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Hey!! Im Michelle!! Im 13 years old, but I know a lot for a 13 year old. Thats probably because i have a nineteen year old sister. I love to dance. Dancing is my life if im not home, im probably at the dance studio.
Im hoping to become a professional singer or actress or ford model.
♥ Michelle

advice

Heres the story, I was dating this one guy he really cared about me more than anyone has before, but it scared me and he was pushing it on to hard. Taking everything I said the wrong way. He has liked me for over a year and a half. He was like my bestfriend before we dated. Now everything is awkward between us.

Then theres this guy that I have liked for over 3 years and I finally have my chance with him. I wanna go for it, but I am almost sure that the other guy would treat me better, but I want to try it with this guy cause I have liked him for so long.

I don't know which to go for.

Hey! Well to be quite honest with you i dont think that you should use the first guy as a benchwarmer. If you truly like the second guy and you have for 3 years, then go with him. But if you know he wont treat you well then what the point? You can try it with the second guy but try and make your friendship better with the first guy.
♥ Michelle

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ok well i went to this thing called student life tour in arlington, and i was with this guy named Morgan....well me and him were kinda flirting at the begining, but then when we went up by the stage for the music part, he was starting to put his arm around my waist, but then someone bumped into him and he moved it. Then we sat down to hear the teaching and we kept getting closer(if your wondering i like him too) and closer...then on the way back to our bus/van type thing, he was walking behind me and put his arms around my neck like he wanted me to lead him or something and i really liked it, but then someone bumped into me and he moved and i think he was too embarrased to go back and put his arms around me..but i really really kinda like him and i want some advice too show him that i care for him and that i like him alot. i rate really really high!!!!!!!!!

Heyy!! He deffinatly likes you!! When he does these actions give into it, look at him and smile or something. Talk more, call him IM him. Flirt with him more. If he puts his arms around you, put yours around him. When he comes next to you hold his hand.
♥ Michelle

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i need help, you see, i have a school dance tomorrow night and i was told that my boyfriend wants to grind with me, but i don't know how. can someone please give me some tips on how to grind with him? thanx in advance! i rate 5's!

Well grinding is the same thing as freak dancing. You basically hold on to the other person and rock kind of back and forth. You should move your hips a little to. Its easier DONE than SAID!!!
♥ Michelle

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What are some effective exersizes for your stomach/ab area? I want to loose weight in that area and make it flatter, if you know what I mean? Haha. I'll rate =] Thanks!

Hey some great excersizes are sit ups. If your mom is willing to pay for pilates or reformer classes (reformer is a difforent way of pilates that helps the abs) then you can take those classes too.
♥ Michelle

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ok. so i need to know if this is normal or not.
15/f.
so like when my boyfreind is done fingering me like after he pulls his fingers out theres gross globby white stuff. i know theres obviously suposed to be something there...but its like in globs. and kind of gross. i dont know if this is normal or if something is wrong.
oh. and another question...kind of weird. but what should he do after? like all that stuff is all over his hands...where should he put it?

xo

Heyy, the white stuff is normal its just your discharge. Im not sure about where he is supposed to put his hand after, but i kno that the white goey stuff is just discharge.
♥ Michelle

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ok so me and my boyfriend just broke up and i miss him. But I can't go back out with him. Well I havn't been feeling the best and I'v been doing stupid things how do i get my mind off him so i can stop.

Its going to be hard. But try not to talk about him a lot. Dont im him. Dont call him. Listen to music hang with your best friends. When he pops in your mind make yourself busy with something else!! Or just think of something else.
♥ Michelle

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so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?

PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e

Heyy, maybe you should tell him in a sarcastic way, like haha thanx for the invite to the party. Or maybe you should just let it go and show that you dont care and it doesnt bother you.
♥ Michelle

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okay so theres this boy and he likes me and i do like him to. but hes afraid to come talk to me in school n stuff. i mean hes a freshman n im a sophmore and he has no problem talkin to my bestfriend and i jus dont kno what to do. i really do like him a lot. but its jus bothering me that we never talk and were going no where. i truly though he didnt really like me. but since he told my bestfriend hes moved to a lunch table closer to mine and my friends say hes always sneaking looks at me. so i really jus dont kno wat to do and im SUPER confused

any advice would be great
ill ratte 5 for anythin!!

Heyy! Well if he is not able to approch you, YOU approch HIM!! start talking to him more on aim and maybe that will make you guys more comftorable around eachother. I think you guys just need to get to know eachother more.
Good luck
♥ Michelle

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ive made out before, but i never really new how to, i kidna just always went in for the kill.

but can someone teach me how to really make out? becasue i dont know if my ways really working.

There isnt really a "way" to make out. Some people say to write your name the opposite sex's mouth. And some say to lock your tongues together. Some also say to take your tongue and twirl in circles.
♥ Michelle

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me and my ex dated for about 8 months. when we broke up, it was cuz i cheated on him and i admitted to this. we didnt even talk till recently when me and his bff have been hanging out. his friend told me that he still thinks im cool so what matters what my ex thinks. well since im hanging out with andy, bryan tends to be around more. adn i still love him, he was my first love and only love. when bryan is with us he says stuff to me every once in a while but not that often. all i want to do is talk to him about everything. but my bff told me that it would be smarter not to. so idk what to do. plez help.

