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okay first of all i dont think im fat at all and i like the way my body looks. however im very health conscious and eat healthy food most of the time. i count calories too. if i didnt eat the daily number calories i think is efficient ill go eat until its exactly the number i want it to be, because i don't want to become too thin. i think about food a lot. i never thought i was fat and i know im not and i love my body. im a cheerleader (a flyer) so i try to remain small. oh yeah and i love cooking and food overall, mostly healthy food. i mean ill choose a grilled chicken sandwich over a big mac you know? could this possibly be anorexia? (link)
No way, the only way it might be annorexia is if you were throwing up after you eat, you are just being healthy. As long as you eat 3 times a day and the average amount of food.


okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!

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Omg i was in this same situation, my bf cheated on me, and i was so mad whenever i was dating him, but when you let go, you want him back! The way i got over him is by thinking about how he cheated on you, and you can't fall madly in love with some one who will cheat on you!!


Please help me i have really curly hair and i want it staright and every prodic i try it doesnt work Is there anything i can use???
HELP ME (link)
Well you could buy a straightener, but the only thing bad about straightening it is that you have to do it every day, and then your arm gets tired, there is a simpler solution, which is to get it chemically straightened, and that will stay for about 1 week - 2weeks!! **elle** hope i helped


ok i live in baton rouge louisiana...and at the mall we have rainbows by paulette (great place!) and this past year just about at every school and everywhere else all the girls all ages where bows (ive got about 12 from there) big, color ones! soo...i was just wandering if this was just a think in baton rouge...PLEASE tell me (link)
Bows are for little kids!!!


I'm not sure i got this poem sounding right; anyone please gimme a hand.

Fallen Hero

I looked up to a figure
I once deemed to be the best.
But as time slipped to the second,
My faith was put to the test.

Me hero was declined
Of his powerful throne,
Shoved to the side
And deprived of all he called his own.

I stood with the disappointed
Who late looked him on,
And surprisingly found myself
Not nearly as drawn.

As I turned my back,
Shaking my head,
He uttered his final words
And the next second he’s dead.

I found myself thinking twice
Of what I had once thought.
After hearing his words,
My attention, he begot.

“Take care of your hate,
“For soon you’ll regret
“For not helping the one
“To whom your actions were once set.

“Don’t be afraid of difference-
“That’s what makes us all unique.
“If we copied and begged sameness,
“Then all would be bleak.

“Cherish what you believe
“And this is the last I have to say:
“Don’t turn your back again
Like you’d done today.”


**!~Denice~!** (link)
That is the best poem i hav ever heard


Well my friend we can call her **Jasmine** she likes this boy named well call him **t.j.** well i kinda like t.j. but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend and so does ** Jasmine ** well he keeps wanting to talk to me on the phone not her he said i am more fun to talk to and him and his girlfriend are about to break up and i LOVE my boyfriend but he said he likes me the other day and ** Jasmine** started crying in my closet well the last time Jasmine tried to get me to talk to her friend she likes he ended up liking me and we went out for like a month (link)
Well, simply choose which one is more importent to you **Yuor friend** or **Your boyfriend**,personally i would choose the friend because, boys come all the time but friends, are for all eternity****


My toes are hairy.. what should i do about that? (im a chick) (link)
Well have you ever considered shaving them. If your mom or dad won't let you explain to them, that you are getting older and that it is pretty gross to have hairy toes. And that you are a girl and flip flops are cool to wear, and hairy toes keep you from wearing them.


itz hard 4 me 2 call my friend. i want 2 but im scared that ill call her n find out that shez ben shoppin all summa n all ive ben doin iz laying bak @ muh house watchin tv or sumthing. how do i get ova it. i really wunna call hurr. everytyme i pick ^ da phon i hang ^. (link)
You shouldn't be afraid to call your friend,i mean she is your friend, you should be able to tell her anything. But if that didnt help, than whenever you call her just laugh at the fact that you have been doin nuttin, and suggest that maybe you could come over sometimes.


