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okay I had a plant and it was growing real good then my cat that is allowed to go out side knocked over the whole pot and now my flowers are gone what should I do and saying not to let the cat out is not a option because we have a dog door and I am really disapointed what should I do
This is just an idea, but they have this little mini "green houses"(pretty much a little square piece of clear plastic) that goes over your plants so that they grow faster and animals can't ruin them as easily.
Also, if you are having problems with your cat eating your plants, you could always set out a "cat grass" plant. Cat's love these!
ok i have this thing about going back wards i get so scared to. and i a trying out for cheering and i go to gymnastics 2 times a week and my gymnastics trainer tells me that i am good and that i can do my back handpring by my self but i am to scared to. and like it weird like i taught myself how to do one before and i did it wiked good and then i fell on my head and now i am so scare to do anything backwords. and my trainer tells me that it is harder to do an arial then it is to do a bachandspring and i think that it isn't because i am notafrade to do anything front wards can any one help me or tell me a good way to get over my fear?
If you keep telling yourself that you wont be able to do it or that it is too hard, you are going to be in a constant mindset of fear. Just try to think positive about it, and while you are doing it just tell yourself inside your head that it is easy and you can do it, regardless to what you may really think.
Tell your coach about these concerns, maybe they might be able to walk you through it. If you are really good at it, like you said, then it should get easier the more you practice it.
I wish you the best of luck...
i think im under weight by a lot. Im 4"7 1/2 and im only 67 pounds!! Is this under weight? What it normal weight for me?
thankyou :)
Wow, you're deffinately underweight!
Your BMI is 15.6 and normal is 18.5!
I think your weight should be around 90, for your height...
hey kidss----
so theres these kids, theyre my really good friends, && they know im REALLY concious about my weight, && one day i walked in on thier convo && they were like, "i" really put on the weight && looked like i was a big round ball. i really hate getting called fat, but i think my weight is a little more than normal, but i just dont know where to see if its normal or very heavy...im 5'5, && i weigh 109lbs
thankss muchlyy
mucho luvo!
-------me
Hey! You are deffinately not fat! That's about as much as I weigh...
I am also 5' 5" and I weigh around 103 lbs.
I doubt your friends REALLY think you're fat...
I never had sinus headaches, i had headaches but nto these. it makeing me feel blue. and i just feel like i want to do more then i use to but i feel blah i try to sleep more but my mind seem to be racing with thoughts. i try clear my mind. i got medacine hope its work. but there any relexing way that i can do to get ride of it.. i try remeber routine of yoga but i dont want hurt my self if u know i mean, i am very healty person i dont get sick easiyly...
Try listening to music while you sleep. It doesn't work for me, but it works for a lot of other people I know.
See how it works for you...
if my boyfriend live long away apart(not that much he lives in alexandria v.a,i live in d.c) and he wont me to come see him and i wont him to see me because i couldnt see him anyway cuz my parents wont let me go that far so wat do i do and i really love him truly
im 13 and he is 16
Explain to your boyfriend that you can't see him, yet. He should understand.
Since he is 16, if he can drive, maybe he might be able to come see you, or something if it's that important to you.
ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer
Some guys are too shy to call girls, no matter how much they may love them. If you have a guy that isn't calling you, then you might want to try calling him for the first few times so he isn't so nervous.
Ehh, good luck.
i just made-out with my bfs friend it was amazing but i think he just used plez help enyone !!!!!:{
You think your Boy friend's friend used YOU?
Um, you made out with his friend!
Well, anyways, if you think you like your boy friend's friend better than sit your boyfriend down and tell him this. It is usually better to be bluntly honest, than to not tell them at all and have theist "guilt" feeling all the time.
ok im 12 gonna be 13 and im flat chested...most guyzz turn me down because they rather have a gurl with big boobs. im gonna be 13 and ppl think im 9. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!
Okay, you are probably either really thin or have not fully matured yet. Give it time, just because you aren't as "full" as other girls your age, does not make you worth any less. If guys do not like you for who you are, and would rather you and wont like you until you have bigger breasts then obviously they are not worth your time. Guys like that are usually jerks.
I liked a guy && I'm pretty sure he likes me..but we NEVER have anything to talk about on the phone, any ideas?