Honestly, it would be smarter to talk to him. This same situation happend to me and my ex. But he cheated on me. You will regret not talking to him because then everything will go unsaid. If you dont know how to approch him, just im him one day or text him and be like we really need to talk, call me.
♥ Michelle

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Ok so there's this guy who I liked and still like. IT's a complicated story so listen back. For about 3 years people thought we were cousins....we were kinda related but the person died. Anyway so then we're jus friends and he knew I liked him. Then his friend's like how y i do n't like him and i said because he's not over this girl(which he wasn't) and how he's not ready to commit to someone else. So his friend's like oh he likes u soo much blah blah. When I ask him he's like yeah he likes me and I tell him I like him. It never got any futhur and he talked to me alot but then he stops.
I duno y he jus says hey...hwo are you? and then the convo's finish. I want to move on and I liek my ex alot but partly because of him that's y we broke up. Should I move on and be more with my ex...or try to work it oout?

Hey, Well maybe you and your crush dont have much in common anymore and need to go your seperate ways. I know its going to be hard, but you can start talking to your ex more and sometimes pop in a hello to your crush.
I hope i helped
♥ Michelle

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(sorry for the wrong category)
But i've been wondering if theres like a program were you can put like pictures and make them look better. and like put differant frames around them and such. if you know any that i can download that'd be great, but i need something that wont screw up my computer.

thanks =)

Hey. Well the program is called Paint Shop Pro and they have like Paint shop Pro 1-9. You can go to google and type in Paint Shop Pro and get a free tutorial or something. The abriviation for it is PSP.
♥ Michelle

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Ok. I just broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and I really miss him! I've tried to get over him but I dont know it's just not working. and like I mean we were going out for about 2 months but I liked him for a LONG time before that! so I don't know if I should try to get him back or move on. We talk a lot and flirt sometimes. And he always seems rly interested in who I like and what I'm doing but I'm just not sure. So my question is should I even waste my time trying to get him back? or should I move... Please help me decide!oh yeah and of course I'm a girl and I'm 14.

Hi, well I think you should go for it! Give him the signs that you still like him! If he answers back to the signals, you can tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way! Good luck!
♥ michelle

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my friends suck and never invite me over. how do i make new ones?

Eek. Thats sucks. Well you can start being friendly with a new crowd, and maybe even joing a club!! You can see how that goes and start talking to them more and more and yor current friends less and less.
I hope i helped
♥ Michelle

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In a continuation of my "Shy Guy" question (a shy guy who likes me, but won't tell me, according to you all), the end of the year is coming, and I still haven't got any means of contacting him. I don't want to lose anything we may have over the summer! I know that as a person, he dislikes being rushed; I've seen many girls try and fail. Any suggestions?

Hey, well you can slowly start talking to him. Besides, thats not rushing things youre just getting to know him. Start talking to him more and more slowly and hopefully you guys will talk more and you can become closer over the summer.
♥ Michelle

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well... i have a friend who i used to love!!
and we went out for about a week, and then i broke it off cuz it was weird. but i spent all summer thinking about him. then when school started, i ddint ask him out because i had kind of lost my love for him. thenb i got caught up with anooother guy, but after a while, my feelings for him just stopped, and i found him annoying. now i found out that the first guy stilllikes me, and i dont no what o do, i dont think i like him, but i could still go ot with him cuz i want a boyfriend, so i quess i have 2 questions
#1 what is up wiht this hole dissapating love thing?
#2 should i see whats up with guy number 1?

Hey. 1: Well its normal to find guys you dont have feelings for annoying.
2: I dont think you should go out with guy number one cos you want a boyfriend. What good is it if you dont like him? You would just be making it harder for him because he actually likes you and its not fair to him, you know?
♥ Michelle

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does daily masterbate results in weakness of the body and makes the body thin

No.
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My hair is abnormally thick and is really wavy. I want to be able to wear it down instead of in a ponytail all the time. But t takes like an hour and a half to straighten and i dont have time to do that every morning before school. Are there any products i can use or any ways i can style it?
(oh, and it also gets very frizzy when i wear it down)

Hey, well the best thing to do is get conditonair that helps retain ur hair to frizz(example: Garnier Frutris). Im not the best person to ask what products will help because im not a hair person haha. But if you go to your local beauty supply store or ask your hair cutter they will give you the answer. Also, you can try leave in conditoner that will help for sure! Use The Conditonar by Paul Mitchell.
♥ Michelle

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Hey, I'm getting my haircut tomorrow and I know I want something a little different, but I have no idea what! I was thinking of maybe short layers in the front and long layers in the back, but I'm not sure. Right now, my hair is about 3 inches below my shoulder, and I want just 1 inch off. I also want it to be straight. If it helps, here's a picture of me: http://www.myspace.com/go_weasel

Thanks, I'll take any suggestions! I'm really bad with hair, so please help!

Sidebangs would look cute and if you got layers. Kind of chopy layers you know?
♥ Michelle

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ok, i have a really bad case of split ends, and in order to get rid of them all, id have to cut my hair short. http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=rlzww9 thats what i look like, i blocked out my face, and the red lines are where i would have to cut my hair to. Would that look ok? im not sure if i want to cut it or not, but i think i have to. thank you so much [&hearts]

Hey. Im sure it would look okay. And if it doesnt it will just grow out. Why dont you cut it that short and get sidebangs? Thats kinda whats "instyle". If you dont want to have to cut your hair just get it trimmed and do hair mask stuff. You take leave in conditionar and put it all over your hair and leave it in under hot air or something for like an hour or two twice a week for 1 month.
♥ Michelle

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