you very moody, emotional and irritated. It could be that. Try to look on the bright side. Take care.
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Hi,
I have a dilemna. I have been dating someone for 9 months now.. he is in the UK and Im in Canada. Things are great between us. We get our usual squabbles now and then, but wat couple doesn't. Neways recently I had called him up at his work and asked for him. I got his father on the phone and he repeatedly told me to stay away from him becuase of so called caste differences. I am Hindu Punjabi and he is Hindu gujrati. I have mentioned this talk to my bf. and he told me not to worry about it and that he will sort things out.. but wat I don't get is why does everyone I get involved have this same attitude about caste and or religion. It is really frustrating.. Why can't parents just accept it and be happy for him/her. Any thoughts on that? and..how can I just egnore his father's words like that.. It hurts me alot.. for him to think like that.. I have never seen him in person nor does he know my personality.. I just don't get it (link)
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Not everyone is open minded. Even more so parents when it comes to their offspring. Parents want to be in control, exspecially ones that arn't open minded and don't realize that their offspring are seperate beings with seperate morals and values. Like you said, his father doesn't know you all, all he knows is that you're different from him and he can't accept that, which is his problem, not yours. Do you care that your boyfriend is Hindu gujrati? I don't think he cares either, side's you're not dating his dad. Just ignore the ignorant.
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okay i decided to shave 'down there' instead of trimming it and now i have little red bumps down there. how can i get rid of them and if i shave down there again are they going to come back? (link)
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You can use baby powder but that only soothes the bumps' irritation. When shaving 'down there' it's always best to shave in the opposite direction that you would to shave your legs, catch my drift? Also, you should use mosturized shaving gel which will prevent the bumps in the first place.
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I am racially Jewish.
As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.
I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.
I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"
But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray. (link)
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Today's world is driven by scientific experiments and explorations. Unless there is proof then it doesn't exist. I don't buy it. I'm sure you have an idea who you are. Your human. We tend to question a lot dont we? If we didnt I'd be out of a job. As long as you believe that at one point in time Jesus decended from heaven as God's son (not the same) and died on the cross for our sins, then you'll be forgiven and go to heaven. Soungs pretty simple, egh? Well you kinda have to ask for the forgiveness on top of that, hard work egh? Not really. It doesnt matter about faith orientation, you have to have the belief and the spiritual connection. If its not coming from a true place and you only say you believe, well lets just say, HE KNOWS THE DIFFERENCE.
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on the inside of my vagina .. like not all in it but right inside of my vagina there is like rough skin or.. bumps or something.. is this normal? i've never done anything sexually with anyone. & i'm just wondering if this is normal?
and what is it supposed to feel like in there?
is it supposed to be all like up and down staright?
or is it all curvy and stuff? (link)
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Darling, don't worry. If you haven't done anything sexual with anyone then it's probably nothing. Every girl has a different vagina. Noone's perfect and neither are their privates. It's like saying is my hair suppose to be this shade of brown? Of course it is. It's perfectly normal to have rough skin or even different sized lips. Your vagina isn't perfectly straight either but it adjust's to fit straight things in it, for instance a tampon or an erected penis. If these bumps grow larger, turn colours or start to irritate though it wouldn't hurt to get yourself checked out by a gecologist, otherwise forget about it, okay?
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im a girl. im trying to lose 10 pounds. i was just wodering what some good foods that would help/allow me to do this are. is there anything that will make it go faster or help me out more? what foods should i stay away from and what food is good when trying to lose weight? thanks. (link)
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First off, don't get discouraged if you don't lose as much as you're hoping. Just keep eating healthy and exercising and eventually it will pay off. Your going to want to stay away from the junk food, dugh. Exspecially pop and chips. As far as what's good to eat, salads, garlic, whole wheat bread, fruits, veggies, skim milk and lots of water. NO processed meats (ie.salami & bologna. Good Luck.
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two years ago i started going out with this boy he was 15 i was like 16 i didnt really like him that much we had sh together in school and he would always sit behind me and pass me these pieces of paper that said things like your hott and whats your phone number i just thought he was a funny guy. well that summer we got closer and started dating. after a month i broke up with him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore, but things didnt end alltogether we became friends w benefits. then he started dating this other girl who im now best friends with. they recently broke up and now she has a diff bf. fri the 13th he asked me over and we had sex again. its been like 13 days and i havent heard from him and we havent talking in school either. what should i do or say to him? (link)
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Personally, friends with benefits is not the way to go. Second off he just broke up with someone, be it your best friend or not, he's just looking for some rebound action. I don't see you going anywhere with this guy who isn't frankly worth your time. So you had sex, egh? Wow that's deep. Unfortunatly, I don't think he feels the same. Don't allow him to think that he can just have you when he wants you, either make him work for it or just up a quit.
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