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Since Vanyn is totally illiterate, I, Chloe, am writing her about me. She's not really illiterate. She's actually very smart. She's also really competitive, so don't get her started. If you do, you're fucked. Anyway- She wanted me to write this, because she loves me and what not. I love her too. Vanyn is probably one of the most amazing and random, if not the most amazing and most random, person you'll probably ever meet. Last time I checked, she has a works at the zoo... She is one of the last people on Earth that has some common sense, and for that, I admire her. Did I forget to mention that we throw watermelons at cars? I can go to this girl with anything, without feeling like I'm about to be crucified. I tend to bring out the best of the worst in her, and that's why her mama hates me. Her mom even lectured me bout how she didn't hate me... BUT I DON'T THINK YOU MOM HATES ME ANYMORE, VANYN.. DON'T PUT ON THE PHONE WITH HER AGAIN PLEASE.. Ahem.. Vanyn's down with the wicked clown for life. lmao
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i have t-mobile and a sidekick 3. everytime you hang up a phone call or someone hangs up on you, it makes a noise when the call is ended. is there any way to silence that noise? also, when i put my phone on maximum volume, and it rings, it also vibrates. how do i make it just ring?
For turning off the Vibrate, turn it one below high.
its the same pitch just without the vibrate.
as for the noise, you can prob going into settings, sounds and find it in there.
I don't have one right now, but my friends who i hang with have one and im always messing with theirs.
Vanyn
Hello, I am a 22 year old FTM(female to male) transman seeking advice on operative status.
I am confused as to what constitutes what status I am in terms of the transexual operative system. I consider myself a man in gender identity, but I have not started medical transition, so I am still seen as a female on the outside.
I am unsure if I am even going to transition in my lifetime. I keep flip-flopping between yes and no.
So would that make me pre-op or non-op?
I haven't started transitioning in dress much seeing as clothes are expensive. I have a little socially, like my trans friends call me by my male name and refer to me as male. Unfortunately I have told many other friends but they don't refer to me as male no matter how many times I tell them.
Other then that I am still very much closeted and don't mention my identity much. I often find myself questioning if it's even worth me coming out if I planned not to transition? Could I still claim myself a man if I didn't transition? or would it be a waste?
It would be a struggle even if I did transition because it would be difficult for everyone around me including my family.
Very difficult to decide.
So do these things make me pre-op or non-op?
-Nathan
Its all a matter of opinion. You see, it doesn't matter what you are "physically".
Mental health is the most important thing in a persons life.
My friend Ariel is a FTM.
She is a lesbian, and lives as a man, dresses as a man, calls herself a man, and wants to be named kip (only god knows why she chose THAT name. lol)
But she is not having the surgery anytime soon. She is not on any testosteron pills or supplements.
She just is who she feels she is. So really it all is up to you if you are pre-op or non-op.
Good luck Nathan!
Vanyn
Ive been wondering if I should rent the movie Dirty War. If anyone has ever seen it is it good? And does it show nudity or fighting?
No.
I didn't enjoy it.
Ok everyone has them! STUPID popups!
I never had them until last week. I have limewire and it broke so i delted it then re-installed it now i get popups! I need limewrie! What can i do to get rid of these pop ups without delted limewire!!!!!
HELP!
You prob have a spyware now.
Do daily virus checks and try to have the things you download off of limewire scanned to make sure they don't have viruses.
Popups are usually a result of viruses, if you have a popup blocker and limerwire.
is there a way to find out if you are on someone's buddy list???
Hacking?
I'm not sure.
Some people have it set to where you can't see if they are online unless they have you on their buddy list.
Vanyn
I want to know if I have problems. Well I will like go a week without eating. But then on like Sunday I will sit and eat alot. I've lost like 7 pounds in like 2 weeks. Do I need to start eating reguarly? Do I need to start eating more? Everyone in my family thinks im pregnant. So should I eat alot more just incase?
You need to start eating on a regular diet.
The route you're going on it NOT healthy what so ever.
If needed you can go to a nutritionist.
Vanyn
im looking for a wesite that will tell me the possabilities of what my child would look like.
my man is black/mixed (white mom black dad) with brown eyes....
im white with blue eyes...
please help.
thankyou
You can never tell fully what your baby is gonna look like.
You could get an Alleel test and see what characteristics it has and it could help you out a bit.
But im sure your baby is going to be very pretty.
Vanyn
********GO TO YOUR REGULAR PHYSICIAN, AND ASK ABOUT AN ALLELE TEST**********
so, this is my eyeball --> http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b235/xo_kristin/eyeball.jpg
what color eyeshadow would look good on me? usually i wear purple which alot of people seem to like or really light baby pink almost white. ive heard gold looks good but i dont wear anything that would match with it. and ive done the set of 3 colors from almay to make my eyes pop but wasnt all that excited with it...
i usually try to draw the attention to my outer corners if it makes a difference, since my eyes are so funky shaped.
thanx in advance.
brown or toup eyeliner on top.