You could start out your conversation by talking about how your day went and such. Then, depending on both of your interests you can talk about music or something.
im not sad, but yet i dont feel like i should be living, the past few days i havent been myself and i really need help right now, maybe just words of encouragement to keep me going. please n thank you
What is it that makes you feel like you don't want to live any longer? If you are seriously considering suicide, just remember that there are many people, whether you believe it or not, that actually care about you and your death would effect them greatly.
what is Mastervating or Masterbating?
"Mastervating"? Really? Well, there's a new one.
My little brother accidentally messed up the computuer, and in the process of fixing what my brother did, my dad messed up the colors and font. My dad was able to fix my brothers mistake, but we were unable to fix his. We've been looking through the control panel trying to switch the computer colors back to default and switching the theme, and I even removed the picture backround I had to switch the colors back but none of what we did seemed to be working. We have an e-machines computer if that makes a difference, I'm sure it does. The only thing we haven't done is shut down the computer then turned it back on. I'll try that later, but I was hoping that some of you computer experts might have any other suggestions, so do you? Thanks in advance!
Hmm, did you try right clicking on your desktop and going to "active desktop", "customise my desktop" and then going to "appearance" and tweaking things a little bit?
That's just about my only guess...
i have to pick between two things i reslly love a dog or a laptop what should i choose?
I think you should pick the dog...
Dogs are loyal and will always be your friend. (haha)
You already have a computer, it seems. Why do you want a laptop, when you could have a dog and name it something corny like "sprinkles"?
well..i rele like this guy..who happens 2 b my x..nd i kno he likes me bak..alot! but i think were both still alittle shy 2 go bak out..any suggestions?
Well, if you are positive that he likes you back, you could just ask him if he would "go out" with you. If he doesn't,that's fine. There are plenty of other fish in the sea(I love saying that...) and I'm sure that there will be somebody who is 100 times better than this guy, who will love you the same.
Good luck.
Compared to everyone else, I have big legs. They aren't fat or anything, I just want to slim them down and tone the muscle. Any ideas?
Why do you compare yourself to everyone else? Everybody is different and unique.
Well, anyways, I would suggest going to the mall and walking around for a couple of hours to help tone your leg muscles. Muscle will make your legs appear bigger, though. It will also make you weigh more, since muscle weighs more than fat.
How would you describe a frigid person by what they do? (or what they don't) in a matter or manner... detailed explainations would be great :)
A frigid person is very cold, cruel, and often distant.
my firends, family, just people that i am around always ask me if i cut myself since i have cuts down my arm. i need to give them a good reason for why i have these cuts. theyre actaully old scars from a while ago but they relly refuse to believe that. can u plez give me...escuses(i dno wut else to call them) of why i might have these marks?
plez no smart ass answers,
ill rate 5s for anything that isnt
Instead of making excuses you should be trying to stop. This is my opinion.
and as a former "cutter", myself, I would say that quitting would be the best thing you could do for yourself. I know it is very difficult to stop, but it is possible and you will thank yourself for it later.
(This isn't a "Smart ass" answer, either. I'm only being honest.)
I've confided a lot in total strangers lately. On this i mean. I'm happy with that it makes me feel ssecure that it cant come back on me. Any how friends of the realm. I have found myself incredibly angry these last few years. Im 16 years old and i am probably sufering from something beyond me. I jus want to know. How can i control this anger or what ways are there too redirect it. I'm only concerned because i'm starting to hit things like punch walls and anything close to hand; alll the time!! And can anyone possibly give any clues as to what this could be. All help greatly appreciated.
Anthony
You could try turning your negative energy and thoughts into something more positive, by joining a club or a group of people that have the same interests as you that are active in your community. (volunteering and getting involved)
Another possibility is, whenever you feel like you're getting really angry just hold your breathe, count to 10, and think about what you are doing.
ii have a seriously bad habit of biting my nails ii would love 2 have some long nails by the time school starts, does ne1 know of some really good tips and/or products or something that would get me 2 stop? -[(nail polishes? medicines?)]- any good answers get 5!! thanx loads!
You could but something that tastes really repulsive on the tips of your fingernails so you wont want to bite them anymore. I know a friend who did that, and it worked well for her.