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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me?

theres nothing wrong with you, some guys jsut like different girls. Its ok not to have a bf by 8th grade. soon you'll find the perfect guy that will sweep u off ur feet...i did

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hi this is chantal, you might have heard my name a couple of times,well the thing is one of my friends who will remain unknown because of stupid reasons is mad at me because i asked her if she talked behind my back, i acctualy know that she did because numourus pplz told me and it was basicly all the same story. anyways she's denying it, i told her i didn't care if she did i just want the truth but she won't give it to me!then she tells everyone including some of you guys that i tell all her secrets, first of all she never tells me anything so how can i say anything and second i'm not that kind of person. we've been friends for a long time but because of that she blocks me on msn and never calls me... i just want the truth, what can i do?

Dump that bitch of a friend like yesterdays garbage, and then listen to some N*sync

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

take the risk! i did that to my crush one day, and it totally worked, we've been together for five months now! it makes u look confident and that u can take some serious risks. i voted do it, if he pushes u away, then just laugh about it. good luck!

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i have this friend named lauren, she goes to taylor, shes not the brightest crayon in the box.. and i think she has down syndrome..

sounds interesting.... but wth is your question?

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ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do?

whos ur sister?

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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?

ya, go for it

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okay so today i went to my bff's jackie (we'll call her) and we went to her nfs house jo (we'll call him) so jackie and i went to jos house and he had some friends over and the're all kinda into a bad crowd and i really don't fit in with them or do the stuff they do. well they had these bomb things they made and there all swearing and hidding and r all talkin that "omg the f-in cops r gonna come! lets go into the woods" and so then i was gettin all scared so i really wanted to leae but i didnt wanna go with out jackie so i was droping hints like crazy tell her that i wanted to go. but i knoe she wanted to stay with jo so i kinda held off for awhile.. but then when the threw the first explosive that was it i just left and so jackie came with me.. i really wanted to cry bcuz i knoe thats the kinda crowd i knoe im not supposed to b in and i don't knoe y i ever hung out with them in the first place. did i do the right thing? even though all of jos friends and prolly jackie think im a goodie goodie or a wimp! how to i ever talk to them again with out them making fun of me??

its spelled joe*

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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.

i saw in a celebrity wedding: the bridesmaids wear the color of the roses they carry, like the bridesmaid with the yellow roses, wore a rose yellow dress, and so on...then the bride wears a white dress, its gorgeous! It would look great on a beach wedding! i went to one this summer and it was amazing..good luck, and congrats on ur engagement!


hey let me know how it goes, and what u do

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List what you think the top five fashion MUSTS to have in your closet will be this fall...I could use some tips on whats gonna be in fashion...!!! Thanks!

wear whatever you want, with confidence, u could pull off whatever...u could even start your own fashion...good luck and have fun with ur accesories!

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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.

sounds like tss....go to the doctor...like today

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hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01

wow, two weeks? sounds serious! well, go talk to ur uncle, go tell him how much he means to u, and how much u love him, while u can, cancer is just one of those things that happen to good people...if u go talk to him, it might give u closure, but really, go back to school...death is just part of life and he might be going to a better place, my grandma has breast cancer and its really hard on everyone, but jsut let him know that u think about him, and that you love him...im sorry!

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If your a freshman in High School.. what is the homework load for someone in ALL honors courses?

for me, in all honors classes, it was hell...but just keep up with all the work and study every night, ull do fine! good luck

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I remarried and my husband is nit very understanding to my son and is verbally abusive. he came frome an abusive family and thinks i am a terrible mom because i don't disiplend him differently he thinks i should be meaner to him. he is so bad he accused me of wanting to have sex with my son and says this is why i'm so nice to him. i'm not overly nice and i do punish him if needed. hes just a normal teen who never wants to put anything away that he uses and won't keep a cleen room. i don't think he's a bad child but my husband does therefor we continusly are fighting because i take up for my son now he says this whats wrong please help me

you gotta see who's more impotant here, this jerk of a guy, or ur own flesh and blood. u dont jsut accuse someone of wanting to sleep with ur son, and if u ask me, thats messed up. i know since yall it is married, then it is harder, but protect urself and ur son...let me know how things go...good luck!

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

how weird...i was in the SAME exact position as u and his name was brandon... well heres what u should do: if u dont want a relationship and u dont like him, then tell him u just need him as a friend right now. but if u do like him then totally go for it, dont care what other people think, pretty soon, they will get over it and accept it! good luck! tell brandon i said hi! haha

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well i have twin nabors n there is this one i liek n we were kinda cuddleing on my bros bed n well i was talkin to him n then we went upstairs n he told my bro what i said.. y dose he do that n y do i get shy when by bro ask me about it...

dude, thats so rude, punch him in the nuts

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

dont push him..that just makes things tense and forced...he will ask u out when he wants to..just let it happen out on his own! good luck

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I have herpes. I need help.

Can you help me with my herpes problem?

kill urself

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okay i always get hungary and i always end up chosing sweets or salty things to eat...is there sumthing more healthier and that will hold longer bcuz i knoe salads r healthy but i mean you get hungry like 10 minutes later.
please help ssoooooon b4 i get hungary again!

two words....cashew nuts...i eat them, and im not hungry for like 2 hours

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okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again?

well first of all...sex is something u gotta let happen on ur own, u cant force it... maybe this kid jsut wanted sex? who initiated they werent ready first?

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Ok, i am between the ages of 10-15. I know i should be concerned but i am. i really want bigger boobs and i dont know y. can anyone tell me y i want bigger boobs right now.

~really ashamed~

everyone is conscious about their body. just wait, if your not even 15 yet, you'll get them i promise

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