Im bascly your typical 16 year old girl! Ive had my share of boy friends, friends,litle sisters, skewl, humiliating situations ... the whole teenage drama kit... im in the 10th grade i love swimming, biking, animals, camping, drawing and helping ppl!
E-mail: xox_a_mandy_h@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada
Age: 16
Member Since: June 5, 2006
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Last Update: September 11, 2006
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I went out with my boyfriend for 6 months during the school year and for lots of different mutual reasons we broke up for the summer. I didn't really get to see him too much over the summer party because I was busy with lots of things and we live a little ways apart, and second b/c I had been going out with somebody else and that relationship did not end well. But anyway...when we got back to school we had mentioned how we still loved each other and out feelings fr one another had never gone away. After a couple of months we started going out again. Throughout this second time that we were together we ended up talking more about our summer and such. He had mentioned that he was no longer a virgin. The first time I had gone out with him he was. That means that he had lost his virginity to some girl that he did not go out with over the summer. Now, I love this guy with all my heart, but I have to admit that it kinda of breaks my heart that he was actually intimate with some random girl when we weren't together. A lot of people will say that I had gone out with somebody else so it's all the same thing but, I NEVER would have had sex with the guy I had gone out with. My boyfriend and I have now been together for almost 8 more months and I still love him to death. He's the only guy I have ever done ANYTHING other than kiss but we have not have sex. He NEVER pressures me to have sex and I would really like too, but I do not believe in sex before marraige. Personally, I think that there are too many consequences to having sex at my age (16) and I am also a Christian. However, I know that he is a guy and that guys need certain things. I would never break my belief system or my morals for sex...but at the same time I know that there are other girls who like him and I get jelous because I know that they're willing to give him the thing that I can't. I hate that I'm jelous of that but I am. I'd hate to think that in some ways he's just as attracted to them as he is to me just because they'll have sex with him. I don't exactly know what I'm looking for here in terms of advice. Maybe reassurance or just any thoughts. So whatever you got let me know.
ps. I have talked to him about this before but he said it's stupid and not to worry because he loves me. I guess I'm just worried that I might lose him one day because I waited too long. (link)
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Don't feel preshured into having sex with him becaus other girls out there are willing to give it to him. He seams to be real comfterrable waiting until your ready...trust his words and if he loves you he will not preshure you into anything you dont want to do, but if you do consider having sex befor maraige make shure that your doing for the right reasons be smart take the pill and use prectection.
Hope this helps! ;)
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Well, I'm currently working on a novel, and I need a name. I have a few to choose from, but I don't think that any of them are right. I need a male name that means 'water' or 'ocean' or 'sea'. I've already visited tons of websites, so if you could just give me a list instead of a website, I would be very grateful. I rate fives for good answers! (link)
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Water = Dax -> french
Ocean = Bien -> vietnamiese
Kai -> hawaiin
sea = Bien -> vietnamiese
Mairi -> spanish
Hope this helps!
but if you want more heres the site were i found them:
http://www.babynames.com/Names/Search/gosearch.php
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tonights the formal at my school & since your not allowed to being anyone from outside the school my boyfriend can't come. I really didn't want to go since I wouldn't be able to dance with anyone (like grinding) But one of my guy friends says he does it with other girls during dances (and he has a girlfriend) and that the point is to have fun & he thinks it's not cheating. Is grinding with another guy, just as a fun thing not like like you have feelings for the person, considered cheating? thanks. (link)
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Dancing should'nt be considered as cheating, but you should talk to your boy friend and see what he thinks. Its better if you tell him... explain him the situation and consider his fealings.
Hope this helps!
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i wannnnt to tighteenn my stomach.. escpecially my lower ab area... what else is there besides regular crunches? (link)
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Palaties!!! MY freind jamie swares by them..lol.. thers tones of neat exercises that concentrate on your abbs and other parts of your body.
Hope this helps! ;)
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Okay soo I have a boyfriend who I really like and I have been seeing for like 7 months. But now I have started talking to another guy who likes me and I think I am starting to like him too. What should I do? Break up with my boyfriend for him and see how it works out or what? I'm just not sure. (link)
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If your realationship with your boyfriend is going well there should be no reason to date other guys. But if you find great interest in this other guy consider taking a break from that 7 month realationship and use it as a reflection time in wich you and your boy friend may date other people.
Hope this helps!
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So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?
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Wow! thats creapy... that could be considered stoking, make shure you get the point across that he is not wanted and if that dos'nt work and he still watches you get the law involved!
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Who sings that new song "Temperature"? Its a rapper of some sort I think but I dont know who... (link)
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Sean Paul
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Okyy. Well,, i better state thhat my handss are shkking unconttraolbly, whichm akes it hard to typpe well, buttt ill tryy my hardest.
Well, today, the doctor said I have strep throat. 2 dayys ago i started feeling siick with a head achhe & stomach problems. I didn't eat after 2:00 ppm that dayy.
The nnext day, I diidnt eat anythinng. It was more head ach and stommach problems.
