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Which guy should I go for?
Heres the story, I was dating this one guy he really cared about me more than anyone has before, but it scared me and he was pushing it on to hard. Taking everything I said the wrong way. He has liked me for over a year and a half. He was like my bestfriend before we dated. Now everything is awkward between us.
Then theres this guy that I have liked for over 3 years and I finally have my chance with him. I wanna go for it, but I am almost sure that the other guy would treat me better, but I want to try it with this guy cause I have liked him for so long.
I don't know which to go for.
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Hey! Well to be quite honest with you i dont think that you should use the first guy as a benchwarmer. If you truly like the second guy and you have for 3 years, then go with him. But if you know he wont treat you well then what the point? You can try it with the second guy but try and make your friendship better with the first guy.
♥ Michelle
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If you are as young as this sounds, you need to date around and just tell guy #1 you're not ready for a serious relationship yet and you all are too close not to let something between the two of you be serious. Tell him you need to date around more, see what's out there and be young. Tell him that you absolutely care about him and respect him and are so sorry if this is hurting his feelings and that you know you can't expect him to sit around and wait for you. The line I like to give to guys is "You're welcome to be a member of the Tammy fan club, but I'm not ready to designate a President yet." Also, regarding guy number 2- if you think he would treat you poorly- don't go for him, but if you're just not sure as you haven't gotten to know him yet and he hasn't gotten a chance to know your true personality and to respect and care for you, then let him take you out. (However let me add- if I was wrong and you are much older and have already seen what is out there- I would probably give different advice.)
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