A bright color eye liner inside of the bottom lids.
I think a gold would be really sudle but would bring out your eyes really well
Vanyn
So im looking to buy a digital SLR bc im sick of buying film. What are some good models that arnt too expensive. Im looking at the Nikon D40 does anybody have it? Any other models that are good?
The Nikon d40 is amazing
i have it.
The only draw back i have is when taking a picture you can't use the LCD screen to look at your subject. you have to use the view finder. But other than that, it's an AMAZING camera
Vanyn
Somebody once told me that when you're pregnant, and if you go over due and you just want to have the baby but its just not comming, if you eat something thats sure to give you diarrhea, then it'll induce labor, but while delivering wouldnt that kinda be gross? for that matter, is it something regular for a woman to like fart or pee or something while giving birth? I know its kinda gross, im just curious.
Haha trust me love, it's nothing they havent seen before.
Spicy food helps people induce labor if they are over due. My friends mom is an OB/GYN and talks about many different patients she help deliever and what happens when they are pushing and their bowls happen to be "pushing" too.
Hahah
It is gross but its natural during birth and VERY common.
Vanyn
Lately I've been getting angry over nothing. It's getting really weird. Like tonight I said hi to someone I knew and they didn't say hi back so I kept walking and got really angry and I felt like stabbing or punching something. Even if I think abut something it will trigger anger all of a sudden and I'll feel like stabbing something.
What's going on with me?
How can I do anythiing about it?
Thanks
It could just be hormones, or it could be plenty of other things.
I'm bi polar, so i understand how those feelings feel.
If the feelings persist or they get worse, go to a local phsycatris and get tested for any type of mental illness.
If something comes up, you arent crazy, don't worry.
I was told by my dr that I have mono, he didn't run the test but he says I don't have strep. He gave me a steriod tot ake for 2 days, so is my case not servere if he only gave me that amount of medicine? And I am going to see my boyfriend in 2 weeks will I be contagious to him?
Take the dosage the doctor prescribed.
he is a doctor and knows what he is doing.
You should be fine in 2 weeks, so don't worry about it.
Vanyn
So i'm 17/f and I have a friend with benefits who's 20/m. He and I are almost like best friends, and we've had sex 3 times. He's also the one I lost my virginity to. But he's usually the one to ask for sex. The problem is, I need it SOON, and I'm not about to go sleeping around with someone else. I'm a little nervous that if I flat out tell him I want to fool around with him, that I'll creep him out or make him think i'm too clingy, which isn't the case.
So how do I tell him I want to have sex without just saying it?? Thnx!
Dont be to nervous about it. Guys don't care if the girs ask. infact, plent of guys like it when girls take control. A girl has needs and guys know that! and he is there for you just for those needs!
So, babe, jsut be up front and honest with him
Vanyn.
well last night i spent the night at my boyfriends house because his parents were out of town . we had sex like 5 times all night . but everytime he cummed , he pulled away &nd we stopped for a few minutes . one time there was a little bit of cum next to my vagina &nd i think may just A LITTLE tiny bit might of actually touched my vagina , but if any did at all , it wasnt alot . could i possibly get pregnant for just a little bit touching ? &nd i woke up this mornign &nd my stomach has been hurting ever since &nd i even felt like i was gonna throw up a couple times today . does that mean anything ? its jsut the next day , that doesnt mean anything about what happened last night right ?
It's too early to tell if you are pregnant.
it usually takes about 3 or 4 weeks to be some what sure.
I think its a coincidence or stress.
It is possible you are pregnant, because sperm can last out side of the vagina for about 18 hours i believe. maybe more. I'm not sure about how long. But in about a month go to plan parent hood and get a pregnancy test.
it's more accurate than a home pregnancy test.
Next time though, wrap that shit up and use a condom.
Vanyn
where exactly are you supposed to shave your downstairs if your a female. iknow you can shave it all of, or trim and leave a little, but where exactly is the best areas to shave off the hair.
Bikini line and depending on what you want, you can shave off all of it.
Every area betweenn your legs has pubic hair almost. So if you dont want to shave it all off, you can keep a little "landing strip" and just keep it trimmed and nice.
Another alternative is waxing but i dont recommend that. *OUCH!*
Vanyn
how can i lose my last five pounds??? any ideas??? ive already lost 10
One thing that works for a lot of people is for a month straight you drink nothing but water. No soda, no flavored water, no juice.. etc. Just regular water. Also increase your work outs. Keep pushing your self past your limit. Say you're running a mile and thats your goal, and you reach it, start running a second mile. You just need to make sure you arent pushing your self too hard, cause the body can only handle so much.
Feel free to ask if you need anything thing else love.
Vanyn