Yesterdayy, all i at was a cressent roll& a little bit of noodle soupp. My stomach & head still.
Today, I wentt too the doctors office & they siaid ii had strep thhroat. Now, my throat & head & stomach hurtt. All iive had to day wass half a frapp from starbucks.
I've loost 10 lbs so farr, noot onn purpose.
quuestions:
1. Iss this really unhealthy?
2. Am i supoosed to be SUPER coold?
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As far as im concerned your body is'nt getting the nutrience it needs to fight off the virus, there for you tend to shake, have head pains, and stomach pains. Try your hardest to eat, and be shure to eat healthy foods that contain alot of vitamines and nutriences. Beeing cold is quite normal durring the virus time period, You might have a fever from your body runing a low fuel while fighting the virus.
Hope this helps!
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Does anybody know any ways to learn your lines? like any unique ways or anything?
Hev (link)
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Wheni had to learn a scean from romeo and juliet to present onfront of the class, i made about 10 copies and hung them on the wall in each room so wereever i went i saw them and read them. The more i read them the more i knew them... its wiered but itworked for me!
hope it helps!
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ok so like ii really like this boy in my class. he is like PERFECT for me ((lets call him Bryan)) && he is SOOOOOO CUTE! he has blonde hair, blue eyes, && is only a lil bit taller than me ((awesome seing how short ii am)) and he jokes around w// me sometimes. he is all over me sometimes, like lookin or goin down my shirt or feelin up my leg or somethin. nothing really bad, ii mean, we are in school. like ii kind of like it just b//c ii know he is givin me attention. and ii really like him but here is the problem. my best friend ((lets call her sarah)) likes him. ii was tryin to hook her up w// a guy that she thought she was in LOVE w// but she decided she didnt like him any more! && now guess who she likes!BRYAN! ii love Sarah more than anythin, she is my BFF && is ALWAYS there for me, especially w// guy problems! so ii really dont know what to do! ii really like him, but she is my BESTFRIEND! should ii help her get him or try to get him for myself? any helf would DEFF be appreciated! ii rate!!
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Boys will come and go but best friends are 4 ever!... If you and your friend are really as closs as you say then there should be no problem talking to her about the situation, if your comfterble with it, explain to her how you feel about him. You guys could come to an undertsanding that could help you make your decision.
Hope this helps!
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Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home? (link)
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Go to the dance if its something you want to do. You should'nt worrie about what the others will thik. Besides im shure it took alot of couradge for that guy to ask you out, why not give him a chance? He may be a verry nice guy and you might have loads of fun.
hope this helps!
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Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew of any numbing stuff you could buy at any store. I need it for my mouth. Please Help!!! I'm in a lot of pain! (link)
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Try orgel or oragel... its what they use for babys who are teathing.
hope this helps!
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I am not huge but I have a little fat around my stomach and thighs, and I have love handles. I never wear tight shirts and I feel weird in swim suits. I really would love to make my love handles smaller and my thighs that is my main goal. I have been working pretty hard but it seems like even though I am eating more healthy and working out more than I ever have, I am just gaining weight! I do situps every day and I play sports every once in awhile but the main reason for my weight gain is that I am taking Seasonal, birth control pill, and it makes you gain weight easily. I am 14 and I have always been so small but recently I gain weight so easily. I eat healthy every once in awhile but I still LOVE my junk food. I try my hardest to cut back and I wish I could still eat the way I do and lose weight. With that said I am going to have to work extra hard and excercise twice as much because of the pill and my not-so-good eating habits. Now that you know about me, what I need help with is how do I lose weight quickly and how do I lose a lot without making myself miserable? Please help me. I keep gaining more and more weight and it makes me so sad! Thanks. (link)
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Try palaties! It will help flatten out your stomach and there is even some palatie exercises that can get ride of your love handles!
hope this helps!
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In school I have 2 awesome friends I have known for 10 years...they're basically the best!!! Yes and well one of them is celebrating her 15th birthday a month and about a week from today. Her birthday will be when we go on summer holidays...and we might be going in different clases. We'll still be friends but I really want to make this present special and when it comes to buying gifts I suck. I mean I'll walk around the mall//store about 20 times then end up picking the lamest crap.
Here's a bit about her...thanks:
She's 5'3", a bit girly not much, she wears tee's a jeans, she has a big bust line, a chubby middle (not as fat as me), she's moving during the vacation, she has curly frizzy hair, she fair.
I have no idea what she wants or likes. Plus she's moving so it doesn't matter if you say a cute wall decoration or something. (wall decoration = lame...I know).
And there's no price limit relly maybe $300 or something..but no clothes or bras please lool. thanks alot!!! (link)
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Try and make her something symbolic of your freindship. the best gift ive ever given to someone was a frame with a picture of me and her and other freinds in it... she had been in the hospital for a while and hadnt been able to see all of us for a while so i thought some smilling faces might chear her up. She still kepps them right near her bed at home now that she back home.
hope this helps :)
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