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♥ ♥ Well my name is Alexis. I'm 14 and I live in Florida. I have alot of friends and many of them ask me for advice, so i decided to become part of the advicenators community. lol.... anyways.... i love watching and playing sports.~~~GUYS, are a number one priority for me!!! truness! lol. I've come accross alot of problems and i think i have made my way through them pretty well. now im out to help others... so ask me a question! ♥ ♥

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Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?

i think that having fun is a real key to a friendship... but being truthful and serious is a key too... take a good look at the situation and decide if you need to be having fun or if you need a sincere friend... explain to them whats up... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...

i think its fine as long as you trust each other you dont have to be going out to hook-up... if you guys like each other i dont think there is a problem ♥ Lexi

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how in the world can i get rid of red marks on my face from old blemishes? i have the most sensitive skin in the world and any type of blemish leaves a red scar-how do i get rid of them???

i used to have horrible acne.. and sometimes i still do... i have some scars too... eventually they will fade. a lot of mine have. but in the mean time use a liquid foundation in the morning to cover them up.. dont put alot on because it will look obvious... use Cover Girl Clean Make-up... its helps with me... ♥ Lexi

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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13

ive been in this situation.. let the relationship that he is in take its course... drop hints that you like him... sont hide it... and if he really does like you then he will com after you ♥ Lexi

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*

well if your already not a virgin and you truely love this guy maybe you should... make sure you truely know this guy well enough and trust him though... and dont have sex when his little sister is home lol... good luck ♥ Lexi

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Ok I have been trying to convince my parents in getting me a cell phone with minutes..not a plan. but they wont let me! how do I convince them into let me get one! I have saved up 100$ to by the phone I want..Tell me if this is or isnt a fair deal w/ my parents they buy the phone which is 150$ and then I pay for all the other stuff like the 40$ minute cards? is that fair or unfair??? please help me I M 14 and I reallllly want one..and I need one too!!!
*I rate really high if you give me good advice*
♥

oh gosh i can totally relate... and i have gone through everything to convince my parents and i STILLdont have one... i think its a fair plan... and i think that in some way parents are just trying to annoy us.. lol ♥ Lexi

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I know theres Picturetrail, Fotki, and Webshots. But does anybody know any other picture sites that are free/cheaper?? Thanks..

i use www.piczo.com you can make your own website with all your pictures and its real simple to use... you dont have to know html or anything ♥ Lexi

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ok i just broke up with my ex-boyfriend..and i was going to ask him back out, but then i find out that he likes my best friend,a few days ago my best friend was like freaking out and was like what if he ask me out what if he tells me he likes me what should i say and so on. I was pretty upset bout it b/c she is my best frined and before i went out with my ex she used to liked him..so how do i know if she doesnt like him or how can i tell she is lying bout liking him..thanks and i hope this makes sence
-me

if this girl is you best friend it seems weird about the way she is acting about this.. you need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her and tell her how you feel.. let her know that you are uncomfortable... and if that doesnt work, maybe you need to question your friendship ♥ Alex

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what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them?

well if a guy is going through puberty pretty much ANYTHING can make him erect. and i think the normal ages for guys to go through puberty is 11-15... ♥ lexi

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how do i take things to the next level without making it to obvious?

make him come to you... drop little hints like sit next to him in class or at lunch... but dont make it seem like you are trying too hard to be around him... he will get the idea soon enough
♥

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chikin sounds delicious ...hell yey

i be hur. i want som avacados

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yo i heard a friend that told a friend of mine thinkin that we should do it one mo time if this aint the truth then hopefuly its not a lie cus i aint got no issues with hittin it anotha time...u aint from russia so gurl why u rushin.yey
ps. charo says we're staying overnite! coochi cooch

damn homie we are staying overnight!????
AWESOME!

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heyy baby..r u at the store??yeaaa could u pick me up some avacados..yea cus im bout to wup us up some guacamoleeee...



an apple a day..keeps the doctor away..

my mom has about 50 apples a day. best believe. i be listening to breathe stratch shake let it go like corey cuz he be a fine biznotch and i be getting a ride home tomorrow from that mo fo..... truNESS
chicken sounds delicious
ba ba ba ba ba im loving it

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hola how art thou?? tis thy good? good..so i am talkin to u and talking to u at 2 different places at the mizmoment right bak n tell me wut u be thinkin foo

dude i be sorryness that i be dising thee at the mizoment. i be lovin you like a skizinny kid hearts salad! i be goodness!

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My semi formal is the same night as my Dad's dinner for winning employee of the year. I didnt go to my semi formal last year and a boy that I really like might ask me to the semi.. What do you guys think I should do? ( They're at the same times too!!)

wait until the guy asks you to make ur decision. if he asks you talk to your dad about it. tell him its very important to you. get him a gift for winning the employee thingie. that will make him feel better
hope i helped
xoxo

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Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally

i think that you should go up to him and say hi one time in class, ask him how his day is going. dont go up with any of your friends though. if some have already ruined it and made him avoid you, i would do it by myself. there is no need to be shy. if you guys have the same style and listen to the same music then ask him what stores he likes or what new cds he has gotton lately.
hope i helped
xoxo

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Recently, i found my dad constantly going to chatrooms and talking to random ppl like he likes them better than my mom. every day he would be doing this but once my mom got home, he would close out of them. i dont know what to do. my brother knows about it too, but i dont know if i should tell my mom. please help....:(

wow this is serious. if i were you i would tell your mother that you found out. if my dad was doing it i would rather tell my mom then have my mom find out in a not so good way then get even more angry about it. talk it over with your brother and see what he says too. 2 heads are better then 1
hope i helped
xoxo

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Is it ok to not want to kiss your boyfriend? I mean, I do want to but not just yet, we've been going out for a week is that ok?

thats totally ok... you should wait until your ready. unless you really dont like him.
hope i helped
xoxo

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So i've been talkin to this guy for a month. We have pretty much talked everyday. Well we like each other but are still friends. Whenever we talk now though, it kinda seems boring. So what can i do to make our conversations more exciting?

ask him what he has been doing lately... what he is doing this weekend.. its a good way to get him to ask you to hang out!
hope i helped
-alexis-

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omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!!

wow i have ahad alot of the same issues. i always figure that its better to be bored and free then have about 1 day of fun and locked up. i wouldnt suggest doing it but if you want to live on the wild side, go ahead
hope i helped
xoxo

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