i met this guy 5 months ago our parents knew eachother i got to go erywhere with them his family loved me etc we werent bf/gf we juss "talked" i guess....well we stopped talkin bc he got in trouble...and ive been thinkin bout him ALOT lately bc he was the only guy who has really treated me good...so i got up the nerve to call him...he wasnt home...hihs dad told him i called..he called me back and i wsant home...so i saw the missed call nn called him back agen!! well he kinda blew me off!! he was like well i g2g sumwhere with my mom bye n we hung up...so i was really nervous to call agen so i called that nite n left a mssg sayin hey i juss wanted to see ho w u wer doin havint talk to u in along time call me back!! but he hasnt called me back...i called at 9 last nite n its 2 00pm rite now and he still hasnt called...wats up? wat do i do? do i call him? do i wait? HELP (link)
I would wait atleast 1 to 2 days,and if he never calls, then call him and if he still doesnt answer, than leave a message saying "well we havn't talked in awhile than maybe we should just brake up, because we are not gettin anywhere in this relationship. hope it works out ByE


hey i have this problem with one of my friends because whenever i ask her to sleepover she says ya i can and then like 30 minutes later shes like i cant go anymore my dad said that we have to do family things and then the next day i find out that she is at someone elses house and she always almost always does this to me and she ditched me on my birthday and she always makes up an excuse and it always sounds so convincing so i just say ok but inside it bugs me and i dont really know what to do should i stay friends with her and see how it goes or should i not be friends with her anymore?
thanx! (link)
Well, i do just about the same thing, maybe she just doesn't want to spend the night, and that she doesn't want to tell you that she doesn't want to spend the night or come over, because you would ask why and sometimes ppl like her or me don't exactly know why. And when you tell people that they don't understand and it turns into a big fight. She does it for the best. Maybe if youinvite another person and then invite her, she may come over i usually come over when another person will come over to. but whatever you do don;t trick her into coming because theen she doesn't feel comfortable, and it is evan harder telling you that she wants to go home. PlZzZz tell me how it goes


mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
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Boys are complicated like that, i would, get him a nice watch or chain necklace. Or maybe just a really nice card, that show how much you love them, or if all else fails, just tell him that he got what he wanted,YOU!!


hi lauren its me jess !! (link)
hey jess


My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing? (link)
Maybe the next time you get in a fight you should say "stop this is so stupid, if we are goin to persue a serious relationship, we should start working on it. And on the other hand what is a perfect relationship without fighting!


ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!! (link)
I'm in competitive gymanastics also, and at first it can be intense, if you feel that it will be uncomfortable to be on a team with those people than stck to regular gymnastics.


ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP

**and i rate!** (link)
Well, maybe he thinks that you don't like him, so he doesnt seem so much "obsessed" anymore, maybe you and one of your friends should go to the pool, and your friend should ask if he likes you.


Can u help me ? .. ok i liked this kid named james and my friend said he was hot to but then there was this other kid named nick that liked me he was ok but my friend was persuading me to go out with the nick because she thought it would be good she was like " give him a chance james styll has a girlfriend u wont be able to go out with him " [ cuz he did ] but he told everyone he was gonna break up with her for me but i didn't know that so i went out with nick cuz everything my friend said i thought made sence but no it really didn't because then yesturday shes all up on him kissen and stuff when i`m ova here with my boyfriend that i`m not even sure if i like .. i know i shouldn't of went out with him so i told him in a nice way we should just be friends.. so now james tells me online he likes me and doesn't like my friend and he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and i told him i broke up with nick because i liked him to .. so now i think he is gonna ask me out because thats wat his friend said but what can i do b.c if i go out with him my friend will probably be madd but i really like him tho !! PLEASSE HELP !!! (link)
Well i know it's tough cause you dont wanna hurt her feelings, but she deserves it for goin out with James and she knew that you really like him! If she is mad explain to her that you have liked James for so long and this is your chance, he actually likes you. She should understand, but if she doesn't understand, then maybe you shouldn't be her friend. Because friends are supposed to be supporting.


okay,i wanted 2 get my haircut like ashlee simpson b/c i think its soo cute! but idk if i would look goo din that cut..my hair is really really think i meen thick!! lol ask any one..anyway i am getting it thinned out but i am still unsure about it--plz help me! :/ (link)
I have very thick hair also, and i really don't think you should get it thinned out, alot of people have thin hair, and having thick hair is what makes us unique!! Having thick hair may be tough at sometimes, but you have to admit, it is hard to take care of sometimes, but it is beautiful. So if getting hair like Ashlee Simpson, means you have to thin it, then i would forget about that hairstyle.




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